March 29, 2026

Journeys Featuring Leatrice De Bruhl and W. Ralph Eubanks

Journeys Featuring Leatrice De Bruhl and W. Ralph Eubanks
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Journeys Featuring Leatrice De Bruhl and W. Ralph Eubanks

In this episode, Leatrice De Bruhl, Founder/CEO of Phenomenal B.L.A.Qu.E Women, LLC, explains her journey to develop the concept of Grace to Grieve. Then, renowned author W. Ralph Eubanks talks about his latest book, When It’s Darkness on the Delta, which chronicles his experiences in the Mississippi Delta.

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Host Erik Fleming welcomes guests Leatrice De Bruhl and W. Ralph Eubanks to discuss grief, healing, and the Mississippi Delta's history and literature. Leatrice shares her personal journey of loss and her Grace to Grieve movement, while Eubanks unpacks his new book exploring the Delta's social and cultural legacy.

The episode blends personal testimony with historical insight, offering listeners inspiration, advocacy for mental health, and a deeper understanding of the Delta's role in America's story.

00:05 - Introduction and Thanks

01:14 - The Moment of News

03:47 - Introducing Leatrice De Bruhl

08:04 - Leatrice’s Journey of Healing

14:12 - The Grace to Grieve Movement

17:39 - Empowering Women Through Grief

21:37 - Wisdom for Policymakers

25:27 - Advice for White Women

28:06 - Observations on Strength

30:09 - Hope and Faith

33:47 - Introducing W. Ralph Eubanks

34:43 - Celebrating Mississippi’s Literary Giants

39:04 - The Importance of Perspective

41:56 - Teaching at Parchman

47:09 - Writing About America

49:29 - The Connection of Blues to History

54:19 - The Significance of Mound Bayou

57:40 - The Role of Chinese Grocery Stores

01:03:52 - The Legacy of the Rooney Rule

01:05:05 - Philanthropy vs. Government Assistance

01:08:08 - The Takeaway from the Delta Story

01:11:34 - Reflections on Guests

01:16:30 - Rant on Political Disappointments

01:22:04 - Critique of Senator Fetterman

01:35:32 - Critique of James Uthmeier

01:48:53 - Call for Thoughtful Leadership

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The following program is hosted by the NBG Podcast Network.

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Hello and welcome to Another Moment with Erik Fleming. I am your host, Erik Fleming.

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So today I have two guests.

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One is going to talk about her personal journey and it's fitting that her story

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is dropping in this episode because the day that this episode drops will be her birthday.

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So happy birthday to my guest.

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And then my other guest is one of the more renowned writers from Mississippi.

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And we're going to talk about his latest book, which really touches on a part

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of the state that a lot of people know the truth, but there's still some mythology behind it.

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And he breaks it down pretty good and I think you'll enjoy our discussion.

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I think you'll enjoy the book better, but you'll definitely enjoy the discussion.

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Anyway, I'm just really glad to have y'all listen and hope you enjoy those interviews.

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All right, let's go ahead and kick this program off. As always,

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we kick it off with a moment of news with Grace G.

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Thanks, Erik. The House rejected a Senate funding agreement for most Department

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of Homeland Security components, including the TSA and Coast Guard,

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while leaving ICE and Border Patrol out of the deal for future negotiation.

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The Senate confirmed Republican Senator Markwayne Mullen as the new head of

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the Department of Homeland Security.

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President Trump signed an executive order requiring federal contractors to eliminate

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diversity, equity, and inclusion practices. The U.S.

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Department of Justice is moving to drop criminal charges against two former

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Louisville officers accused of falsifying the search warrant in the Breonna Taylor case.

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The state of Minnesota filed a lawsuit against the Department of Justice and

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Department of Homeland Security to gain access to evidence regarding the fatal

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shootings of Renee Good and Alex Pretti.

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An Air Canada Express jet collision with a fire truck at LaGuardia Airport resulted

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in the deaths of both pilots and numerous injuries.

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A federal judge has halted a restrictive Pentagon policy that would have allowed

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the government to label journalists as security risks.

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Alexia Moore, a 31-year-old Georgia woman, has been charged with murder after

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taking abortion medication that led to the death of a premature infant.

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A California jury ordered Bill Cosby to pay nearly $20 million in damages to

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Donna Motsinger after finding him liable for a sexual assault that occurred in 1972.

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A Florida Democrat, Emily Gregory, successfully flipped a Republican state house

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seat near President Trump's Mar-a-Lago resort.

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A Los Angeles jury found Google and Meta liable for social media addiction.

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A New Mexico jury ordered Meta to pay $375 million in penalties after finding

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the company violated state consumer protection laws.

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And former FBI Director Robert Mueller died at the age of 81.

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I am Grace Gee, and this has been a Moment of News.

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All right. Thank you, Grace, for that moment of news. And now it's time for

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my next guest, Leatrice De Bruhl, speaker, life and grief coach, storyteller, expert,

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mental health professional, CEO, and founder of Phenomenal Black Women, LLC.

