Feb. 24, 2025

Triumphant Men Featuring Mark Talley and Mike Nellis

Triumphant Men Featuring Mark Talley and Mike Nellis
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Triumphant Men Featuring Mark Talley and Mike Nellis

In this episode, Mark Talley, Executive Director of Agents for Advocacy, and Mike Nellis, CEO of AUTHENTIC, talk about their personal journeys, triumphs and their views on our current political climate.

00:06 - Welcome and Introduction

03:59 - Moment of News with Grace G

06:32 - Meeting Mark Talley

09:17 - Mark’s Journey and Challenges

19:56 - Exploring Kendrick vs. Drake

29:46 - The Non-Profit Evolution

43:50 - Promoting Agents for Advocacy

49:37 - Introduction of Mike Nellis

58:01 - Starting Out in Politics

59:23 - Digital Fundraising Journey

01:03:51 - Assessing the Last Campaign

01:06:07 - The Challenges of Joe Biden’s Reelection

01:07:45 - The Current Political Climate

01:12:15 - Reflections on Masculinity and Mental Health

01:24:57 - Parenting and Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys

01:28:17 - Closing Thoughts on Engagement and Action

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Thank you. Thank you.

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Thank you.

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Hello, and welcome to another Moment with Erik Fleming. I am your host, Erik Fleming.

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So today, I have two young men on the show, and I'm going to use the term triumphant.

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Because despite personal issues,

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And political or professional challenges, they have emerged as recognized,

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respected leaders in their communities.

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And, you know, I'm just really, really blessed how things work out that these

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two gentlemen would be on this episode at the same time.

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And so that's my inspiration in having this episode so that young men,

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regardless of who you are and where you come from.

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That there are role models out there.

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And there are people that you can look up to.

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There are people that you can be mentored by, either directly or indirectly.

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And so I'm hoping that the

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young men that listen to this podcast will get some inspiration from these gentlemen

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and look them up and get involved in what they do and just really understand

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that no matter what you're going through,

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you can push forward. Right.

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So, yeah, I'm just I'm really proud of this episode.

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And of course, we're going to talk about some politics because both of these

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young men speak from the heart.

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And so I hope you all enjoy the discussions.

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But before we get into that, as always, we kick it off with a moment of news with Grace G.

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Music.

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Thanks, Erik. Seven senior Justice Department officials, including Manhattan's

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top federal prosecutor, resigned in protest of an order to drop corruption charges

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against New York City Mayor Eric Adams.

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Kash Patel was narrowly confirmed by the U.S. Senate as the nation's ninth FBI director.

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A federal judge declined to block Elon Musk's government efficiency department

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from firing federal workers or accessing databases, but questioned Musk's unchecked authority.

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President Donald Trump and advisor Elon Musk have terminated over 9,500 federal

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employees since the purging began.

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A U.S. appeals court upheld a nationwide block on the Trump administration's

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policy aimed at restricting birthright citizenship.

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The death toll from flooding in Kentucky increased to 11 after recent storms

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dumped more than 8 inches of rain in certain parts of the state.

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A U.S. judge rejected a bid to block Elon Musk's government efficiency team

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from accessing Education Department's student aid data. A U.S.

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Appeals court ruled Biden's student debt relief plan that expanded loan forgiveness

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and reduced payments exceeded his legal authority.

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A federal judge paused the termination of 11 CIA officers tied to diversity programs for five days.

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African leaders elected Djibouti's foreign minister Mahmoud Ali Yusuf to chair

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the African Union Commission.

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Ugandan opposition leader Kiza Bessije was briefly hospitalized after a hunger

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strike prompting public outcry and calls for his release.

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UN officials appealed for $6 billion in aid for Sudan to address severe hunger

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and displacement caused by civil war.

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Andrew Lester, an 86-year-old Missouri man who pled guilty to second-degree

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assault for the 2023 shooting of black teen Ralph Yarl, died before his sentencing hearing.

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And rapper A$AP Rocky was acquitted of assault charges after a jury found insufficient

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evidence he used a real firearm.

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I am Grace G, and this has been a Moment of News.

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Music.

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All right. Thank you, Grace, for that moment of news. Now it is time for my guest, Mark Talley.

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Mark Talley is an accomplished individual who has made significant contributions to society.

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After experiencing a personal tragedy with the loss of his mother and a racist

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domestic terrorist attack, he channeled his grief into positive action.

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He founded a highly successful socioeconomic non-profit,

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Agents for Advocacy, aimed at addressing the systemic inequalities faced by

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marginalized communities, and authored the book 514, The Day the Devil Came to Buffalo.

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Through his non-profit, he has implemented various initiatives to uplift and

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empower individuals, fostering positive change on a large scale.

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In addition to their impactful work, they also authored a book that sheds light

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on their personal journey and serves as a source of inspiration to others.

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Through his resilience, determination, and commitment to social justice,

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Mark Talley continues to make a lasting impact in the fight against injustice and inequality.

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And I just want to add that, you know, Mark is really, he's really a good, good brother.

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His heart is in the right place. And anytime he wants to come on the podcast,

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I am always excited about that because I have taken a personal investment.

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In making sure that he's okay, right?

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So if you did not get that, Mark's mom, Geraldine Talley, died in the top shooting

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in Buffalo on 5-14-2022. too.

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So he reached out to me not too long after that.

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And we got him, I got him on the podcast and we've developed somewhat of a relationship.

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I mean, he's, I'm not his best friend, but I'm somebody that he can talk to

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and, and, and he's given some trust to.

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So I'm honored to that and I want to see him succeed.

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So without any further ado, ladies and gentlemen, it is my honor and privilege

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to have as a guest on this podcast, Mark.

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Music.

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All right. Mark Talley, what's going on, brother? How you doing?

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Pretty good, sir. Good to be in this cold, Buffalonian weather up here.

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Yeah, I don't envy that at all from you, brother.

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I was thinking about the other day, I said, you know, them black folks in Buffalo

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are some strong folks, man.

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Y'all dealing with that cold, man. I just, what's the temperature today?

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It says 15 degrees but it's about to go down

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to 7 by 7 p.m oh my god and

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it's like in the time i think it was like in the got to

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the upper 20s today in atlanta and folks are losing their mind they just they're

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just losing it so i just want y'all to understand them brothers and sisters

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in buffalo are some special brothers to get that hot i mean that cold oh man

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you know we had the snow and the ice and all that stuff about a couple of weeks ago,

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I was out there rescuing employees, man,

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trying to get them to work, get them home. Yeah.

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Yeah. They don't do, they don't do the cold weather here too well,

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but you know, and you know, Chicago is cold, but Buffalo y'all, y'all at another level.

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So I greatly appreciate that.

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So look, we'll kick it off the way I normally to kick it off.

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I've got a quote for you I want you to express your thoughts on.

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It says, together we can challenge hatred, eradicate bigotry,

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and build a future where every person's worth is recognized and celebrated.

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What does that quote mean to you?

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It sounds like basically a new age version of meritocracy.

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It's like we keep saying all of this, but

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we have yet to put it together whether

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as a human race or as people yeah i

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mean we can look we can look

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at the whole drake drake and kendrick

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lamar beef like you have different shades of black people fighting over no which

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one of these artists is right we have them fighting over who means more to black

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culture who is culture who's really black and it's like why are we both fighting And for this nonsense,

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what is true stuff we can be fighting for?

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And I'm a big believer. All of this was just literally for publicity.

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Like, they're both signed to UMG. They're both about to make,

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you know, tons, tons, and tons of money for it.

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I mean, obviously, with, you know, Kendrick Wilmire performing at the Super

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Bowl, obviously, he's about to get a lot of more streaming money.

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Drake having, I think, arguably his biggest tour yet over in Australia.

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And we have black folks literally discussing online, raging and screaming at

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other black people what it means to be black.

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So since you brought that up, and I'll get to my other thing in a moment.

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But since you brought that up, I don't know if you're familiar with the guy

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who ran with Jill Stein for president. He was running as their vice president. His name is Butch Ware.

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He's a professor at one of those Michigan schools.

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And he got on this show and he was basically saying that he didn't understand

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what Kendrick was trying to do or he didn't feel that he was being revolutionary

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and all that stuff but my thing was I think the symbolism was pretty clear you

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know you had black dancers,

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dressed up like the American flag to symbolize the black bodies that have been

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sacrificed and the black bodies that have worked to make this country,

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to even make that flag exist.

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But he said he didn't get that. Did you, I get your point about the capitalism

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side of it, but did you understand what Kendrick was trying to,

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the message he was trying to convey?

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And do you think he did a good job with it? I understand that.

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I mean, I'm really not going to say it's revolutionary, but you got to know

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your audience, know where you're at. the majority of people at that Super Bowl

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don't look like you and I.

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I mean, they could really care less about the message. I believe more what Colin

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Kaepernick was revolutionary.

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He risked his whole career and never recovered yet from it by kneeling down.

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Kendrick Lamar getting on there, performing, had the symbolism with the A chain,

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the lowercase a, had the black bodies.

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I mean, you know, yeah, it's nice, but it's, you know, it's the Super Bowl halftime show.

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Really, nobody's trying to see the symbolism there.

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People are probably ready on their second or third pack of Coors Light by that time.

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I mean, it's New Orleans. People wanted to see Lil Wayne. People wanted to see Juvenile.

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People wanted to see, you know, even, what's her name, Big Frida.

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You know, they had Master P come out just walking.

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You know, hey, he could have got on the stage to perform. I think Kendrick Lamar

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would have been perfect for last year, which they did have him.

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For this year with the symbolism, I mean, at the biggest event,

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you know, in the U.S., a Super Bowl halftime show on television,

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and you dissed another black person.

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I mean, I thought it definitely would have been a lot more symbolism if he would

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have called out Donald Trump there. That would have been revolutionary right there.

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Yeah, I feel you, because that was kind of the direction that Dr.

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Ware was going, what you were saying.

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I just look at it like, here's a black man who's been given this opportunity to perform.

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He's been very, I wouldn't say, he wasn't, he's not as militant as,

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you know, when I was growing up with Public Enemy and all that,

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and the X-Clan, those kind of folks.

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But for his generation, he's been that kind of a voice.

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And, you know, he was he I felt he was authentic. I don't think he watered the show down.

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I think he did what he he intended to do.

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And and Donald Trump was sitting there in the audience. Now,

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you know, the fact that Donald Trump didn't say anything about it's kind of

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interesting, but he upset the right wing media enough.

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And that's always a good thing for me. you know, cause they,

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they put them out there like that, you know, but yeah, I thought that that's interesting.

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I'm glad, I'm glad you brought that up. Cause it was kind of bothering me the way that Dr.

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Ware put it, but you kind of almost, you almost said the same exact thing.

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He said that the issue was, it wasn't revolutionary.

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And, you know, I'm thinking,

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yeah, you probably not gonna cause a revolution

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if you're getting paid what so many million dollars

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well no i don't even think they get paid to do the

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super bowl thing i think that's the nuance they gotta pay to

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do the super bowl but they definitely get a they re-up

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after with all the streaming sales of current and past albums yeah yeah so i

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mean it's it's a i mean you got the law i mean he had 133 million people see

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him so if you're an artist you really can't pass that up you know despite whatever

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awards and accolades you've gotten.

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You've got a captive audience of 133 million people. And he conveyed the message

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the best way he could. I'm not mad at him.

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You know, the whole thing with Drake, I mean, that's the hit song.

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I'm sorry that it trashes Drake.

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But then Drake ain't necessarily, I'm not going to lay down my sword for that

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black man because he ain't to lay down the sword for us. You know what I'm saying?

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Drake will not be in that picture that you got in the background.

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By the way, he's got the classic picture of Malcolm X looking out the window.

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Yeah, Drake ain't going to be in that picture. So I'm just saying,

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you know, unless he's trying to sell an album cover, right?

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So I, he, you know, I don't have anything personal against him,

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but you know, I don't know, since you in Buffalo, you know, Drake's from Canada,

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maybe I'll kind of like him a little bit. I don't know.

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I've always, I just like playing as devil advocate. I really,

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I like both, but then you got to get people saying, oh yeah, Drake, he's loss.

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He lost on wax. He ain't got it. It's like, he's still the number one most streaming artist in 2024.

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And I forgot who said this. I think I saw it online or some other rapper said it.

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It's like LeBron can go to five straight more finals and lose and still be LeBron James.

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He'll still be number one face of the league.

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Jay-Z lost to Nas. He still came back stronger, better than ever.

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You get at a certain I mean, Michael Jordan's son just got done sniffing cocaine.

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People still, Michael Jordan is still on top.

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That's true. Once you get a certain, I mean, you know, even looking at Donald

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Trump, I mean, grabbing the women by, you know what, all the stuff he's done

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and said that we can literally verify that.

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I mean, people don't care once you get past a certain level, and that's Drake.

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And plus, you know, both Kendrick Moore openly has done stuff for Black culture, Black community.

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Drake Moore behind the scenes has given money to Black Lives Matters,

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to other organizations.

00:19:11.353 --> 00:19:15.173
But I just think, why are we as a people?

00:19:15.173 --> 00:19:18.013
Why are we as a culture? who cares about

00:19:18.013 --> 00:19:21.073
Drake and Kendrick like they this whole

00:19:21.073 --> 00:19:24.233
this whole thing has made them tons

00:19:24.233 --> 00:19:26.853
tons of money I think it would have

00:19:26.853 --> 00:19:31.533
been revolutionary if he right there would have called out Donald Trump that

00:19:31.533 --> 00:19:36.133
would have been that would have been our version of you know how Kanye was before

00:19:36.133 --> 00:19:41.673
he lost his mind national TV just literally called out George Bush right there

00:19:41.673 --> 00:19:46.653
yeah that would have been a moment that That definitely would have been a moment.

00:19:46.973 --> 00:19:54.633
All right. So let's get back on somewhat of a track. I want you to give me a number between 1 and 20.

00:19:56.053 --> 00:19:59.393
Let's go with 11. All right. Number 11.

00:19:59.953 --> 00:20:01.573
All right. So this is your next

00:20:01.573 --> 00:20:07.933
question. Where do you go to check a fact that you see, hear, or read?

00:20:08.873 --> 00:20:11.873
All right. First place I go is Wikipedia.

00:20:12.473 --> 00:20:17.293
Because people say don't use Wikipedia. It's not. It is cited. People just lazy.

00:20:17.473 --> 00:20:20.513
You scroll all the way down at the end. You see the citations.

00:20:20.793 --> 00:20:24.653
So see if what you're looking at Wikipedia, if you see that it's cited,

00:20:24.833 --> 00:20:26.213
you can go to that article.

00:20:26.413 --> 00:20:31.553
Hopefully it's a .edu, a .org, at worse, a .com.

00:20:31.693 --> 00:20:35.493
If I see it's going to a blog or a magazine article, that's when I kind of forget

00:20:35.493 --> 00:20:37.853
it. Then I'll try to double check that.

00:20:38.393 --> 00:20:41.213
No, I'll put in what I looked up or what

00:20:41.213 --> 00:20:45.193
i heard see if it's true see where it leads me and now

00:20:45.193 --> 00:20:47.993
my third the third thing i'm doing which is

00:20:47.993 --> 00:20:50.833
quickly becoming number one with how fast it's growing is

00:20:50.833 --> 00:20:54.973
you know searching some of these ai engines yeah yeah

00:20:54.973 --> 00:20:57.973
especially this new thing this deep seek that everybody keeps

00:20:57.973 --> 00:21:00.773
talking about the only thing kind

00:21:00.773 --> 00:21:04.573
of unique about deep seek is that excuse

00:21:04.573 --> 00:21:07.233
me is that it it acts like it's trying to

00:21:07.233 --> 00:21:10.113
have a conversation with you it's like you tell to

00:21:10.113 --> 00:21:13.073
do something and then it it's like it's thinking out loud

00:21:13.073 --> 00:21:20.533
as opposed to the other ones that just process but yeah and then that the ai

00:21:20.533 --> 00:21:26.973
is only as intelligent as the information has been given excuse me so yeah but

00:21:26.973 --> 00:21:32.233
i agree with you yeah but i agree with you on the wikipedia because they'll tell you,

00:21:32.773 --> 00:21:36.233
You know, they'll put a disclaimer in there It's like we might need some more

00:21:36.233 --> 00:21:39.293
citations on this But this is the information we have.

00:21:40.913 --> 00:21:42.593
And it's a non-profit,

00:21:43.414 --> 00:21:46.994
A lot of people don't understand that a Wikipedia is not connected to Google

00:21:46.994 --> 00:21:51.274
or any of these other big tech companies. It's it's a nonprofit.

00:21:51.694 --> 00:21:56.554
And, you know, they're doing the research, excuse me, and they're relying on

00:21:56.554 --> 00:22:00.954
they're relying on people like you and me, you know, that read it.

