Aug. 2, 2026

Breaking Barriers & Unpacking Privilege Featuring Eileen Isola and Ryan Virden

Breaking Barriers & Unpacking Privilege Featuring Eileen Isola and Ryan Virden
Breaking Barriers & Unpacking Privilege Featuring Eileen Isola and Ryan Virden
A Moment with Erik Fleming
Breaking Barriers & Unpacking Privilege Featuring Eileen Isola and Ryan Virden

In this episode, Eileen Isola discusses her book that covers the fifty year history of women attending the US Air Force Academy and Ryan Virden touts his book which explains why white privilege needs to be done away with.

Hosts Erik Fleming interviews Lieutenant Colonel Eileen Isola about her book "Necessary Turbulence," which compiles fifty years of women's experiences at the U.S. Air Force Academy, and Ryan Virden about "Breaking the Privilege Frame," his call for white Americans to join racial justice work as a path to mutual healing and systemic change.

The episode explores military service, gender and racial barriers, the impact of wars and policy on institutions, and how storytelling and collective action can build a more just, connected America.

00:06 - Opening Notes and Necessary Turbulence

01:08:57 - Book Born From Uprisings

01:12:32 - Rethinking White Privilege

01:16:37 - Hip-Hop’s Activist Roots

01:17:43 - Whitewashed History Matters

01:20:40 - Passing as White

01:21:45 - Weight and Whiteness

01:24:59 - Whiteness in Elections

01:28:09 - White Anti-Racist Allies

01:29:34 - Beyond Saviorism

01:34:50 - The Weight of White Fatigue

01:37:27 - Standing on Business

01:38:26 - Hope for Harmony

01:40:19 - Where to Find the Book

01:44:27 - A Tribute to Service

01:49:13 - Whiteness and Corruption

01:55:25 - War, Power, and Money

02:00:28 - Fighting for a Cause

02:04:50 - Rebuilding the Nation

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Hello, and welcome to Another Moment with Erik Fleming. I am your host, Erik Fleming.

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And so today, I have two guests who have written books. One is Eileen Isola.

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And Eileen is a former lieutenant colonel with the U.S. Air Force.

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And she has written this book about the history of women in the U.S.

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Air Force that went through the U.S. Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs.

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Very, very moving and compelling history,

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which uses the actual testimonies from people who went through the Academy from

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the very beginning all the way to this last class in 2026.

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So we're going to be talking to her, and then we're going to be talking to this

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young man named Ryan Virden, who has written this book called Breaking the Privilege Frame,

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in which he discusses how we can end the mindset of white privilege in the United States of America.

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All right, so now that we've got the formalities out the way,

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it's time to kick this program off.

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And as always, we kick it off with a moment of news with Grace G.

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Thanks, Erik. A Mississippi grand jury will review the death of black teenager

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Nolan Wells, keeping evidence temporarily sealed to protect the integrity of

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the routine investigation.

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A Georgia teenager received a life sentence for a fatal 2024 school shooting,

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and his father was sentenced to 15 years in prison for providing the weapon.

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A Democratic National Committee panel voted to keep South Carolina as the first

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presidential primary state for 2028, prioritizing its crucial black voter base

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over Nevada's push for the spot.

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A federal appeals court upheld an injunction blocking the Trump administration

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from implementing an executive order designed to tighten mail-in voting rules

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in 23 states ahead of the November elections.

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Elon Musk's America PAC plans to spend up to $120 million on voter turnout efforts

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to help Republicans retain control of Congress in the upcoming November elections.

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Former infectious disease expert Anthony Fauci invoked his Fifth Amendment rights

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to avoid answering questions at a Senate hearing, prompting Senator Rand Paul

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to schedule a contempt vote.

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Hadi Mattar, already serving 25 years for stabbing author Salman Rushdie in

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2022, was found guilty of federal terrorism charges and faces a potential life sentence.

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The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services announced the termination of

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a subsidy program for Medicare prescription drug plans after 2026,

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stating insurers can now accurately price plans without federal support.

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The CDC has recorded 6,707 confirmed cases of cyclosporiasis since May 1,

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with over 11,500 suspected cases pending investigation.

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And the CDC also reported 2,318 U.S. measles cases this year,

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the highest annual total in 35 years due to declining vaccination rates.

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I am Grace Gee, and this has been a Moment of News.

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All right. Thank you, Grace, for that moment of news. And now it is time for

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my guest, Eileen Isola.

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Eileen Isola is the lead editor for Necessary Turbulence, 50 Years,

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One Unbreakable Sisterhood Forged in the Crucible of the Air Force Academy.

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Former U.S. Air Force commander and decorated combat pilot who now flies internationally,

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She was the first woman to serve as an advanced agent to the President of the United States,

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flew high-performance jets, trained combat pilots, invaded other countries,

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airlifted humanitarian relief, resupplied Amazon jungle radar sites,

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commanded an Air Force squadron, and crumbled barriers for women who wanted to serve their country.

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A graduate of the United States Air Force Academy, she has spoken at universities,

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professional women's aviation events, and to business and community organizations.

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It has been featured on the front page of the New York Times.

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When out at 40,000 feet in her front row seat to the universe,

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she makes her home in Virginia.

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Ladies and gentlemen, it is my distinct honor and privilege to have as a guest,

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on this podcast, Eileen Isola.

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All right. Eileen Isola, Lieutenant Colonel Eileen Isola. How are you doing?

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Very well, Erik. Thanks for having me today.

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Well, I'm honored to have you on. Like I just, my last episode,

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I had an airman from the Air Force on.

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And what I told her, I'm going to tell you, is that I have a very special place

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in my heart for those who actually serve in the military.

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The only other people I hold in higher regard are social workers.

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So I tell people that if you're a veteran and a social worker, it's like.

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I've hit the ultimate guess, right, as far as who I do. And then teachers,

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of course, too. But yeah, but I really commend you for that.

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And especially with this book that you have written, Necessary Turbulence,

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which talks about, you know, through some collective stories,

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the history of women being in Air Force and especially going through the Air

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Force Academy in Colorado Springs. things.

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So I'm really, really honored to talk to you personally and to talk to you about this book.

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So what I normally do, and that's the old moderator in me, I do a couple of

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icebreakers to get things started.

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So the first icebreaker is a quote that I want you to respond to.

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And the quote is, you do what you can for as long as you can.

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And when you finally can't, you do the next best thing. You back up, but you don't give up.

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Yeah, you found a great one amongst all the entirety of this incredible story in this book.

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That is a great summary quote that perfectly describes,

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What we refer to as the collective we, all of these, this incredible,

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extraordinary group of women that almost no one has ever heard of and yet changed

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our society and our country and,

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made our military that much more combat capable.

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And that is that that quote speaks to their persistence, their determination,

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their resilience, and they, as a group, the constantly, individually and as

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a group, constantly having to,

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calibrate and navigate,

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and find their way,

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and to achieve and to lead in inside systems and spaces that never imagined them.

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Women being there were not designed for women and and yet had to do all of that

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typically without a template or any precedence and do it with little to no margin for error and,

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that's that particular quote exquisitely describes our collective and individual

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mindsets that you just keep going Yeah.

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Yeah, that was from when I was growing up. He was considered a superhero, Chuck Yeager. Yeah.

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I said, yeah, that sounds like Mr. Yeager. All right. So the next iceberg is

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what I call 20 questions.

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So I need you to give me a number between 1 and 20.

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18. All right. What is one thing we might all agree is important no matter our differences?

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Well, there's any number of things I can respond to for that.

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The one thing that we can all agree is that the absence of stories like this

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one from our collective American narrative and chronicle,

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mean that we as a society lack the full picture of what our American story,

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our history consists of.

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And when groups, entire groups of people are missing from the record,

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our understanding becomes incomplete.

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And when a society is missing pieces of itself, our next generations don't see what's possible.

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And then they're left.

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They don't even know that they absolutely can go through any door they want.

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They can be or do absolutely anything they want to do or be and navigate through

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any door they want, including the doors they didn't even know were there.

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And it's the absence of stories from groups, like are told through this story,

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that leaves, and this is my personal, something that's important to me,

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that it leaves our next generation and subsequent generations never knowing,

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what's possible for themselves and for our society and our country.

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And I think we can absolutely all agree on that. Yeah.

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All right. So before we get into the book, Necessary Turbulence,

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I need to pick your brain on a couple of issues.

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Okay. So the very first agency, the Department of Government Efficiency,

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or DOGE, cut was the Federal Aviation Authority.

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Right after that, we had the terrible helicopter plane collision at Reagan National.

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So I have two questions. As a commercial pilot, why is the FAA important? Yeah.

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The FAA is the single organization for this country that handles everything to do with aviation.

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It is an entirely different, unlike any other industry, and there are many industries

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that could say the same, respectively.

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But there is nothing else, no body anywhere,

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that defines all the rules for operating safely at every possible dimension

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of what it takes to navigate, to fly any aircraft of any kind.

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Big, small, helicopter, airplane, hot air balloon, you name it.

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There is no other organization that handles that.

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Including the air traffic controllers, including maintenance standards,

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every single aspect, and there's not enough time for me to attempt to laundry list out,

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all the dimensions inside this one industry that we term aviation.

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It is the sole organization that defines, manages, executes,

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holds the standards, and holds people and organizations accountable to those standards.

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And I'll just quickly, you talked about, you mentioned the Reagan accident.

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I will just say that for your listeners,

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that accident in and of itself, and I'm speaking now personally as a commercial

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pilot, I am not speaking as the FAA or any other organization,

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that accident did not happen solely because of a decision that was made within

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a short period of time, whether it was budgetary or staffing or whatever.

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There are a number of issues within the entirety of the air traffic control

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system, meaning airports, towers, airplanes, helicopters, hot air balloons, blimps, you name it,

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that have been compounding for several years.

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And in that particular little chunk of airspace right there in Washington, D.C.,

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anybody who's taken the time to actually go read the report out of the National

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Transportation Safety Board will quickly come away understanding that,

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that that was an almost doomed to happen event that had to do with a whole host

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of compounding decisions over time.

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Well, Eileen, if I had a bingo card, I would have won because I said,

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you know, sometimes when I ask people questions, I kind of anticipate what they're going to say.

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And sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised, sometimes I'm just surprised.

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But I knew that you were going to be very professional in giving that and giving

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a complete picture about what happened.

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That it not necessarily was a direct correlation, but the timing image-wise

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and me being a political person. Absolutely. It was very, very mad.

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And all pilots that have flown by in and out of Reagan, me included,

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we have all said, and there are other places around the country we have the same concerns for.

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That the changes, the things that have been allowed to pile up and wave people

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have been allowed, airplanes, whatever decisions made to pile up that led to that accident,

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are similar to other places around the country that we pilots have been raising

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the stink about for a very long time.

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And it's a horrible tragedy to have a way to get the organizations,

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the government's attention to frickin' make the changes that should have been made a long time ago.

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Yeah. So that leads me to the next question.

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What is the difference between military piloting and commercial piloting,

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especially when it comes to communications?

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Because that was kind of just the report that it was a communications failure,

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as folks didn't know where other people were at the time.

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So inside, within the, I'll say domestic airspace, you know,

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around, right around the country, we're not at war here inside the U.S.

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We're not doing combat operations, all that kind of stuff.

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Everybody flies by the same rules.

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And in that particular incident, for example, the military, though, is allowed

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to operate and do things differently in order to train like how we're going

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to actually operate in a combat or a high stress environment,

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I mean, even if it's not combat, it could be some humanitarian relief operation

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that nonetheless is very complicated.

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I flew in one of those, and it was very challenging.

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Nobody was shooting at each other, but it still made for an extremely complicated

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airspace and an extremely complicated operation.

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So we train inside the U.S. in a whole host of ways and in different areas for

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how we're going to actually operate when we are deployed or some other circumstance.

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Or even inside the U.S. You know, long ago, 20 plus years ago,

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Hurricane Katrina, that was extremely complicated aviation operation that went

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on there with everything that went on with Katrina.

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So now in that particular incident, there were some differences.

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So for example, nobody in the airline world, you know, flying airliners and

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stuff, they don't fly around with night vision goggles on.

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We in the military fly around with night vision goggles on as part of our routine

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training, even when that routine training seems to be something as benign as flying,

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up and down a particular route around a major city or something like that,

00:20:01.340 --> 00:20:06.461
like not in some protected training chunk of airspace away from,

00:20:06.926 --> 00:20:10.084
you know, commercial pilots or commercial aircraft and that kind of thing.

00:20:10.735 --> 00:20:15.290
So we do do that. And we are allowed to do that as part of the routine way that

00:20:15.290 --> 00:20:22.320
we have to, as military pilots, have to learn to be able to operate routinely, comfortably, safely.

00:20:22.727 --> 00:20:26.760
The first time you want a military pilot putting on night vision goggles and

00:20:26.760 --> 00:20:31.840
going out to operate is not when they're in some foreign country in an airspace

00:20:31.840 --> 00:20:35.474
they don't know, with languages that they don't know, with,

00:20:36.014 --> 00:20:39.180
air traffic controllers who speak English, but with very thick accents,

00:20:39.180 --> 00:20:42.450
perhaps, trying to figure out what's happening, what's going on.

00:20:42.932 --> 00:20:50.873
That all happens here inside the U.S. But in general, we absolutely all fly by all the same rules for.

00:20:51.810 --> 00:20:56.870
Speeds and altitudes and keeping track of each other and knowing where other

00:20:56.870 --> 00:21:00.757
aircraft are and those kind of things. Okay.

00:21:02.005 --> 00:21:04.682
What was your motivation for writing this book?

00:21:06.180 --> 00:21:09.028
You know, if you, the answer I give you today is different than the answer I

00:21:09.028 --> 00:21:11.672
would have given you three and a half years ago when we started.

00:21:12.026 --> 00:21:17.928
Three and a half years ago, it was because a group of women realized that 2026 would be

00:21:18.348 --> 00:21:23.768
the year marking 50 years since the doors of the Air Force Academy and the other

00:21:23.768 --> 00:21:27.409
military service academies, but the doors of the Air Force Academy opened to women.

00:21:27.885 --> 00:21:31.251
So the thought came out, you know, hey, we should write a book.

00:21:31.907 --> 00:21:36.748
Now, the answer that I give you now is that in retrospective,

00:21:37.188 --> 00:21:40.568
we knew that there was more than 12,000 women who would enter the Air Force

00:21:40.568 --> 00:21:45.150
Academy over the 50 years from 1976 to 2026.

00:21:45.556 --> 00:21:49.114
And the voices in the group cover that entire 50-year period.

00:21:50.287 --> 00:21:55.828
And we had a deep conviction that somewhere within all of those lives was a

00:21:55.828 --> 00:21:59.938
larger story, a collective journey. The book is not about what it's like to

00:21:59.938 --> 00:22:04.729
be a cadet at the Air Force Academy or just focuses on the Air Force Academy.

00:22:05.020 --> 00:22:10.428
It's the entire 50 years of these women's lives through and with,

00:22:10.428 --> 00:22:12.192
told through and with their voices.

00:22:13.122 --> 00:22:16.899
And we knew there was some sort of a larger story in there, what we call the

00:22:16.899 --> 00:22:22.365
collective heroine's journey, and one that had never been fully seen or heard

00:22:22.580 --> 00:22:24.849
before. And I liken it very much.

00:22:25.609 --> 00:22:29.239
When I speak about the book, I talk all the time about it's like hidden figures.

00:22:29.726 --> 00:22:34.010
Like with hidden figures, like one of my all-time favorite books,

00:22:34.712 --> 00:22:40.757
it wasn't that suddenly we Americans discovered there had been a space race. We knew that.

00:22:41.065 --> 00:22:46.739
What we didn't know was that all of the different, the kinds of people and the

00:22:46.739 --> 00:22:51.889
work that was done that no one had ever heard about, and that it was this extraordinary

00:22:51.889 --> 00:22:54.242
group of women who ultimately,

00:22:54.811 --> 00:22:59.339
put human beings into space, onto the moon, into the International Space Station,

00:22:59.339 --> 00:23:02.859
and now out to the cosmos, headed for Mars someday.