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From trauma to testimony, Leatrice De Bruhl turned pain into purpose after surviving

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abuse, injustice, mental health battles, and the heartbreaking loss of her only child to suicide.

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Now she speaks to heal, uplift, and help others rise.

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She walks alongside other women who feel alone and suffer in silence.

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Leatrice has experienced the fires, yet her flame is still lit.

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Life has been both her experience and years of expertise, although on paper

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she possesses two degrees, one being a master's degree in psychology.

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Leatrice has over 20 years of law enforcement experience and years working as

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a mental health professional.

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Her greatest accomplishment was being a single mother who raised her son alone.

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Grace to grieve, keeping faith, is her focus to conquer any adversity,

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turning pain into purpose to motivate women to continue their journey,

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live, and love to lead their legacy.

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Leatrice offers hope in the hearts of women, tools in their hands,

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and the courage to move from brokenness to breakthrough.

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She empowers them to face adversity with courage, embrace grace in their grief,

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and take actionable steps toward emotional and spiritual healing.

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Through her story of loss, trauma, and redemption, the audience will learn that

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pain doesn't have a final word, and they can find grace and strength to rise again.

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Ladies and gentlemen, it is my distinct honor and privilege to have as a guest

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on this podcast, Leatrice De Bruhl.

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All right, Leatrice De Bruhl. How are you doing, sister? You doing good?

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I'm doing fantastic now.

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Well, so am I. Thank you so much for doing this.

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All right, so when I do these interviews, I start off with a couple of icebreakers.

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So the first icebreaker is a quote I want you to respond to.

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And the quote is, I will walk by faith even when I cannot see.

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Absolutely. I will walk by faith even when I cannot see. And that's exactly what my life is about.

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Okay. All right. All right. So now the next one is what I call 20 questions.

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So I need you to give me a number between 1 and 20.

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12. All right. What advice do you have for recognizing fake news?

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For me, it's like when people critique a movie that just came out and they want

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to give their own input before you see it for yourself,

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I always see it for myself if it's something of interest to me instead of listening to the hype.

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So I treat fake news the same way. If I don't find the truth on my own,

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I don't focus on it. Okay.

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All right. Your friend, Dr. Marianne Rivera Dannert, said, Every woman has a

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story, one shaped by pain, transformed by courage, and reborn through wisdom.

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So let's talk about your story. What was your life like before 2015?

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It was...

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Really awesome. I felt like I was living the dream of being a U.S.

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Federal agent and black female came up the ranks.

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Well, not really came up the ranks, but I was in law enforcement prior to that

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locally before I became a federal agent.

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And my son was here. Now, I will say I was married, but that really wasn't the

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highlight. But I was traveling around, seeing the world, just like I always dreamed of doing.

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I just felt like things were great. So are you from the DMV originally?

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I sure am. So you were born and raised in Washington, D.C., Northeast proper.

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Okay. All right. So from 2015 to 2025, your life dramatically changed.

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You lost your career, your freedom, and your beloved son, Malik.

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How did you find the strength to reimage that shattered period in your life

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into what we call a beautiful present?

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I am living by the scripture, walking by faith.

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And when I walk by faith, I have to see things for what they are right now because

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of so much that has gone on in my life.

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So that living by faith in the present day is all I can do for now.

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But in a sense, I have a line of sight, as I like to say, for the heavenly kingdom to see my son again.

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And that's what I work towards with my keeping his legacy going,

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taking care of his daughters, my granddaughters,

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anything that I can do within my business of phenomenal Black women to help

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other women as they grieve, giving back to the community however I can.

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And all that encompasses my present day of just still serving as I should,

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living by faith, and praying for good things to come before I meet my maker.

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All right. So tell the listeners a little bit about Malik.

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He is considered my second heartbeat. I've always said that.

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I was not supposed to have kids.

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Malik came around after something traumatic had happened to me at a young age

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and Malik came around out of nowhere and I felt like it was God sent.

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So I treated him like God sent ever since he was born and he became a second

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heartbeat to me because he made me live again.

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He gave me a reason to live again.

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And I raised him by myself. Through everything that I've gone through,

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Malik was my focal point.

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You know, if I had a bad day at work, I knew I can come home and my son would make me laugh.

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If my son had a bad day at school, he'd come home, talk about it with me,

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and we both make each other laugh.

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And that was the highlight of my life because he knew what I went through to raise him.

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He knew what I went through just to be a black woman.

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And he just knew so much of what I struggled with without having his father around.

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He knew and even as my child

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he was just always my supporter my

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biggest fan my second heartbeat my reason for when I was down I looked at my

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son and I wanted and and I wanted the best of the situation but I looked at

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my son and like it doesn't matter because I got my son he was full the laughter.

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Like I said, he knew when to make light of a situation.

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And even at his funeral.

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So many people showed up saying the exact same thing about my son.

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He was fun-loving, high-spirited, and just always willing to support and give

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help to somebody in need.