00:22:01.214 --> 00:22:05.554
If if not only to donate, but if you have some information to add to the article,

00:22:05.714 --> 00:22:06.994
they'd greatly appreciate it.

00:22:07.534 --> 00:22:10.754
So yeah i i'm with you i like wikipedia

00:22:10.754 --> 00:22:13.694
i like you know i use i try

00:22:13.694 --> 00:22:17.234
to find news services like reuters or the

00:22:17.234 --> 00:22:22.394
bbc because they actually will do stories about places we're not going to see

00:22:22.394 --> 00:22:26.374
on the news every day like like what's going on in africa because that was the

00:22:26.374 --> 00:22:31.194
other thing you know that's not getting a lot of attention about the halftime

00:22:31.194 --> 00:22:34.874
show that you had a brother out there i think he I know he had a Sudanese flag.

00:22:35.034 --> 00:22:39.814
I couldn't remember if he had a. Oh, yeah. He ran out protesting for the like

00:22:39.814 --> 00:22:42.334
in support of Israel, I think, or against.

00:22:42.654 --> 00:22:46.914
Well, I'm trying to remember. I know he had a Sudanese flag because he wanted

00:22:46.914 --> 00:22:50.214
to highlight the fact that they about the Civil War over there.

00:22:50.774 --> 00:22:55.014
But I couldn't remember if he had a Palestinian flag or the Israeli.

00:22:55.234 --> 00:22:59.054
I think he had a Palestinian flag because it seemed like the only images I saw

00:22:59.054 --> 00:23:00.214
was red, black and green.

00:23:00.214 --> 00:23:05.994
So I think he he had a Palestinian flag and, you know, but that's why I say

00:23:05.994 --> 00:23:09.814
I like those kind of news sources, because,

00:23:10.294 --> 00:23:14.414
you know, not unless the United States has a direct involvement in it,

00:23:14.514 --> 00:23:18.814
you're not going to see it on CNN or MSNBC or Fox or anywhere like that.

00:23:19.354 --> 00:23:23.434
It's like, well, if you see it on CNN, you've got to stay up like till two,

00:23:23.574 --> 00:23:25.954
three o'clock in the morning against the international show. Right.

00:23:27.294 --> 00:23:31.814
Outside of that, it's like, you know, it's you're not going to get it and especially

00:23:31.814 --> 00:23:33.034
black folks not going to get it.

00:23:33.174 --> 00:23:38.694
So those are the kind of news sources that I try to find something that's going

00:23:38.694 --> 00:23:45.974
to cover the whole globe instead of just, you know, what what we see here in the United States. So.

00:23:47.015 --> 00:23:52.395
It sounds like you're doing good. How have you, you know, and we'll get into

00:23:52.395 --> 00:23:55.255
details about the nonprofit, all that, but, but,

00:23:55.615 --> 00:24:00.815
you know, I haven't seen you since, since you came to Atlanta that time and

00:24:00.815 --> 00:24:03.435
you were, and you were doing some good things at that point,

00:24:03.435 --> 00:24:09.315
but how have you been adjusting personally and emotionally, you know,

00:24:09.735 --> 00:24:11.695
you know, through this whole thing?

00:24:11.795 --> 00:24:14.535
Cause I know my mom passed away in

00:24:14.535 --> 00:24:17.375
2013 and ironically you mentioned

00:24:17.375 --> 00:24:22.855
Colin Kaepernick it was right around that that Super Bowl when him and and we

00:24:22.855 --> 00:24:29.595
went to 49ers they lost to Baltimore I just you know and even though it's been

00:24:29.595 --> 00:24:35.875
that long I still miss her you know I'm saying I still deal with that so So you're,

00:24:35.935 --> 00:24:42.115
you're unfortunately relatively new to this process. So how you been doing?

00:24:42.455 --> 00:24:45.675
How, how have you been processing and all that?

00:24:46.435 --> 00:24:50.815
You know, as you said, you know, I still know, that's every day,

00:24:50.835 --> 00:24:55.075
you know, you know, I had some of her clothes that, you know,

00:24:55.655 --> 00:24:59.775
that was the first stop I went a couple of days later to her house,

00:25:00.055 --> 00:25:01.035
you know, for the first time.

00:25:01.035 --> 00:25:08.395
And it was just, you know, a very emotional, you know, over overcoming of my body.

00:25:08.875 --> 00:25:14.115
And, you know, I just took a few clothes out of room just to just to have her

00:25:14.115 --> 00:25:16.795
scent on it. Just something something to smell.

00:25:16.975 --> 00:25:21.475
And, you know, going on close to three years, you know, that scent is starting

00:25:21.475 --> 00:25:24.295
to fade away. It's not it's not smelling like her no more.

00:25:24.815 --> 00:25:29.895
I really didn't have any any videos, you know, of her voice.

00:25:29.895 --> 00:25:31.815
So it's the little things you start noticing.

00:25:31.855 --> 00:25:36.275
I'm forgetting what she's sounding like, forgetting what she smelled like.

00:25:37.015 --> 00:25:40.555
Tons of pictures. So I'm definitely grateful for that.

00:25:40.695 --> 00:25:43.835
But it's the, you know, just the little things, things that you,

00:25:43.835 --> 00:25:49.975
you hated, you know, her constantly just calling me just to say, hi, what am I doing?

00:25:50.435 --> 00:25:55.595
Okay. And hanging up. And, you know, I wish, no, I would, I would just do anything

00:25:55.595 --> 00:25:59.875
right now to just have her call, scream at me and just, just to be reminded of her.

00:25:59.895 --> 00:26:02.775
Again so it's mainly the little

00:26:02.775 --> 00:26:05.855
things you start missing the most instead of the big things my

00:26:05.855 --> 00:26:08.955
mother she knew i was a very

00:26:08.955 --> 00:26:16.035
low emotional person really wasn't a big family person family reunions none

00:26:16.035 --> 00:26:21.455
of that you know i constantly told my mother you know once your funeral happens

00:26:21.455 --> 00:26:25.595
that's pretty much probably the only funeral i'll be going to and last time

00:26:25.595 --> 00:26:27.295
i'll talk to anybody in this family.

00:26:29.128 --> 00:26:34.368
And, you know, unfortunately, that prediction has come true.

00:26:34.928 --> 00:26:38.408
And that's costing a lot of, you know, her side of the family,

00:26:38.408 --> 00:26:42.548
you know, to kind of be angry at me.

00:26:42.748 --> 00:26:44.248
But that's another thing. I

00:26:44.248 --> 00:26:48.808
don't see how people are angry at you that you don't want to talk to them.

00:26:49.468 --> 00:26:54.808
Yeah. But I wish I could do anything just to bring her back.

00:26:54.808 --> 00:27:00.308
But, you know, I would say the faster you accept something that you can't control,

00:27:00.608 --> 00:27:02.368
the easier it'll be for yourself.

00:27:02.748 --> 00:27:08.028
Amen to that, brother. I understand. Like I said, it's just,

00:27:08.308 --> 00:27:14.128
you know, it's a tough thing. So I commend you.

00:27:14.308 --> 00:27:19.308
And one of the things that you have been doing is that, you know,

00:27:19.628 --> 00:27:24.888
when we had talked the last time the nonprofit was getting off the ground,

00:27:25.068 --> 00:27:26.448
you had done a few events.

00:27:26.988 --> 00:27:31.028
I'm trying to think, had you written a book by the time we had seen each other?

00:27:31.088 --> 00:27:34.508
You were still working on the book. I think I'm trying to think when.

00:27:35.248 --> 00:27:38.708
It was i want to say it was like in 23 so

00:27:38.708 --> 00:27:41.548
it might have been right around when the book was coming out or

00:27:41.548 --> 00:27:48.668
something but yeah it was in 23 when you came 23 yeah yeah because i released

00:27:48.668 --> 00:27:52.928
so that was probably before i released the book on the one year anniversary

00:27:52.928 --> 00:27:59.168
yeah yeah okay yeah so i just so but you've been working on a non-profit talk

00:27:59.168 --> 00:28:01.288
talk to the audience about the non-profit.

00:28:02.328 --> 00:28:05.688
You know, what you've been doing, because you started off, you know,

00:28:05.868 --> 00:28:11.328
you had like a food drive, I think was the first thing that you did before you

00:28:11.328 --> 00:28:12.528
even started a non-profit.

00:28:12.688 --> 00:28:17.008
You just felt you had to do something, and you had like a cookout and a food

00:28:17.008 --> 00:28:20.628
drive and all that, and then I think once you started a non-profit,

00:28:20.808 --> 00:28:23.708
the first thing you did was like a back-to-school day thing.

00:28:23.868 --> 00:28:27.688
So talk about how the non-profit has evolved and.

00:28:28.750 --> 00:28:35.950
You know, what kind of impact do you see the nonprofit doing in the area you're working in?

00:28:36.350 --> 00:28:39.630
It's definitely got bigger and bigger, larger and better.

00:28:39.810 --> 00:28:43.230
I remember that first event, you know, I had nobody who I could call,

00:28:43.450 --> 00:28:46.590
nobody to assist me, nobody to help me.

00:28:46.870 --> 00:28:53.270
Now, I'm fortunate enough, you know, I could call anybody right now and I can

00:28:53.270 --> 00:28:57.770
call our current new senator here in April, April Baskin.

00:28:58.430 --> 00:29:02.970
And it's a lot of a lot of political connections have been made a lot of,

00:29:03.110 --> 00:29:06.350
you know, some of the heads of the biggest, biggest, you know,

00:29:06.530 --> 00:29:10.610
companies and organizations was a for profit or nonprofit has been made.

00:29:10.770 --> 00:29:15.490
And I'm definitely thankful, thankful for this, even though it came from an

00:29:15.490 --> 00:29:16.550
unfortunate situation.

00:29:16.910 --> 00:29:20.950
But, you know, this has caused me to do a lot of a lot of good here in the city,

00:29:21.430 --> 00:29:27.270
predominantly on the east side of Buffalo was a relating to our food drives, posing drives.

00:29:28.170 --> 00:29:32.430
We're partnering with another organization in which we're kind of going to take

00:29:32.430 --> 00:29:38.150
them under our umbrella in our mommy village, in which this is a maternal health

00:29:38.150 --> 00:29:41.030
organization headed by a doula,

00:29:41.710 --> 00:29:45.690
Shana Broughton, in which we assist mothers on their maternal health journey.

00:29:46.470 --> 00:29:49.070
And you know being around you know

00:29:49.070 --> 00:29:51.770
all those women are the doulas you know you

00:29:51.770 --> 00:29:55.650
hear you hear the constant discrimination and

00:29:55.650 --> 00:30:00.810
systemic racist practices that's you know causing deaths in a lot of black women

00:30:00.810 --> 00:30:05.470
one of the major you know statistics commonly told is you know a black mother

00:30:05.470 --> 00:30:10.930
going into a hospital pregnant is close to it's an 80 percent more chance she's

00:30:10.930 --> 00:30:14.110
more likely to die compared to her white counterparts.

00:30:14.610 --> 00:30:23.750
So I'm trying to have my hand in every aspect of the socioeconomic pie chart, as you can say,

00:30:23.910 --> 00:30:31.130
to assist those who unfortunately fail through the social safety net or those that nobody care about.

00:30:31.950 --> 00:30:35.710
Yeah. And you mentioned Senator Baskin.

00:30:36.210 --> 00:30:41.410
I've talked with her office. I think she's going to come on at some time, probably –.

00:30:43.244 --> 00:30:48.324
I know it's going to be after the session, and I got to get with her folks to

00:30:48.324 --> 00:30:53.924
make sure that they get a date because my dates are filling up as far as getting booked.

00:30:54.644 --> 00:30:59.124
And there's a sister here in Atlanta that's a doula that's agreed to come on the show.

00:30:59.604 --> 00:31:06.304
So I'm glad that you are taking an interest, and I keep up with Jillian.

00:31:06.504 --> 00:31:09.624
Do you and Jillian work together on anything?

00:31:10.424 --> 00:31:14.644
Oh, we work together here and there. we kind of run into two different,

00:31:14.664 --> 00:31:17.884
you know, things. She's more into the arts and media.

00:31:18.244 --> 00:31:21.964
I'm more into the behind the scenes stuff. But yeah, we're definitely close.

00:31:22.244 --> 00:31:26.244
You know, we, we message play each other, you know, with each other all the

00:31:26.244 --> 00:31:31.684
time to, you know, we constantly let, let each other know how proud we are of them.

00:31:31.984 --> 00:31:35.444
We did have an event together highlighting local black authors.

00:31:36.324 --> 00:31:40.924
Basically promoting our books and other friends of ours books as well.

00:31:41.044 --> 00:31:43.744
But we're definitely close now what was the

00:31:43.744 --> 00:31:46.504
lady's name was her name it starts with

00:31:46.504 --> 00:31:49.384
a z is it maxwell her last

00:31:49.384 --> 00:31:52.204
name they got uh she got elected to

00:31:52.204 --> 00:31:57.364
something oh zanetta everhart everhart i don't know where i got maxwell from

00:31:57.364 --> 00:32:03.724
yeah because her son was wounded tops so and she how she's doing good and and

00:32:03.724 --> 00:32:09.804
the son's doing good oh yeah both both are doing tremendously well obviously you You know,

00:32:09.904 --> 00:32:13.224
I really can't speak that much for a son, but, you know, if you're.

00:32:14.185 --> 00:32:18.145
No, if you got bullet fragments in you, you know, in shrap metal for the rest

00:32:18.145 --> 00:32:19.465
of your life after running,

00:32:19.685 --> 00:32:24.245
running from almost, you know, being assassinated by, you know,

00:32:24.325 --> 00:32:29.065
a racist, I'm pretty sure you're going to have some, some type of psychological

00:32:29.065 --> 00:32:32.145
trauma or issues, which, you know,

00:32:32.425 --> 00:32:35.565
I can never understand what that'll be like.

00:32:35.565 --> 00:32:38.405
So to my best to the

00:32:38.405 --> 00:32:41.165
best of my ability in which times i've hung out with

00:32:41.165 --> 00:32:44.405
him he you know he's definitely seen upbeat

00:32:44.405 --> 00:32:50.325
seen seen engaging but like you know all of us when he goes to his dark places

00:32:50.325 --> 00:32:54.585
when he's by himself you know i really can't can speak on what's in his mind

00:32:54.585 --> 00:33:01.385
with zanetta i definitely consider you know no me zanetta as zanetta told me

00:33:01.385 --> 00:33:03.905
i am one of one of her inner circle people,

00:33:04.265 --> 00:33:06.225
me and her, we have a great relationship.

00:33:06.225 --> 00:33:11.265
I consider her like a big sister, you know, slash mentor, you know,

00:33:11.545 --> 00:33:14.665
no, she has tried, you know, as well as the other victim,

00:33:15.305 --> 00:33:21.465
one of the victim's sons in there, Ruth Whitfield, which is the mother of Garnell Whitfield.

00:33:22.165 --> 00:33:26.025
Who's the former Buffalo police fire commissioner currently running for mayor

00:33:26.025 --> 00:33:27.285
here in the city of Buffalo,

00:33:27.645 --> 00:33:31.005
and I definitely consider them both mentors that I'm looking to,

00:33:31.085 --> 00:33:37.165
you know, try to tip, you know, tip my foot into the political atmosphere, see what I can do.

00:33:37.725 --> 00:33:44.005
Yeah, yeah, and I feel you about Zanetta's son, because,

00:33:44.245 --> 00:33:48.725
you know, like you said, you can't really know what's going on with anybody

00:33:48.725 --> 00:33:54.825
internally, but I'm glad to know that when you've seen him, he's been in a good way.

00:33:55.982 --> 00:34:01.222
So talk to me about, you know, we just rattling off individuals and stuff and

00:34:01.222 --> 00:34:02.742
you know them a lot more than I do.

00:34:03.182 --> 00:34:09.242
But how about the whole East Side? Because one of the issues that that you and

00:34:09.242 --> 00:34:15.342
Jillian had brought up about, you know, the struggles that were going on prior to the shooting.

00:34:17.202 --> 00:34:24.862
So what what impact what kind of progress has been made?

00:34:24.862 --> 00:34:30.282
Has there really been anything significant outside of what you're trying to

00:34:30.282 --> 00:34:34.142
do with your organization and, you know, the individuals we just mentioned,

00:34:34.342 --> 00:34:35.982
they're doing their part.

00:34:37.762 --> 00:34:42.742
But what's still going on? What's the challenges? Just kind of give me an update

00:34:42.742 --> 00:34:44.322
about what's going on in the Eastside.

00:34:45.042 --> 00:34:49.162
Same thing. To me, nothing has changed. We still, once again,

00:34:49.262 --> 00:34:50.822
have the highest cancer rates.

00:34:50.822 --> 00:34:56.722
We have the highest rates of preventable and critical diseases or illness,

00:34:56.922 --> 00:34:58.722
the highest rates of STDs,

00:34:59.462 --> 00:35:04.442
highest rates of black men with no type of high school diploma,

00:35:04.582 --> 00:35:07.402
no GED, worse educational rates.