00:23:02.859 --> 00:23:06.519
And it was that extraordinary group of women. And that's the parallel to this

00:23:06.519 --> 00:23:07.762
extraordinary group of women.

00:23:07.918 --> 00:23:10.246
And we knew that story. There was a story in there.

00:23:10.734 --> 00:23:16.029
And we just didn't know what it was. So we put out a call and asked women to

00:23:16.029 --> 00:23:19.662
tell us stories from the entirety of their lives.

00:23:20.266 --> 00:23:23.893
And we ended up with over a half a million words came back to us.

00:23:24.543 --> 00:23:29.129
And it was we went into those over half a million words and we found the story

00:23:29.129 --> 00:23:34.659
as i say that was demanding it be told that needed to be told for some of the

00:23:34.659 --> 00:23:35.916
reasons i already spoke about,

00:23:36.617 --> 00:23:42.214
for for our daughters our nieces our granddaughters and for people everywhere,

00:23:42.826 --> 00:23:48.764
not just women or little girls but people everywhere because it is such a universal story.

00:23:49.517 --> 00:23:56.622
And so we found that collective heroine's journey that unfolded across generations, across these 50 years.

00:23:56.889 --> 00:24:00.784
And with that, everything changed, and we were no longer just writing a book.

00:24:02.380 --> 00:24:09.315
We were shepherding a story into being birthed into the world.

00:24:10.725 --> 00:24:16.883
And making sure that we were faithfully revealing something that had always

00:24:16.883 --> 00:24:21.608
been there, but now needed to be come forward.

00:24:22.084 --> 00:24:26.322
And it was so important to us that we do it with and through these women's voices.

00:24:26.624 --> 00:24:32.693
We didn't just write a single story and make reference to other people,

00:24:32.693 --> 00:24:37.107
other women, that it was there. So think of it like an impressionist painting.

00:24:37.496 --> 00:24:40.480
You know, you're standing up close and you just see a bunch of colored dots.

00:24:40.782 --> 00:24:43.824
And when you step back away from that Impressionist painting,

00:24:44.474 --> 00:24:47.219
you see the painting. The painting was always there.

00:24:47.568 --> 00:24:52.853
But now when you step back, as we did, over 50 years, with over these half a

00:24:52.853 --> 00:24:58.769
million words from these 108 women, boom, it came into view.

00:24:59.698 --> 00:25:06.843
And then we knew we had this incredible responsibility that we weren't just writers or authors.

00:25:06.843 --> 00:25:12.053
We now were curators of something that,

00:25:13.223 --> 00:25:19.083
had always existed but had never come into our world and absolutely needed to,

00:25:19.083 --> 00:25:24.350
that it was this incredible, important part of American history and women's stories.

00:25:25.492 --> 00:25:30.985
For all of us, for all of us. So what is the significance of the title?

00:25:32.563 --> 00:25:35.448
So like many books, probably most, I would say,

00:25:36.293 --> 00:25:41.215
it named itself far, long, far into, somewhere around three years into the three

00:25:41.215 --> 00:25:45.767
and a half year total journey that we, there was a writing team of nine of us

00:25:46.190 --> 00:25:51.055
spread from Germany to the Pacific coast of the US who lived on Google Drive

00:25:51.055 --> 00:25:52.793
and Zoom for three and a half years.

00:25:53.718 --> 00:25:57.909
And it the story named itself because it speaks to,

00:25:58.727 --> 00:26:04.706
that individually these women who had to navigate and calibrate and shape shift

00:26:05.031 --> 00:26:10.300
and be four or five different versions of themselves all in a day usually all before nude,

00:26:11.201 --> 00:26:16.015
and they had to constantly all of the turbulence all of the challenges all of

00:26:16.015 --> 00:26:21.283
the obstacles all of the times they were told no or they told they didn't belong

00:26:21.539 --> 00:26:23.585
We're told they were lowering standards.

00:26:23.585 --> 00:26:28.778
We're told they couldn't do something for no other reason than because they were a woman.

00:26:29.213 --> 00:26:35.325
All of that turbulence, as we call it, ultimately it generated growth for each

00:26:35.325 --> 00:26:36.779
of these women individually.

00:26:37.336 --> 00:26:43.315
And they had to constantly work at defining and redefining and figuring out

00:26:43.315 --> 00:26:47.181
who they were as they navigated, not just in the military.

00:26:47.686 --> 00:26:51.185
There are women in the book who actually didn't graduate from the Air Force Academy.

00:26:51.853 --> 00:26:56.265
It's the totality of these women's lives Whether they didn't graduate They served

00:26:56.265 --> 00:27:00.043
five years They served 35 years It's the whole,

00:27:00.808 --> 00:27:06.175
human experience That we all go through And the growth that each of them had

00:27:06.175 --> 00:27:09.776
experienced The other aspect to the title is.

00:27:11.156 --> 00:27:16.834
It kind of dawned on us that what we're also talking about is this group of

00:27:16.834 --> 00:27:22.174
women over time, over 50 years, who just kept showing up, showing up to the

00:27:22.174 --> 00:27:24.594
Air Force Academy, showing up in their jobs,

00:27:25.334 --> 00:27:33.092
doing them excellently, and just determined persistently with great resilience to...

00:27:33.945 --> 00:27:39.457
Achieve and lead and make a difference in other people's lives and serve their

00:27:39.457 --> 00:27:44.210
oath to the constitution even long after they left uniform,

00:27:44.955 --> 00:27:50.406
and all of that by just showing up and that presence caused the institution

00:27:50.591 --> 00:27:55.601
the same things happened to the institution of the air force academy and the air force

00:27:56.007 --> 00:28:00.058
it caused the institution to have to look introspectively

00:28:00.499 --> 00:28:05.724
and to make decisions how it was going to change and grow and make itself better,

00:28:06.315 --> 00:28:10.361
so that our country could have the most combat-capable force that it could.

00:28:10.715 --> 00:28:15.528
So it speaks to both of those aspects, the individuals and the turbulence that caused growth,

00:28:16.178 --> 00:28:21.217
as individuals and as humans, and to the institution and how it had to change

00:28:21.217 --> 00:28:24.984
and adapt and grow as well because of the turbulence that we women,

00:28:25.286 --> 00:28:30.011
unwittingly perhaps, but nonetheless that we brought to the institutions.

00:28:30.717 --> 00:28:33.825
Yeah. And I appreciate that answer.

00:28:34.163 --> 00:28:38.133
One thing you said in the answer is something that I stress to people a lot

00:28:38.472 --> 00:28:44.257
is that, you know, whether you serve in the military, you serve in law enforcement,

00:28:44.257 --> 00:28:48.146
you elected to something, most of the time you have to swear an oath to the Constitution.

00:28:48.811 --> 00:28:52.377
And I remind people that just because

00:28:52.377 --> 00:28:56.687
you're no longer in that particular position, you did take that oath.

00:28:57.627 --> 00:29:03.807
So you still have an obligation even afterwards. So to hear that a lot of people,

00:29:04.587 --> 00:29:09.290
that you interview still hold that oath important, I think that's an important thing to highlight.

00:29:09.847 --> 00:29:13.947
That's absolutely inviolable. Yes, ma'am. So what was your biggest challenge

00:29:13.947 --> 00:29:17.847
in securing the interviews for the book? Was it getting the women to talk about

00:29:17.847 --> 00:29:22.752
the experiences or was it limiting the amount of interviews that conduct in place in that?

00:29:23.705 --> 00:29:28.987
Well, we put out a call for submissions, and so the majority of the submissions were written.

00:29:29.856 --> 00:29:32.834
We actually didn't have much of a challenge getting submissions.

00:29:33.593 --> 00:29:38.972
As we say in the introduction to the book, nobody had ever asked this group

00:29:38.972 --> 00:29:42.451
of women to talk about, to tell their stories. And we asked,

00:29:43.107 --> 00:29:44.762
and boy, did they respond.

00:29:45.342 --> 00:29:47.821
And so we had—we had—.

00:29:49.788 --> 00:29:55.508
Somewhere in the neighborhood of close to 200 submissions total between written

00:29:55.508 --> 00:30:01.078
and oral interviews that totaled up to this 560,000 words.

00:30:01.078 --> 00:30:08.260
And out of that, we went then and selected excerpts that,

00:30:09.148 --> 00:30:15.878
as we crafted the single narrative arc, the single story that told in a collective

00:30:15.878 --> 00:30:20.607
we voice where we speak, the story's told,

00:30:21.384 --> 00:30:25.825
and written about we, but in a single story that then,

00:30:27.123 --> 00:30:28.573
these women's voices then.

00:30:30.002 --> 00:30:31.138
Are like the punches.

00:30:31.138 --> 00:30:35.358
That make the points, that bring out the highlights, that are the themes,

00:30:35.358 --> 00:30:43.318
that curate and really shout the themes to the rafters of their lives and all

00:30:43.318 --> 00:30:45.480
of us then collectively as a group.

00:30:46.208 --> 00:30:50.498
So that there wasn't much of a challenge getting responses the challenge was,

00:30:51.009 --> 00:30:57.158
we were it was overwhelming the response and the the time it took to read and

00:30:57.158 --> 00:30:59.647
read and read and read and then,

00:31:00.366 --> 00:31:05.782
go find what it was what we were going to pull out and bring together,

00:31:06.847 --> 00:31:08.716
into this heroine's journey,

00:31:09.788 --> 00:31:14.488
of leaving our known world, entering the crucible, all of the challenges,

00:31:15.357 --> 00:31:21.348
in uniform, after uniform, whatever, and then the transformation as the final,

00:31:22.017 --> 00:31:25.790
section of the book is titled, The Becoming of What We All Become,

00:31:26.284 --> 00:31:29.868
whether it was from the first class 50 years ago or,

00:31:30.748 --> 00:31:34.308
our youngest contributor just graduated in the class of 2026,

00:31:34.308 --> 00:31:35.543
a little over two months ago.

00:31:36.741 --> 00:31:40.013
Yeah, that's cool. It's very cool.

00:31:40.651 --> 00:31:45.709
Dr. Catherine Landig said that, as a historian, I have long believed that the

00:31:45.709 --> 00:31:50.729
experiences of women serving in the military can reveal much about the United

00:31:50.729 --> 00:31:54.631
States at the time. Do you agree with that sentiment? Absolutely.

00:31:55.380 --> 00:32:02.309
Absolutely. Yes, she's a brilliant historian. We were very, very gifted to have

00:32:02.309 --> 00:32:08.189
her write the foreword to the book and bring her perspective to this as a historian

00:32:08.189 --> 00:32:09.840
and particularly one who focuses.

00:32:10.258 --> 00:32:15.681
She wrote the what's considered the book on the women air force service pilots from world war ii,

00:32:16.302 --> 00:32:21.749
and their their experience and this this is a continuation from you know that's

00:32:21.749 --> 00:32:23.355
another group of women that,

00:32:23.976 --> 00:32:28.669
very few people really know much of anything about just like we talked about

00:32:28.669 --> 00:32:31.778
hidden figures we talked you can talk about the women air force service pilots

00:32:32.103 --> 00:32:36.119
the suffragettes the mercury 13 the green belts.

00:32:37.199 --> 00:32:42.039
You know there's there's several of these groups through history whose and particularly

00:32:42.039 --> 00:32:49.865
groups of women whose stories have very little if at all come to literary or stage light and,

00:32:50.498 --> 00:32:57.098
this that's another really important factor behind why this we had to tell this story,

00:32:57.823 --> 00:33:03.192
because it's now part of it's part of our american record it's evidence as well,

00:33:03.668 --> 00:33:08.219
We don't have to speculate and have somebody's opinion about whether women did

00:33:08.219 --> 00:33:09.908
this or that or how well they did it.

00:33:10.610 --> 00:33:15.349
There's 50 years of evidence now collected into this single book and this single

00:33:15.349 --> 00:33:18.415
story. And that's really important for all of us.

00:33:19.554 --> 00:33:25.202
So in the book, you said most of us do not see barriers denying our goals.

00:33:25.979 --> 00:33:31.818
Most of us did not see barriers denying our goals, merely obstacles we tackled on our way to success.

00:33:32.485 --> 00:33:36.427
So my question is, which barrier challenged female cadets the most,

00:33:36.908 --> 00:33:40.217
the cultural misogyny or the beast itself?

00:33:41.559 --> 00:33:45.635
So by the BEAST, I'm assuming you're referring to, that's our slang word as

00:33:45.635 --> 00:33:49.583
cadets for basic cadet training, which is military basic training,

00:33:49.908 --> 00:33:52.799
just like anywhere else in any of the services.

00:33:54.161 --> 00:34:00.725
And so it's called basic cadet training. Like I said, the acronym reduces to

00:34:00.725 --> 00:34:02.415
our slang word. We call it BEAST.

00:34:02.706 --> 00:34:07.640
And it's a six-week basic training course that every cadet goes through.

00:34:07.878 --> 00:34:11.674
And women and men do all experience the exact same thing,

00:34:12.364 --> 00:34:15.575
to get all the same training run all the same assault forces crawl through the

00:34:15.575 --> 00:34:20.975
same mud and under the concertina wire etc etc etc run all the same miles get

00:34:20.975 --> 00:34:24.037
up at six o'clock in the morning all of that stuff.

00:34:25.298 --> 00:34:31.255
The harder i would submit that in in terms of the two options you gave me there

00:34:31.622 --> 00:34:35.766
the harder part was navigating and and surviving,

00:34:36.668 --> 00:34:41.995
the culture, particularly in the early decades, but it absolutely lingers on,

00:34:41.995 --> 00:34:47.765
which is mind-baffling to think that there's some 18-, 19-, 20-year-old guys,

00:34:48.065 --> 00:34:51.091
male cadets at the Academy, who still feel,

00:34:51.785 --> 00:34:58.765
from wherever it comes that they are able to walk up to a woman cadet and stick

00:34:58.765 --> 00:35:03.245
their finger in her face and tell her that she doesn't belong there and she

00:35:03.245 --> 00:35:06.045
belongs home in a kitchen making babies.

00:35:06.045 --> 00:35:08.341
All these things are still said.

00:35:09.066 --> 00:35:12.625
Now, there's a great story in the book from one of our contributors. Her name is Sheila.

00:35:12.874 --> 00:35:17.135
And she had that happen to her where a male cadet walked up to her and put his

00:35:17.135 --> 00:35:21.235
finger in her face and said, you belong home in a kitchen making babies.

00:35:21.235 --> 00:35:25.235
And she put her finger right back in his face and said, you better get used

00:35:25.235 --> 00:35:27.600
to working for women in the Air Force. Yeah.

00:35:29.718 --> 00:35:35.953
And uh you know we just but it was very difficult particularly women who had

00:35:36.203 --> 00:35:38.694
there was a whole spectrum of experiences some women,

00:35:39.315 --> 00:35:44.112
did not have the same none of us had the same experience as any single other

00:35:44.112 --> 00:35:47.228
woman of the 12 or 12 000 of us that have now attended,

00:35:48.168 --> 00:35:54.712
and those that had very rough experiences including women who were raped and

00:35:54.712 --> 00:35:59.526
and all of the other whether it's any form of Any form of ism,

00:35:59.701 --> 00:36:01.715
because all the isms are there,

00:36:02.545 --> 00:36:04.849
there are those that had it worse than others.

00:36:04.960 --> 00:36:08.506
And that's an objective fact.

00:36:09.474 --> 00:36:16.001
But all of us, I would say, collectively would say that navigating and surviving,

00:36:16.623 --> 00:36:20.982
and thriving for those that were able to thrive in that culture was far more

00:36:20.982 --> 00:36:25.604
difficult than Beast or any of the other physical or mental challenges.

00:36:25.906 --> 00:36:29.282
BEAST was a one-time, it's the very first thing you do right when you first

00:36:29.282 --> 00:36:31.508
in process, the very first summer there.

00:36:31.972 --> 00:36:36.117
And there's a multitude of those kind of challenges throughout the entirety of the four years.