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And that's the way I raised him. And to hear that from other people,

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it really put a smile on my heart.

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So by him not being physically here anymore,

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that continues to be my way of saying, but

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I remember who he is and that stays in me

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and I think that's even better than him being for me

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to move forward physically here like he stays with

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me all the time his spirit his it's

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like a second breath as well as a second heartbeat it

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stays with me so he's still here but he

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literally is the light of my life but now I

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have a double dose of him with his two daughters

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and they are my light right now and

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they do definitely have every aspect of my son and it that keeps me going as

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well yeah that's beautiful during this re-imaging period you started the grace

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to grieve movement explain to the listeners the concept of that.

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Grace to Grieve. I'm a certified grief coach. I actually have a background in

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psychology with a master's degree in psychology as well.

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And I didn't, I'm a big advocate of therapy, but I'm also a teacher at heart,

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a coach at heart, a mentor at heart, an advocate at heart.

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And for me, I think it's better for me to reach people as an advocate, as a mentor,

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as a coach, someone to hold them accountable, let them know I have been there

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with you, but I'm not just holding you accountable, I'm walking with you because

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I know what you're going through.

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I'm very familiar with what you're going through.

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And I want you to see the value in this life. I want you to see the value in yourself.

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I want you to see the value in your faith.

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And the only way to do that, in my mind, in my conversations with God,

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is to show these women that grief is not the end of our story.

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And healing is not necessarily the beginning. Healing is the process.

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But our beginning starts with us moving forward.

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Our beginning starts with us being able to get up out that bed,

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out that dark room, out those dark thoughts.

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And as a grief coach and a mentor, someone who you can talk to about anything, I represent that woman.

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It doesn't even matter if they're black, white, Hispanic.

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It doesn't matter your background.

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We all go through a lot.

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But in particular, women of color, to speak of myself.

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I've lived a life so many years of suffering in silence.

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And with the various cultures of women out there, we all suffer in silence because

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we want people to see the best parts of us.

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So Grace to Grieve allows me to help the women to see their value,

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see how they can move forward, see how it has been done for me.

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See how God has blessed me from one tragedy to another, from one traumatic situation

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to another, to one redemptive story and testimony to another.

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Because that's basically what all that was.

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And I want them to see that for themselves. I want to point them to God.

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I want them to think that if it wasn't for God, they would not be where they are right now.

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And they still have a way to connect with God.

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Live the rest of their life here with whatever is going on.

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And in a sense, it's kind of weird to say this, but I actually heard someone

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say this before, but in a different way.

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I'm actually thankful for the tests, the many tests that I've been through,

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because without those tests and without my faith, I would not have a testimony

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to prove that God, that was evidence that God was there the entire time.

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So no matter who you are, where you are in life, as a woman, yes, it is harder on us.

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As a black woman, it is harder on us. Mix, it is harder on us because all people do is see what they see.

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But what's deep down inside needs to overshadow that.

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And I feel like God has given me that living testimony to show people domestic violence, check.

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He can help you through that. He can walk you out of that.

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Sexual assault, a victim of rape, check. He can walk you through that.

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He can get you out of that.

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Being incarcerated when you shouldn't have been, he can get you out of that.

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He can walk you through it in any aspect of your life.

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So I'm actually thankful for all the tests, even more grateful.

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I continue to trust and have faith, but that he's using that in me to help so

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many others that I hope that I can help.

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Yeah. When I hear a title like Grace to Grieve, that's almost like you giving

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yourself permission to do that.

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And I think a lot of people feel that they feel guilty about a natural emotion.

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And I think it's very important that, you know, in our faith,

00:19:36.926 --> 00:19:41.426
we talk about getting grace from God, but a lot of times we have to give grace

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to ourselves and we feel that we can't do that.

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So I appreciate the concept in what you're trying to do.

00:19:49.586 --> 00:19:55.186
That was spot on, Erik. That is exactly it. And sometimes I just get to talking, but that was spot on.

00:19:55.346 --> 00:19:59.246
Thank you so much. That is exactly what most of the movement is about,

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giving yourself the grace.

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Yes all right well i'm glad i

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can help thank you uh what is

00:20:07.306 --> 00:20:13.826
a phenomenal black woman so phenomenal black woman and actually it's not a race

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is just for those listeners it's actually spelled in an acronym form of b-l-a-q-u-e

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and it's it's representative of a woman blessed like a queen in every way.

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So that's what black stands for.

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So, and with the grief movement, with my speaking, motivational speaking.

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With my being a mentor, all that encompasses you being a phenomenal woman yourself.

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So I'm embracing every woman to be phenomenal.

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I'm embracing every woman to be the queen that they are and to show that,

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you know, they can get through this no matter what we go through.

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We got to have God on the focus focal point and giving that,

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giving yourself that grace moving forward.

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If you need me to come talk to you, talk to your church, talk to your,

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to a group or a woman's group, book group. I'm an author.

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Like I've gotten so much to the point where it's like.