00:35:08.022 --> 00:35:09.842
No, it's still the same.

00:35:10.962 --> 00:35:16.262
You know, I'm currently in the process of writing my new book titled,

00:35:16.382 --> 00:35:18.322
you know, Dreams from a Son.

00:35:18.922 --> 00:35:26.802
And I plan on the very first page I'm putting in how 514 arguably was the greatest

00:35:26.802 --> 00:35:32.142
thing to happen to the city of Buffalo because that is making a lot of people

00:35:32.142 --> 00:35:34.962
are eating and feeding their families from it.

00:35:35.362 --> 00:35:41.682
You know, every every gala you go to, every company organization, you go on their website.

00:35:42.042 --> 00:35:46.242
You know, this is what we've done, what we're doing because of 514.

00:35:46.242 --> 00:35:49.782
This is how we're helping the community because of 514.

00:35:50.422 --> 00:35:54.582
You have, you know, the Buffalo Bills here.

00:35:55.622 --> 00:35:58.842
I believe they're one of the biggest frauds and perpetrators here in the city.

00:35:59.342 --> 00:36:03.562
You know, they're selling these Stop Hate and Racism Choose Love shirts.

00:36:03.822 --> 00:36:08.482
They're selling these shirts to the community that was affected by somebody

00:36:08.482 --> 00:36:11.022
not in the community choosing Kate.

00:36:11.822 --> 00:36:20.102
Those shirts probably have generated, I'll say probably upwards to at least the six, seven figures.

00:36:20.402 --> 00:36:25.282
None of that money has really been reinvested onto the east side of Buffalo.

00:36:25.282 --> 00:36:30.002
You have a lot of, just a lot of companies getting grant money,

00:36:30.142 --> 00:36:35.662
you know, from Governor Kathy Hochul to invest on the east side of the Buffalo.

00:36:36.382 --> 00:36:41.882
But, you know, they're holding this money and they're giving out very, very sporadically.

00:36:41.882 --> 00:36:46.942
And I just find it ironic how you have, you know, some of these nonprofits here

00:36:46.942 --> 00:36:51.322
getting money, you know, from the state, from the county,

00:36:51.882 --> 00:36:57.082
money based off of the tragedy of 514 to help in the east side of Buffalo.

00:36:57.522 --> 00:37:02.202
Meanwhile, you have somebody directly affected from that event, from that tragedy.

00:37:03.310 --> 00:37:07.510
Who can't get any of this to help in a community he was born and raised.

00:37:07.890 --> 00:37:10.790
You have a lot of these at risk, you know,

00:37:11.150 --> 00:37:15.370
youth nonprofits to help people in these community that once again,

00:37:15.370 --> 00:37:16.770
don't look like you and I,

00:37:16.970 --> 00:37:21.570
the majority of these organizations are either spearheaded by,

00:37:21.570 --> 00:37:27.390
by white people or spearheaded by African Americans who aren't even from here.

00:37:27.970 --> 00:37:32.350
So what I was going to say was, I didn't mean to cut you off,

00:37:32.350 --> 00:37:36.010
but, But why do you why do you think that is?

00:37:36.170 --> 00:37:43.450
Because I know the people that we were talking about individually have said the same thing.

00:37:43.710 --> 00:37:47.270
And a couple of them are in positions where they they they are.

00:37:47.510 --> 00:37:53.770
They're in the institutions to try to shake some things up and guide some resources.

00:37:53.770 --> 00:37:58.170
But why do you think that these companies,

00:37:58.790 --> 00:38:05.090
you know, because like you mentioned, the bills, they make that a big deal anytime, you know,

00:38:05.490 --> 00:38:10.570
the team is mentioned, even if you follow hockey, even with the Sabres,

00:38:10.710 --> 00:38:16.750
they mentioned how they've invested in the community and even more so after 514.

00:38:18.030 --> 00:38:25.410
But, you know, you're on the ground working and you're not getting any of that benefit.

00:38:25.550 --> 00:38:29.390
Why do you think that is? Where do you think, who do you think the gatekeeper

00:38:29.390 --> 00:38:30.890
is, is basically what I'm asking.

00:38:31.250 --> 00:38:34.970
All right, quick story about the Sabres. The Sabres definitely have been keeping

00:38:34.970 --> 00:38:36.470
their word with everything.

00:38:36.730 --> 00:38:40.270
They've kept me in the loop regarding everything they do. They even asked for

00:38:40.270 --> 00:38:44.950
my assistance on the east side of Buffalo, and they've definitely sponsored

00:38:44.950 --> 00:38:47.390
and donated to me with stuff I've had.

00:38:47.610 --> 00:38:51.950
With the Buffalo Bills, they kicked me off the field at the home opener after

00:38:51.950 --> 00:38:57.550
5-14 because I wouldn't wear the shirts in which they was having a tribute to

00:38:57.550 --> 00:39:00.870
honor those lost during 5-14. Yeah, I remember that.

00:39:01.230 --> 00:39:04.050
But regarding the gatekeepers in the city, it's...

00:39:05.111 --> 00:39:10.751
I just say it's either the older people that don't want to, you know,

00:39:10.871 --> 00:39:15.871
pass the baton back or it's people that, you know, they have the money.

00:39:16.691 --> 00:39:20.231
You know, if I'm worth, if my organization is worth, you know,

00:39:20.391 --> 00:39:24.571
$10 million, $15 million, $20 million, you know, why should I give you any?

00:39:24.951 --> 00:39:29.891
They want to keep, you know, helping out their shareholders,

00:39:30.171 --> 00:39:31.611
keep helping out their board members.

00:39:31.611 --> 00:39:35.511
That's why people really didn't feel feel

00:39:35.511 --> 00:39:38.391
that sorry for the you know the gentleman who was

00:39:38.391 --> 00:39:42.871
assassinated the united united health care worker who was assassinated is definitely

00:39:42.871 --> 00:39:48.811
an unfortunate situation that his family has to go through with this but people

00:39:48.811 --> 00:39:53.011
are just getting tired you start finding out the things you know that came to

00:39:53.011 --> 00:39:57.211
light and on record from what they did and what our other insurance companies are doing.

00:39:57.971 --> 00:40:03.411
People are just getting tired of being tired and feeling tired when you have,

00:40:04.211 --> 00:40:07.671
you know, just look how Donald Trump became the pregnant, became president.

00:40:08.211 --> 00:40:13.131
He was just a rich white man who woke up one day, said, I feel like running for president.

00:40:13.331 --> 00:40:18.651
You have Elon Musk, no, no political career whatsoever.

00:40:19.611 --> 00:40:22.691
Now he's the de facto head person of

00:40:22.691 --> 00:40:27.231
a department that he created yeah so

00:40:27.231 --> 00:40:30.171
do you think do you think the a lot

00:40:30.171 --> 00:40:33.411
of this stuff because some of the a lot of this stuff was happening before

00:40:33.411 --> 00:40:38.951
514 you and others have mentioned that but do you think the current state of

00:40:38.951 --> 00:40:44.271
politics has made it worse is it going to be harder for you to get the money

00:40:44.271 --> 00:40:52.891
is it going to be harder for you to to to utilize people like senator Baskin and, and others to, to,

00:40:53.071 --> 00:40:57.131
to get the help that the East side needs.

00:40:57.331 --> 00:41:01.671
I mean, it's kind of, you know, you, you're, you're a very straightforward brother.

00:41:02.111 --> 00:41:07.211
So you don't, you know, you know when to turn on the charm when you got to do it.

00:41:07.431 --> 00:41:11.931
But when it comes to telling how you really feel, you, you, you lay it out there.

00:41:12.051 --> 00:41:17.051
So just kind of tell me what, what do you think is happening now in the current

00:41:17.051 --> 00:41:21.971
state of politics that is going to be a problem for you to do what you need

00:41:21.971 --> 00:41:23.291
to do to help your people.

00:41:24.211 --> 00:41:25.831
I mean, I don't like.

00:41:27.428 --> 00:41:30.588
I don't want to say chucking and jiving because it's not that,

00:41:30.848 --> 00:41:36.348
but I don't want to be caught in this political, you know, facade,

00:41:36.848 --> 00:41:41.168
you know, having to be around people who I know they're not going to do nothing.

00:41:41.908 --> 00:41:45.808
They're not going to be able to assist me. Fortunately, I know personally,

00:41:46.348 --> 00:41:48.408
April Baskin isn't one of those people.

00:41:48.408 --> 00:41:53.388
But at the end of the day, you know, the city of Buffalo, I believe,

00:41:53.628 --> 00:41:59.068
you know, we're negative 50 or 60 million dollars in debt for this for this

00:41:59.068 --> 00:42:02.428
fiscal year based off reports for last fiscal year.

00:42:03.228 --> 00:42:07.548
And you obviously got, you know, the current administration and presidency trying

00:42:07.548 --> 00:42:11.548
to even slash, you know, the federal budget even more.

00:42:12.328 --> 00:42:15.228
So it's how. You know, there.

00:42:15.428 --> 00:42:20.308
Oh, it's hard to sell me. I can make lemon juice when you give me some,

00:42:20.308 --> 00:42:22.348
you know, some dried out lemons.

00:42:23.088 --> 00:42:29.068
If they give you any lemons at all. Exactly. Even if I get them. Yeah, I feel.

00:42:29.588 --> 00:42:39.728
Well, I know you enough where I know you're going to make the best out of that situation.

00:42:40.448 --> 00:42:44.228
I know because it's not going to be easy anywhere.

00:42:45.328 --> 00:42:52.008
You know, but I just, you know, it's like there are people that you root for. Right.

00:42:52.668 --> 00:42:59.208
And in my life, you're one of those folks because I was rooting from you afar

00:42:59.208 --> 00:43:02.268
when you reached out to me and said, hey, brother, I want to come on your show.

00:43:04.408 --> 00:43:07.908
And, you know, I was really humbled by that,

00:43:08.228 --> 00:43:16.968
you know, and then to get to talk to you and meet you in person and understand

00:43:16.968 --> 00:43:21.928
what, you know, some of the things that drive you, it's hard not to root for you.

00:43:22.448 --> 00:43:26.928
So I want people to feel the same way I do about you.

00:43:27.048 --> 00:43:32.208
I want them to get behind you and the work that you're doing and to not forget.

00:43:32.208 --> 00:43:38.648
It's one thing to always, because we live in a society where we always are attracted

00:43:38.648 --> 00:43:40.468
to the shiny thing in front of us.

00:43:40.648 --> 00:43:46.048
And that's why I was trying to do something different instead of waiting until

00:43:46.048 --> 00:43:50.248
May to get you on like everybody else is going to try to do.

00:43:50.488 --> 00:43:55.628
I wanted to get you on whenever you wanted to come on and just kind of give

00:43:55.628 --> 00:44:00.888
a real update about what's happening. And so as always with any guest I have.

00:44:02.159 --> 00:44:07.399
I give them a moment to promote what they're doing, but especially with you,

00:44:07.579 --> 00:44:11.399
I want the listeners to do what they can to help you out.

00:44:11.759 --> 00:44:17.279
So tell the folks again about Agents for Advocacy, give the whole spiel,

00:44:17.419 --> 00:44:20.339
how people can reach you, how people can donate, all that stuff.

00:44:21.339 --> 00:44:26.219
Absolutely. Right here, if you want to go donate, you can go on our website,

00:44:26.439 --> 00:44:29.779
agentsforadvocacy.org and donate via PayPal.

00:44:29.779 --> 00:44:35.279
Now, our organization, we're committed to trying to spread awareness on socioeconomic

00:44:35.279 --> 00:44:40.659
inequality, along with systemic racism, and basically showcase that,

00:44:40.899 --> 00:44:42.439
you know, no matter where you're from,

00:44:42.999 --> 00:44:47.699
no matter your environment, you should be entitled to the same resources as,

00:44:47.879 --> 00:44:51.439
like, same resources as currently bearing Trump right now.

00:44:51.939 --> 00:44:55.679
And unfortunately, we live in a day and age where, you know,

00:44:55.759 --> 00:45:03.359
the idea of meritocracy is just that it's an idea sold to people at the bottom

00:45:03.359 --> 00:45:05.379
to keep working hard to get to the top,

00:45:05.599 --> 00:45:10.319
although the people at the top will cut them off by the time they get to the middle.

00:45:11.332 --> 00:45:14.772
So what I'm basically doing right now is trying to help everybody,

00:45:15.072 --> 00:45:20.732
you know, not necessarily under me, but, you know, people who come from where

00:45:20.732 --> 00:45:24.392
I come from, people who are in the same situation as me.

00:45:24.552 --> 00:45:27.372
So I'm trying to help a lot of at-risk youth.

00:45:27.632 --> 00:45:32.092
I'm definitely fortunate. And then I just got a position as a justice juvenile

00:45:32.092 --> 00:45:39.192
director in which I'm trying to help, you know, the bottom of the bottom at risk.

00:45:39.392 --> 00:45:45.492
Those who already have no charges pending probation, those who know they're

00:45:45.492 --> 00:45:52.672
there as a false step away from being locked up in county jail or prison for a long, long time.

00:45:53.372 --> 00:45:57.552
These are the people I'm trying to help. I'm trying to help the 17-year-old

00:45:57.552 --> 00:46:03.232
maternal woman who unfortunately had sex one time, got pregnant,

00:46:03.412 --> 00:46:05.412
and the father just skipped town.

00:46:05.772 --> 00:46:11.072
I'm trying to help these people. Unfortunately, society deems that you should

00:46:11.072 --> 00:46:14.012
just forget about them and move on.

00:46:14.632 --> 00:46:22.352
And you have a lot of nonprofits like this doing the work that the government should do.

00:46:22.352 --> 00:46:27.532
So, you know, it was just on the news how a woman's kids froze to death in Detroit

00:46:27.532 --> 00:46:33.472
because the mobile response team didn't get back to her in time when she was

00:46:33.472 --> 00:46:35.672
calling for two straight days.

00:46:36.452 --> 00:46:42.632
So, unfortunately, you see a lot of stuff like this and you hear a lot of stuff

00:46:42.632 --> 00:46:45.392
like this when you're out doing all the work in the community.

00:46:46.152 --> 00:46:51.752
And I know myself, I know Jillian, I know there's plenty of young people.

00:46:52.772 --> 00:46:56.372
I don't think we can call ourselves young no more. I saw on Facebook,

00:46:56.612 --> 00:46:57.712
they say, well, she's 35.

00:46:58.452 --> 00:47:02.992
Once you're 35, you graduated to big bro slash um. So I can't be,

00:47:03.152 --> 00:47:06.032
I don't think I'm considered young no more.

00:47:06.392 --> 00:47:10.872
But we're trying to help those people forget about. Yeah.

00:47:11.472 --> 00:47:15.412
Yeah, well, Mark Talley, I know you're going to do it. Thank you.

00:47:16.077 --> 00:47:20.337
I know your heart's in the right place. You've been very, very transparent.

00:47:21.457 --> 00:47:25.237
Even before you wrote your book, when you first wrote your biography,

00:47:25.617 --> 00:47:27.397
they kind of get it out there.

00:47:27.557 --> 00:47:31.437
I mean, you were you you were very transparent, even in that bio.

00:47:32.337 --> 00:47:37.777
So, you know, I know where your heart is. I just want you to keep fighting.

00:47:38.237 --> 00:47:41.817
You know, it's not going to be easy. It never has been.

00:47:42.557 --> 00:47:45.377
I just turned 60. and you

00:47:45.377 --> 00:47:48.637
see that my hair didn't gave up on the fight but I haven't so

00:47:48.637 --> 00:47:52.857
you know just just keep doing what you're doing brother anytime you want to

00:47:52.857 --> 00:47:57.757
come on and and use me as a platform you're more than welcome to do that and

00:47:57.757 --> 00:48:02.637
I keep praying one day God's gonna give me my wish that I'm gonna get out there

00:48:02.637 --> 00:48:07.097
and actually get on the ground myself and see what's going on in Buffalo but,

00:48:07.737 --> 00:48:13.057
until then you stand guard and do what you gotta do and and keep doing the work

00:48:13.057 --> 00:48:14.637
brother it's always good to talk to you.

00:48:15.337 --> 00:48:19.037
Likewise, sir. Thank you so much. Definitely appreciate having me on your platform.

00:48:19.657 --> 00:48:37.617
All right, guys. We're going to catch y'all on the other side. We'll be right back.

00:48:21.520 --> 00:48:41.040
Music.

00:48:41.097 --> 00:48:47.097
All right, and we are back. So now it is time for my next guest, Mike Nellis.

00:48:47.097 --> 00:48:52.497
Mike Nellis is an entrepreneur and marketing expert who has raised over a billion

00:48:52.497 --> 00:48:58.697
dollars in low-dollar online donations for political campaigns and social impact organizations.