00:36:36.962 --> 00:36:44.032
The survival training, the POW camp training, all of the different types of

00:36:44.032 --> 00:36:48.872
training that we go through, many of them can be very physically and mentally

00:36:48.872 --> 00:36:50.867
demanding, as they should be.

00:36:51.221 --> 00:36:55.656
We're training a future officer corps to lead our nation.

00:36:56.289 --> 00:37:03.148
So it should be very difficult. And everybody goes through it and performs it to the same standards.

00:37:04.674 --> 00:37:10.609
The emotional and mental aspects from the culture side of it was very difficult,

00:37:11.120 --> 00:37:17.844
and there are many women now through the journey of this book who we have heard

00:37:17.844 --> 00:37:22.841
back from and who are, for the first time, some of them were talking 40 years,

00:37:23.085 --> 00:37:25.505
for the first time are now healing from,

00:37:26.056 --> 00:37:29.072
the experiences that they had there 40 years ago.

00:37:29.860 --> 00:37:33.714
So based on the interviews conducted, would you assess that it was tougher on

00:37:33.714 --> 00:37:35.682
the early black female cadets?

00:37:37.090 --> 00:37:42.713
Eric, I'll tell you just honestly, I really hesitate to speak for our black

00:37:42.713 --> 00:37:45.467
women from any of the eras. I'm a white woman.

00:37:46.106 --> 00:37:51.893
There's no way that I can fully appreciate. I absolutely can speak the totality

00:37:51.893 --> 00:37:53.159
of the women's experience.

00:37:53.717 --> 00:38:00.103
There is no doubt from the stories we read that came in from the many black

00:38:00.103 --> 00:38:01.477
women that are in the book.

00:38:02.127 --> 00:38:08.363
There is no doubt that they i can't say every single one of them but but it

00:38:08.363 --> 00:38:12.513
would not surprise me if every single one of them had a much tougher time than

00:38:12.513 --> 00:38:14.832
their white women counterparts,

00:38:15.684 --> 00:38:23.053
and the earliest classes perhaps had it in terms of just the cultural realities from,

00:38:24.149 --> 00:38:28.963
the late 70s, early 80s into the 90s compared to today.

00:38:29.294 --> 00:38:34.286
I like to think it's better today. I can't give you an objective factual reading on that.

00:38:34.751 --> 00:38:38.343
I haven't done some sort of quantitative survey or something.

00:38:38.343 --> 00:38:42.059
I'm sure that data, those kind of surveys are out there and are done.

00:38:42.414 --> 00:38:46.877
They used to be done regularly, all the climate assessment surveys.

00:38:47.121 --> 00:38:51.753
They have not been being done for about the last two years, which doesn't really

00:38:51.753 --> 00:38:55.233
surprise any of us. But there is no doubt that.

00:38:57.914 --> 00:39:05.663
My Black women sisters had experiences that I could not possibly have a full

00:39:05.663 --> 00:39:10.533
appreciation and understanding for. And reading many of them that came in absolutely

00:39:10.533 --> 00:39:12.605
laid me out on the floor and had me sobbing.

00:39:13.723 --> 00:39:20.803
They just did. It probably was tougher for my Black women sisters in those early classes.

00:39:21.360 --> 00:39:24.712
But I wouldn't, I can't categorically state that. Yeah.

00:39:25.718 --> 00:39:30.106
So how did the Gulf War change the perception of women in the Air Force?

00:39:31.407 --> 00:39:35.850
The Gulf War, and by that, we're talking about the first Gulf War in 1990,

00:39:36.675 --> 00:39:39.715
91, 92, I'm assuming you're speaking to. That changed.

00:39:40.335 --> 00:39:41.789
That was a pretty big game changer.

00:39:42.808 --> 00:39:49.327
The Gulf War was the impetus for the end of what was known as the combat exclusion law.

00:39:50.272 --> 00:39:58.025
We, America, went to war and everybody deployed, whoever you were and whatever unit you were in.

00:39:58.025 --> 00:40:04.355
And prior to that, and during the Gulf War, women were not allowed to fly combat

00:40:04.355 --> 00:40:11.410
aircraft, nor could they fly non-combat aircraft in combat zones, combat environments.

00:40:12.080 --> 00:40:18.701
And all of that evaporated in the Gulf War because there was no front lines in a rear echelon.

00:40:19.084 --> 00:40:22.943
For anybody that's old enough to remember that, Scud missiles were flying everywhere.

00:40:24.606 --> 00:40:30.915
And on the ground, you know, under General Schwarzkopf, the ground force was

00:40:30.915 --> 00:40:37.197
moving so fast that his words were, logistics is just going to have to keep up.

00:40:37.863 --> 00:40:42.093
And the historians among us will remember what was known as the big left hook,

00:40:42.465 --> 00:40:44.938
the big swing through the sunny desert.

00:40:45.617 --> 00:40:54.345
And there was so much happening so fast that, frankly, as a young captain at

00:40:54.345 --> 00:40:59.615
that time, the generals that were leading combat operations were,

00:41:00.804 --> 00:41:05.796
Just stop, I would say, stop caring about what the law said.

00:41:05.796 --> 00:41:10.081
They had a mission to get done, and nobody was going to stop to go,

00:41:10.649 --> 00:41:14.786
we need C-130s to land on highways out in the middle of the Saudi desert to

00:41:14.786 --> 00:41:17.807
make sure that Schwarzkopf's troops are getting resupplied.

00:41:19.392 --> 00:41:23.066
There was no time, and nobody wanted to even consider stopping to go,

00:41:23.066 --> 00:41:25.232
okay, do we have women on those C-130s?

00:41:25.499 --> 00:41:28.913
Wait a minute, wait a minute. That airplane can go fly, but that one cannot,

00:41:29.163 --> 00:41:34.696
unless we pull that woman pilot off and put another, that couldn't happen in

00:41:34.696 --> 00:41:38.716
the fog of war and the furious pace that all of what was happening.

00:41:39.362 --> 00:41:45.523
So I would say that our experience was, and if you were an air refueling tanker,

00:41:45.835 --> 00:41:48.418
pilot, or crew, it was the same thing.

00:41:48.715 --> 00:41:52.495
You just went where you needed to go. If you were flying one of the airborne.

00:41:53.339 --> 00:41:58.890
Command and control aircraft that was working the airspace and keeping planes de-conflicted.

00:41:59.336 --> 00:42:04.074
You just went where, a plane went where it needed to go to perform the mission,

00:42:04.074 --> 00:42:10.046
and nobody cared who was on it in terms of male or female or anything else.

00:42:10.657 --> 00:42:16.506
And that, so we all came home from that war with having flown in combat.

00:42:17.272 --> 00:42:25.614
And that was, that then began the major effort to eliminate the combat exclusion law, which did change.

00:42:25.614 --> 00:42:31.534
And you'll appreciate this as a former congressman. The 1992 National Defense

00:42:31.534 --> 00:42:37.576
Authorization Act removed the combat exclusion for women flying in combat aircraft

00:42:37.680 --> 00:42:39.491
and serving on combatant ships.

00:42:40.159 --> 00:42:47.174
And in April 28th of 1993, Les Haspin, the Secretary of Defense,

00:42:47.634 --> 00:42:49.773
removed the policy that prohibited us.

00:42:50.011 --> 00:42:55.204
And thus, the doors were flung open and women poured through those doors to

00:42:55.204 --> 00:43:00.886
do, you know, I was a high performance jet instructor pilot and there were many others like me.

00:43:01.310 --> 00:43:04.357
And there we were, the airplane doesn't care.

00:43:04.607 --> 00:43:08.594
The airplane doesn't know, or any weapons system, whether it's an airplane or

00:43:08.594 --> 00:43:16.491
a ship or a tank or anything else, doesn't know and care what gender is at the controls.

00:43:16.694 --> 00:43:19.922
The machine responds to control inputs, period.

00:43:20.578 --> 00:43:25.994
And anything else that would be considered regarding women's physical abilities

00:43:25.994 --> 00:43:28.468
to handle the demand or their ability to think.

00:43:29.428 --> 00:43:35.354
With the speed and the agility actually all the studies show that and these

00:43:35.354 --> 00:43:38.890
are factual things now which more and more of these continue to come out,

00:43:39.464 --> 00:43:43.744
so for example after women all the women that have now gone through ranger school

00:43:43.744 --> 00:43:47.307
for the army and the studies that have been done show,

00:43:47.894 --> 00:43:52.712
that physiologically and mentally women possess their bodies,

00:43:53.540 --> 00:43:58.200
sustain that kind of stress physiologically speaking,

00:43:58.885 --> 00:44:05.125
better than a male body does which doesn't mean that women are better or men are better whatever,

00:44:05.572 --> 00:44:10.474
these are the kinds of realities that the facts speak to and all any of us care

00:44:10.474 --> 00:44:13.943
about and particularly when you're in command as i was,

00:44:14.453 --> 00:44:20.114
you just want the most capable force and know that your people are trained know

00:44:20.114 --> 00:44:25.344
what they're doing and are going to be there for the person on their left and

00:44:25.344 --> 00:44:26.979
their right, in front of them, behind them,

00:44:27.421 --> 00:44:30.733
and don't care about anything else other than that. Yeah.

00:44:32.343 --> 00:44:38.224
Excuse me. You wrote this statement in the book, to survive until we belonged,

00:44:38.224 --> 00:44:42.361
our rations included vigilance, humor, and tenacity.

00:44:42.931 --> 00:44:48.875
We exposed the unwritten rules, morphed to fit in, but never forget our differences.

00:44:49.270 --> 00:44:55.354
Speak up but don't be too assertive defer to protect competitive egos laugh

00:44:55.354 --> 00:44:57.908
but not too loud and never off color,

00:44:58.483 --> 00:45:03.424
we adjusted our voices our words and our posture some of us hardened our tone

00:45:03.424 --> 00:45:09.114
to be heard others kept softness as quiet rebellion we recorded our memories

00:45:09.114 --> 00:45:12.983
not as victims or to accuse but to bear witness,

00:45:14.215 --> 00:45:20.169
As a civilian, does that mindset give you a sense of empathy to people in American

00:45:20.169 --> 00:45:23.658
society that may feel the same way? Absolutely.

00:45:24.181 --> 00:45:25.313
Absolutely.

00:45:26.005 --> 00:45:30.919
Absolutely. And which is one of the, I think, one of the most powerful things.

00:45:30.919 --> 00:45:35.759
You know, we started this and the core connection point for this extraordinary

00:45:35.759 --> 00:45:37.490
group of women is the Air Force Academy.

00:45:37.839 --> 00:45:41.304
But what emerged out of this was this incredible human story.

00:45:41.717 --> 00:45:47.649
It's for anyone, anywhere, who, again, who has found themselves in a space or

00:45:47.649 --> 00:45:53.182
a place or a system that never imagined them, wasn't designed for them,

00:45:53.593 --> 00:45:55.405
doesn't think they belong there.

00:45:57.703 --> 00:46:03.504
And you have to, as you just listed off, all the ways we calibrate and adjust,

00:46:04.062 --> 00:46:09.529
and tailor ourselves and present a different aspect or different part of ourselves

00:46:09.529 --> 00:46:14.772
that we think will be the acceptable part for that circumstance or that audience.

00:46:15.436 --> 00:46:20.689
That was very much has been for this group of women and I would submit for lots

00:46:20.689 --> 00:46:28.977
of people in a number of different sub-demographic groups or whatever from the collective,

00:46:29.586 --> 00:46:36.539
we of this group of women absolutely can see themselves in that reality every

00:46:36.539 --> 00:46:40.631
day and for many groups for decades,

00:46:41.253 --> 00:46:43.099
in some cases, hundreds of years.

00:46:45.016 --> 00:46:49.239
There's an old aviation saying that goes, the three most useless things in the

00:46:49.239 --> 00:46:54.851
world are altitude above you, runway below you, and time that has passed.

00:46:55.344 --> 00:46:58.036
How can that saying be applied in everyday life?

00:46:58.816 --> 00:47:05.990
Oh, so this very much is how, for me personally, how I think and operate.

00:47:06.280 --> 00:47:14.698
Not because I'm a pilot, but I have learned, I have the blessing of a few decades of life.

00:47:15.981 --> 00:47:22.314
And with that comes the learning through all the good, the bad, and the ugly,

00:47:23.078 --> 00:47:29.302
of arriving at a place, a circumstance in my life where there is no other way

00:47:29.604 --> 00:47:34.463
for me to be than to be a whole, fully integrated person,

00:47:34.979 --> 00:47:36.489
and in my case, as a woman.

00:47:37.294 --> 00:47:44.757
And to do that and to live in the moment of every day for today and not attempt

00:47:44.757 --> 00:47:47.538
to, as someone who is very left-brained,

00:47:48.119 --> 00:47:57.002
but not attempt to project and project manage and analyze and overthink,

00:47:57.863 --> 00:48:03.505
all the things that I have no idea may or may not happen.

00:48:04.145 --> 00:48:07.568
And all with those things, the things I have no control over.

00:48:07.946 --> 00:48:13.298
So for me, and those may recognize, that's a real, I'm a huge serenity prayer type of a person.

00:48:13.936 --> 00:48:20.287
And that's to me what you're speaking of is I am constantly looking and I would submit.

00:48:22.137 --> 00:48:26.737
The journey of leading this incredible team of women who wrote this book,

00:48:27.077 --> 00:48:32.159
The Nine of Us, and the 108 voices that are in it, really brought that,

00:48:32.524 --> 00:48:35.322
for me, into really stark relief.

00:48:35.688 --> 00:48:40.467
That i learned from these women and their experiences that i wasn't alone and

00:48:40.467 --> 00:48:43.316
that there this is something that so many,

00:48:44.053 --> 00:48:51.367
women have had to learn through their experiences and i learned from that and took from them,

00:48:51.959 --> 00:48:57.537
and integrated it more fully into my own life over the course of these three

00:48:57.537 --> 00:48:59.889
and a half years and and that,

00:49:00.625 --> 00:49:05.883
i am i do not look back at the runway behind me i did the best i could,

00:49:06.498 --> 00:49:12.067
and i've arrived at this exquisite moment in time that everything that has gone

00:49:12.067 --> 00:49:16.967
before me the runway behind me the altitude below me and the time has prepared

00:49:16.967 --> 00:49:20.691
me for this moment in my life,

00:49:21.359 --> 00:49:25.010
That i'm sitting here today with you having this phenomenal conversation,

00:49:25.706 --> 00:49:30.637
And that's that is not lost on me at all and i'm not worried about thinking

00:49:30.637 --> 00:49:31.645
i'm not even thinking about,

00:49:32.332 --> 00:49:37.647
What comes next later today or which doesn't mean I don't plan for The future

00:49:37.647 --> 00:49:40.744
means it doesn't mean I just live on a whim I.

00:49:41.680 --> 00:49:47.270
But it does mean that when I'm here in this moment with you, that I am fully here.

00:49:47.820 --> 00:49:51.462
And I know that the reason I'm here is because of the runway behind me,

00:49:51.462 --> 00:49:52.970
the altitude below me, and the time.

00:49:53.445 --> 00:49:59.702
And I chuckled as you read that because, yes, that is absolutely a very pilot thing that we say.

00:50:00.167 --> 00:50:04.541
And usually we say it in the context of, you know,

00:50:05.110 --> 00:50:08.922
thinking out, getting out ahead of the aircraft so you don't go,

00:50:09.382 --> 00:50:16.612
oh crap i wish i had done whatever so i not looking at oops what i should have

00:50:16.612 --> 00:50:18.287
done what's behind me or below me,

00:50:19.025 --> 00:50:22.426
i now have taken that in my own life and looked at it from,

00:50:22.926 --> 00:50:26.513
all of that runway behind me and altitude below me and what has come before

00:50:26.803 --> 00:50:32.822
brings me to this moment and the ability and the blessing and the and the privilege

00:50:33.229 --> 00:50:37.396
of getting to talk about this extraordinary group of women and this story,

00:50:37.843 --> 00:50:40.092
that has already changing lives.