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This is phenomenal to get through all of this. So that name just came to me.

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But that's really who it's for.

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It's for every woman that feels like they're not phenomenal, but they are.

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And I hope to help bring that out of them.

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Yeah. Yeah. When I saw the acronym, I said that was pretty cool how you do that. Thank you.

00:21:37.574 --> 00:21:42.154
So your life journey, as stated before, has given you a unique wisdom.

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If you had a chance to impart that wisdom with public policymakers,

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what would you share with them?

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I apologize. Try that one more time. If you had the chance to impart your wisdom

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with public policymakers, what would you share with them?

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Okay. Your mental is so important.

00:22:06.014 --> 00:22:10.074
Your mental well-being, your mental welfare, your family's mental,

00:22:10.294 --> 00:22:12.894
anybody you surround, your children. If you don't have children,

00:22:13.034 --> 00:22:16.574
whomever that you have that's close to your partner, your husband,

00:22:16.714 --> 00:22:20.714
your spouse, whomever it is, your mental health.

00:22:21.313 --> 00:22:26.393
Any type of relationship, work relationship, personal relationship is important.

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It should be right under your spirituality.

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It should be about, okay, God, and then is my head straight? Am I good today?

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Because what you feed in this brain of ours, it will dictate your entire day.

00:22:42.193 --> 00:22:43.453
It will dictate your mood.

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It will dictate whether you want to get into the physical aspect of your body.

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You want to go work out. No, I really don't. Well, that's that mental aspect.

00:22:52.353 --> 00:22:55.833
For work, for individuals that work all the time, if you don't give yourself

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that grace to take some time off for yourself, your mental will be off balance.

00:23:01.093 --> 00:23:04.873
When you are going out and you're in a relationship and you're dating,

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if your mental is not there because you're still focused on the prior relationship

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that hurt you so badly that you don't know how to function with the next person,

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that probably is good for you.

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But you don't know that because your mental is off. It works in so many ways.

00:23:20.693 --> 00:23:28.333
When we're parents and we're inundated with work, spouse, no spouse,

00:23:28.493 --> 00:23:31.653
no partner, you're doing it by yourself. Your kids are hungry.

00:23:31.873 --> 00:23:33.893
You still got to do this. You got to do that.

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Your mental is important. And that is why I went from a forensic science major

00:23:40.353 --> 00:23:43.193
thinking about science because I love science.

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However, I love the mental aspect of human beings.

00:23:47.953 --> 00:23:58.413
And I have so much to share, so many techniques, so many advocacy messages that

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I want to share with people, individuals, not just women.

00:24:01.533 --> 00:24:08.833
But to share, to show that if your mental isn't okay, no matter where you are,

00:24:09.073 --> 00:24:11.113
that dictates your mood.

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You can have God in your life. You can leave church. And your mental,

00:24:16.159 --> 00:24:21.019
if you're depressed about something and you were good when you left that church

00:24:21.019 --> 00:24:24.659
building, but now your mental has gotten to you. It can happen anywhere.

00:24:24.779 --> 00:24:29.459
So, yeah, that spirituality is there, but that mental has to be number two in my book.

00:24:30.319 --> 00:24:34.259
So I want to promote that as best I can to anyone listening.

00:24:34.599 --> 00:24:38.659
I want to, like I said, I'm an advocate of therapy. I'm an advocate of mental

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health care, taking that day off. for you.

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My birthday is coming up on my next Monday, the 30th of March.

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And people are asking me, what

00:24:49.579 --> 00:24:53.239
am I going to do? Guess what I'm going to do? I'm going to do Latrice.

00:24:53.839 --> 00:24:57.359
I'm going to relax. I want to say a me day. Seriously.

00:24:57.619 --> 00:25:02.519
It's not about a party. It's not about going out to eat. I just want to do me.

00:25:03.279 --> 00:25:08.879
And that's what I hope individuals, when they come to me and they ask me, how do you do it?

00:25:08.999 --> 00:25:11.339
What's going on? How can I do it?

00:25:11.579 --> 00:25:16.979
You walk around with this smile and you got so much going on because it's my mental.

00:25:18.190 --> 00:25:22.590
Well, consider this interview your birthday present for me, because it's going

00:25:22.590 --> 00:25:24.050
to drop right around your birthday.

00:25:24.650 --> 00:25:26.970
But happy birthday in advance for that.

00:25:27.610 --> 00:25:34.170
Thank you. I guess from from your answer, what you're saying is that if you were talking to people,

00:25:34.670 --> 00:25:43.510
public policy makers, is that that they need to put more focus in on mental

00:25:43.510 --> 00:25:48.750
health and give people like you more opportunities to talk to constituents and

00:25:48.750 --> 00:25:54.030
and people to try to help them and prioritize that. Correct. Yes.

00:25:54.530 --> 00:25:59.090
Yes. All right. So now I'm going to ask you the same question,

00:25:59.390 --> 00:26:01.590
but it's going to be a different group of people.