00:48:59.037 --> 00:49:04.617
He owns Authentic, an award-winning marketing agency that specializes in online

00:49:04.617 --> 00:49:07.737
fundraising, paid media, and creative design.

00:49:07.737 --> 00:49:15.497
Last year, he founded Quiller.ai, a new tech startup that is using generative

00:49:15.497 --> 00:49:20.517
AI to revolutionize online fundraising for social impact causes.

00:49:20.857 --> 00:49:27.377
Quiller.ai was named Startup of the Year by Campaign Tech and AI Efficiency

00:49:27.377 --> 00:49:30.137
of the Year by Adweek in 2023.

00:49:30.757 --> 00:49:37.137
Mike was named Strategist of the Year by the Shorty Impact Awards in 2024.

00:49:37.817 --> 00:49:42.257
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my distinct honor and privilege to have as a guest

00:49:42.257 --> 00:49:46.097
on this podcast, Mike Nellis.

00:49:47.920 --> 00:49:58.000
Music.

00:49:58.163 --> 00:50:02.203
Mike Nellis. How are you doing, sir? You doing good? I'm good. How are you, Eric?

00:50:02.983 --> 00:50:08.823
Well, I am honored to have you on, man. You have been a hot commodity during

00:50:08.823 --> 00:50:13.103
the election, previous election, and immediately afterwards.

00:50:13.883 --> 00:50:18.763
So when you agreed to come on, I was really, really humbled and honored that you would do that.

00:50:19.323 --> 00:50:22.323
Well, I appreciate that. And I just kind of, well, yes, sir.

00:50:22.603 --> 00:50:26.483
And I just wanted to kind of pick your brain a little bit about where we are

00:50:26.483 --> 00:50:29.883
and more and more about you.

00:50:30.423 --> 00:50:36.203
Because the interviews I've seen of you, people just pick your brain, right?

00:50:36.383 --> 00:50:40.303
And kind of get you fired up about stuff. But I want people,

00:50:40.583 --> 00:50:43.943
the audience to kind of know a little bit about who you are, right?

00:50:44.843 --> 00:50:51.603
And, you know, as we go through, you know, you can let people know your knowledge and all that stuff.

00:50:51.803 --> 00:50:58.403
So I like to, you know, So I'm a consultant teacher by heart.

00:50:58.923 --> 00:51:04.443
And so I like to do icebreakers and stuff. Okay. So my first icebreaker is a quote.

00:51:04.983 --> 00:51:08.543
And I want you to respond to this quote. It is all on you.

00:51:09.003 --> 00:51:13.043
No one is coming to save you. No one will fix your problems.

00:51:13.263 --> 00:51:15.283
No one will change your mindsets.

00:51:15.623 --> 00:51:20.823
No one will hand you the things you want in life. It's just you. It's all on you.

00:51:21.203 --> 00:51:24.463
There's a power in that. What does that quote mean to you?

00:51:25.183 --> 00:51:27.783
I mean, I think that's a great, great quote. I say it all the time.

00:51:28.143 --> 00:51:31.063
So I really, I do truly believe no one is coming to save you.

00:51:31.183 --> 00:51:37.023
And I think that a lot of people are waiting for someone to make their life happen for them.

00:51:37.283 --> 00:51:41.023
And I think I fell into that trap for the first part of my adult life where

00:51:41.023 --> 00:51:42.783
I kind of waited for people to fix my problems.

00:51:42.923 --> 00:51:46.243
I mean, if nobody knows anything about me, I used to weigh like 600 pounds.

00:51:46.383 --> 00:51:49.443
I used to struggle with depression and anxiety, some suicidal ideation.

00:51:49.583 --> 00:51:52.883
And I kind of like put those things past me. And a big part of it was sort of

00:51:52.883 --> 00:51:56.003
learning the difference between fault and responsibility.

00:51:56.243 --> 00:51:59.523
And in the first half of my career, I spent a lot of time blaming everybody

00:51:59.523 --> 00:52:01.443
and everything for every problem that I had in my life.

00:52:01.563 --> 00:52:05.503
And then I sort of realized through help and therapy and support from my friends

00:52:05.503 --> 00:52:08.623
and my wife that I'm responsible for everything that happens in my life.

00:52:08.723 --> 00:52:11.583
And so I kind of take radical responsibility for everything.

00:52:11.803 --> 00:52:15.043
And I think in this climate that we're in with everything that's going on in

00:52:15.043 --> 00:52:18.043
Washington, where things are deeply uncomfortable for a lot of people and a

00:52:18.043 --> 00:52:18.943
lot of people are getting hurt.

00:52:19.463 --> 00:52:22.403
People are looking for one big idea

00:52:22.403 --> 00:52:25.103
or one big personality or one democratic politician to

00:52:25.103 --> 00:52:27.943
step up and save us and nobody's coming to save any

00:52:27.943 --> 00:52:30.783
of us like it's going to be a million little acts of

00:52:30.783 --> 00:52:34.363
resistance that get us through the next four years and it's going to be stuff

00:52:34.363 --> 00:52:37.643
that gets remembered and stuff that doesn't it's going to be big moments on

00:52:37.643 --> 00:52:40.563
tv it's going to be things that are completely forgotten in your community and

00:52:40.563 --> 00:52:44.143
i think we need everybody to step up in their little corner of the world and

00:52:44.143 --> 00:52:47.903
i think that plays out in every aspect of my life and i imagine for yours too

00:52:47.903 --> 00:52:50.183
eric if you're bringing up that quote. Yeah.

00:52:51.529 --> 00:52:55.949
So my last, well, my next little icebreaker is I want you to give me a number

00:52:55.949 --> 00:52:59.229
between one and 20. All right, 10.

00:53:00.049 --> 00:53:02.909
All right. Here's your question. All right.

00:53:03.109 --> 00:53:09.609
What one fact do you wish people who voted differently than you in the last election knew?

00:53:09.969 --> 00:53:14.249
Either about how you vote, about the current state of the world, about anything.

00:53:14.769 --> 00:53:18.389
That an individual voter was bringing to the polling booth. Yeah.

00:53:18.769 --> 00:53:21.669
That's what you want to know? A little confused question. Okay.

00:53:23.149 --> 00:53:29.669
I mean, I'm someone who's very lucky to have worked closely with Kamala Harris in the past.

00:53:29.809 --> 00:53:32.389
I didn't work on this last presidential election, but I worked for her for five

00:53:32.389 --> 00:53:35.069
years before that and was a senior advisor to her for a while.

00:53:35.889 --> 00:53:41.309
I wish people just knew what a great person that she was, that she was in this for the right reasons.

00:53:41.549 --> 00:53:46.349
And I mean, look, I'm an old, I'm now, I mean, I'm not old, I'm 37,

00:53:46.629 --> 00:53:48.029
but I'm an old Paul Wellstone Democrat.

00:53:48.029 --> 00:53:52.549
Like I really believe that politics should be about the betterment of people's

00:53:52.549 --> 00:53:55.829
lives and that every action we take should be about putting a little bit more

00:53:55.829 --> 00:53:58.749
money in people's pockets, helping them retire, helping them live their lives.

00:53:59.329 --> 00:54:03.989
And we've gotten so far away from that in every aspect of our politics, whether it's Trump.

00:54:04.109 --> 00:54:05.869
And I also think the Democratic Party has gotten away from that,

00:54:05.909 --> 00:54:07.849
too. I think we have a lot of soul searching that we have to do.

00:54:08.229 --> 00:54:11.789
But Kamala, I think, was always in it for the right reasons.

00:54:11.929 --> 00:54:14.609
Like when she woke up in the morning, she was trying to help people.

00:54:14.789 --> 00:54:18.189
She was trying to do it the right way. And maybe she wasn't the right candidate for the right moment.

00:54:18.489 --> 00:54:21.189
Certainly the American people didn't feel that way because we lost the popular

00:54:21.189 --> 00:54:22.109
vote in the electoral college.

00:54:22.209 --> 00:54:25.529
But I wish people knew that she was a genuinely decent person that was trying

00:54:25.529 --> 00:54:27.969
to do the right thing for everybody every single day.

00:54:28.149 --> 00:54:32.009
And I also wish they knew that Donald Trump doesn't give two shits about them

00:54:32.009 --> 00:54:33.349
because he only cares about himself.

00:54:33.769 --> 00:54:38.209
And the fact that a lot of people don't know that in this country irks me to this day.

00:54:39.277 --> 00:54:47.537
So how did you get started in politics? I was 18 and wanted to change the world.

00:54:48.057 --> 00:54:51.377
And I was in college. And frankly, I was struggling in college because I didn't

00:54:51.377 --> 00:54:53.237
really understand the value of anything that I was learning.

00:54:53.417 --> 00:54:56.477
I literally flunked out of a music appreciation class.

00:54:57.017 --> 00:55:01.217
And on the day that it was actually a year ago last week, or excuse me, was it?

00:55:01.497 --> 00:55:05.497
It was 20 years ago last week. Excuse me. I saw Barack Obama's announcement

00:55:05.497 --> 00:55:08.917
speech on the state on the steps of the state capitol in Illinois when he was running for president.

00:55:09.397 --> 00:55:11.937
And he said something like, I'm heading off to Iowa. We're going to win the

00:55:11.937 --> 00:55:13.437
Iowa caucus and I hope to see you there.

00:55:13.517 --> 00:55:17.157
And I got in my red Ford pickup truck and I drove all the way out to,

00:55:17.417 --> 00:55:21.437
I want to say it was Morningside Community College, but I'm not 100% sure that

00:55:21.437 --> 00:55:22.617
was actually where it was.

00:55:23.057 --> 00:55:25.777
First, first rally. And I showed up like a couple hours early and I said,

00:55:25.877 --> 00:55:28.077
I want to, I want to help. Can I be helpful?

00:55:28.577 --> 00:55:31.657
And the staff there were overwhelmed and didn't have enough people to help.

00:55:31.777 --> 00:55:35.217
So they gave me stuff to do. I think I was setting up folding chairs and putting

00:55:35.217 --> 00:55:38.457
media credentials together and stuff like that. And basically for the last 20

00:55:38.457 --> 00:55:39.837
years, people have been giving me stuff to do.

00:55:40.137 --> 00:55:45.157
And my motivations for that were pretty simple. Like one, I really oppose the Iraq war.

00:55:45.357 --> 00:55:47.697
I think at the heart of everything that I care about, you know,

00:55:47.777 --> 00:55:49.877
I just, I don't, I don't want the government doing stupid stuff.

00:55:50.137 --> 00:55:54.137
And I, it's really simple, but I don't want the government doing stupid wars

00:55:54.137 --> 00:55:57.757
in the Middle East and getting people killed, you know, both at home and abroad

00:55:57.757 --> 00:55:59.957
that don't deserve it. I think government should work for the people.

00:56:00.197 --> 00:56:03.217
And I didn't think the economy was set up in a very big way.

00:56:03.317 --> 00:56:06.337
I mean, at the time, Republicans had been trying to cut Social Security and Medicare.

00:56:06.857 --> 00:56:09.417
And had failed. They're trying to do that again now because it's what they always

00:56:09.417 --> 00:56:12.657
do when they take power. And I don't think that's in the best interest of the American people.

00:56:13.197 --> 00:56:15.397
And, you know, those were the things I really, I really cared about then.

00:56:15.397 --> 00:56:19.777
And I saw that in Barack Obama and I thought we had a chance to do something special. And we did.

00:56:20.037 --> 00:56:22.537
I got to be part of something, a very small part of something really special.

00:56:22.537 --> 00:56:30.737
Yeah well you were you you had it easy i i would say because you were you were

00:56:30.737 --> 00:56:36.557
you were on staff i was actually on the ballot in 08 so i was i was running

00:56:36.557 --> 00:56:39.017
for the u.s senate in mississippi.

00:56:39.697 --> 00:56:44.897
But i felt the same way about the enthusiasm and all that and even though i

00:56:44.897 --> 00:56:50.137
didn't win the fact that he won was a magical moment and and i'll never forget

00:56:50.137 --> 00:56:51.877
that experience as long as i Yeah.

00:56:52.697 --> 00:56:56.377
And listen, I don't know anything about your run, but I thank you for running

00:56:56.377 --> 00:57:00.637
because we don't have enough people that are willing to step up and put their name on a ballot.

00:57:00.897 --> 00:57:04.317
And that's a hard thing to do. Like I worked for Mike Espy when he ran for Senate

00:57:04.317 --> 00:57:08.337
in Mississippi. And I think the world of Mike and wish that he had he had won.

00:57:08.537 --> 00:57:11.677
But it's hard to get up there. And I'm sure that there are other people down

00:57:11.677 --> 00:57:15.177
ballot that won because of you and the investments that you made.

00:57:15.317 --> 00:57:18.197
And like, that's a lot of time and effort and energy. So you should you should

00:57:18.197 --> 00:57:19.457
be proud of that. I hope you are.

00:57:20.157 --> 00:57:24.317
Yeah So just to kind of show the age difference,

00:57:25.890 --> 00:57:33.310
Mike Espy first ran for Congress in 1986, and I was a senior in college.

00:57:35.690 --> 00:57:37.190
And I had not been born yet.

00:57:40.330 --> 00:57:46.010
Just so you understand the generational thing. But why did you choose fundraising

00:57:46.010 --> 00:57:48.890
as the best use of your talents in the political arena?

00:57:49.950 --> 00:57:54.330
You know, it's honestly by accident. But I so I was never actually on staff

00:57:54.330 --> 00:57:58.090
on Obama. I was like an unpaid volunteer. I think they called me like a fellow or something.

00:57:58.470 --> 00:58:01.510
So kudos to them for getting me to work for free for a really long time.

00:58:01.930 --> 00:58:06.650
My first paying job was on a Senate race in Nebraska, which is where I was from. I grew up in Omaha.

00:58:07.350 --> 00:58:11.090
And I remember being in the room and somebody was like, hey,

00:58:11.150 --> 00:58:13.670
the Obama campaign raises a lot of money online.

00:58:13.770 --> 00:58:17.210
I wonder if you can raise money online and for the Senate campaign.

00:58:17.310 --> 00:58:19.530
And they were like, does anybody want to figure it out? And I was a finance assistant.

00:58:19.670 --> 00:58:22.850
My job was, and I love the candidate. His name was Scott Klebb.

00:58:22.930 --> 00:58:23.790
He was an awesome candidate. it.

00:58:23.950 --> 00:58:27.010
My job was like to make sure that he made his phone calls and then I could give

00:58:27.010 --> 00:58:28.730
him his like chew because he loved chewing tobacco.

00:58:29.390 --> 00:58:32.510
And I hated the job. I was really bad at it. I didn't want to do it.

00:58:32.650 --> 00:58:35.210
And so I raised my hand. I was like, I couldn't have been more than 19.

00:58:35.330 --> 00:58:37.430
I was like 19, 20 raised my hand. I was like, I'll figure it out.

00:58:37.530 --> 00:58:38.690
I'll figure out how to raise money online.

00:58:38.870 --> 00:58:44.750
And we raised what then was a lot of money. It was like $300,000 or $400,000 or something like that.

00:58:44.970 --> 00:58:49.690
And people were blown away by the work that I did. And now I've had days where

00:58:49.690 --> 00:58:50.690
I've raised millions of dollars now.

00:58:50.810 --> 00:58:53.030
So it's just such a weird whiplash when I think about it.

00:58:53.330 --> 00:58:57.150
And then just sort of parlayed that into getting a job at a consulting firm

00:58:57.150 --> 00:59:00.550
in the next election that wanted me to build out their digital fundraising apparatus.

00:59:00.810 --> 00:59:04.470
And I worked for my very first actual client was a woman named Elaine Marshall,

00:59:04.470 --> 00:59:07.350
who's still the Secretary of State in North Carolina.

00:59:07.710 --> 00:59:10.030
And she ran for Senate and we raised.

00:59:10.974 --> 00:59:14.294
Like one or two, 1.2 or $1.4 million or something like that,

00:59:14.374 --> 00:59:16.714
which was at the time the most money that had ever been raised for a Senate campaign.

00:59:16.974 --> 00:59:20.114
And it was just an incredible ride. And so I've just continued to kind of be

00:59:20.114 --> 00:59:23.454
one of the folks who've been trying to pioneer digital fundraising.

00:59:23.734 --> 00:59:26.554
And what's kind of sad about the industry to me is, you know,

00:59:26.654 --> 00:59:31.534
I run a firm, it's called Authentic, and we try to run programs that treat people

00:59:31.534 --> 00:59:35.334
with respect and, you know, sort of find the thing that

00:59:35.774 --> 00:59:38.354
makes our clients different and helps them resonate with people,

00:59:38.534 --> 00:59:41.514
whether it be like how they talk, what their personality traits are, what they care about.

00:59:42.174 --> 00:59:45.734
And we spend a lot of time trying to build programs that we can be proud of.