00:50:40.092 --> 00:50:44.452
It has changed mine, it is changing others, and it's going to continue to change

00:50:44.452 --> 00:50:46.582
lives as it continues to make its way.

00:50:46.582 --> 00:50:51.782
It's only been out into the world now for five weeks, and it is already changing

00:50:51.782 --> 00:50:55.189
lives. And we are so grateful, so grateful for that.

00:50:55.542 --> 00:50:59.544
Because what more could you ask for than to make a difference for people?

00:51:00.449 --> 00:51:04.713
So finish this sentence i have hope because.

00:51:06.762 --> 00:51:15.220
I have hope because i do do in the quiet moment of the day i do believe in the,

00:51:16.614 --> 00:51:23.935
the goodness the incredible goodness of people doesn't mean every person but i think,

00:51:25.679 --> 00:51:30.392
I think that particularly, these women are a microcosm,

00:51:32.033 --> 00:51:38.421
of all kinds of women everywhere, across any industry or domain you want to,

00:51:39.130 --> 00:51:40.877
list or talk about or think of.

00:51:41.922 --> 00:51:47.878
And there are legions of women and people like these women who,

00:51:48.892 --> 00:51:53.899
who in pursuit of their dream to be part of,

00:51:54.581 --> 00:51:58.695
they didn't start off this way thinking oh i'm going to be part of this incredible

00:51:58.695 --> 00:52:04.652
american story but now recognize and know that they are and there are so many,

00:52:05.835 --> 00:52:11.635
you are too your background that are part of this story and are and believe in in.

00:52:13.624 --> 00:52:22.215
The goodness ultimately at our core at our soul of people and that we we absolutely

00:52:22.215 --> 00:52:24.892
can make a difference we can,

00:52:25.932 --> 00:52:32.282
continue to move forward continue in the pursuit of in the case of our country

00:52:32.560 --> 00:52:37.392
a more perfect union and that that does that does give me hope,

00:52:38.280 --> 00:52:44.895
even even in the throughout the days when it's very difficult to have hope because

00:52:44.895 --> 00:52:51.777
there are continually there are moments that drop in on me that tell me that,

00:52:53.615 --> 00:53:00.977
everything that this country is and where it came from with all of.

00:53:03.383 --> 00:53:10.505
All of the horrible crap that is also part of our story our our nation's story,

00:53:11.316 --> 00:53:13.963
and the more of these stories that get told,

00:53:14.990 --> 00:53:20.115
and if i could be so bold for example just because i'm speaking with you on

00:53:20.115 --> 00:53:23.921
this particular show of yours one of the greatest books i've,

00:53:25.145 --> 00:53:28.977
profoundly changed my life was reading the 1619 project,

00:53:29.824 --> 00:53:36.073
i i was i was angry and i when i got while i was reading it and certainly when

00:53:36.073 --> 00:53:41.253
i got done with it and i was stunned and i was absolutely a changed person and

00:53:41.253 --> 00:53:43.202
it's things like that to have,

00:53:43.958 --> 00:53:49.334
that book drop into my life when it did before the writing of this one,

00:53:50.475 --> 00:53:58.064
changed me and it's another drop-in that gives me hope because without,

00:53:58.913 --> 00:54:02.463
that story and everything that

00:54:02.463 --> 00:54:06.862
has flowed from it and all the other ones like Cast that then followed.

00:54:08.645 --> 00:54:14.473
And Hidden Figures and Maureen Murdoch's Heroine's Journey their timing-wise

00:54:14.473 --> 00:54:19.092
are different, doesn't matter there's this constant pieces these constant books

00:54:19.452 --> 00:54:21.751
and stories and experiences,

00:54:22.233 --> 00:54:24.328
that drop in on me that tell me,

00:54:24.944 --> 00:54:26.847
and affirm for me,

00:54:27.753 --> 00:54:32.457
that that there there is a preponderance of souls,

00:54:33.150 --> 00:54:41.673
out there with whom i can connect and together we we will continue to be for

00:54:41.673 --> 00:54:45.096
each other and for our brothers and sisters,

00:54:45.760 --> 00:54:51.219
what we can all be and should all be for each other, everything else aside.

00:54:51.970 --> 00:54:57.747
Long answer to your question, but thanks for the opportunity to just free stream a little bit.

00:54:58.333 --> 00:55:04.772
Well, that's awesome. I like free thinkers and especially conscientious free thinkers.

00:55:05.252 --> 00:55:12.803
I think that says a lot about just imagining being a part of your unit and the

00:55:12.803 --> 00:55:16.013
trust that you garnered from your.

00:55:18.071 --> 00:55:24.163
Folks under your command. I think that last answer spoke a lot about that.

00:55:24.163 --> 00:55:25.866
That gives me an incredible visual.

00:55:27.070 --> 00:55:30.205
So you said the book just dropped five weeks ago. How can people get it?

00:55:30.930 --> 00:55:37.026
Oh, well, you can purchase the book from whatever your favorite bookseller is, retailer is.

00:55:37.026 --> 00:55:42.025
But I will tell you that if you go to our website, necessaryturbulence.com,

00:55:42.813 --> 00:55:46.826
and go to the book page there, you can purchase the book.

00:55:46.826 --> 00:55:52.516
There's a long list of retailers, including a list of minority and women-owned

00:55:52.516 --> 00:55:57.808
retailers that we would love for people to buy from and support,

00:55:58.301 --> 00:56:01.826
as well as you can go to your local independent bookstore and purchase from

00:56:01.826 --> 00:56:04.180
them. That would give us great joy as well.

00:56:05.237 --> 00:56:10.288
And if anybody, if your listeners out there can convince Mahogany Books to carry

00:56:10.288 --> 00:56:14.738
our book and be able to purchase it through Mahogany Books, I would be beyond

00:56:14.738 --> 00:56:17.758
joy. We've not yet been successful in doing that.

00:56:18.217 --> 00:56:25.193
And that saddens me because there are so many voices in the book of incredible

00:56:25.303 --> 00:56:28.091
Black women and their stories, and.

00:56:29.008 --> 00:56:35.109
Mahogany Books needs to sit up and pay attention and take note of their stories that are in this book.

00:56:35.405 --> 00:56:39.988
But on necessaryturbulence.com, you can also purchase it directly from our publisher

00:56:39.988 --> 00:56:46.118
and get a 15% discount, which then in turn supports our incredible publisher,

00:56:46.118 --> 00:56:49.712
which is Millspeak Books, which is a nonprofit.

00:56:49.979 --> 00:56:55.725
And directly, their mission, among others, is to publish the voices of veterans

00:56:55.951 --> 00:56:59.396
and veteran-adjacent stories in the books there.

00:57:00.040 --> 00:57:04.738
So there's a number of different ways you can. I do hope folks will take the

00:57:04.738 --> 00:57:11.878
time and go purchase from a minority or woman-owned bookstore or your local independent bookshop.

00:57:11.878 --> 00:57:18.792
If you're overseas with an FPO, an APO, or a DPO address, that information is also there.

00:57:19.147 --> 00:57:23.558
How best to get that if you live overseas? There are other links there for where

00:57:23.558 --> 00:57:25.844
it is sold in different countries.

00:57:26.355 --> 00:57:31.358
We did our best to make sure that no matter where you are, you can get this

00:57:31.358 --> 00:57:35.838
book and you can get it into your hands and into your life and the lives of

00:57:35.838 --> 00:57:37.608
those around you as well.

00:57:38.670 --> 00:57:42.107
All right. So if people want to reach out to you directly, how can they do that?

00:57:43.189 --> 00:57:49.658
Through that same website. There's a contact form there that you could send

00:57:49.658 --> 00:57:54.432
a little note. And it comes to me and you will absolutely hear back from me. I guarantee you.

00:57:55.529 --> 00:57:59.351
It's very important that you will hear back from, from me, from us.

00:58:00.188 --> 00:58:06.548
Well, Eileen Isola, Lieutenant Colonel Eileen Isola, I thank you again for your service,

00:58:07.064 --> 00:58:12.591
not just for the military aspect of it, but for you being a dedicated historian,

00:58:13.078 --> 00:58:15.789
and gathering these stories and putting it in a book form.

00:58:17.069 --> 00:58:24.410
I firmly believe that in order to move forward, we have to remember where we came from.

00:58:25.193 --> 00:58:31.381
Absolutely. And I think, you know, your book is a very foundational piece in that.

00:58:31.881 --> 00:58:37.349
And so not only was I honored to be able to read it, but to be able to talk

00:58:37.349 --> 00:58:42.007
to you directly about it and to have you as a guest on the show.

00:58:42.361 --> 00:58:48.709
So the rule is that once you've been on the show, that you have an open invitation to come back.

00:58:48.709 --> 00:58:52.680
So if you do a follow-up on the book or something else on your mind,

00:58:53.128 --> 00:58:56.689
feel free to reach out and we'll get you on. But again, Eileen,

00:58:57.469 --> 00:58:59.795
I enjoyed this conversation. Thank you so much.

00:59:00.120 --> 00:59:04.449
I did too, Erik. Thank you. And I will absolutely come back once I finish and

00:59:04.449 --> 00:59:08.305
publish my memoir, which got set aside and backburnered in order to,

00:59:08.445 --> 00:59:11.660
because this story was so important. It was so important.

00:59:12.415 --> 00:59:15.889
So I will absolutely, and I would love to come back and I would love to continue

00:59:15.889 --> 00:59:18.255
this conversation and any other you'd like to have.

00:59:19.040 --> 00:59:23.503
And a joy. Well, thank you. And all right, guys, we're going to catch y'all on the other side.

00:59:43.769 --> 00:59:48.780
All right, and we are back. And so now it is time for my next guest, Ryan Virden.

00:59:49.496 --> 00:59:53.549
Ryan Virden is an esteemed author, educator, cultural worker,

00:59:53.549 --> 00:59:59.029
leadership coach, and public speaker with over 15 years of experience working

00:59:59.029 --> 01:00:01.715
with individuals, teams, and organizations.

01:00:02.435 --> 01:00:06.440
Grounded in a background spanning research, classroom teaching,

01:00:06.847 --> 01:00:09.250
restorative justice, and executive leadership.

01:00:11.003 --> 01:00:16.119
Ryan's work emphasizes creating strong, authentic relationships that enable

01:00:16.119 --> 01:00:19.978
clients to build trust, clarity, and connection through their work.

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The sought-after speaker and writer Ryan Virden is the author of the newly released

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book Breaking the Privileged Frame,

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a compelling and essential read for anyone seeking to understand and address

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the complexities of race and privilege in today's world.

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His work offers readers a fresh perspective on those working on dismantling

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oppressive systems, one that calls for an honest exploration of identity,

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engagement in meaningful dialogue, and work towards greater justice and equity.

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By dissecting the historical roots of white supremacy and the language used

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to discuss race, breaking the privileged frame challenges conventional narratives

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through a thought-provoking exploration of how race operates.

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As the founder and executive director of Lear Culture Coaching,

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Ryan has partnered with dozens of organizations across the private,

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public, and nonprofit sectors,

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to strengthen leadership capacity, facilitate conflict resolution efforts,

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and build cultures of belonging.

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His approach combines data-informed assessment tools with reflective practice

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and systems designed to transform cultures from the inside out.

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Ryan's writing has appeared in The Good Men Project and Twin Cities Daily Planet,

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and his work has been featured by Minnesota Public Radio.

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He holds advanced degrees in both liberal studies and educational leadership

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and is working toward a third in human resource law.

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Additionally, Virden is an adjunct professor in the Justice and Peace Studies

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Department at the University of St. Thomas, working each semester to help young

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people understand the manifestations of violence and work for a more just and peaceful world.

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In his work, he continues to bridge scholarship and practice through his writing,

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coaching, and workshops.

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Originally from Northeast Minneapolis, Ryan found his voice via hip-hop and

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enjoys debating your top five dead or alive.

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He's also a fan of rom-com films, especially the cheesy ones from the 90s and the early 2000s.

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Outside of work, he is a proud husband and dad to two daughters,

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plus two canine companions.

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He currently lives in Atlanta, Georgia. Ladies and gentlemen,

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it is my distinct honor and privilege to have as a guest on this podcast, Ryan Virden.

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All right. Ryan Virden. How are you doing? So you're doing good.

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I'm doing well, Erik. Thank you. Yeah, I'm doing well. Well,

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I'm glad to have you on. You have written this book that is very, very interesting.

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And let's see. I'm breaking. I hope it's interesting. Breaking the Privilege Frame. Yeah.

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Yeah, that caught my attention. So I'm glad we're going to talk about a little

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bit. We're going to talk about kind of not so much word for word on the book,

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but but the theme and why you decided to do that.

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But what I like to do is I do a couple of icebreakers.

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But before I do my normal icebreakers, it says in your bio that you're this

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this hip hop aficionado and and all that stuff.

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And you like to debate people about the top five.

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Who's your Mount Rushmore rap and all that stuff? Yeah.

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So aficionado might be stretching it. I'm a hip-hop head, and I do like to debate

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the top five. I'll debate people's top fives for sure.

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All right, so let me ask you this question. Who do you – because I got into

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a debate with some friends.

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This was years ago, and we were

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like, saying east coast west coast um they made fun they made fun of me,

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about midwest because i'm originally from chicago it's like you know midwest

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rappers i said okay common yay e or yay or however you pronounce it now kanye west,

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i don't yeah i twist okay that's fine y'all y'all can y'all can act like y'all don't know but anyway.

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Who do you consider the best female lyricist of all time?

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Oh, wow. That is such a good... I was not expecting that question.

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The best female lyricist of all time.

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Honestly, like, so my personal... Like, I think she could go bar for bar with anybody is Foxy Brown.

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I think... Yeah, I think Foxy... I grew up in that era of...

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I would say, you know, I'm from Minneapolis. So when you said there's no Midwest

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rappers, I'm like, yeah, right.

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Like I grew up on Bone and Common and my mom Rushmore got Lupe in it.

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So, you know, Brother Ali from Minneapolis. But Foxy is right there for me.

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I think we're in an age of some really talented female MCs right now.

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Like I'm down in Atlanta, so I get a lot of Lotto.

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I get a lot of YK niece, like all that.

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I think where the female emcees have come with it and are finally starting to

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get their shine right now.

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Yeah, Lotto is coming up. Dolce is an up-and-coming one that a lot of people like.

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Dolce is cold, yeah. But the one I think of all time is Lauryn Hill.

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I think Lauryn is the queen when it comes to Ravelers. Because not only is she,

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profound in what she talks about, but her freestyle skills are ridiculous.

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Because I just saw someone on, I think, Instagram.

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They were at the Apollo, where she

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got booed, by the way, when she first auditioned on Showtime for Apollo.

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But she got out there with the Fugees, and Wyclef said, we need to have some

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freestyle going on. And then Lauren took over, and it was like.

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She's the queen to me, but you can't go wrong with Ms. Hill for sure.

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All right. Now that we got that out the way, the other icebreakers I do is the

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first one is I want you to respond to a quote.

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Okay. And the quote is, if you have to come help me, you are wasting your time.

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But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with me,

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then let's work together.

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The response of that? Yes, sir. Yeah, that's the only way forward.

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I think that we fundamentally are in a position since the Industrial Revolution

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where we're in this hyper-independent, hyper-individual mindset,

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and we don't understand how interconnected we are.

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And so I think, you know, it's a great quote to talk about, to segue into the

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book, because that's really the impetus for the book was realizing,

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hey, we're doing this racial justice thing wrong.

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By we, I mean, white folks, I'm a white guy.

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And so we keep trying to do things for people and not figuring out how we benefit

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and what we can do, how this struggle benefits us, heals us,

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and that we are in it side by side.

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Not leading anybody, not doing anything for anybody, but doing it with people.

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And I'm a restorative practitioner as well. And so that's the number one tenant

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is you don't do things to people. You do it with them.

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And so I really think that's the only way we figure this thing out. Okay.

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My next icebreaker is what we call 20 questions. Nah, I like it.

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So I need you to give me a number between 1 and 20.

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Let's go 11. All right.

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Where do you go to check a fact that you see, hear, or read?