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If you had the chance to impart that wisdom with white women, what would you share?

00:26:08.470 --> 00:26:11.170
The same thing that's why

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i said black means queen blessed like

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a queen in every way it doesn't matter if they are caucasian it just well the

00:26:21.670 --> 00:26:26.450
stigmatism is different for caucasian women i mean just like it is for black

00:26:26.450 --> 00:26:31.710
women indian women native american it doesn't matter it does it.

00:26:32.810 --> 00:26:36.970
We all go through so much of the same thing, but not the same way.

00:26:37.470 --> 00:26:45.970
You know, like I'm divorced. But if I had, I know of several women like this.

00:26:46.370 --> 00:26:51.430
If they, they're Caucasian. And if they got the divorce, it will be detrimental

00:26:51.430 --> 00:26:53.370
for them because they're bred.

00:26:53.790 --> 00:26:56.210
Everything is in their spouse working.

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And they're just so focused on taking care of home.

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I mean, they see themselves as valuable, but if something were to happen to

00:27:05.270 --> 00:27:10.330
that spouse, I would be highly concerned of them because they wouldn't even

00:27:10.330 --> 00:27:13.810
know how to probably handle stress, only because I know them personally.

00:27:13.930 --> 00:27:18.270
But I can't speak for every Caucasian woman because we're all so uniquely designed.

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But I'm just trying to say that it really doesn't matter, Caucasian, any color, any race, no.

00:27:25.257 --> 00:27:28.697
Your mental just has to be on point. And when I say on point,

00:27:28.897 --> 00:27:35.237
I mean, get it under control before you deal with your day. I love meditation.

00:27:35.757 --> 00:27:40.637
So I don't care who you are. Meditate. Do more sitting there in peace and quiet.

00:27:41.197 --> 00:27:44.937
You can hear a lot about yourself and you could talk to yourself and you could

00:27:44.937 --> 00:27:48.597
probably find some answers before you even jump in that shower about what you

00:27:48.597 --> 00:27:50.057
need to do for your next task.

00:27:50.697 --> 00:27:55.117
So it honestly, I really can't gear that toward a specific race.

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But I think my answer remains the same. Gotcha.

00:27:58.837 --> 00:28:04.597
When a person sees Leatrice De Bruhl today, what do you hope they observe?

00:28:06.557 --> 00:28:13.597
Someone that may have gone through so much in her life that she still can wake

00:28:13.597 --> 00:28:17.977
up with a smile, even if she's crying, because there are tears of joy as well.

00:28:18.297 --> 00:28:23.077
But when I see God's work, sometimes it makes me tear up because I'm grateful.

00:28:24.697 --> 00:28:27.617
But honestly if you really look at my life you

00:28:27.617 --> 00:28:32.737
would say I literally and actually I've had this from a close friend tell me

00:28:32.737 --> 00:28:36.957
this and I just want to leave with this she said I was I was actually it was

00:28:36.957 --> 00:28:41.477
many years ago and I was still going through a lot back then and she said to

00:28:41.477 --> 00:28:47.277
me man if I was I don't know how you're doing it because if that was me I would have you know I would I.

00:28:49.896 --> 00:28:53.096
Let me just give you a little piece of advice. When a person is that close to

00:28:53.096 --> 00:28:58.416
the cliff, don't help push them because that statement was not helpful at all.

00:28:58.556 --> 00:29:02.716
But so I am grateful that when people look at me, they're like,

00:29:02.816 --> 00:29:06.316
man, you might've been through a lot, but you're strong.

00:29:06.316 --> 00:29:11.496
You look strong because you're walking around here still the same Latrice,

00:29:12.136 --> 00:29:16.776
still taking charge, still cracking a humorous joke just to lighten someone's mood,

00:29:16.776 --> 00:29:19.736
giving advice for free just because you

00:29:19.736 --> 00:29:22.756
see someone down just it's nothing is

00:29:22.756 --> 00:29:26.176
really about money with you it's about happiness comfort and

00:29:26.176 --> 00:29:28.936
security that's exactly it but you'll

00:29:28.936 --> 00:29:34.016
never see that i'm lonely you never see that i wish i can get married again

00:29:34.016 --> 00:29:38.836
you'll never see that you know i was recently incarcerated you'll never see

00:29:38.836 --> 00:29:43.716
i just lost the love of my life the true love of my life you'll never see that

00:29:43.716 --> 00:29:46.616
distance away from my granddaughters who i wish I could see every day.

00:29:46.776 --> 00:29:51.576
You'll never see that. You'll never see I lost a 20-year career in law enforcement.

00:29:51.936 --> 00:29:56.236
You'll never see that on my face and the way I walk.

00:29:56.756 --> 00:30:00.416
And that is all given because of the glory of God.

00:30:01.036 --> 00:30:06.476
That's given to him. So the Leatrice today has been the Leatrice for years,

00:30:06.696 --> 00:30:09.056
and no circumstance is going to change me.

00:30:09.636 --> 00:30:15.576
All right. So finish this sentence. I have hope because.