00:59:45.974 --> 00:59:48.654
And as everybody who's listening to this has seen, like digital fundraising

00:59:48.654 --> 00:59:52.554
in both parties and in the nonprofit space, completely out of control.

00:59:52.714 --> 00:59:55.974
And so there's a lot of people doing very shady things. There's a ton of scam

00:59:55.974 --> 00:59:58.914
packs that are out there trying to basically steal money from elderly people.

00:59:59.314 --> 01:00:04.194
And to me, it's super sad. But I'm kind of proud that I get to be part of an

01:00:04.194 --> 01:00:06.454
apparatus that raises a lot of money and helps to win a lot of,

01:00:06.494 --> 01:00:08.994
helps to win a lot of elections, but we do it the right way,

01:00:09.194 --> 01:00:10.534
in my opinion, at least more often than not.

01:00:11.474 --> 01:00:18.514
Yeah. So give me your, you, you kind of talked about Vice President Harris as

01:00:18.514 --> 01:00:24.314
a person, kind of give me your assessment about this last campaign.

01:00:24.634 --> 01:00:30.354
Yeah. I know you said that you weren't on the staff per se, but you were raising

01:00:30.354 --> 01:00:32.254
money for her and other folks.

01:00:33.074 --> 01:00:39.674
And you, you know, you've been in enough campaigns where you can kind of give a educated critique.

01:00:40.314 --> 01:00:43.734
What, what was, what's your assessment about what happened?

01:00:44.194 --> 01:00:47.014
Yeah. These are, these are the conversations that usually get me in trouble

01:00:47.014 --> 01:00:49.914
because I'm going to be really honest about what I think happened in this last

01:00:49.914 --> 01:00:52.554
election and why we lost the first thing.

01:00:52.634 --> 01:00:55.494
And to me, it's the, it's the original sin of this election.

01:00:55.654 --> 01:00:58.214
And it needs to be said, Joe Biden should never have run for reelection.

01:00:58.634 --> 01:01:02.374
He just should not have. And I think it was a strategic mistake by him and the

01:01:02.374 --> 01:01:04.394
people around him to pursue running for re-election.

01:01:04.994 --> 01:01:08.094
And I can't imagine how hard it is to walk away from being president of the United States.

01:01:08.494 --> 01:01:12.994
And I really do believe that Joe Biden was a good president and is an American

01:01:12.994 --> 01:01:15.194
patriot, but it was a strategic mistake.

01:01:15.594 --> 01:01:21.794
And because of that, we did not have a year, year and a half to fully vet and

01:01:21.794 --> 01:01:24.054
identify a nominee for that.

01:01:24.154 --> 01:01:26.774
And I believe that had we done that, Kamala Harris would have been the nominee,

01:01:26.974 --> 01:01:29.834
most likely, but we would have had a full field and there would have been an

01:01:29.834 --> 01:01:30.654
opportunity for growth.

01:01:30.794 --> 01:01:34.554
And a lot of Democratic strategists are afraid of primaries because you have

01:01:34.554 --> 01:01:36.494
to spend a bunch of money and you have to spend a bunch of time.

01:01:36.654 --> 01:01:41.214
But I think that primaries forge better candidates. And I think they give the

01:01:41.214 --> 01:01:43.634
people an opportunity to lift up a candidate that they want.

01:01:43.774 --> 01:01:46.214
And if you look at the two times we lost to Donald Trump.

01:01:46.983 --> 01:01:49.943
We didn't really have very serious full fields of candidates.

01:01:50.143 --> 01:01:53.723
We just didn't. The last time we really had one, obviously we had one in 2020,

01:01:53.723 --> 01:01:54.883
which elevated Joe Biden.

01:01:55.163 --> 01:01:58.763
And any critique of the 2020 presidential election, like Joe Biden won that primary.

01:01:58.943 --> 01:02:01.763
There's no, like Bernie Sanders lost it. I know a lot of people get frustrated

01:02:01.763 --> 01:02:03.783
with Bernie and I love Bernie. I worked for him in 16.

01:02:04.303 --> 01:02:08.243
But the last time we had like a full field one in the way we're going to have

01:02:08.243 --> 01:02:13.183
in two years was 2007, 2008, where we elevated Barack Obama and gave people

01:02:13.183 --> 01:02:14.683
like a full opportunity to do that.

01:02:14.683 --> 01:02:18.303
So we need to do that again, because I think when we don't do that and we do

01:02:18.303 --> 01:02:19.183
a disservice to the party,

01:02:19.343 --> 01:02:22.703
because not only do the candidates get better by going through that process,

01:02:22.823 --> 01:02:26.723
the campaigns get better and the operatives and the technology and the strategies

01:02:26.723 --> 01:02:31.363
that we use get better, too, because now you have 20 people out there with relatively

01:02:31.363 --> 01:02:33.263
large budgets going out there and innovating.

01:02:33.383 --> 01:02:36.343
And we didn't have that this last time. So there was a lot less innovation than

01:02:36.343 --> 01:02:39.603
you would expect, a lot less tech innovation in particular. And I think that's a mistake.

01:02:40.923 --> 01:02:44.283
Now, once you get to the moment that Joe Biden drops out and Kamala Harris has

01:02:44.283 --> 01:02:48.383
100 days to field an entire presidential election, I don't think it was a perfect

01:02:48.383 --> 01:02:51.463
campaign. And I think I see people out there that are like, it was perfect. It was flawless.

01:02:51.643 --> 01:02:54.903
It wasn't. There's no such thing as a perfect campaign, but it was it was pretty damn good.

01:02:55.383 --> 01:02:59.243
And if you looked at the at the polling information before Kamala became the

01:02:59.243 --> 01:03:01.283
nominee, we were on track to get killed.

01:03:02.017 --> 01:03:05.697
Especially after the debate. But even before that, we were in trouble and we

01:03:05.697 --> 01:03:08.277
were on track to lose states like New Mexico and New Jersey.

01:03:08.597 --> 01:03:13.197
New York was on a razor's edge because people were really upset about inflation

01:03:13.197 --> 01:03:16.097
and the border and some other issues that are lingering out there.

01:03:16.217 --> 01:03:19.157
And I think what the Harris campaign was able to do in a very short period of

01:03:19.157 --> 01:03:21.617
time was make the race incredibly competitive.

01:03:22.217 --> 01:03:26.157
And I'm a little bit tired of listening to Donald Trump, and he was tweeting

01:03:26.157 --> 01:03:29.577
about it today, saying he won in a landslide. He did not win in a landslide.

01:03:30.037 --> 01:03:33.557
180,000 people vote differently in three states and Kamala Harris is the nominee right now.

01:03:33.677 --> 01:03:37.957
We were actually shockingly close, in my opinion, to Kamala Harris winning the

01:03:37.957 --> 01:03:40.737
electoral college and losing the popular vote, which I think would have been

01:03:40.737 --> 01:03:44.877
very destabilizing for the country because the right would not have accepted that result.

01:03:45.637 --> 01:03:48.797
But it was really close. Now, he won all the battleground states,

01:03:48.917 --> 01:03:50.857
but also he lost all the battleground states four years ago.

01:03:51.037 --> 01:03:54.217
And nobody said that Joe Biden won in a landslide four years ago because it was also really close.

01:03:54.537 --> 01:03:58.177
So I just don't, I don't think they like fumble. I could sort of sit here and

01:03:58.177 --> 01:04:01.697
go, I would have done this differently with hindsight, or I could play Monday morning quarterback.

01:04:02.017 --> 01:04:05.757
Like for instance, one of the, one of the people that you hear say that,

01:04:05.757 --> 01:04:08.317
you know, Connell here should have gone on Joe Rogan. I do really believe that.

01:04:08.377 --> 01:04:09.177
I think she should have done that.

01:04:09.317 --> 01:04:12.937
I think they should have done more alternative media like that, but they didn't.

01:04:13.057 --> 01:04:14.817
I don't know that it would have made a difference, but again,

01:04:14.917 --> 01:04:17.757
it was close. So you don't know what would have made the difference or wouldn't

01:04:17.757 --> 01:04:19.717
have made the difference, but I thought it was a good campaign overall,

01:04:20.137 --> 01:04:20.837
given the circumstances.

01:04:21.637 --> 01:04:25.097
Yeah. Yeah, and that's my assessment, too. Given the time frame,

01:04:25.457 --> 01:04:30.337
she did a lot of stuff that nobody else could have done.

01:04:30.857 --> 01:04:36.557
I can't imagine anybody else raising a billion dollars in 100-some days to run

01:04:36.557 --> 01:04:37.677
for President of the United States.

01:04:38.417 --> 01:04:45.637
I mean, those are the kind of numbers that you do after 18 months of campaigning

01:04:45.637 --> 01:04:48.317
and working hard and building a base.

01:04:48.317 --> 01:04:52.297
And like you say, building a profile where people are comfortable in saying,

01:04:52.417 --> 01:04:55.517
OK, these are the two options that we have. Right.

01:04:56.597 --> 01:05:00.137
I do think that Biden. Sorry, go ahead, Eric.

01:05:00.377 --> 01:05:03.557
No, you were going to say what? I mean, I think it's I think it's possible we

01:05:03.557 --> 01:05:04.677
could have fielded another candidate.

01:05:04.837 --> 01:05:06.817
I don't know that the campaign would have been as strong, but it would have

01:05:06.817 --> 01:05:08.637
been riskier, I think, to do that.

01:05:08.857 --> 01:05:11.657
And I mean, it was worth having that conversation, you know,

01:05:11.737 --> 01:05:14.097
six months ago when it happened. But at this point, it's just sort of it's sort

01:05:14.097 --> 01:05:16.377
of over. But the actual original sin was the Joe.

01:05:16.797 --> 01:05:19.037
And again, God love him, just should not have run for reelection,

01:05:19.217 --> 01:05:21.317
just not in the state that he was in. And that's that's a mistake.

01:05:22.177 --> 01:05:26.297
Well, I mean, and that goes back to the old saying, pride comes before the fall, right?

01:05:26.457 --> 01:05:34.357
100%. Because he will go to his grave saying, I'm the only person that could

01:05:34.357 --> 01:05:37.657
have beat Donald Trump, and I'm the only person that beat Donald Trump.

01:05:37.837 --> 01:05:41.077
And so that was always in his mindset.

01:05:41.237 --> 01:05:45.737
And it's just somebody who has wanted to be president as long as he wanted to

01:05:45.737 --> 01:05:47.797
be, and he finally got it.

01:05:48.514 --> 01:05:53.574
It was kind of hard to shake that from him. And if it wasn't for that debate

01:05:53.574 --> 01:06:01.234
performance, which if I was the president, I would have canceled because he wasn't feeling well.

01:06:01.414 --> 01:06:04.894
He had just come back from a major diplomatic trip in Europe.

01:06:05.234 --> 01:06:07.414
He had every reason to say, you know what?

01:06:07.914 --> 01:06:12.934
Yeah, I'm not going to do it because I'm the incumbent. I don't have to debate you.

01:06:13.234 --> 01:06:16.594
Everybody knows who you are. Everybody knows who I am. And we just keep it moving.

01:06:16.594 --> 01:06:19.454
But he could have played that card and maybe.

01:06:20.194 --> 01:06:24.214
But then, like you said, you know, it would have been a I think it would have

01:06:24.214 --> 01:06:26.834
been a worse result, too, as far as the numbers go. Yeah.

01:06:27.234 --> 01:06:31.114
But anyway. But the reverse side of that, though, is that the fundamentals of

01:06:31.114 --> 01:06:34.314
the election were so negative against Democrats because inflation had been such

01:06:34.314 --> 01:06:35.754
a crisis for the last four years.

01:06:36.094 --> 01:06:38.894
We actually overperformed in the election that we should have,

01:06:38.994 --> 01:06:41.494
which is a testament to how bad of a candidate Donald Trump is.

01:06:41.494 --> 01:06:45.714
And I can't say this enough, like there are so many people that act like he

01:06:45.714 --> 01:06:51.554
has some mythical quality to being a candidate. But like, I'll tell you in this

01:06:51.554 --> 01:06:54.774
election and in 2016, we lost.

01:06:54.954 --> 01:06:58.194
He didn't win. And I feel pretty strongly about that. Like we made strategic

01:06:58.194 --> 01:07:02.254
decisions and we put up, you know, like, again, like I like Hillary Clinton

01:07:02.254 --> 01:07:04.154
and I respect her service to the American people. I don't think she was the

01:07:04.154 --> 01:07:05.014
right candidate for the moment.

01:07:05.194 --> 01:07:08.274
Candidate alignment matters a great deal in that. You know, Kamala,

01:07:08.414 --> 01:07:09.954
I think, was dealt a really shitty hand.

01:07:10.534 --> 01:07:14.234
But we made a lot of mistakes that let him go. But if they had nominated Nikki

01:07:14.234 --> 01:07:17.434
Haley in this election, she would have won 48 states. I'm convinced of that.

01:07:17.894 --> 01:07:22.294
Even against Kamala, I think it would have been just a wash because people are tired of the chaos.

01:07:22.634 --> 01:07:26.894
They want normal politicians, you know, but they were really mad at the Democrats over inflation.

01:07:27.114 --> 01:07:29.254
And I just think they would have washed over us. And so, like,

01:07:29.314 --> 01:07:31.134
they made a huge strategic error by nominating him again.

01:07:31.394 --> 01:07:33.574
And they're proving that now because they have no idea why they won.

01:07:33.894 --> 01:07:36.334
They've spent the last month in Washington doing a bunch of really weird,

01:07:36.434 --> 01:07:39.694
strange stuff that is turning the American people off and he's not doing anything

01:07:39.694 --> 01:07:42.934
about the central issue he was elected on which is lowering grocery prices and

01:07:42.934 --> 01:07:44.854
making housing more formal. So, yeah.

01:07:45.724 --> 01:07:50.524
Yeah. And, you know, I've I've been listening to some of the polls.

01:07:50.924 --> 01:07:55.984
Well, listen, reading some of the polls and it was like CBS did a poll about

01:07:55.984 --> 01:08:00.864
a couple of weeks ago and 70 percent of the people polled said,

01:08:01.044 --> 01:08:05.344
hey, well, he's he's pretty much doing what we thought he was going to do.

01:08:05.844 --> 01:08:12.044
And then I think I think we just did a poll and then 62 percent of people are

01:08:12.044 --> 01:08:15.764
like, yeah, he's not doing anything on the prices. We thought he was going to

01:08:15.764 --> 01:08:17.864
do something about the prices that he's not doing it.

01:08:18.044 --> 01:08:22.624
So the American people, I think, are really, really confused about what they're seeing.

01:08:22.944 --> 01:08:27.264
You know, you got Elon Musk at CPAC with the chainsaw. It's like,

01:08:28.064 --> 01:08:29.084
you know, what are we doing?

01:08:29.284 --> 01:08:34.264
And then Rich McCormick, I don't know if you saw that as we're recording this.

01:08:34.884 --> 01:08:41.144
Rich had, and he was, he's my congressman, unfortunately. But Rich had a town

01:08:41.144 --> 01:08:42.344
hall meeting in Roswell.

01:08:43.564 --> 01:08:48.504
And the people were not happy with what was going on and he won that,

01:08:48.504 --> 01:08:54.724
he got like, he won that decision with like 30 something points and he beat

01:08:54.724 --> 01:08:56.684
that man to death but it's like,

01:08:57.598 --> 01:09:01.718
You know, he was trying to say, well, you know, this is the way we do this and

01:09:01.718 --> 01:09:03.698
da, da, da, da. And the people were like, no, it's not.

01:09:03.798 --> 01:09:06.678
That's not how they work. You're supposed to be doing your job.

01:09:07.798 --> 01:09:11.558
He ain't supposed to be dealing with the money. You're supposed to be dealing with the money.

01:09:11.858 --> 01:09:15.158
And the one thing that, you know, people are saying, well, he shouldn't,

01:09:15.198 --> 01:09:22.318
you know, fire and all this stuff. It's like if Elon Musk was had his own was

01:09:22.318 --> 01:09:24.778
was in the private sector, right.

01:09:25.758 --> 01:09:28.018
You know, trying to do this.

01:09:29.598 --> 01:09:33.638
And, you know, he came in as a CEO instead of the owner of the company. Right.

01:09:33.958 --> 01:09:37.618
And he said, well, OK, we're going to cut. We're going to fire all these people.

01:09:37.818 --> 01:09:43.238
It's going to be like, but our budget says that we can afford to to have these people.

01:09:43.238 --> 01:09:49.678
And so if you don't have next year's budget, you don't want to have these positions,

01:09:49.838 --> 01:09:54.178
that's fine. But this year we budgeted these people in, so we need them.

01:09:54.338 --> 01:09:56.218
And nobody's having that discussion.

01:09:56.418 --> 01:10:00.978
It's like Congress said, this is what these agencies need to have.