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Oh, man, I go lots of places. I go multiple places, so never just one place, but I will go.

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I got lots of books, so I'll go check a book, or I'll.

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Find in the archives of maybe the Times or some of the more established traditional

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presses, although I don't put a lot of stock in that.

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But then I'll also go find somewhere outside of Western media.

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So, like, I might go fact check something in Al Jazeera English or some other

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media outside of the Western framework.

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Okay. All right. So why did you decide to write this book and why did you decide

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to write it in a textbook format?

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Yeah. So the book comes out of my experience as a organizer and cultural worker in Minneapolis.

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I was an educator. So maybe that gets to the, to the formatting.

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I actually tried not to write it as much as a textbook as I think maybe it came

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out. I just seen it was on like an intellectual books list. I was like,

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man, maybe I, maybe I didn't get it enough out of the intellectual part.

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But I'm an educator, trained, and a historian.

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And so my work is in that space, right? As in like intellectual scholarship.

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And then my life was around cultural work and organizing and trying to make the world better.

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And in Minneapolis after the uprisings, it felt like a moment.

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Well, during the uprisings, after the murder of Floyd, it felt like a moment

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where we could really capitalize on the truth that was being laid bare and do something different.

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And for lots of different reasons, that didn't happen. And so this book is really

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my reflection on that and like, what happened?

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Why didn't this result in a fundamental shift in how we relate to each other?

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And I talk about it from my own point of view, right? Like, I don't talk about

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communities that I'm not a part of.

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And so I thought a lot about what were white people doing, particularly white

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men, how were we showing up?

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And I realized that back to that first quote, we're showing up as if we were

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doing people a favor. As if we were,

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saving them. You know, saviorism is a thing that's well documented in social

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justice spaces and in anti-racist spaces.

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And I realized that our anti-racism, the logic that we use to think about it,

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actually didn't create space for us to talk about how the struggle for racial

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justice heals white people.

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I had not had a space to talk about how I became a better person by being involved

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in anti-racism struggle, by thinking deeply about race and its impact on my life,

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not a better person as in I could show up for communities of color or for black

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people better which I think I do but just felt better felt more connected felt

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more you know closer to creation.

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Was just a better person and that I felt healthy and happy and so the book comes

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out of that it comes out of that realization,

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and and I try to make that case in the book I try to make the case that racial

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justice is good for all of us particularly white folks that we're actually the

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ones that need to heal from it.

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And I grounded in, you know, Baldwin said, as long as you think you're white, there's no hope for you.

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You got Richard Wright when asked, you know, well, he's in, is it a Vogue,

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Paris or somewhere in Europe? And they asked him what it was to talk about the

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Negro problem in America. And his response is, there's no Negro problem.

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There's a white problem.

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And El-Haj, Malik, El-Shabazz, Malcolm X, you know, says that,

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tells the white lady that comes up and it says, you know, minister, how can I help?

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Early in his career, he says, you can't. And then he revisits that interaction

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and Alex Haley writes about it in the autobiography.

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And he says, I would tell her to go work with her people at the source.

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You know, Toni Morrison said that like, white racism is about white people being

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broken, not anybody else. And so I tried to take that seriously and get my people

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to take it seriously. Yeah.

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What is white privilege and why do you think it is hard for people to believe that it exists?

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So this might be this might be one of the more controversial things in the book.

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White privilege, as it's used commonly, as it's understood, is the advantages

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of being perceived as white and moving in the world as white.

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And it definitely has advantages. I argue in the book that being white is actually

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not a privilege, that being included in the category of white required a division from humanity.

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It required a division from creation. It required hatred.

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It required accepting genocide, accepting the logics of.

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The Atlantic slave trade, right? The genocide of Native people,

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the enslavement of African people, the taking over of land and colonialism.

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And so I don't think that that's I don't think that that's a privilege.

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I think the system that was propped up that benefited those folks legally considered

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white, which is important because legally you got rights from it.

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Right. So like you could you could own land. You could own a home.

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You can get you could testify in court. You could carry a gun.

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There were real advantages in our system to being to being considered white

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and moving in the world that's white and being labeled white so i don't want

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to i never want to have anybody walk away from a conversation with me saying

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like oh this dude thinks white thinks being white doesn't matter it definitely does,

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what i'm saying is that we can't hold on to it like it's the thing that we should

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all be that we should live life as white people,

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live life or that we should view the world as through the lens of whiteness,

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because i think that that's how we end up i mean look at what's happening right now.

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We got wildfires all over. Europe is burning up.

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We're out of water. My daughter lives in the Southwest in Arizona,

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and they ain't got no water.

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This is the result of what accepting whiteness does, is it just destroys and

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consumes itself. And so I think white privilege is the advantages that are offered

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people who are white within white supremacy.

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And I would argue that it is indeed not a privilege, but rather something that's

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going to destroy us. Yeah.

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As a white person who has benefited from white privilege, why are you working so hard to eliminate?

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Yeah. And I want to be clear. I definitely have. Right. Like I tell this story

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off. I tell it in the book.

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The only reason I was even able to go to college because my my pops could cosign

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on my student loans because he owned a home and lots of my friends didn't have that opportunity.

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So, again, I'm not saying that being white doesn't have its advantages,

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but I'm working so hard to end it for the reasons I just talked about,

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because it's going to destroy us.

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It's cool to be, you know, you could be the most advantaged person in...

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A completely dystopian future. What good does that do?

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Like the things that make us happy, our community, the things that make us happy

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are, you know, not having to worry about our health, not having to worry about if we get to go home,

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and being with people, having love in your home, being able to laugh,

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being able to create art.

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We started this by talking about hip hop, right? Like hip hop comes from the Bronx.

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And at a time when the Cross Bronx Expressway has dispossessed a bunch of people.

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We see the housing boom and white flight is happening.

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And what comes out of community? The most powerful cultural force in modern history, hip hop.

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You know, that's the things that make us happy is being in community,

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creating cultural practices. And whiteness keeps us from that.

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And so, yeah, you can give me all the material advantages, but my soul is still

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going to be starving for something else. And that's what I'm most interested in.

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Not to say that those material things are really, really, really important, right?

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Like, I think everybody should have those, which is also why I advocate for

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as much anti-capitalist policies as I can because I don't think we should make

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money off of health, housing, private prisons, things like that.

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Like, not everything is a commodity. Yeah.

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So how much did hip-hop rap culture influence your actions and thoughts as an activist?

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You know, the older I get and the more I think about it, the more I realize

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that it did, right? Like hip-hop is about being in community.

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Hip-hop is about looking out for each other. Hip-hop is about truth-telling.

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You get the ugly part of the world. You get the beautiful part.

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You get all that. It's about being authentically yourself. At least that's the

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hip-hop that I grew up in.

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You know, and I came up at an age where, you know, post Telecommunications Act

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of 94, when they deregulate markets and then you get the sort of commodification

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of rap music versus hip hop culture.

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And so, you know, you've got to you've got to you've got to weed through some

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of that increasingly now with the more popular that it gets.

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But at its core, hip hop is about community. Hip hop is about taking care of each other.

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Hip hop is about standing up against oppression and and people that are trying

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to exploit and get over on people.

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And that's fundamentally the foundation of how I try to live my life.

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So I would say it's incredibly important.

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How is the whitewashing of American history detrimental to white Americans?

01:17:44.413 --> 01:17:48.557
Man, such a great question. This is one of my one of my things that I try to

01:17:48.557 --> 01:17:50.090
talk about as often as possible.

01:17:50.642 --> 01:17:53.497
And you can well, you can't you can see because we're on the camera.

01:17:53.497 --> 01:17:56.630
But I got John Brown over my corner over my shoulder.

01:17:57.010 --> 01:18:01.247
We don't we don't talk about the white folks that said, no, this ain't this ain't it.

01:18:01.420 --> 01:18:06.409
And stood up against the advancement of white supremacy.

01:18:06.722 --> 01:18:09.617
I don't want to suggest that that was everybody or that, you know what I mean?

01:18:09.617 --> 01:18:14.517
It was like a razor thin, you know, we just barely squeaked out and then white

01:18:14.517 --> 01:18:15.787
supremacy became entrenched.

01:18:16.194 --> 01:18:18.219
But it's not, it wasn't everybody.

01:18:18.805 --> 01:18:22.077
And why that's important, why it's important to talk about the John Browns,

01:18:22.077 --> 01:18:26.597
the Ann Bradens, the Thaddeus Stevens, these folks, the Heather Heyers.

01:18:26.597 --> 01:18:27.997
I'm from Minneapolis, right?

01:18:28.919 --> 01:18:34.281
The Alex Preddies is because it's, it makes it, it gives white people,

01:18:34.601 --> 01:18:36.138
particularly the young white people.

01:18:36.864 --> 01:18:42.157
A different model, a different choice. For so, so many white folks,

01:18:42.157 --> 01:18:44.698
it's just, this is how it is, right? This is what we do.

01:18:45.081 --> 01:18:47.165
And we never ask who the we are or,

01:18:48.066 --> 01:18:51.001
Is there a different version of we? I'm Irish.

01:18:51.421 --> 01:18:56.161
And so I grew up hearing about how the British colonized Ireland,

01:18:56.161 --> 01:18:59.767
how they pushed my people down to the rocks and how we had to leave and how,

01:19:00.289 --> 01:19:03.881
you know, they forced us to eat potatoes because we were, you know,

01:19:04.201 --> 01:19:06.252
cattle farming for British folks.

01:19:06.827 --> 01:19:11.121
And so I always had that, this idea that there was something that wasn't that

01:19:11.121 --> 01:19:15.025
about my story that wasn't reflected in the mainstream American story.

01:19:16.111 --> 01:19:21.185
And I think when we talk about, honestly, a history of white folks resisting,

01:19:21.667 --> 01:19:26.441
we will see more white folks start to resist and find courage in that line.

01:19:26.821 --> 01:19:33.141
And again, I feel like they have some sort of rooted purpose in this,

01:19:33.141 --> 01:19:37.211
that they're not just making this up as they go, but that there's ancestors

01:19:37.211 --> 01:19:41.615
that are behind them that they can draw strength from. Okay.

01:19:42.326 --> 01:19:48.096
Now, a previous guest of mine on this podcast has what she calls her blonde hair, blue eyed story.

01:19:48.728 --> 01:19:53.991
So she's an African American woman and at a former job, she wanted to implement

01:19:53.991 --> 01:19:55.612
a program geared toward children.

01:19:57.076 --> 01:20:01.146
Her white bosses rejected the idea. And then her counterpart,

01:20:01.146 --> 01:20:05.156
a white male with blonde hair and blue eyes, deliberately made the same proposal.

01:20:05.556 --> 01:20:09.073
They were they were co-workers. They they they got along.

01:20:09.689 --> 01:20:12.886
So he decided I'm going to do the same thing she's going to do and see what

01:20:12.886 --> 01:20:16.277
happens. Well, those same bosses approved it.

01:20:16.940 --> 01:20:20.526
Her counterpart made sure that the program was implemented the way she wanted

01:20:20.526 --> 01:20:21.891
it. And it was successful.

01:20:22.431 --> 01:20:26.123
However, from that day forward, she started dying her hair blonde.

01:20:26.623 --> 01:20:30.677
And wearing blue-eyed contacts. She left that company and never looked back.

01:20:31.269 --> 01:20:35.720
Needless to say, she has become a leader in her field. So my question to you,

01:20:36.186 --> 01:20:40.470
is, how does her act of defiance jive with your thoughts on white privilege?

01:20:41.374 --> 01:20:44.433
Wow, one, that's a crazy story. That's a crazy story.

01:20:44.863 --> 01:20:48.956
And I hope that that guy, and I think that I talk about this in the book,

01:20:48.956 --> 01:20:55.880
that's an act of breaking white solidarity, which is a real thing.

01:20:56.264 --> 01:20:58.626
And I hope that he was able to point out to the people like,

01:20:58.626 --> 01:21:02.616
yo, you know, whatever, whatever her name was made exactly the same proposal.

01:21:02.616 --> 01:21:06.519
And like, why did he, why was it more acceptable coming from me than from her?

01:21:07.397 --> 01:21:10.426
But then also, I think, you know, to get directly answer your question,

01:21:10.973 --> 01:21:17.346
it demonstrates what we're saying is that in this society, if you can pass as

01:21:17.346 --> 01:21:20.435
white and you can move in the world as white and be seen as white,

01:21:20.766 --> 01:21:22.416
you're going to be taken more seriously.

01:21:22.416 --> 01:21:25.223
You're going to be given more opportunities, you're going to be treated well,

01:21:25.753 --> 01:21:31.496
better and I think that's important too and we can talk about that but I think

01:21:31.496 --> 01:21:37.626
that's the that's what it talks about white supremacy advantages people who

01:21:37.626 --> 01:21:39.960
it perceives as white yeah,

01:21:41.051 --> 01:21:43.722
How does weight loss relate to race relations?

01:21:45.917 --> 01:21:48.887
So that's why I start the book with that. So I start the book.

01:21:48.887 --> 01:21:54.717
So I was a chubby guy. Well, I was chubby, but I was an athlete.

01:21:54.717 --> 01:22:00.141
And so I didn't get unhealthy until after college. And then I got unhealthy.

01:22:00.851 --> 01:22:04.352
And so I start the book by talking a little bit about my struggle with weight.

01:22:04.968 --> 01:22:10.737
And I draw the parallel that. So let me actually back up because it won't make

01:22:10.737 --> 01:22:12.497
sense to your audience if you don't get this piece.

01:22:13.105 --> 01:22:17.457
As I struggled growing up with weight, one of the things that I would always

01:22:17.457 --> 01:22:20.927
hear is that, oh, you just got more of your mom in you because my mom's side,

01:22:20.927 --> 01:22:25.287
Irish, short, stocky is just what it is, right? Like, you might as well just

01:22:25.287 --> 01:22:27.670
make the best of it. You got to make the best of it.

01:22:28.385 --> 01:22:31.721
And then as I got older and I got divorced, and so I was really starting to

01:22:31.721 --> 01:22:35.624
like think about my life and try to be healthy in all aspects.

01:22:36.195 --> 01:22:39.611
And I lost a bunch of weight and I realized that, okay, yeah,

01:22:39.611 --> 01:22:43.921
it might be true that I got more on my mom's side than me, but that wasn't predetermined

01:22:43.921 --> 01:22:46.831
what my possibilities were, that I could go be healthy.

01:22:48.231 --> 01:22:52.697
I could get in good shape. I could lose the weight that I wanted to lose.

01:22:53.144 --> 01:22:57.981
And for me, that parallels the way whiteness is talked about in our country

01:22:57.981 --> 01:23:00.154
and in our society. It's that you're born white.

01:23:00.497 --> 01:23:03.661
That is just what it is. You got more of that European in you,

01:23:03.661 --> 01:23:09.501
whatever it is. And so you're not going to be able to stand up and tell your

01:23:09.501 --> 01:23:14.508
bosses that, hey, that black woman's idea is the same exact one that I just did.

01:23:15.151 --> 01:23:18.751
And you're kind of whacked for not going with it, that you can't do those things

01:23:18.751 --> 01:23:24.470
or that you somehow can't recognize racism and stand up just on its own accord, that you need to,

01:23:24.992 --> 01:23:28.821
somebody needs to tell you it's wrong, that you couldn't see George Floyd getting

01:23:28.821 --> 01:23:31.481
murdered and be like, that's wrong.

01:23:31.481 --> 01:23:36.381
On your own accord, you had to have Darnella Frazier send out the video or,

01:23:36.742 --> 01:23:41.931
you know, you've got to ask yourself, is it, you know, does race have anything

01:23:41.931 --> 01:23:43.721
to do with Nolan Wells gone?

01:23:43.721 --> 01:23:47.301
You know, that he's the only black boy on that boat and he's the only one that

01:23:47.301 --> 01:23:53.500
didn't come back? Like, that we can't see reality for what it is and ask some questions about it.

01:23:56.351 --> 01:24:00.651
That's not true, right? So that's why I draw that parallel is that there's nothing

01:24:00.651 --> 01:24:05.136
biological about whiteness that keeps us from recognizing how race is working.