00:30:16.316 --> 00:30:20.156
I have hope because I know God is in control. All right.

00:30:20.516 --> 00:30:24.896
That's another mic drop. I like that. And I greatly appreciate that.

00:30:25.196 --> 00:30:30.756
So look, Leatrice De Bruhl, I greatly appreciate you taking the time to do this.

00:30:30.936 --> 00:30:32.796
I know your schedule is kind of tight.

00:30:34.151 --> 00:30:38.231
Tell people how they can get in touch with you, how they can get involved with

00:30:38.231 --> 00:30:41.851
the Grace to Grieve movement, the Phenomenal Black Women organization.

00:30:41.891 --> 00:30:44.351
Just go ahead and make your pitch.

00:30:45.311 --> 00:30:53.091
Yes. So you can reach me. I'm actually on LinkedIn, social. God, let me get it together.

00:30:53.471 --> 00:30:56.591
I'm on LinkedIn, Instagram and TikTok.

00:30:57.131 --> 00:31:02.111
And under LinkedIn, you'll see my name, Leatrice De Bruhl, and you'll also see

00:31:02.111 --> 00:31:03.311
Phenomenal Black Women.

00:31:04.231 --> 00:31:09.571
If you, when you see Instagram or TikTok, it's Latrice speaks life.

00:31:10.431 --> 00:31:15.971
So, and that's on purpose. Like I want to speak life into existence.

00:31:16.291 --> 00:31:21.611
You know, I don't want to focus on the things that are kind of going south in your life.

00:31:21.811 --> 00:31:26.231
I speak life. So hopefully that will remind you to look me up with Leatrice,

00:31:26.411 --> 00:31:32.611
which is L-E-A-T-R-I-C-E speaks life. And you'll remember that.

00:31:33.431 --> 00:31:37.091
And so that's a way you could definitely DM me, look me up that way.

00:31:37.371 --> 00:31:40.711
And you'll see all kinds of messages. You'll definitely know who it is because

00:31:40.711 --> 00:31:43.371
you'll see a lot of messages with me and my son or me in the business.

00:31:44.540 --> 00:31:47.800
And there's another way you can contact me. I'll give out my work sale.

00:31:48.020 --> 00:31:56.280
I don't mind doing that. And it's area code 757-284-6283. Had to think about it.

00:31:57.480 --> 00:32:01.340
That's my business sale. But either way, if you get me on either three of those

00:32:01.340 --> 00:32:03.760
platforms, I will definitely respond to you.

00:32:04.020 --> 00:32:07.700
And I also have another book that's coming out. I have one book that's already

00:32:07.700 --> 00:32:09.180
out. It was an anthology project.

00:32:09.780 --> 00:32:14.140
It's called In the Pursuit of Living. and that's authored with other,

00:32:14.280 --> 00:32:17.400
co-authored with other women with fantastic stories.

00:32:17.520 --> 00:32:20.820
But that was really just an opener, a sneak peek for my book,

00:32:20.980 --> 00:32:23.900
which is on the way. And it's called Craziness Faith.

00:32:24.280 --> 00:32:28.780
So please be on the lookout for that. And I can't wait to do speaking engagements,

00:32:29.160 --> 00:32:32.740
hint, hint, for anyone that's interested in hearing more about my story.

00:32:33.360 --> 00:32:39.420
Well, when you, our rule is, is that with the podcast, is that you have an open

00:32:39.420 --> 00:32:43.060
invitation now that you've been on, have an open invitation to come back.

00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:46.780
So once that book is completed and you're ready to, you know,

00:32:46.900 --> 00:32:51.920
share that with the world, then feel free to come back on and we'll talk about that book as well.

00:32:52.840 --> 00:32:55.800
Amazing. Thank you so much, Erik, for this opportunity. Well,

00:32:56.120 --> 00:32:58.300
Leatrice, I thank you for taking the time.

00:32:58.340 --> 00:33:03.940
And I know you got to go and we'll chat some more later on, but I really appreciate

00:33:03.940 --> 00:33:10.320
you taking the time because I wanted my audience to meet somebody.

00:33:11.200 --> 00:33:15.880
My goal is always to get somebody on that inspires other people.

00:33:16.160 --> 00:33:19.740
And I felt that you were that kind of a person. So I'm really,

00:33:19.880 --> 00:33:21.940
really glad that we were able to make this happen.

00:33:22.580 --> 00:33:25.520
Wow. And that means a lot. You're right. This is an early birthday gift.

00:33:25.640 --> 00:33:28.360
Thank you so much. Guys, we're going to catch y'all on the other side.

00:33:47.823 --> 00:33:55.043
All right, and we are back. And so it is time for my next guest, W. Ralph Eubanks.

00:33:55.483 --> 00:34:00.143
W. Ralph Eubanks is a faculty fellow and writer in residence at the Center for

00:34:00.143 --> 00:34:03.183
the Study of Southern Culture at the University of Mississippi.