01:10:01.218 --> 01:10:04.878
This is the money. These are the positions that we need to have.

01:10:04.878 --> 01:10:08.178
All the state legislatures, they are budget the same way.

01:10:08.318 --> 01:10:14.458
So it's like to fire people in the middle of or during a fiscal year,

01:10:14.458 --> 01:10:18.458
it's like you're not saving any money at that point.

01:10:18.638 --> 01:10:23.418
Well, technically you are, but it's like you've already set that money aside.

01:10:23.918 --> 01:10:29.538
So if you want to start saving for down the road, then you just eliminate those

01:10:29.538 --> 01:10:30.958
positions in the next budget.

01:10:30.958 --> 01:10:34.038
You don't fire people right now

01:10:34.038 --> 01:10:36.898
but right that you know nobody's really talking

01:10:36.898 --> 01:10:40.838
about like that and i guess being a former legislator that's that was kind of

01:10:40.838 --> 01:10:46.738
my mindset as to why isn't anybody's just saying that it's like we're we we've

01:10:46.738 --> 01:10:51.218
got the money to pay for these people this year now next year and the fiscal

01:10:51.218 --> 01:10:56.578
year is down the road let's have that debate but let's have it in congress not have elon musk with a.

01:10:57.481 --> 01:11:01.681
Chainsaw running up in buildings with a bunch of 25 year old tech bros saying,

01:11:01.681 --> 01:11:03.041
you know, y'all need to leave.

01:11:03.201 --> 01:11:07.881
I mean, well, Eric, look, look, you know, one, I think if you're if you're Donald

01:11:07.881 --> 01:11:11.441
Trump, you know, if you get elected to deal with grocery prices and housing

01:11:11.441 --> 01:11:15.321
prices and you spend the first month pardoning cop beaters and doing weird stuff

01:11:15.321 --> 01:11:17.801
with shady billionaires, people are going to get mad.

01:11:18.141 --> 01:11:21.501
And every day that we go that he isn't doing anything about it,

01:11:21.601 --> 01:11:26.861
people are going to get more pissed. And I think it's the same problem that the left had last year.

01:11:26.961 --> 01:11:30.741
Like we were not doing enough to deal with inflation to make people feel hurt.

01:11:30.781 --> 01:11:31.521
And he's not doing anything.

01:11:31.641 --> 01:11:34.181
We were at least trying, maybe not the right way, but we were trying.

01:11:34.561 --> 01:11:37.841
So that's a problem. But then let's, let's get into the government spending thing for a second.

01:11:37.861 --> 01:11:42.461
Like I actually agree broadly with the critique of the government that Donald

01:11:42.461 --> 01:11:46.201
Trump has, which is that it's too slow and it doesn't work and it's holding back progress.

01:11:46.301 --> 01:11:49.241
I agree with that. Now he doesn't say it that way. No, he says it in like horrible ways.

01:11:49.321 --> 01:11:52.361
Like the deep state is trying to kill me ways, but the fundamental critique

01:11:52.361 --> 01:11:56.701
is right. Most Americans don't believe the government works or functions, thinks it's too big.

01:11:56.801 --> 01:11:59.641
And I do think there's a lot of waste and fraud and abuse, but there's a right

01:11:59.641 --> 01:12:01.981
way to go about it. And there's a wrong way to go about it.

01:12:02.221 --> 01:12:04.981
The right way to do it would be to bring in professional auditors who know what

01:12:04.981 --> 01:12:07.941
they're doing, put a lot of sunlight on it and transparency for somebody in

01:12:07.941 --> 01:12:11.161
Congress to hold public hearings and for us to aggressively cut that money very,

01:12:11.241 --> 01:12:14.881
very quickly by shining a light on the way that the federal government is wasting your money.

01:12:15.061 --> 01:12:18.701
The wrong way to do it is letting an unelected South African billionaire and

01:12:18.701 --> 01:12:21.021
a bunch of weird tech kids come in and do it.

01:12:21.021 --> 01:12:24.241
And that's how you end up with things like Meals on Wheels getting cut or cancer

01:12:24.241 --> 01:12:28.561
research for kids getting cut or them accidentally firing all of the people

01:12:28.561 --> 01:12:33.301
who are responsible for protecting our nuclear arsenal and then having to panic and bring them back.

01:12:33.501 --> 01:12:37.381
So, like, it's almost like, like, look, if I had a tumor and I hired a surgeon.

01:12:37.741 --> 01:12:41.481
Like, I want the surgeon, I want an experienced surgeon to come in with a scalpel

01:12:41.481 --> 01:12:43.261
and take the tumor out and do it the right way.

01:12:43.381 --> 01:12:46.061
I don't want somebody with a chainsaw who doesn't know what they're doing.

01:12:46.161 --> 01:12:47.241
I start hacking away my organs.

01:12:47.461 --> 01:12:51.481
That's how people die. And when you do it, when you're a big businessman,

01:12:51.501 --> 01:12:55.181
when you're buying Twitter and you start rooting around and breaking shit,

01:12:55.321 --> 01:12:57.701
the worst thing you get is a bunch of customers who are mad.

01:12:57.961 --> 01:13:01.461
When you do it to the federal government, people die because people rely on

01:13:01.461 --> 01:13:02.761
the federal government to keep them safe.

01:13:02.821 --> 01:13:05.801
And we're having a lot of plane crashes and we're having people who are like

01:13:05.801 --> 01:13:09.081
not getting the cancer medications that they need because of the stuff that's going on right now.

01:13:09.321 --> 01:13:13.461
And it has consequences and he's treating it like like numbers and not people.

01:13:13.581 --> 01:13:14.461
And that's that's a mistake.

01:13:15.576 --> 01:13:20.116
So I want to double back on Kamala Harris just real quick.

01:13:20.296 --> 01:13:23.396
Do you think she's going to run for governor of California or you think she's

01:13:23.396 --> 01:13:28.036
going to chill out with Doug and say, thank you all for playing. I'm going to stay.

01:13:28.596 --> 01:13:31.716
I have no idea what she does. I hope she runs for governor of California because

01:13:31.716 --> 01:13:34.096
I think she'd be a great governor, but I don't know what she's going to do.

01:13:34.216 --> 01:13:37.976
And she has every right to kind of make the best choice for her and Doug and

01:13:37.976 --> 01:13:41.596
the rest of their family to decide, you know, am I going to continue with public service?

01:13:41.736 --> 01:13:44.376
Do I want to go make a little bit of money and enjoy my life?

01:13:44.376 --> 01:13:48.316
Like she served her country greatly, you know, her entire life since she was

01:13:48.316 --> 01:13:51.276
fresh out of college. She's been serving and it's really up to her.

01:13:51.536 --> 01:13:55.016
I think no matter what she does, even if she, you know, takes a step back or

01:13:55.016 --> 01:13:57.696
goes to a law firm or whatever she does, she will still be in the fight somewhere,

01:13:58.036 --> 01:13:59.016
improving people's lives.

01:13:59.096 --> 01:14:02.076
And you see that when she goes out, you know, she's been at a she's been shown

01:14:02.076 --> 01:14:04.376
a couple of concerts and I've seen her out at like a basketball game.

01:14:04.516 --> 01:14:07.636
Like she's still taking the time to talk to people and counsel them.

01:14:07.796 --> 01:14:11.416
And the one thing she's great at is she'll she's she'll pull people aside and

01:14:11.416 --> 01:14:14.396
like give them that little boost of energy that they need. So I'm certain that

01:14:14.396 --> 01:14:17.856
she's still engaged in the fight. It just might not look the same way that it did before.

01:14:18.076 --> 01:14:20.676
And the most powerful moments that I ever had with her were one-on-one,

01:14:20.816 --> 01:14:24.736
were at least in small group settings, where she pushed me to be a better strategist,

01:14:24.836 --> 01:14:26.776
pushed me to be a better business owner when I started my company.

01:14:26.956 --> 01:14:30.576
So she's going to keep doing stuff like that. She is somebody who makes everyone

01:14:30.576 --> 01:14:36.076
around them better. Yeah, yeah, I agree totally with that assessment altogether.

01:14:36.556 --> 01:14:42.416
So let me ask you this question. There was criticism that the campaign depended

01:14:42.416 --> 01:14:46.836
on the white consultant class too much and not enough on traditional black outreach.

01:14:47.616 --> 01:14:53.236
You being a consultant, how do you take that kind of criticism?

01:14:54.240 --> 01:14:57.960
I mean, it may be fair. It may not be fair, right? Like I wasn't engaged in

01:14:57.960 --> 01:15:02.800
it, but I tend to think the bigger divide that exists in the consultancy and

01:15:02.800 --> 01:15:05.000
the staffing world, which is a broader problem.

01:15:05.640 --> 01:15:08.600
Across the entirety of the Democratic Party and really our politics writ large,

01:15:08.780 --> 01:15:12.580
is age and class more than race beyond anything.

01:15:12.780 --> 01:15:19.220
I think we have way too many politicians and consultants and party elders that

01:15:19.220 --> 01:15:21.860
probably need to take a step back and give others the opportunity to lead.

01:15:22.000 --> 01:15:23.380
And I think we're starting to see that now.

01:15:23.700 --> 01:15:27.200
Tina Smith, who's the senator from Minnesota, she's one of my clients who's really proud of her.

01:15:27.280 --> 01:15:30.660
She's retiring at what's a pretty young age for a United States senator,

01:15:30.860 --> 01:15:32.000
still like well in her 60s.

01:15:32.120 --> 01:15:35.100
But like she could probably keep going for two more terms if she really wanted to.

01:15:35.220 --> 01:15:38.600
But she's retiring and giving the younger leaders in her state an opportunity

01:15:38.600 --> 01:15:42.640
to lead. And that's a good thing. And we need more of that in the Democratic Party.

01:15:42.760 --> 01:15:45.220
But it's wholesale generational change all the way on down.

01:15:45.560 --> 01:15:50.940
And then I think there's a class divide, right? Like there are a lot of very

01:15:50.940 --> 01:15:54.320
highly educated people that are working on these campaigns.

01:15:54.440 --> 01:15:56.640
And we don't have enough people that are coming from different backgrounds.

01:15:57.020 --> 01:15:59.800
And some of that will play into race for sure, no doubt about it.

01:15:59.880 --> 01:16:02.800
But like, I think I'm kind of an anomaly in the Democratic Party a little bit

01:16:02.800 --> 01:16:06.540
in the sense of like, I went to college in my first year, I dropped out and

01:16:06.540 --> 01:16:09.720
really I flunked out because I wasn't going to class, but I dropped out and

01:16:09.720 --> 01:16:10.700
I went to go work on campaigns.

01:16:10.780 --> 01:16:13.740
So I was not really educated in the same way that all the people around me were.

01:16:13.880 --> 01:16:17.820
And then I went back later in my thirties and in my late twenties and finished

01:16:17.820 --> 01:16:20.460
my, like my, my degree and then got a master's from Notre Dame.

01:16:20.880 --> 01:16:24.760
And so now I'm kind of educated, but I, I still think I mostly act like a non-educated

01:16:24.760 --> 01:16:26.920
person. I think I talk like a regular person.

01:16:27.160 --> 01:16:29.240
And I think a lot of the problem with the democratic party is like,

01:16:29.280 --> 01:16:30.500
we just don't talk like regular people.

01:16:30.600 --> 01:16:34.240
Like we're trying to keep a huge coalition of people happy and not use words

01:16:34.240 --> 01:16:37.480
that we're scared of and like be totally afraid to make a mistake. And.

01:16:38.316 --> 01:16:40.636
Whatever. Like I think people just need to bring their whole selves.

01:16:40.816 --> 01:16:44.776
And I talk a lot about like my company's name is authentic, but I think perceived

01:16:44.776 --> 01:16:46.936
authenticity is the number one way to win an election.

01:16:47.216 --> 01:16:51.156
And Donald Trump, I think is completely full of shit. But if he was a video

01:16:51.156 --> 01:16:54.616
game character, his perceived authenticity bar is the highest it could be.

01:16:54.716 --> 01:16:57.496
Like people believe they're getting the real Donald Trump.

01:16:57.756 --> 01:17:01.256
And I don't really think they are, but that perceived authenticity matters.

01:17:01.396 --> 01:17:03.536
And I think we need more of that at every level of the campaign.

01:17:03.736 --> 01:17:07.356
But when we're engaging with like specific communities, like we need people

01:17:07.356 --> 01:17:10.136
who understand those communities. Like I'm a white dude from Omaha.

01:17:10.356 --> 01:17:13.556
I'm probably not the best person to put together a campaign in like Harlem or

01:17:13.556 --> 01:17:15.516
Oakland or something like that. Right. And I recognize that.

01:17:15.736 --> 01:17:18.436
So part of it's like my responsibility is to build a team of people around me

01:17:18.436 --> 01:17:19.716
who can help see the things that I can.

01:17:19.876 --> 01:17:23.496
Like I wrote, I wrote or signed off on every fundraising email or social media

01:17:23.496 --> 01:17:26.356
post for Kamala Harris, who was the second black woman ever elected to the United

01:17:26.356 --> 01:17:28.996
States Senate in the history of the United States. Right.

01:17:29.396 --> 01:17:32.016
I didn't do that without a lot of help. And a lot of people that help me see

01:17:32.016 --> 01:17:35.196
the things that I couldn't see. And I think that's an important part of team

01:17:35.196 --> 01:17:36.516
building and campaign building.

01:17:37.496 --> 01:17:40.756
Do you think that's the key to help the Democrats rebound?

01:17:41.376 --> 01:17:48.736
Or is there more to, or is that just internal and there's some external things that the party has to do?

01:17:49.156 --> 01:17:52.236
I mean, we could spend all day talking about the things I think the Democrat Party needs to do.

01:17:52.516 --> 01:17:57.156
I mean, I have kind of boiled the problem down into like three major buckets.

01:17:57.156 --> 01:17:59.536
The first one I already talked about, which is the generational change that

01:17:59.536 --> 01:18:05.076
needs to happen in the party. The second one is stop treating people like statistics

01:18:05.076 --> 01:18:07.916
and start treating them like fully realized human beings.

01:18:08.096 --> 01:18:10.836
And I think some of that involves the like talking like regular people,

01:18:11.056 --> 01:18:14.596
bringing your whole self to the conversation, being able to go into these different spaces.

01:18:15.036 --> 01:18:16.776
And then there's just like a whole...

01:18:17.755 --> 01:18:20.555
Batch of like we're running we're running campaigns the

01:18:20.555 --> 01:18:23.535
same way that they've always been and we kind of have to change the way we're running campaigns

01:18:23.535 --> 01:18:26.915
we spend way too much money on tv ads we don't invest enough in digital we're

01:18:26.915 --> 01:18:30.535
we're running candidates that are i talk about candidate alignment a lot i probably

01:18:30.535 --> 01:18:33.075
already mentioned it a few times but candidate alignment to me is when when

01:18:33.075 --> 01:18:37.895
you are the right candidate for the moment because you conform to the way that

01:18:37.895 --> 01:18:40.655
people are communicating in the media and like the best example this is barack

01:18:40.655 --> 01:18:44.155
obama barack obama 2008 is the most aligned candidate i've ever seen in my life

01:18:44.155 --> 01:18:45.815
jfk is probably like the other example,

01:18:45.975 --> 01:18:48.615
JFK was perfectly aligned for TV as TV rose.

01:18:49.155 --> 01:18:53.255
And Nixon, who by all means, Nixon probably on paper would have been a better

01:18:53.255 --> 01:18:58.995
president than Kennedy in 1960, but he was terrible on TV and got killed because

01:18:58.995 --> 01:19:01.735
he didn't play the part the way you needed him to.

01:19:01.935 --> 01:19:04.395
And maybe to a certain degree, that was part of the problem with Hillary Clinton

01:19:04.395 --> 01:19:07.215
and Donald Trump, which is Trump understood how to manipulate the media.

01:19:07.555 --> 01:19:11.075
And maybe in this last election, J.D. Vance helped Trump understand how to manipulate

01:19:11.075 --> 01:19:15.015
the alternative podcast media. And so we need to do a better job of creating that alignment.

01:19:15.255 --> 01:19:18.355
And that starts with like, again, generational change so that people actually

01:19:18.355 --> 01:19:21.335
like, I shouldn't have to be explained how TikTok works to a political candidate anymore.

01:19:21.435 --> 01:19:23.115
They should have their own TikTok and they should understand it.

01:19:23.215 --> 01:19:25.835
Then we got to talk like regular people and stop trying to please everybody.

01:19:25.955 --> 01:19:27.935
And then we have to modernize the way we run our campaigns.

01:19:29.095 --> 01:19:35.695
Yeah. All right. So this is my final question is kind of going back to how you

01:19:35.695 --> 01:19:38.235
responded to the original quote I gave you.

01:19:38.855 --> 01:19:42.915
During the campaign, you responded to personal attacks on social media.