01:24:05.832 --> 01:24:09.579
We are socialized to ignore it because of the advantages that whiteness offers

01:24:09.579 --> 01:24:13.280
us. But at the end of the day, it's going to destroy us.

01:24:13.826 --> 01:24:17.605
It's going, you know, I talked about being able to go to college.

01:24:18.649 --> 01:24:21.955
And that's true. My dad cosigned, but he cosigned on my student loans.

01:24:22.476 --> 01:24:28.201
And now my loans is through the roof. My interest is capitalized out about four times what I took out.

01:24:28.305 --> 01:24:32.729
Like, I think that's also a good parallel for how whiteness operates.

01:24:32.729 --> 01:24:37.749
It might open the door, but it's only opening the door so it can squeeze more

01:24:37.749 --> 01:24:41.579
out of you, right? Especially if you grew up poor, especially if you don't have

01:24:41.579 --> 01:24:46.108
access, if you're not, if your last name ain't Trump and you can't finesse a crypto business,

01:24:48.738 --> 01:24:52.939
it's not going to work for you. And at the end of the day, look at him and tell

01:24:52.939 --> 01:24:55.955
me that he's happy and I got a bridge somewhere I can sell you.

01:25:00.275 --> 01:25:07.601
Well well speaking about politics how is whiteness at play in the 2026 midterm elections,

01:25:08.184 --> 01:25:17.684
oh man so first of all this whole fear about democratic socialism and and all that is wild because,

01:25:18.594 --> 01:25:20.024
And I don't want to get too, like, well,

01:25:22.575 --> 01:25:25.325
I would consider myself, like I said, anti-capitalist and all that.

01:25:25.325 --> 01:25:31.355
But it is crazy to see so much fear being ginned up about the possibility of

01:25:31.355 --> 01:25:32.526
taking care of each other.

01:25:33.118 --> 01:25:38.940
Universal health care. Look at New York, like, child care, grocery stores,

01:25:39.242 --> 01:25:40.432
public transportation.

01:25:40.739 --> 01:25:45.266
None of these things are bad, objectively. They're just not bad.

01:25:45.690 --> 01:25:52.065
And if they weren't coming from a Pakistani Muslim, we wouldn't be thinking

01:25:52.065 --> 01:25:55.025
twice about it, right? If a white man was saying that, matter of fact,

01:25:55.025 --> 01:25:58.835
when Franklin Delano Roosevelt said that thing, we were like, oh, okay, let's get it.

01:25:59.293 --> 01:26:03.600
Similar to your story, right? Like this message, which is objectively positive.

01:26:04.835 --> 01:26:10.468
When it's in a brown or black face, it's just not accepted. So whiteness is at play in that way.

01:26:10.828 --> 01:26:14.865
There's also, though, this idea I think whiteness thrives on independence and

01:26:14.865 --> 01:26:18.005
commodity and making profit out of everything.

01:26:18.005 --> 01:26:21.705
And that's why it's so intimately tied. Whether you're looking at Dr.

01:26:21.705 --> 01:26:27.103
King or you're looking at the Michigan Senate race and all that, it's tied to communism.

01:26:27.693 --> 01:26:31.015
It's tied to you know like one of the things that they're throwing at memdani

01:26:31.015 --> 01:26:36.245
is he's a communist you know and and the communists are taking over and anything

01:26:36.245 --> 01:26:39.752
that's for people is is anti-white,

01:26:40.442 --> 01:26:45.205
and anti-capitalist and so i think you can't you can't have that conversation

01:26:45.205 --> 01:26:48.698
without talking about whiteness at play here and then there's obviously just

01:26:49.121 --> 01:26:51.675
there's an active genocide happening in Palestine.

01:26:52.303 --> 01:26:58.438
And the fact that we can't name that as a manifestation of whiteness,

01:26:59.007 --> 01:27:04.145
and I'm saying Jewish folks have a particular relationship to whiteness that

01:27:04.145 --> 01:27:08.305
is very, very unique and not at all solidified, not in the same way that Irish

01:27:08.305 --> 01:27:11.146
people have assimilated into whiteness. But also...

01:27:12.062 --> 01:27:18.778
I learned that from Jewish folks. I learned my anti-Zionism from Jewish folks

01:27:18.928 --> 01:27:21.275
who understood that and have resisted whiteness.

01:27:22.370 --> 01:27:27.025
And that's still a major, major issue in the primary.

01:27:27.438 --> 01:27:32.348
It's going to be where do Democrats and Republicans, but I think Republicans,

01:27:32.894 --> 01:27:34.480
well, we could talk about that.

01:27:34.480 --> 01:27:38.350
Where do Democrats stand on that? But also Republicans, for different reasons,

01:27:38.350 --> 01:27:43.540
though. I don't think Tucker Carlson is critiquing Israel for the same reason

01:27:43.540 --> 01:27:44.739
that I'm critiquing Israel.

01:27:45.337 --> 01:27:49.042
I think that he's doing it because he don't like Jewish people point blank.

01:27:49.605 --> 01:27:54.556
And that, that is not acceptable to me either. Yeah. Yeah. All right.

01:27:55.309 --> 01:28:00.545
So I want you to answer some questions you pose to the readers of your book.

01:28:01.218 --> 01:28:08.800
Gotcha. I love that. All right. So first question, What white anti-racists are in your life today?

01:28:09.567 --> 01:28:15.988
Oh, man. Great question. So the first anti-racist that I think of in my life is my father.

01:28:16.627 --> 01:28:24.140
My dad, Leon Virden, is somebody who has always taught community and communal

01:28:24.140 --> 01:28:27.326
and look out for each other and do the right thing.

01:28:28.321 --> 01:28:33.336
Make sure people get what they need to succeed. And if something has,

01:28:33.654 --> 01:28:36.609
if there's been harm that's happened, fix it.

01:28:37.086 --> 01:28:40.967
And I think that that's fundamentally anti-racism. And then there are folks

01:28:40.967 --> 01:28:46.522
like I'm close with Christine Saxman and Shelly Touchluck, who wrote Being White Today.

01:28:46.801 --> 01:28:51.214
They're organizing in the Midwest and the West Coast specifically.

01:28:51.545 --> 01:28:56.367
I have a friendship with Robin DiAngelo, who I'm sure listeners have heard, wrote White Fragility.

01:28:56.705 --> 01:29:00.277
I mean, it's trying her best. I have connections where I just interviewed Michelle

01:29:00.277 --> 01:29:02.471
Chalmers, who wrote Liabilities of Whiteness.

01:29:03.347 --> 01:29:08.915
And then I have, you know, my brothers. I have folks in Surge, Chris Kras.

01:29:09.492 --> 01:29:16.260
I have there's I'm I'm pretty so surrounded by white anti-racist in my life. Yeah.

01:29:16.771 --> 01:29:20.727
Yeah. I figured I'd be a softball question for you. Well, I like to I like to

01:29:20.727 --> 01:29:22.877
throw I like to shout them out. You know what I mean?

01:29:23.377 --> 01:29:26.917
Yeah. Go Google them folks. Yeah, it's like Robin's been on the show.

01:29:27.377 --> 01:29:29.006
I was really honored to have her on.

01:29:30.517 --> 01:29:33.894
Hopefully some of the other folks you mentioned, we might be able to get them on too.

01:29:35.093 --> 01:29:40.207
Why is a world free of saviorism good for me?

01:29:41.256 --> 01:29:45.505
Because you, whenever we can come into our full strength.

01:29:45.730 --> 01:29:48.513
Oh, well, actually let me pause. Good for you. Are you saying like you,

01:29:48.513 --> 01:29:51.523
Eric, as a black man or good for me as a white man or just the,

01:29:51.523 --> 01:29:54.863
the general, like, why is it good for individuals? That's the way you phrased

01:29:54.863 --> 01:29:59.500
it in the, in the, in the book. So I guess it's supposed to be introspective.

01:29:59.779 --> 01:30:02.803
Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So depending on both. So the general,

01:30:02.803 --> 01:30:04.968
like, why is it good for you? How I'm thinking about that?

01:30:05.531 --> 01:30:09.933
No matter who the reader is answering that a world free from Saviorism means

01:30:09.933 --> 01:30:13.990
that you are living into your own strength, your own truth, your own capabilities,

01:30:14.372 --> 01:30:15.900
and bringing your talents,

01:30:16.364 --> 01:30:20.583
and your unique skill sets and perspectives to the community,

01:30:20.583 --> 01:30:26.300
to the communal good, and expanding everybody's understanding of how we can do this thing better.

01:30:26.747 --> 01:30:33.064
When we, when our communities and our spaces are full of saviorism,

01:30:33.511 --> 01:30:37.383
we tend not to do that, right? We tend to just fall back and let other people's

01:30:37.383 --> 01:30:39.966
ideas take us where they need to, where we need to go.

01:30:40.707 --> 01:30:46.253
Which is also so funny uh about the ways that particularly white liberals think

01:30:46.253 --> 01:30:51.671
about solving problems right with like philanthropy and and saving people as opposed to.

01:30:52.568 --> 01:30:55.883
You know getting down and dirty with them and seeing like what what what wisdom

01:30:55.883 --> 01:31:00.193
is actually here what knowledge is actually here and yeah that's i talk about

01:31:00.193 --> 01:31:04.467
that in the book too just like what do we actually believe is possible from from communities,

01:31:04.966 --> 01:31:07.878
that that the story is that they're not capable and,

01:31:08.443 --> 01:31:11.273
And then we see bullshit like the, my bad, I mean, I don't know if we can cuss

01:31:11.273 --> 01:31:12.961
on hearing that, but, uh.

01:31:13.920 --> 01:31:18.024
Yeah, the State Department, you know, throwing up maps of Africa with Nigeria

01:31:18.024 --> 01:31:22.954
landlocked, Mozambique up in the Horn of Africa, cultivar on the other complete other side.

01:31:22.954 --> 01:31:28.074
And like we actually have the nerve to act like that we have any sort of standard

01:31:28.074 --> 01:31:31.454
for for like quality and that we can't just go to the block.

01:31:31.454 --> 01:31:34.754
And I say this as teachers, too. Right. Like I was just talking to my brother

01:31:34.754 --> 01:31:37.454
who's a teacher. We're talking about the literacy crisis.

01:31:38.046 --> 01:31:42.835
And it's one of those things. And Chris Embiid talks about this for white folks who teach in the hood.

01:31:43.463 --> 01:31:47.934
If you go and we're talking about hip hop, go listen to a debate about the top

01:31:47.934 --> 01:31:51.864
five or people freestyling or the cypher that happens in the hallway before school.

01:31:52.247 --> 01:31:55.499
You'll see genius. You'll see intelligence. You'll see critical thinking.

01:31:55.853 --> 01:32:01.558
You'll see argument skills. You'll see all the things that we talk about inside

01:32:01.680 --> 01:32:04.653
Honors English 105 or whatever it is.

01:32:05.129 --> 01:32:09.599
It just don't happen via Shakespeare and Faulkner.

01:32:09.872 --> 01:32:15.596
It's Kiese Lamey from Mississippi instead of some of these dead white people.

01:32:16.197 --> 01:32:22.414
And so we just, when we remove saviorism, we start to recognize our own strengths,

01:32:22.414 --> 01:32:25.237
our own intelligence, our own beauty, and our own contributions,

01:32:25.491 --> 01:32:27.807
which makes it easier than to recognize everybody else's.

01:32:28.428 --> 01:32:33.061
And so then we're having authentic relationships, we're having authentic conversations,

01:32:33.467 --> 01:32:38.384
and we're coming up with effective solutions to the actual problems that our community faces.

01:32:39.264 --> 01:32:42.024
That was a really long-winded answer for that. My bad. No, no, no.

01:32:42.604 --> 01:32:47.824
No, you good. You good. It's like, you know, the viral video that's out now

01:32:47.824 --> 01:32:52.255
is, you know, when Tavis Smiley used to have those summits.

01:32:54.014 --> 01:32:56.694
And they were going around the table and Louis Farrakhan said,

01:32:56.694 --> 01:32:57.849
hold up, wait a minute, wait a minute.

01:32:58.424 --> 01:33:02.644
Why are we asking white folks to do something that we can do ourselves?

01:33:02.644 --> 01:33:04.494
And he got a standing ovation for that.

01:33:04.996 --> 01:33:09.684
And, you know, and that's kind of the deal with the, you know,

01:33:09.684 --> 01:33:12.632
that I think about the book, The Black Messiah.

01:33:13.079 --> 01:33:16.295
And the whole concept of that book was that there was one Messiah.

01:33:16.928 --> 01:33:20.870
He happened to be black. And that was Jesus. But it was like,

01:33:21.566 --> 01:33:22.960
we don't need another one.

01:33:23.256 --> 01:33:27.704
It's like we've got that one. That one from our teaching, because he was a theologian,

01:33:27.704 --> 01:33:31.004
is still alive, you know, in our lives and so forth.

01:33:31.004 --> 01:33:37.264
So what we need is more community and more, you know, collective thought as

01:33:37.264 --> 01:33:41.364
opposed to trying to rally behind one person.

01:33:42.093 --> 01:33:46.244
And then the other thing was that, you know, pointing out that when we do single

01:33:46.244 --> 01:33:49.714
out one person in a black community, like a Malcolm X, like a Dr.

01:33:49.714 --> 01:33:52.864
King, they tend to take them out. Right.

01:33:53.474 --> 01:33:57.104
And so a lot of people, I'll never forget when President Obama got elected,

01:33:57.104 --> 01:34:00.064
that was the first thing people were saying, man, they're going to kill him,

01:34:00.064 --> 01:34:01.867
man. He get out here and start doing something.

01:34:02.215 --> 01:34:05.186
I say he's probably the safest black man in America right now.

01:34:05.698 --> 01:34:11.114
He's got a whole army. He literally has a whole army protecting him at any time he wants to.

01:34:11.491 --> 01:34:16.252
He needs the protection it's the rest of us that need to be concerned right

01:34:16.548 --> 01:34:22.230
it's the tamir rices and the trayvon martins and the freddie grays and the george floyds,

01:34:22.847 --> 01:34:27.474
and the philando castills they're the ones that yeah like and we're seeing that

01:34:27.474 --> 01:34:28.750
pushback now that's i mean.

01:34:29.508 --> 01:34:34.449
Carol anderson wrote white rage and and she's uh you know extended that to uh,

01:34:35.096 --> 01:34:38.334
what that's what we're through that now the pushback to an Obama presidency

01:34:38.674 --> 01:34:44.314
is the the nonsense that we're seeing now that's exactly right yeah all right

01:34:44.546 --> 01:34:48.819
another question you asked where have you experienced white fatigue.

01:34:51.440 --> 01:34:56.280
That's a good question. I experienced, so there's a couple ways to think about this.

01:34:56.530 --> 01:35:00.150
So white fatigue is often misunderstood.

01:35:00.150 --> 01:35:06.640
And so like, because it was like black fatigue was the viral thing and it was

01:35:06.940 --> 01:35:10.610
turned into white people being sick of black like that.

01:35:10.610 --> 01:35:13.030
It was being sick of black people. And that's not what I'm thinking about,

01:35:13.030 --> 01:35:16.270
right? And I'm not thinking about white people being sick of white people.

01:35:17.290 --> 01:35:20.549
White fatigue, as I talk about it, is,

01:35:22.802 --> 01:35:27.582
what happens oftentimes for white folks when you learn the true history of our

01:35:27.582 --> 01:35:30.405
country, when you could just get, it can feel overwhelming.

01:35:30.892 --> 01:35:36.512
And so there are times, right? Like I think about the summer of racial reckoning

01:35:36.512 --> 01:35:42.072
and seeing Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, Floyd in one summer, you know what I mean?

01:35:42.072 --> 01:35:46.372
And then we're Sonya Massey and we're seeing, you know, that comes off,

01:35:46.372 --> 01:35:48.582
I'm from Minneapolis. So that came right off Philando.

01:35:49.042 --> 01:35:51.204
My wife went to high school with Phil.