00:34:03.183 --> 00:34:09.023
He is the author of A Place Like Mississippi, A Journey Through a Real and Imagined

00:34:09.023 --> 00:34:12.783
Literary Landscape, as well as two other works of nonfiction,

00:34:13.403 --> 00:34:17.303
Ever is a Long Time, and The House at the End of the Road.

00:34:17.483 --> 00:34:21.303
A Guggenheim Fellow and a Harvard Radcliffe Institute Fellow,

00:34:21.463 --> 00:34:29.003
he is also the recipient of a 2023 Mississippi Governor's Arts Award for Excellence in literature.

00:34:29.323 --> 00:34:33.143
His writing has appeared in Vanity Fair, The American Scholar,

00:34:33.423 --> 00:34:35.583
The Georgia Review, and The New Yorker.

00:34:35.763 --> 00:34:40.863
His latest books, which we are going to discuss on the podcast,

00:34:41.403 --> 00:34:43.843
is When It's Darkness in the Delta.

00:34:44.283 --> 00:34:48.803
Ladies and gentlemen, it is truly my distinct honor and privilege to have as

00:34:48.803 --> 00:34:52.803
a guest on this podcast, W. Ralph Eubanks.

00:35:04.364 --> 00:35:09.744
All right. Ladies and gentlemen, as you know from this podcast that I spent

00:35:09.744 --> 00:35:12.164
a long time in Mississippi.

00:35:13.024 --> 00:35:18.544
And, you know, one of the things that Mississippi is known for,

00:35:19.204 --> 00:35:26.224
surprisingly to a lot of people, is that there have been some literary giants that have existed.

00:35:26.304 --> 00:35:30.844
You've heard names like William Faulkner, Eudora Welty, Richard Wright.

00:35:31.204 --> 00:35:35.244
Matter of fact, there's a statue of the three of them in downtown Jackson.

00:35:35.724 --> 00:35:44.284
John Grisham, Jesmyn Ward, and I have another member of that writing pantheon

00:35:44.284 --> 00:35:46.224
as a guest on the podcast.

00:35:46.384 --> 00:35:54.604
Ladies and gentlemen, I want y'all to enjoy the conversation I'm going to have with W.

00:35:54.924 --> 00:35:58.664
Ralph Eubanks. Mr. Eubanks, thank you for coming on the show.

00:35:58.784 --> 00:35:59.904
I greatly appreciate that.

00:36:00.424 --> 00:36:02.704
Oh, thank you. It's great to be with you.

00:36:03.244 --> 00:36:06.724
Great to be with, I guess, another fellow Mississippian. Yes, sir.

00:36:06.904 --> 00:36:10.944
Yes, sir. I spent 34 years there. And I used to tell people,

00:36:11.024 --> 00:36:14.084
I grew up in Chicago, but you know the history of the migration.

00:36:14.364 --> 00:36:16.704
So my dad was born than Mark's.

00:36:17.284 --> 00:36:20.044
So it's, I tell people, I used to

00:36:20.044 --> 00:36:22.724
tell people all the time, I'm from North Mississippi, a little small town.

00:36:24.184 --> 00:36:29.264
Yeah, well, you're from the town where the mule train started out for the Poor

00:36:29.264 --> 00:36:31.244
People's Campaign in 1968.

00:36:31.484 --> 00:36:33.444
Yeah, that's right. That's right.

00:36:34.755 --> 00:36:40.615
So, Mr. Eubanks, what I'd like to do is to do a couple of icebreakers to kind

00:36:40.615 --> 00:36:41.875
of get the conversation going.

00:36:42.415 --> 00:36:46.775
So the first is a quote that I want you to respond to.

00:36:47.095 --> 00:36:53.795
And the quote is, brethren, I could not myself to have apprehended,

00:36:54.035 --> 00:36:55.955
but there's one thing I do,

00:36:56.435 --> 00:37:01.835
forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forth unto those things

00:37:01.835 --> 00:37:05.035
which are before. What does that quote mean to you?

00:37:06.263 --> 00:37:09.883
Well, that quote is from the Apostle Paul.

00:37:09.883 --> 00:37:17.243
It's also from the King James translation of the Bible, which is why it's a

00:37:17.243 --> 00:37:21.563
little bit kind of obtuse in the way that it's constructed.

00:37:22.323 --> 00:37:28.983
And it's one that sits outside of the—it's all over the State Penitentiary Department,

00:37:28.983 --> 00:37:32.183
where I taught writing for a year.

00:37:33.163 --> 00:37:40.623
And what it says to me, it is about the Apostle Paul, and he's talking about

00:37:40.623 --> 00:37:45.123
his, the Apostle Paul is actually kind of taking a victory lap here.

00:37:45.683 --> 00:37:50.123
And he's not really talking about, you know, the stoning of St. Stephen the Martyr.

00:37:50.743 --> 00:37:53.563
He's ignoring all these things that have happened.

00:37:54.303 --> 00:37:59.643
And it is about this forgiveness that he's being granted.