01:19:43.753 --> 01:19:48.033
You said being a man isn't about looking like a roided out buff freak.

01:19:48.253 --> 01:19:53.153
It's about being real with yourself and others, leading with empathy and heart

01:19:53.153 --> 01:19:55.713
and facing challenges head on with vulnerability.

01:19:56.193 --> 01:20:02.733
We need more empathetic conversations as we're losing too many young people

01:20:02.733 --> 01:20:07.533
to drug addiction, abuse and suicidal ideation.

01:20:07.533 --> 01:20:10.813
Kind of kind of talk about about that

01:20:10.813 --> 01:20:14.413
because as you stated before you you

01:20:14.413 --> 01:20:17.173
were a big guy and you know if i

01:20:17.173 --> 01:20:21.113
had played football i would have loved to have you blocking for me then i would

01:20:21.113 --> 01:20:25.653
i'd have a lot more money and been doing something else but in all seriousness

01:20:25.653 --> 01:20:30.293
though you you this is a personal challenge you've had to deal with and in this

01:20:30.293 --> 01:20:34.313
environment of social media where everybody can hide behind their phone or their

01:20:34.313 --> 01:20:37.053
computer and just spew out stuff.

01:20:37.313 --> 01:20:44.353
To date myself, the way you did that on the internet was you said you were anonymous, right?

01:20:44.513 --> 01:20:53.473
And I used to get more comments as anonymous against me from anonymous than actual real people.

01:20:54.073 --> 01:20:58.633
But now social media has evolved where people feel they have this kind of courage.

01:21:00.013 --> 01:21:03.893
And I really appreciated the way that you addressed that. So just kind of talk

01:21:03.893 --> 01:21:07.773
to the audience about why you felt motivated to just say, you know what,

01:21:07.933 --> 01:21:11.913
let me just put y'all in y'all place and tell you how I really feel.

01:21:12.393 --> 01:21:15.813
Well, you know, I spent a lot of time thinking about this because it's something

01:21:15.813 --> 01:21:20.713
that's really important to me because I think there's an epidemic of loneliness

01:21:20.713 --> 01:21:24.913
in American society. There's an epidemic of drug use and suicidal ideation.

01:21:24.993 --> 01:21:28.393
And I think it permeates every part of American culture, but young men in particular

01:21:28.393 --> 01:21:30.113
are hit really, really hard.

01:21:30.293 --> 01:21:34.593
And I might get the statistic a little bit wrong, but young men are four times,

01:21:34.733 --> 01:21:37.333
young white men, I think in particular, are four times more likely to commit

01:21:37.333 --> 01:21:39.373
suicide than any other group of people in the United States.

01:21:40.306 --> 01:21:42.406
And I don't hear anybody talking about that. Donald Trump's not talking about

01:21:42.406 --> 01:21:43.786
it. Conal Harris wasn't talking about it.

01:21:43.846 --> 01:21:47.286
And that's a huge mistake because there are a lot of white men in this country

01:21:47.286 --> 01:21:49.406
and, you know, they're not voting the way that I want them to,

01:21:49.486 --> 01:21:52.206
but they're, they're still my brothers and I want them to be mentally well.

01:21:52.346 --> 01:21:57.506
And unfortunately, we have a lot of really poor role models in the country.

01:21:57.706 --> 01:22:00.446
And, and like, you know, yesterday as we're recording this, you know,

01:22:00.646 --> 01:22:03.606
Elon Musk is wielding a chainsaw and like throwing it around his head and looking

01:22:03.606 --> 01:22:04.566
like an absolute doofus.

01:22:04.686 --> 01:22:10.086
And like, that is not what, what real men are. And I think we were in this transition

01:22:10.086 --> 01:22:13.786
period where, you know, we haven't made enough progress for women,

01:22:13.806 --> 01:22:16.826
for sure, and neither for, you know, black or round people either.

01:22:17.426 --> 01:22:21.626
But this transitionary period is hard on, you know, I think white men in particular,

01:22:21.686 --> 01:22:23.946
but all men, I think more than anything, because we're struggling to figure

01:22:23.946 --> 01:22:25.486
out what masculinity actually looks like.

01:22:25.486 --> 01:22:29.286
And so you have a lot of people that are clinging to, you know,

01:22:29.386 --> 01:22:33.446
to me, like boring wrote, you know, traditional 1950s masculinity.

01:22:33.646 --> 01:22:36.006
Let me be a tough guy. Let me be a bully. And like that, that's ridiculous.

01:22:36.186 --> 01:22:39.946
Like to me, like real men protect and provide.

01:22:40.346 --> 01:22:43.286
That's what they do. We protect the people in our lives. We provide for them.

01:22:43.386 --> 01:22:46.266
We do what we need to do. And that's the kind of thing where like I say that

01:22:46.266 --> 01:22:47.706
sometimes in more liberal circles and

01:22:47.706 --> 01:22:50.386
people get uneasy because you're not supposed to kind of talk that way.

01:22:50.486 --> 01:22:54.506
But like, I do feel that like I have a responsibility to protect my wife and

01:22:54.506 --> 01:22:58.106
my son. I have a responsibility to provide for them. And I think more men need to say that.

01:22:58.326 --> 01:23:02.846
And part of the reason that we have so many young men that have absolutely nothing

01:23:02.846 --> 01:23:04.686
to provide a significant other

01:23:04.686 --> 01:23:06.886
is because they don't know that they're supposed to provide for another.

01:23:07.484 --> 01:23:09.104
Because they didn't have anybody in their life who showed them that,

01:23:09.424 --> 01:23:11.384
because they didn't have anybody in their life who taught them that,

01:23:11.504 --> 01:23:15.524
or because they have a role model like Elon Musk, who has 13 kids with eight

01:23:15.524 --> 01:23:19.624
different women, women who are actively tweeting at him to try to get him to

01:23:19.624 --> 01:23:21.124
engage in the life of their kids.

01:23:21.624 --> 01:23:24.804
And this is what I'm supposed to believe modern masculinity looks like.

01:23:25.384 --> 01:23:29.644
It's not. And I don't want the future of masculinity to be defined by guys like

01:23:29.644 --> 01:23:30.984
Donald Trump and Elon Musk and J.D.

01:23:31.044 --> 01:23:34.804
Vance, who have no respect for women, who have no respect for themselves who

01:23:34.804 --> 01:23:37.964
have no respect for just common decency and empathy in life.

01:23:38.104 --> 01:23:41.044
And so I think more men need to step up and talk about their,

01:23:41.044 --> 01:23:42.944
their, their challenges and the things they're going through.

01:23:43.064 --> 01:23:46.904
It's why I'm, I'm pretty honest about, like, I, I almost hurt myself pretty

01:23:46.904 --> 01:23:48.344
seriously in the middle of 2020.

01:23:48.564 --> 01:23:51.104
It's why I talk about my weight loss, having lost over 200 pounds.

01:23:51.244 --> 01:23:54.184
That's why I talk about my anxiety and depression. It's why I talk about my

01:23:54.184 --> 01:23:55.104
struggles of being a parent.

01:23:55.244 --> 01:23:58.184
Like I'm a, I'm a, I'm a, being a parent is impossible.

01:23:58.384 --> 01:24:01.984
I have a little five-year-old boy. He is he is like a little me clone.

01:24:02.184 --> 01:24:05.684
And I'm like, I'm up against the ropes every day trying to trying to deal with him.

01:24:06.164 --> 01:24:09.464
And we need more men. We're going to talk like that. And I think we need men

01:24:09.464 --> 01:24:13.564
to support one another because we're so afraid of saying how we feel about one

01:24:13.564 --> 01:24:14.944
another and how we feel to each other.

01:24:15.144 --> 01:24:19.844
And, you know, I think it can be done. And I think every time somebody shares

01:24:19.844 --> 01:24:22.704
a little bit more about themselves, the world becomes a little bit more of an interesting place.

01:24:22.824 --> 01:24:25.444
And we don't have to let Andrew Tate define the future. We don't have to let

01:24:25.444 --> 01:24:27.624
Elon Musk define the future because, like, screw these guys.

01:24:27.644 --> 01:24:28.824
Like, they're loose. They're losers.

01:24:29.564 --> 01:24:33.484
They're, they're losers and I'm not going to, I'm not going to sealed my,

01:24:33.564 --> 01:24:34.824
I'm not going to seal my space to it.

01:24:34.864 --> 01:24:37.044
I'm going to do the best I can to raise my son. And I'm going to be the best

01:24:37.044 --> 01:24:38.384
I can to be an example to other people.

01:24:38.584 --> 01:24:42.124
And I'm not perfect. I make a ton of mistakes. I'm a huge flood individuals.

01:24:42.304 --> 01:24:44.964
We all are, but I don't know. I'm not, I'm not seeding this fight to them.

01:24:45.064 --> 01:24:45.944
Like, like screw these guys.

01:24:46.704 --> 01:24:49.064
Yeah. Well, I'm trying, I'm trying not to drop an F bomb, Eric.

01:24:49.224 --> 01:24:50.064
I'm coming close though.

01:24:50.524 --> 01:24:54.804
But you, but you did good. You did good. So look, and I'm just here to tell

01:24:54.804 --> 01:24:57.024
you, it's like, If you think five is amazing.

01:24:57.978 --> 01:25:01.418
10 years from now when your mini me is 15 oh

01:25:01.418 --> 01:25:04.218
baby yeah i'm terrified of

01:25:04.218 --> 01:25:06.978
having a teenager i'm completely terrified of it i want nothing

01:25:06.978 --> 01:25:09.918
to do with it but you know boy

01:25:09.918 --> 01:25:12.658
i mean i'm a little biased you know because i'm

01:25:12.658 --> 01:25:15.718
a i'm a boy dad but you know a father

01:25:15.718 --> 01:25:18.758
a father of a son is a

01:25:18.758 --> 01:25:22.058
lot easier than being a father of a daughter i didn't just you

01:25:22.058 --> 01:25:24.978
know i'm just letting you know so just be grateful

01:25:24.978 --> 01:25:27.858
and you know that

01:25:27.858 --> 01:25:32.098
it's gonna be okay i'll just i'll give you one more example if i if i still

01:25:32.098 --> 01:25:36.278
have time to kind of get he's like you know my son right now like he's a he's

01:25:36.278 --> 01:25:39.698
a young overactive five-year-old boy with it with a with a big brain and and

01:25:39.698 --> 01:25:43.878
a lot to say and when he goes to school right now he's probably the most disruptive

01:25:43.878 --> 01:25:45.338
member of his class because he's,

01:25:45.878 --> 01:25:49.078
really smart and because he's born and he probably has a little bit of adhd

01:25:49.078 --> 01:25:52.258
like his father and he's struggling to keep his hands to himself and like a

01:25:52.258 --> 01:25:54.718
lot of the stuff that he's going through are just like normal things that men

01:25:54.718 --> 01:25:55.778
go through when they're like young.

01:25:56.358 --> 01:26:00.738
And we're trying to create a society where, you know, like girls and women have

01:26:00.738 --> 01:26:01.918
the same opportunities as everyone else.

01:26:01.998 --> 01:26:03.638
And that's the right thing to do. We should keep doing that.

01:26:03.698 --> 01:26:07.098
But we also have to create space for, and I hate to say it like this, but men to be met.

01:26:07.298 --> 01:26:10.498
Right. And it doesn't, I'm not saying it let boys be boys in the like locker

01:26:10.498 --> 01:26:12.698
room way, but like they're different.

01:26:12.898 --> 01:26:15.158
Like little boys and little girls are different and everybody individually is

01:26:15.158 --> 01:26:16.958
different. And we have to give them lanes to kind of be that.

01:26:17.058 --> 01:26:18.958
And so I'm trying to like work with my son to be like, Like,

01:26:19.058 --> 01:26:23.918
how do I get you to keep people safe and tell the truth without squashing that

01:26:23.918 --> 01:26:26.598
creative side and making him feel comfortable in his own shoes?

01:26:26.598 --> 01:26:30.758
Because I saw this quote recently, and it's the loudest kid in the room is the

01:26:30.758 --> 01:26:32.958
kid that's the most comfortable in their own shoes.

01:26:33.861 --> 01:26:37.441
And the way society is set up right now, it's kind of designed to make you be quiet.

01:26:38.041 --> 01:26:40.881
And I think that's a lot of how you get anxiety and depression.

01:26:40.881 --> 01:26:42.441
And it just layers over time.

01:26:42.581 --> 01:26:45.681
Like any negative thought that's ever been put in my head was put in there by

01:26:45.681 --> 01:26:47.961
somebody else. I didn't have that when I was born.

01:26:48.261 --> 01:26:51.441
Somebody else put that in there. And then it's my responsibility to unwind it.

01:26:51.681 --> 01:26:55.241
But my responsibility right now is to help my son get through that while also

01:26:55.241 --> 01:26:57.401
keeping everybody else safe at school because he's like, you know,

01:26:57.761 --> 01:27:00.181
throwing crayons when he gets frustrated and he loses a game of school.

01:27:00.441 --> 01:27:02.361
So which is like normal kid shit. So.

01:27:02.941 --> 01:27:08.021
Yeah. Yeah, well, yeah, we'll have to compare notes and hopefully I can give

01:27:08.021 --> 01:27:11.561
you some pointers down the road. But look. We'll write a parent book together, Eric.

01:27:14.761 --> 01:27:16.521
So, Mike, tell folks, what are

01:27:16.521 --> 01:27:20.121
you doing? How can people get in touch with you and all that good stuff?

01:27:20.441 --> 01:27:24.241
Yeah, so you can find me on most major social media platforms,

01:27:24.241 --> 01:27:28.481
but I'm most active on Blue Sky and I cross post on X. So if you're still on

01:27:28.481 --> 01:27:30.181
X, you can find me. I'm on TikTok as well.

01:27:30.281 --> 01:27:34.181
You just search Mike Nellis, N-E-L-L-I-S. I'm super easy to find. I'm also on LinkedIn.

01:27:34.501 --> 01:27:37.441
I post a lot on LinkedIn, usually longer form thoughts on LinkedIn.

01:27:37.561 --> 01:27:40.741
If you are interested in working with me, if you're a congressional candidate

01:27:40.741 --> 01:27:43.841
out there, I tend to work with federal or statewide candidates more than anybody,

01:27:43.981 --> 01:27:44.961
but I'll talk to anybody.

01:27:45.281 --> 01:27:48.861
My website is Authentic.org. You can just find me. I'm super, super easy to find.

01:27:49.441 --> 01:27:53.101
Well, Mike Nellis, it's been an honor and a privilege to talk to you, my man.

01:27:53.501 --> 01:27:56.821
Good luck on the political side. Good luck on the parenting side.

01:27:57.021 --> 01:28:00.781
And you have an open invitation to come back anytime you want to,

01:28:00.901 --> 01:28:03.701
my friend. Thank you so much for this. Thank you, Eric. This was great.

01:28:04.421 --> 01:28:06.281
All right, guys. And we're going to catch y'all on the other side.

01:28:07.440 --> 01:28:17.360
Music.

01:28:17.985 --> 01:28:30.205
All right. And we are back. So I want to thank Mark Talley and Mike Nellis for being on the show.

01:28:31.245 --> 01:28:37.185
I greatly appreciate them taking the time out of their schedules to come on.

01:28:37.385 --> 01:28:47.685
And I'm looking forward to watching them continue to ascend and continue to

01:28:47.685 --> 01:28:56.825
triumph and continue to be true American success stories in their own right.

01:28:58.905 --> 01:29:07.245
And again, you know, this vehicle gives me an opportunity to meet some really, really cool people.

01:29:08.865 --> 01:29:13.565
And even if I just admired them from afar, to reach out to them,

01:29:13.765 --> 01:29:20.905
to have the conversations with them on and off the air is really, really special.

01:29:21.385 --> 01:29:24.825
And it's a blessing to me to get to know them.

01:29:26.125 --> 01:29:30.165
And I always tell people that this podcast is therapy for me,

01:29:31.045 --> 01:29:37.105
not just in the fact that it allows me to vent and allows me to express myself,

01:29:37.865 --> 01:29:40.625
but it gives me hope, right?

01:29:41.445 --> 01:29:43.445
Because as you meet people.

01:29:45.510 --> 01:29:52.030
You know, and you get to know people and know what they're doing and the stories behind it.

01:29:52.930 --> 01:29:57.130
It just gives me hope that we're going to be okay despite the foolishness that

01:29:57.130 --> 01:30:00.750
we're watching, right, that we're being engaged in.

01:30:01.390 --> 01:30:05.990
So, you know, I just wanted to say that.

01:30:07.830 --> 01:30:13.090
But before I go, I do want people to understand that this is foolishness that

01:30:13.090 --> 01:30:14.750
we are dealing with, right?

01:30:16.210 --> 01:30:22.070
You know, but the amazing thing is, is that the majority of us are going to

01:30:22.070 --> 01:30:25.770
live our lives and try to live them the best way possible.