01:35:51.716 --> 01:35:56.862
You know, that was right after Terrence Franklin and Jamar Clark and all that.

01:35:56.862 --> 01:36:04.782
And so for me, my personal answer to that is it is exhausting to see the ways

01:36:04.782 --> 01:36:10.162
that whiteness operates to destroy people and communities that I love and then.

01:36:10.961 --> 01:36:17.071
To have to have some of the most basic conversations about race and have that be debated.

01:36:17.530 --> 01:36:21.942
That can be exhausting it can be exhausting so there's that way and then there's

01:36:21.942 --> 01:36:28.181
also just it can it can be exhausting to to process the truth of of what's going on,

01:36:28.876 --> 01:36:32.462
you know what i mean i remember a mentor of mine and folks your audience will

01:36:32.462 --> 01:36:38.314
probably recognize his name resuma and my grandmother's hands was popular booked in the uprisings,

01:36:38.877 --> 01:36:42.602
um and he's from minneapolis and when it when that came out his release party

01:36:42.602 --> 01:36:47.512
what he did is he had the postcards of lynchings And he took the black folks

01:36:47.512 --> 01:36:50.922
out And it just had the white people Who had brought their kids like it was

01:36:51.342 --> 01:36:52.442
a theater You know what I mean?

01:36:52.442 --> 01:36:56.312
It was like an event It was like this is what we're going to do And he asked

01:36:56.312 --> 01:36:59.446
white folks to like sit with that What does that mean? What is that like?

01:36:59.818 --> 01:37:03.202
How are you living that? How is that Trauma being carried with you?

01:37:03.202 --> 01:37:07.475
Epigenetically and morally And spiritually and physically,

01:37:09.160 --> 01:37:15.024
And that comes with emotional, mental, and physical tiredness and fatigue.

01:37:15.641 --> 01:37:20.940
And so white fatigue is something I want to say we need to not experience it

01:37:20.940 --> 01:37:22.480
or name it when we're experiencing it.

01:37:22.748 --> 01:37:25.621
But we can't let it stop us as white folks, particularly.

01:37:28.140 --> 01:37:32.407
How does being capable of interrupting racism feel?

01:37:33.357 --> 01:37:38.908
How does it feel scary? Sometimes. Rewarding? Sometimes.

01:37:40.019 --> 01:37:46.416
I think the biggest thing that I feel with it and that I hope others feel is

01:37:46.767 --> 01:37:51.256
a sense of duty and just ability.

01:37:52.519 --> 01:37:56.919
I know what to do and going to do it. And so there's just a sort of,

01:37:57.259 --> 01:38:02.700
I don't know what the, what would you say? Like maybe just like a steadfastness.

01:38:02.985 --> 01:38:06.009
You feel just like grounded and steadfast. Like this is what it is.

01:38:06.009 --> 01:38:08.871
And if this happens, this is how I'm going to act.

01:38:09.277 --> 01:38:11.210
Period. Point blank. No question about it.

01:38:12.180 --> 01:38:15.139
A sense of resolve. That's the word I'm looking for. Resolve.

01:38:15.139 --> 01:38:16.533
Like, you feel resolved.

01:38:17.108 --> 01:38:20.129
Or in the hip-hop community, standing on business, right? Yeah,

01:38:20.129 --> 01:38:23.284
you're 10 toes down. You're going to stand on business. Exactly. 100%.

01:38:24.007 --> 01:38:26.676
All right, you end your book with this passage.

01:38:27.416 --> 01:38:33.785
We can live in a world that values stories. We can live in a world that sees the divine in creation.

01:38:34.244 --> 01:38:39.718
We can live in a world where we celebrate similarities and grow from learning about differences.

01:38:40.188 --> 01:38:45.739
We can live in a world that is curious and searching for connection We can unlearn

01:38:45.739 --> 01:38:50.903
the whiteness frame for understanding the world We can live in harmony,

01:38:51.635 --> 01:38:56.249
So my question to you is Do you believe that the readers of Breaking the Privilege

01:38:56.249 --> 01:39:00.807
Frame Will act accordingly to make that possibility a reality?

01:39:01.814 --> 01:39:06.028
I do, yeah, I can honestly say that, I do I think,

01:39:06.549 --> 01:39:10.492
I've traveled the country doing this work And I haven't,

01:39:11.419 --> 01:39:15.239
Most of the people that I met I think I can think of two offhand Who are just

01:39:15.239 --> 01:39:17.824
like, no, I don't like people like that Like, I don't like them,

01:39:18.271 --> 01:39:22.099
Most of the people that I meet are like, yeah, I can get with that And they're

01:39:22.099 --> 01:39:25.369
just afraid Or they think that it comes with giving up something Or somebody,

01:39:25.369 --> 01:39:28.549
you know, in order to do that They gotta suffer in some way,

01:39:29.065 --> 01:39:32.994
And so I hope that Breaking the Privilege Frame makes it clear that.

01:39:34.041 --> 01:39:38.503
In the short term and in some really narrow senses, you're going to lose some

01:39:38.503 --> 01:39:42.721
advantages in white supremacy of being white, but you're going to gain so much more.

01:39:43.249 --> 01:39:45.483
You're going to gain connection. You're going to gain healing.

01:39:45.483 --> 01:39:48.373
You're going to gain power. You're going to come away with a sense of being

01:39:48.373 --> 01:39:53.065
resolved about doing something about racism and white supremacy.

01:39:53.698 --> 01:39:58.293
And so I do think that the readers of Breaking the Privileged Frame will do

01:39:58.293 --> 01:40:04.567
it and will take it seriously and work towards that world of harmony and connection.

01:40:05.293 --> 01:40:09.770
All right. So finish this sentence. I have hope because.

01:40:10.427 --> 01:40:14.495
I am human and we are human. All right. That's cool.

01:40:15.753 --> 01:40:19.446
If people want to get this book, Breaking the Privileged Frame, how can they do that?

01:40:19.796 --> 01:40:23.273
So it's available anywhere you buy books. I would tell you to go check out your

01:40:23.273 --> 01:40:28.330
local independent bookstore. If they're not currently have a copy in stock, ask them to order it.

01:40:28.875 --> 01:40:33.653
Otherwise, go to like bookshop.org, anywhere by Amazon. But if you must,

01:40:33.653 --> 01:40:35.376
you can order it on Amazon.

01:40:37.281 --> 01:40:40.166
So if people want to reach out to you, how can they do that?

01:40:40.502 --> 01:40:44.528
You can reach out on Instagram, Ryan Verdon Official.

01:40:44.936 --> 01:40:49.261
You can find me on website, Lear Cultural Coaching. That's L-I-R.

01:40:49.702 --> 01:40:53.737
Yeah, really, I monitor those pretty closely. If you Google Ryan Virden,

01:40:53.737 --> 01:40:58.157
V-I-R-D-E-N, I'll come up. There'll be any of those ways to contact me.

01:40:58.157 --> 01:41:02.387
And I definitely love interacting with folks. So do get in touch.

01:41:03.085 --> 01:41:08.217
Well, Ryan Virden, first of all, thank you for writing the book and thank you

01:41:08.217 --> 01:41:11.067
for doing the work that you're doing.

01:41:11.407 --> 01:41:18.167
I think it's vitally important that, you know, in a previous conversation,

01:41:18.167 --> 01:41:23.707
somebody asked me about can America survive what we're going through now?

01:41:23.707 --> 01:41:28.101
And I said, yeah, if we have a mindset of rebuilding.

01:41:29.987 --> 01:41:34.540
And I always use the example, I say always, I've been using the example lately,

01:41:35.281 --> 01:41:38.875
to remind people that Jesus was only a rabbi for three years.

01:41:39.275 --> 01:41:41.254
Prior to that, he was a carpenter.

01:41:41.759 --> 01:41:47.357
There's a lesson in that, that in order to make something better,

01:41:47.357 --> 01:41:51.337
sometimes you have to tear stuff down, but you gotta have the capacity to build

01:41:51.337 --> 01:41:52.742
something better, something new.

01:41:53.531 --> 01:41:59.533
And so I believe that what you're doing with this book and the teaching and

01:41:59.533 --> 01:42:06.986
the counseling and all that stuff is the kind of work that needs to be done to make this happen.

01:42:07.628 --> 01:42:12.573
And so I greatly appreciate you doing that. And of course, I'm really,

01:42:12.573 --> 01:42:15.543
really humbled and honored that you took the time to come on a podcast.

01:42:15.543 --> 01:42:16.969
So thank you again for being here.

01:42:17.489 --> 01:42:21.503
Man, thank you, Erik. Thank you for making the time. I'm humbled and honored,

01:42:22.003 --> 01:42:26.012
to come on here. And yeah, I appreciate it. I appreciate it.

01:42:26.441 --> 01:42:30.553
So now the rule, before I let you go, the rule is that once you've been on the

01:42:30.553 --> 01:42:33.273
show, that you have an open invitation to come back.

01:42:33.273 --> 01:42:37.393
So if you've got some other projects happening, if you want to continue the

01:42:37.393 --> 01:42:42.131
discussion about the greatest hip hop people, or you want to get real deep into

01:42:42.520 --> 01:42:46.485
changing this country, just let me know, brother, and we'll let you come back on.

01:42:47.123 --> 01:42:49.563
I appreciate it. So hold on. Can I ask you that? Because, you know,

01:42:49.563 --> 01:42:51.892
the hip-hop conversation, I was like, oh, we could get into that.

01:42:52.538 --> 01:42:56.433
Well, Kendrick or Lupe, you follow that debate where Lupe said he's a better

01:42:56.433 --> 01:42:59.491
rapper, but Kendrick is a better artist? Where are you at?

01:43:00.112 --> 01:43:06.072
Well, I think, you know, paying for a show, Lupe is probably a better show.

01:43:06.706 --> 01:43:10.243
But I can't fight a brother that won a Pulitzer Prize, man.

01:43:11.383 --> 01:43:15.449
I just can't do that. You know, Kendrick, and that Super Bowl,

01:43:16.098 --> 01:43:20.413
you know, I'm sorry, that's right up, that Super Bowl performance is right up

01:43:20.413 --> 01:43:24.103
there, one of the best ones ever done, and the thought that he put into it and

01:43:24.103 --> 01:43:26.999
the way that he tied it in with his lyrics,

01:43:27.753 --> 01:43:29.036
yeah, that's...

01:43:29.794 --> 01:43:35.843
If that's not artistry, I don't know what that is. Yeah. You know what I mean? No, facts, facts.

01:43:36.244 --> 01:43:40.433
It's one of, I always enter, you know, in my bio, I always say that facetiously,

01:43:40.433 --> 01:43:43.283
like, I'll debate your top five or whatever. And some, actually not always,

01:43:43.283 --> 01:43:46.453
but sometimes people's top five needs to be like, come on, man.

01:43:47.291 --> 01:43:49.853
But for the most part, when I talk to people like that, I'm like,

01:43:49.853 --> 01:43:53.453
man, what a blessing it is to be able to debate such high art, right?

01:43:53.453 --> 01:43:58.893
Like, to be able to, to live at a time with Kendrick and Lupe and Mos and Ali,

01:43:59.473 --> 01:44:03.729
and Black Thought and, you know, some of these folks, it's just like,

01:44:04.362 --> 01:44:07.601
it's what gives me hope, for real. Yeah.

01:44:08.094 --> 01:44:11.606
Well, Ryan, again, thank you for doing this, brother. I appreciate it.

01:44:11.606 --> 01:44:15.061
Thank you, Erik. All right, guys, and we're going to catch y'all on the other side.

01:44:27.606 --> 01:44:36.176
Right. And we are back. And so I want to thank my guests, Eileen Isola and Ryan Virden.

01:44:36.176 --> 01:44:39.746
First of all, Lieutenant Colonel, I got it right in the intros,

01:44:40.126 --> 01:44:45.206
but during the interview, I noticed that I did the Mississippi thing with your

01:44:45.206 --> 01:44:47.592
last name instead of the way I was supposed to say it.

01:44:47.963 --> 01:44:50.084
In Mississippi, there's a town called Isola.

01:44:50.899 --> 01:44:57.976
And so if I called you Isola instead of Isola I deeply apologize. And I appreciate

01:44:57.976 --> 01:45:02.502
your grace if I mispronounced your name for letting me slide with that.

01:45:03.038 --> 01:45:08.697
You know, but Eileen Isola, you know, the book that she has written,

01:45:09.048 --> 01:45:13.235
it's powerful because it's a historical book.

01:45:13.862 --> 01:45:18.176
And it's based off of the narratives of people, primarily women,

01:45:18.176 --> 01:45:23.538
who went through the Air Force Academy over these last 50 years.

01:45:24.139 --> 01:45:25.926
And, you know, just...

01:45:27.138 --> 01:45:31.958
You know, like I told her, the most moving part of that book was,

01:45:32.835 --> 01:45:36.661
you know, all of it is powerful, but that navigating part.

01:45:37.336 --> 01:45:41.828
Because in the navigating, one of the things as a soldier that you have to navigate

01:45:41.828 --> 01:45:45.808
is that some of the, especially if you go to war, some of the people you build

01:45:45.808 --> 01:45:50.461
relationships with, some of the people, camaraderie, folks in your unit,

01:45:50.652 --> 01:45:52.272
folks that you command even.

01:45:53.028 --> 01:45:58.386
You know, in war, you lose those people or you could lose those people.

01:45:58.920 --> 01:46:01.537
And so the way that.

01:46:03.658 --> 01:46:10.478
The painstaking way to humanize those folks that serve, because,

01:46:10.478 --> 01:46:16.238
you know, like I said, we go on the news and you'll see a face that maybe any

01:46:16.238 --> 01:46:18.612
event, Memorial Day, something like that.

01:46:18.955 --> 01:46:23.218
One of the families of the soldiers will, representatives will,

01:46:23.218 --> 01:46:25.276
you know, say some things or whatever.

01:46:25.949 --> 01:46:31.051
But when you read the book, the people that were highlighted that were lost,

01:46:31.547 --> 01:46:35.547
and just the detail and just the humanism that was put on them,

01:46:36.278 --> 01:46:38.246
it's like even though you don't know them,

01:46:40.218 --> 01:46:45.038
you feel that loss with the people telling the story in that book.

01:46:45.038 --> 01:46:50.158
And I really, that was a really, really moving part for me because it's just

01:46:50.158 --> 01:46:54.841
a reminder that when you sign up to serve in our military,

01:46:55.663 --> 01:46:58.998
you know, that, you know, a lot of people like, well, man, I'm just trying to

01:46:58.998 --> 01:47:04.018
get free education for college or, you know, I just want to get some benefits,

01:47:04.018 --> 01:47:05.818
you know, good health care plan.

01:47:05.818 --> 01:47:09.996
I mean, you know, just stuff that people are trying to get in a regular employment,

01:47:10.648 --> 01:47:13.905
that the government provides through military service.

01:47:14.814 --> 01:47:20.140
But the job is to defend the nation and to fight in wars.

01:47:21.939 --> 01:47:28.794
And that is one of the casualties is, you know, it's the reality,

01:47:28.794 --> 01:47:30.705
I should say, is being a casualty.

01:47:31.267 --> 01:47:34.390
Because even if you don't die, you may get hurt.

01:47:35.166 --> 01:47:40.774
And, you know, I encourage people, listen to podcasts, get involved with Wounded

01:47:40.774 --> 01:47:43.791
Warrior Project and all these other different organizations.

01:47:44.336 --> 01:47:51.034
Organizations, USO, anything you can, you know, to, to help people who are trying

01:47:51.034 --> 01:47:56.345
to, because some people adjust really, really well, but a number of people do not.

01:47:56.769 --> 01:48:00.123
And so all these different organizations are there to help.

01:48:00.358 --> 01:48:04.544
You know, I mentioned I was in the American Legion for a little bit and,

01:48:04.544 --> 01:48:09.314
you know, there's veterans of foreign wars, all these, all these different support organizations.

01:48:09.610 --> 01:48:13.174
You know, when they have fundraisers, do the best that you can.