01:30:26.430 --> 01:30:32.030
And usually when government is doing good, it means that they're not trying

01:30:32.030 --> 01:30:34.950
to do anything to mess that up. Right.

01:30:35.910 --> 01:30:39.850
Yeah, there's going to be debates about which direction the country should go

01:30:39.850 --> 01:30:44.530
and what policies we should embrace and all that stuff. And we're supposed to

01:30:44.530 --> 01:30:46.570
be engaged enough to understand what's happening.

01:30:46.990 --> 01:30:52.550
But we don't want government to totally alter our lives, right?

01:30:53.270 --> 01:30:59.710
We want to be able to go to a movie, smoke a cigar, have a drink,

01:31:00.170 --> 01:31:06.370
go on a date, go to dinner, go to an amusement park, go to a national park.

01:31:06.690 --> 01:31:08.170
Just do whatever you want to do.

01:31:09.770 --> 01:31:16.770
And, you know, we shouldn't have to worry about, is this going to exist?

01:31:17.130 --> 01:31:19.170
Am I going to be able to afford it?

01:31:20.990 --> 01:31:29.310
Will I be allowed to read certain books or watch certain movies or listen to certain music?

01:31:30.230 --> 01:31:34.670
When government is doing the right thing, especially the U.S.

01:31:34.810 --> 01:31:38.530
Government, we tend to not have those kind of questions.

01:31:39.530 --> 01:31:42.350
Sometimes we do it in spite of that.

01:31:43.809 --> 01:31:49.049
As we're in Black History Month, I'm just, and I may have said this last episode,

01:31:49.349 --> 01:31:54.709
I'm just reminded of how we found our way around governments,

01:31:55.649 --> 01:31:58.409
state governments trying to oppress us, right?

01:31:58.629 --> 01:32:02.209
And even a federal government to an extent, a big extent.

01:32:02.429 --> 01:32:06.949
But we found our way around that, right?

01:32:06.949 --> 01:32:11.189
And then we were able to fix government

01:32:11.189 --> 01:32:19.689
enough where some of those restrictions were wiped away and we could have more

01:32:19.689 --> 01:32:28.929
fun and we could have more joy and we could live fuller lives with greater opportunities. Right.

01:32:29.449 --> 01:32:36.469
And it opened the door for other groups in this country to enjoy those same benefits.

01:32:38.569 --> 01:32:45.589
But there are people who don't want that for everybody.

01:32:45.589 --> 01:32:51.169
They just want it for a select few and they will tear everything down rather

01:32:51.169 --> 01:32:56.969
than accept the fact that everybody's entitled to the same rights they have.

01:32:57.469 --> 01:33:01.629
And I'm listening to people who are being laid off for their jobs.

01:33:01.629 --> 01:33:08.489
And, you know, it's like, it's almost like there's a disconnect between what

01:33:08.489 --> 01:33:16.829
folks are trying to do with their agenda and their reality show mentality and

01:33:16.829 --> 01:33:18.509
the real impact that it's having.

01:33:18.869 --> 01:33:26.569
Right? Because when you tell nearly 7,000 IRS employees you don't have a job anymore.

01:33:28.849 --> 01:33:33.389
Well, that's nearly 7,000 people that, one, have to find another job.

01:33:33.549 --> 01:33:37.449
Two, they've got to figure out a way to pay bills until they find a job.

01:33:37.609 --> 01:33:40.829
I mean, just all sorts of stuff, right?

01:33:41.829 --> 01:33:50.969
And the one thing that these folks playing this game with Doge or Doggie or

01:33:50.969 --> 01:33:52.589
however you're supposed to pronounce it,

01:33:53.769 --> 01:33:58.949
you're creating an incredible burden on all of these states.

01:34:00.400 --> 01:34:08.360
What do you mean, Eric? An incredible burden. So if you have ever had the misfortune

01:34:08.360 --> 01:34:11.700
of being laid off of a job, right.

01:34:13.400 --> 01:34:20.080
You go to your state unemployment office and try to get some money to carry

01:34:20.080 --> 01:34:22.200
you over until you get another job.

01:34:22.360 --> 01:34:26.960
Now, most of those agencies want you to be applying for jobs while you're getting the money.

01:34:28.620 --> 01:34:35.440
And it's only for time certain, but it's designed, that's what the unemployment

01:34:35.440 --> 01:34:41.640
insurance is there for, that your company pays into, your former company in the case.

01:34:42.140 --> 01:34:47.800
They pay into that to make sure that, you know, you've got money to take care

01:34:47.800 --> 01:34:54.500
of what you need, food, shelter, utilities, transportation.

01:34:55.300 --> 01:34:58.340
So until you get another job, right?

01:34:59.440 --> 01:35:06.460
So, you know, and if you're terminated, you usually don't qualify for unemployment, right?

01:35:07.860 --> 01:35:17.320
Well, in this case, in probably all of the states, people that are being laid

01:35:17.320 --> 01:35:20.740
off of the federal government are going to qualify for unemployment.

01:35:21.440 --> 01:35:28.220
So now the money that you say that you or you think that you're saving, right,

01:35:28.920 --> 01:35:34.660
by letting these people go, if these folks reach out for unemployment,

01:35:35.080 --> 01:35:37.640
that money is going to be spent again.

01:35:38.260 --> 01:35:40.180
But instead of that money being

01:35:40.180 --> 01:35:43.660
directly paid to them, it has to go to the states where they live in.

01:35:43.840 --> 01:35:49.360
And then that state's going to have to compensate them until they can find another

01:35:49.360 --> 01:35:53.800
job or until their time of getting benefits runs up.

01:35:54.700 --> 01:35:59.260
Right. That could be one month, two months and three months.

01:35:59.380 --> 01:36:04.460
All depends on how the state operates or somewhere in between that time period. Right.

01:36:06.280 --> 01:36:12.240
So now instead of it just being a federal payroll, now it's like each state

01:36:12.240 --> 01:36:19.260
is going to have to cover that until the federal government reimburses them. Right.

01:36:19.980 --> 01:36:23.600
Because federal employees qualify for unemployment if they are laid off.

01:36:24.904 --> 01:36:32.684
Are. So, you know, nobody's talking about that, right?

01:36:33.824 --> 01:36:40.804
You know, so that's just, again, that's why there's a process in how we do things.

01:36:41.784 --> 01:36:51.984
And, you know, I just look at Elon Musk and Donald Trump is like those guys, you know,

01:36:52.364 --> 01:37:00.704
where, you know, you're growing up a black person and it seems like I've mentioned

01:37:00.704 --> 01:37:04.064
this before, but I'm putting it in a different context now.

01:37:04.244 --> 01:37:06.844
So it's like, you know, those black kids that grow up and you say,

01:37:07.084 --> 01:37:12.024
man, if I was if I was back in the day of slavery, I wouldn't have been a slave.

01:37:12.024 --> 01:37:16.184
I would have done, you know, this or that or whatever, you know,

01:37:16.304 --> 01:37:23.224
or I wish I was grown and then I would do this, that and all that.

01:37:23.344 --> 01:37:27.244
You know, I wouldn't treat my kids where my parents treat me.

01:37:27.604 --> 01:37:36.304
You know, everybody has their fantasy of being in a spot and doing something different.

01:37:39.004 --> 01:37:46.184
So these guys, especially Elon, it's like, if I had my hands on that federal

01:37:46.184 --> 01:37:52.744
budget, I would just, you know, we just got too big of a government.

01:37:52.844 --> 01:37:55.984
We'll just cut all these jobs. Just get rid of all these people.

01:37:56.404 --> 01:38:00.664
Just fire them like I would do at X or at Tesla or whatever. Right?

01:38:01.499 --> 01:38:04.659
Okay. But there's a budget, right?

01:38:05.359 --> 01:38:12.499
If for some reason you budgeted the money, then that means that the money is there.

01:38:12.659 --> 01:38:16.939
And you kind of heard me fumble through that with my interview with Mr.

01:38:16.979 --> 01:38:24.359
Nellis, but I'm like, you got the money to let these people finish out that

01:38:24.359 --> 01:38:28.559
year. And then And if you don't think you're going to have the revenue the next

01:38:28.559 --> 01:38:31.839
year, then you make the cut.

01:38:32.459 --> 01:38:38.979
But that will give people time to know, hey, you know, I'm possibly going to be laid off.

01:38:39.719 --> 01:38:42.319
You know, or terminated.

01:38:43.419 --> 01:38:46.499
So I got time to look for stuff. Right.

01:38:47.459 --> 01:38:55.679
But to just show up one day and then have your polo shirt security guards with

01:38:55.679 --> 01:38:57.919
the band-aid, the flower band-aids on their neck,

01:38:58.199 --> 01:39:05.599
telling folks they can't come in because we're doing some maintenance work or

01:39:05.599 --> 01:39:07.039
whatever you call yourself doing.

01:39:08.139 --> 01:39:14.539
And then summarily just firing people without even having a concept of what these people do.

01:39:15.059 --> 01:39:20.459
Right? You can even walk through and just see all of the departments,

01:39:21.339 --> 01:39:25.959
physically look at these people and see, well, what do they do and why do we

01:39:25.959 --> 01:39:29.299
need this and all that stuff, then come back.

01:39:30.659 --> 01:39:36.279
Because the way it was sold, again, was that there was going to be a review

01:39:36.279 --> 01:39:40.539
by this Department of Government Efficiency.

01:39:41.279 --> 01:39:48.779
And then on the 4th of July in 2026, they were going to make a report with recommendations.

01:39:48.979 --> 01:39:52.359
This is where we need to cut the government. Right.

01:39:53.039 --> 01:39:56.199
That was what was sold to the American people.

01:39:57.656 --> 01:40:02.836
There was nothing in the conversation about Elon Musk grabbing 25 people from

01:40:02.836 --> 01:40:07.636
his different companies, I guess his all-star team or wherever it is,

01:40:07.856 --> 01:40:14.876
and basically walking in offices, asking for access to computers, and kicking people out.

01:40:15.696 --> 01:40:21.756
Nothing in that conversation at all. That was not what was conveyed to the voters.

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So, you know, but that's okay.

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In a sense, because it proves what always happens with folks with this mindset,

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that they overplay their hand.

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They always overplay their hand. Always.

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Because that lust for power, that lust for supremacy, that lust for total domination

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and control wipes out all reason.

01:40:56.276 --> 01:40:59.516
Wipes out all logic. Wipes out all discipline.

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And they overplay their hand. And the American people reward them by booting them out. It's a reboot.

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Every time they get to that point, the American electorate hits reset.

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And they're not the party in control anymore.

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They haven't learned their lesson yet. And I don't think they ever will.

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Maybe generations down the road,

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but when you have a certain mindset like that, you just act that way.

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And we try to tell people, don't ever give them the chance, no matter how slick

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they repackage themselves.

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Don't ever give them the chance to come back. But yet we do.

01:41:44.732 --> 01:41:47.672
And then we have to hit reset. Right.

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So, you know, I hope that you all pay attention to what's going on,

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even if it doesn't impact you directly.

01:41:59.812 --> 01:42:03.552
I want you to pay attention and I want you to act accordingly.

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I want you to get involved.

01:42:06.892 --> 01:42:10.972
I want you to engage with these elected officials like people are doing at these

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town hall meetings that congressmen, some congressmen and congresswomen are bravely having.

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And let people know. Elon Musk was not on the ballot.

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But you were. And we voted for you. So we need you to do your job.

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We need you to tell the president.

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Put Elon back in his leash. He's had his fun. We greatly appreciate his participation,

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but now it's time to govern.

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When it comes to the budget, comes the money, we, the U.S. Congress, that's our job.

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We appreciate any suggestions he might want to make, but we're not taking any action.

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Now, if we ask the president, hey, we need you to lay off these people because

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we don't have the money to keep the budget that you've asked for.

01:43:04.232 --> 01:43:11.312
We expect you to act that way but if we budgeted the money then not unless those

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people did something egregious,

01:43:14.490 --> 01:43:18.610
And you shouldn't be firing them because we've got the money to pay them.

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That's how that's supposed to work. Right. But, you know, I want y'all to pay

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attention to all that. And I want you to be engaged.

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I want y'all to demand that your Congress person does their job.

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Doesn't matter if they're Democrat, Republican, Independent.

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Independent, remind them.

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Because there's some that's like, well, I don't know how I can do, bro.

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You're in one of those 535 seats, 435 on the House side, 100 on the Senate side.

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You have a direct line to the president of the United States,

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regardless of what party you're in.

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And you can ask a president to stop.

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Just stop this. I need you to focus.

01:44:06.710 --> 01:44:12.670
Don't let this guy play you. I need you to focus. Right? It's real simple.

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But the people who hired all these 535 folks, y'all need to remind them that

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they need to do their job.

01:44:20.850 --> 01:44:25.970
If the United States Congress says, Mr. President, you need to stop, he's going to stop.

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Because even if the Supreme Court says he has quote-unquote immunity.

01:44:33.190 --> 01:44:38.130
They're not encouraging him to break the law, right?

01:44:39.090 --> 01:44:42.710
You might have given him temptation, but you didn't encourage him.

01:44:43.570 --> 01:44:48.030
And I promise you, if the U.S. Congress in unison says stop that,

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he's going to have to stop it because then there's other steps that take place if he doesn't, right?

01:44:56.290 --> 01:45:00.150
We're lacking a lot of courage. I've stated that before.

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We're lacking a lot of American leaders. I've stated that before.

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So now is the time for us to do what we need to do.

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If you are a citizen of the United States of America, you have power, period.

01:45:16.690 --> 01:45:23.190
You have rights, you have a voice. And when time comes for an election, you have a vote.

01:45:24.030 --> 01:45:27.950
So I'm just asking y'all to get more engaged.

01:45:28.570 --> 01:45:34.290
Don't wait till somebody calls you in a poll and asks you how you feel about it. Pick up a phone.

01:45:35.610 --> 01:45:39.750
You got your phone with you all the time. Just call your congressperson.

01:45:40.230 --> 01:45:45.710
Take five minutes out your day and just let them know, hey, I need you to do your job.

01:45:48.386 --> 01:45:56.046
And I promise you, if the overwhelming majority of Americans do that,

01:45:56.346 --> 01:46:02.686
then all of this, the madness will stop and folks will start focusing.

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Because see, here's what's really getting ready to happen.

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We're going to have all this chaos, all this mess, and the government will probably

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be shut down by March the 14th.

01:46:16.526 --> 01:46:22.806
March the 14th it's right around the corner so now we got this chaos going on

01:46:22.806 --> 01:46:26.146
people leaving and the government might just actually shut down because they're

01:46:26.146 --> 01:46:27.726
not going to be able to reach an agreement,

01:46:29.926 --> 01:46:35.106
and the political party is going to posture the Democrats are going to say we're

01:46:35.106 --> 01:46:39.926
not supporting anything else till y'all stop this foolishness the Republicans

01:46:39.926 --> 01:46:42.026
are going to be like well we got to do this,

01:46:43.286 --> 01:46:46.206
you know because our fearless leaders said do it.

01:46:46.746 --> 01:46:51.746
And then on March 15th, the Ides of March, the government of the United States

01:46:51.746 --> 01:46:52.806
of America would be shut down.

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That's why you need courageous folks. That's why you need real leaders, real American leaders.

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This is why. Because we shouldn't be in that kind of a crisis.

01:47:07.446 --> 01:47:10.486
A crisis should be 9-11, right?

01:47:11.186 --> 01:47:14.106
Pearl Harbor. Those are crisis moments.

01:47:15.206 --> 01:47:21.106
Not this. All this is is people with a lack of commitment and a lack of courage.

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They need to find it so our government can function. That's all.

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You know, just stand up to the bully.

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You did it when you were in elementary school. You did it when you were in high

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school. You've grown now. Stand up to the bully. Shut it down.

01:47:39.706 --> 01:47:41.326
So the government won't shut down.

01:47:42.366 --> 01:47:46.346
Shut the bully down so the government won't shut down, right?

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That's all I got, y'all. I appreciate y'all tuning in.

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Continue to support the podcast through Patreon. You can give donations directly

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Listen to all the other shows on the MBG Podcast Network.

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And as always, thank you for listening. Until next time.

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Mark Talley is an accomplished individual who has made significant contributions to society. After experiencing a personal tragedy with the loss of his mother in a racist domestic terrorist attack, he channeled his grief into positive action. He founded a highly successful socioeconomic nonprofit Agents for Advocacy aimed at addressing the systemic inequalities faced by marginalized communities & authored the book “5/14-The day the devil came to Buffalo”. Through his nonprofit, he has implemented various initiatives to uplift and empower individuals, fostering positive change on a large scale. In addition to their impactful work, they also authored a book that sheds light on their personal journey and serves as a source of inspiration to others. Through his resilience, determination, and commitment to social justice, Mark Talley continues to make a lasting impact in the fight against injustice and inequality.