01:48:13.614 --> 01:48:17.394
I know things are hard and everybody, including me, is asking you for money

01:48:17.394 --> 01:48:22.364
for stuff. And this is campaign season. And if I get another urgent email from

01:48:22.364 --> 01:48:24.953
John Ossoff, oh my God, right?

01:48:25.659 --> 01:48:31.499
We know you're trying to raise money, brother. We get it. And I support you 100%.

01:48:31.667 --> 01:48:37.197
But not every email is urgent, my bad. You just ask me for the money.

01:48:37.551 --> 01:48:38.194
You know what I'm saying?

01:48:38.674 --> 01:48:41.284
Just ask for the money. We know you're out there campaigning.

01:48:41.284 --> 01:48:42.689
We know that you're in a battle.

01:48:43.276 --> 01:48:50.699
But anyway, but back to Eileen Isola, please go get that book. Necessary Turbulence.

01:48:51.400 --> 01:48:53.960
Please go get that book. And then Ryan Verdon.

01:48:55.145 --> 01:48:59.000
You know, he's in the Atlanta area, so I think I finally got another friend. Yay.

01:48:59.453 --> 01:49:09.405
Ryan is doing some real work in helping rebuild this nation because we've got

01:49:09.405 --> 01:49:11.753
to get away from this whole.

01:49:13.553 --> 01:49:16.705
Well, let me say it like this, and this will kind of lead into my commentary,

01:49:16.705 --> 01:49:19.011
right? Whiteness is overrated.

01:49:20.037 --> 01:49:27.435
And I say that not to demean the value of people who identify as white,

01:49:27.435 --> 01:49:30.125
but this whole thing about.

01:49:31.265 --> 01:49:35.374
You know, we got these people in office now that want to NDI,

01:49:35.950 --> 01:49:41.445
and and take, you know, turn the clock back on all the civil rights gains that

01:49:41.445 --> 01:49:45.305
were made and this, that and the other and the Confederate soldiers and the

01:49:45.305 --> 01:49:47.116
South will rise again and all that crap.

01:49:47.913 --> 01:49:52.925
So it's over with. It's done. It's, you know, we get it that this is the life

01:49:52.925 --> 01:49:56.630
support movement for that, but it's over with.

01:49:56.973 --> 01:50:02.233
You can go ahead and pull the plug on it. Because once the people are in place

01:50:02.640 --> 01:50:06.552
and starting in this election, 2026, people will be in place.

01:50:07.173 --> 01:50:11.121
And once those people are in place and then more people and more people by,

01:50:12.005 --> 01:50:17.755
I would say, by 2032, this country will be going in a totally different direction.

01:50:17.755 --> 01:50:22.115
And if you're still trying to cling on to the racist past, you're going to be

01:50:22.115 --> 01:50:24.595
left behind and left out of the conversation.

01:50:24.595 --> 01:50:30.435
One of the things I was mentioning offline was that just look at what happened

01:50:30.435 --> 01:50:37.037
with South Africa and look at how Nelson Mandela and the ANC got power.

01:50:38.067 --> 01:50:43.176
P.W. Bolta and all them guys weren't dead. They just conceded power.

01:50:43.825 --> 01:50:47.917
And once they conceded power, South Africa started rebuilding.

01:50:48.655 --> 01:50:54.497
And, you know, you hear all this stuff from Elon Musk and all these other disgruntled

01:50:54.497 --> 01:50:57.687
folks because they're not in power anymore, right?

01:50:58.067 --> 01:51:03.226
They grew up, you know, Elon Musk is old enough to have grown up in apartheid.

01:51:04.070 --> 01:51:12.620
And, you know, when you've been doing everything, you've been able to sashay through everything,

01:51:13.467 --> 01:51:17.768
and then to have that power taken away from you, rightfully so,

01:51:18.594 --> 01:51:20.655
yeah, you're not dealing with it well.

01:51:21.221 --> 01:51:28.733
But what's happening is that South Africa did not regress. It has moved forward.

01:51:29.471 --> 01:51:33.309
Economically has moved forward. It's politically stable.

01:51:34.070 --> 01:51:43.881
It's, you know, it's considered one of the nations that are players in international discussions.

01:51:44.817 --> 01:51:49.889
And so that can happen here in America,

01:51:50.717 --> 01:51:58.007
It should happen here And not trying to, you know, do the USA-USA kind of thing

01:51:58.007 --> 01:52:03.998
But I've always made the argument That the United States is the most unique nation on the planet.

01:52:04.958 --> 01:52:12.227
We've only been in existence for 250 years And we have such influence I'll see you next time.

01:52:13.077 --> 01:52:20.702
Every nation that is established in the world has a representative as a citizen of this nation.

01:52:21.729 --> 01:52:25.114
There's something divine in that. There's something powerful in that.

01:52:25.704 --> 01:52:32.447
And if we don't embrace it, if we keep getting caught up in white is right and

01:52:32.447 --> 01:52:35.498
everything else is okay, we're going to miss it.

01:52:36.104 --> 01:52:40.930
We're going to miss it. And I think we've been pushing that blessing off long enough.

01:52:41.702 --> 01:52:46.604
I think it's time for us to take it to another level. Speaking of which.

01:52:49.137 --> 01:52:53.878
We used to have a little phrase growing up, say, some got to be dead.

01:52:55.676 --> 01:53:02.144
And something has to be done about corruption.

01:53:03.194 --> 01:53:09.256
You know, it's one thing for the New York Times or the Washington Post or some

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other periodical or news outlet find corruption and expose it.

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Or the Department of Justice, you know, does an investigation and finds corruption in people.

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You know, and that's a news story and people follow it and follow the trial and all that stuff.

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And, you know, and there's consequences if you get caught.

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But we've gotten to the point now where because of the brazenness of racism,

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we now see a brazenness in corruption.

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So the U.S. Senate is really, really struggling with Todd Blanch being the permanent attorney general.

01:53:56.199 --> 01:54:05.446
And the issue is the money that Donald Trump wants to give to people who stormed

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the Capitol on January 6th.

01:54:07.826 --> 01:54:14.656
And for those senators who were there that day, some of them in their mind has

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reconciled, well, it's okay because we're in charge again.

01:54:19.846 --> 01:54:23.556
Everything's all right. So we'll just, we'll let that slide.

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And that's what the president wants. And far be it for me to anger the president.

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But there are some senators who really have nothing to lose,

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and they are doing their best to try to say, if you want this man to be the

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attorney general of the United States,

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then that weaponization fund has to be off the table, period, done.

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And we need that in writing because it's one thing to say you ain't going to

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do it, then you get what you want, and then you do it anyway.

01:54:59.288 --> 01:55:02.615
So we need that in writing. And these folks don't want to put it in writing.

01:55:03.328 --> 01:55:08.227
They want to get what they want and then do the corrupt thing, right?

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And to me, if the Senate had done that from the opening day,

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from inauguration day in 2025, we would not be in this position once they saw

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the direction that this was going.

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It's like this whole deal with us going to war with Iran is more about money,

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than it is about nuclear weapons and it is about stability in the Middle East,

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or even making sure that oil commodities can travel astray to Hormuz, right?

01:55:50.145 --> 01:55:56.175
But see, like Ukraine and Russia are fighting a war over the sovereign independence of Ukraine.

01:55:56.687 --> 01:56:01.868
Russia is trying to reclaim Ukraine or at least part of it or more of it than

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it got the last time. That's how they got Crimea.

01:56:05.594 --> 01:56:09.888
And Ukraine is like, no, we are an independent nation and we're going to stand

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up for ourselves. That's more of a traditional war.

01:56:13.828 --> 01:56:17.743
Not that war is good, but that's usually how that works.

01:56:17.923 --> 01:56:24.384
Right. When Saddam Hussein wanted to reclaim Kuwait for Iraq,

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the world said, no, that's not going to happen. Right.

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And he had to back off.

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Those are traditional things. But this whole thing with Iran,

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we don't know as American citizens.

01:56:39.971 --> 01:56:43.269
We don't know why we're doing what we're doing.

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And that's a weird feeling, right? With Vietnam, people were not comfortable with it.

01:56:51.643 --> 01:56:54.169
But the premise was there. It's

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like, okay, well, we're trying to stop the spread of communism in Asia.

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We'd already got a track record of doing it in Korea. So now Vietnam is the

01:57:03.429 --> 01:57:05.515
next chapter in that story, right?

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And then China is like right in the middle. They've already committed.

01:57:09.160 --> 01:57:11.767
Russia at the time, the Soviet Union still existed.

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So that was a plausible argument.

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The United States was against the spread of communism. And so initially we went

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over to help the French and then we ended up embroiled in a war.

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That we did not win, by the way. And so, you know, again, plausible reasoning.

01:57:40.606 --> 01:57:48.581
But this whole Iran thing, it's it's nothing more because every other story

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I'm hearing is that, well, we're in a ceasefire. We're not on a ceasefire.

01:57:52.721 --> 01:57:55.576
We're going to stop shooting. The strait is open, all that stuff.

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And then you watch the volatility of the stock market based on the updates about what's going on in Iraq.

01:58:04.815 --> 01:58:08.257
And you start to see a pattern that this is a game about money.

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This has nothing to do with fighting

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for democracy or fighting for Iranian independence or none of that.

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End of the, you know, all those things have been said, but that's not the real mission.

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And to me, that's blatant corruption, right?

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Blatant corruption is the value system that we're supposed to have.

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Because when you make a commitment to fight, that means you're making a commitment

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to lose lives and to take lives in order to fight for a principle worth dying for.

01:58:48.967 --> 01:58:54.482
The 18 young men and women who have died, what did they die for, right?

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Other than they were stationed where the conflict took place.

01:59:00.946 --> 01:59:08.057
That's insane. If we're going to do this, then it needs to be explained why we're doing it.

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That's a blatant corruption, not so much of dollars and cents, but of our goodwill.

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We're supposed to hold the presidency. We're supposed to hold the U.S.

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Government in high esteem, the U.S. military in high esteem.

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But you jeopardize that when you do whatever you want to do and don't feel you

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have to be accountable for anything. People that are not accountable have no value.

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Let me say that again. People that are not accountable have no value.

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If you can't say I made a mistake, or if you can't articulate a cause for doing

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what you do, then you're not being accountable.

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And if you're not accountable, then how can we put a value on you?

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Because you don't care. You don't care about us.

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You don't care about the damage you're causing.

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All you care about is, how am I going to make some money off of that?

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You know, the polymarkers are making money off how long the ceasefire is going

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to last. Who's going to strike first?

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How many days is the ceasefire? I mean, you know, just all sorts of just stupid

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stuff instead of a nation rallying around a cause. Right.

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I was just reminded of a story that I'm a diehard Cubs fan.

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And even though I lived on the south side of Chicago, went to White Sox games,

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I love the White Sox because I love baseball.

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But truth be told, I'm a diehard Cubs fan. And as you know, the Cubs didn't

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get lights until like the late 80s, early 90s. Right.

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The last major league team not to play night games.

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That was supposed to have ended in the 1940s. As a matter of fact,

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construction on the lights was supposed to start in November of 1941.

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A month later, Japan attacked Pearl Harbor.

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And Mr. Wrigley, who owned the Cubs at that time,

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immediately, whether it was an immediate call from the president or immediately,

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realized the dire situation we were in,

02:01:23.602 --> 02:01:30.396
stopped the construction of the lights and donated all the steel that was supposed

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to be used to build the lights,

02:01:33.023 --> 02:01:39.746
to the United States government to use for weapons or planes or tanks or wherever

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they wanted to use that steel for.

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185 tons of steel that this man had bought to put lights on a baseball stadium.

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In December of 1941, He took all that steel and gave it to the United States

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government and said, go win the war.

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That's fighting for a cause. That's what people do when there's a cause to fight

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for. People take action to make sure that the United States is successful in

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their battles. That's the dedication.

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Who is the rallying cry for Iran? What is the rallying cry for Iran?

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Nothing. But we're supposed to just go along with it because President Trump

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says this is what I want to do.

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That's corrupting. That's insulting. And we need to stand up with that.

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Just like these senators are standing up against this corruption.

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Because the other part of the deal that everybody keeps wanting to slide it,

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they keep throwing the weaponization fund in front of you.

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But the other part of the deal is the Trump family wants to be exempt from paying

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taxes for the rest of their lives and not have to pay any back taxes for the

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taxes they didn't pay prior to that.

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A grift. And so, you know, if I was in the Senate, I wouldn't vote for it either.

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But of course, I'd be a Democrat, so probably nothing I'd vote for in this administration, to be honest.

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But just standing on principle, no.

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You want me to commit U.S. tax dollars. You get mad at me when I say I want

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to commit U.S. tax dollars to create universal health care.

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You get mad at me when I want to continue to spend money to have a department

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of education. You would get mad at me for pushing universal childcare or universal

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childcare credits even, right?

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But you want me to give money to people who stormed the building that I worked at?

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U.S. Capitol building? That's what you're asking, if I was a senator,

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that's what you'd be asking me to do.

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You want me to give money to people that you pardoned for doing your work and

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trying to disrupt an election that you lost, the count of the election,

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the official count, the certification.

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You want to disrupt that because you can't accept losing.

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You pardon those people that did that for you. And now you want me to vote for those folks to get paid.

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That's not being a Democrat. That's.

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Just common sense. I wouldn't do that. And none of the senators that actually

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are elected should do that, regardless of political affiliation. That's insane.

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But that's a sign of corruption.

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Again, corruption is not just about money. It's about your soul. Your soul is corrupt.

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There's no boundaries.

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The very first paragraph, what we call the preamble to the United States Constitution,

02:04:57.258 --> 02:05:00.788
is the most important paragraph on the planet.

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I heard John Meacham talk about the most important sentence in world history

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is the sentence that says we hold these truths to be self-evident,

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that all men are created equal, right?

02:05:16.365 --> 02:05:22.450
That they're endowed by their creator with life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, right?

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He said that was the most important sentence. But to me, the most important

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paragraph ever written is the preamble to the United States Constitution.

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We, the people, in order to form a more perfect union, that's the North Star. That's the guide.

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That's what we should be working toward every day.

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Not the most abundant stock portfolio.

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Not the most side deals we can get with Saudi Arabia and China and all these other folks.

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The perfect union. That's what we should be pushing for each and every day.

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When those men and women take that oath, whether it's to fight in the military

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or to serve in the United States Congress, or even the President of the United States,

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when you take that oath to uphold the Constitution, you are supposed to be upholding,

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the very first paragraph.

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More importantly, we the people, in order to form a more perfect union.

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And in that paragraph, It defines three things.

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We're supposed to provide a defense for this nation. We're supposed to promote

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the general welfare of this nation.

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And we're supposed to protect the individual liberties of its citizens.

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That's all in that one paragraph.

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And these people raise their right hand and don't want to shake the hand of

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the vice president and all that.

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Because their soul is corrupted. And if we are going to have a nation that is

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going to extend beyond the 250 years of its current existence,

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we've got to redeem the soul.

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We've got to, we've got to rebuild the soul of this nation.

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So, you know, I just, when you go to the polls this November.

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Do it for good.

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Not just for Alex Pretty and Renee Good, but for good of the nation.

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Your vote this year will be a prayer for redemption.

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Your vote this year will be a commitment to rebuilding this nation.

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Your vote this year should be a guarantee that the United States of America

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will stand for another 250 years.

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That's why this election is important.

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Not because my friends are saying we urgently need you to donate money.

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The future of this country, the future that we envision for this country is on the line.

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If you believe that this nation should stand through the test of time, then vote like it.

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Stop voting for these people who just want to be part of the current corruption.

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Stop voting for people who tap dance for lobbyists and donors.

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Vote for the people. I don't care if you're in Michigan.

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I don't care if you're in Louisiana, Alabama, Georgia, Tennessee,

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Mississippi, Illinois, New York, Maine, Vermont, Maryland, California,

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Oregon, wherever you are.

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Please, please, please, ladies and gentlemen, vote for our future.

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Vote for our greatness.

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Vote for the America you want to live in.

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That's all I got Thank y'all for listening Until next time.

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