00:37:59.643 --> 00:38:04.943
And what I realized from that quote that's there, he's being granted this forgiveness,

00:38:05.323 --> 00:38:14.643
yet I'm going every week at the time to teach in Unit 29 at Parchman State Penitentiary,

00:38:14.723 --> 00:38:17.163
which is where people are in prison for life.

00:38:17.163 --> 00:38:22.003
And there is no forgiveness that's being granted to these men.

00:38:22.503 --> 00:38:26.743
There's none of the grace that the Apostle Paul is talking about that's going

00:38:26.743 --> 00:38:34.503
to be bestowed on these people, which makes me question why is this sign even outside of the prison.

00:38:34.583 --> 00:38:39.723
It also speaks to me about the way that Parchment was once a place that was.

00:38:40.904 --> 00:38:43.844
As a means of social control, race was a means of social control.

00:38:44.144 --> 00:38:50.144
What it says to me now is that religion is being used as a means of social control

00:38:50.144 --> 00:38:56.404
to make people passive and not really resist the forces that they're having

00:38:56.404 --> 00:38:58.844
to confront while they are incarcerated.

00:38:59.544 --> 00:39:04.264
Yeah, yeah. And I got that sense from the book.

00:39:04.644 --> 00:39:07.604
So the next icebreaker is what I call 20 questions.

00:39:08.344 --> 00:39:11.984
Okay. So I need you to give me a number between 1 and 20.

00:39:12.904 --> 00:39:16.404
Okay. I'm going to give you my lucky number, 13. Okay.

00:39:16.884 --> 00:39:22.124
Do you think there is such a thing as unbiased news or media and why?

00:39:22.624 --> 00:39:26.864
There is not such a thing as unbiased news or media.

00:39:27.124 --> 00:39:37.484
I think we all bring our biases into what it is that we are writing about or reporting on.

00:39:37.484 --> 00:39:45.344
But it's how we actually present those biases.

00:39:45.704 --> 00:39:52.324
For me, I'm very upfront about my connection to Mississippi,

00:39:52.624 --> 00:39:55.384
my relationship with the South,

00:39:55.644 --> 00:40:01.324
and that I look at writing about the South from a perspective of exile.

00:40:01.884 --> 00:40:06.904
That's very much a part of the way that I frame the way that I am writing about it.

00:40:06.964 --> 00:40:11.344
But that doesn't mean that anything that I'm writing is less truthful,

00:40:11.344 --> 00:40:14.744
but it is coming from that particular lens.

00:40:15.044 --> 00:40:19.364
And I think we all kind of put our lens over what it is.

00:40:19.464 --> 00:40:24.504
And it's important to understand what is the author's particular lens.

00:40:24.664 --> 00:40:30.504
And there are people who may not engage with my writing because of that lens.

00:40:31.324 --> 00:40:36.844
But can it ever be completely unbiased?

00:40:37.264 --> 00:40:39.404
No. Can it be...

00:40:41.418 --> 00:40:47.238
Even-handed. And yes, but I think the most important thing is truthful.

00:40:48.018 --> 00:40:53.518
Truth is probably the most important piece of it. And I see this connection

00:40:53.518 --> 00:40:55.338
between knowledge and truth.

00:40:55.838 --> 00:41:04.278
Once we learn about things, more about them, and we can kind of come to what

00:41:04.278 --> 00:41:07.878
we see as the truth, Or at least a shared truth.

00:41:08.838 --> 00:41:15.198
Okay. Well, the way you answer that kind of helps me ask this personal question

00:41:15.198 --> 00:41:18.178
I want from you. I want to ask you, I should say.

00:41:18.518 --> 00:41:23.658
Do you look back on your life and think about your success, especially as a

00:41:23.658 --> 00:41:25.938
purveyor of Mississippi stories? stories.

00:41:26.578 --> 00:41:30.898
And I don't know if you, I don't know if you heard the, the, the,

00:41:31.678 --> 00:41:38.978
when I was starting off the interview, when I was citing all those names and stuff, and, you know,

00:41:39.238 --> 00:41:43.558
I, I put you in that pantheon with those other Mississippi writers,

00:41:43.578 --> 00:41:49.118
but do you, because you feel that you're, you're writing from a position of exile,

00:41:49.378 --> 00:41:53.518
are you surprised of how successful you have been, how people have received

00:41:53.518 --> 00:41:55.618
your work talking about Mississippi.

00:41:56.956 --> 00:42:00.056
Guess i am but there's another important thing that i have to say that i always

00:42:00.056 --> 00:42:05.076
do is that someone told me a long time ago never believe the publicity about yourself.

00:42:09.376 --> 00:42:16.476
So um so yeah i just i it's it's great to be you know for people to kind of include me in that,

00:42:17.076 --> 00:42:23.276
pantheon but do i actually kind of walk around thinking about being part of

00:42:23.276 --> 00:42:25.236
that pantheon no i don't.

00:42:26.636 --> 00:42:28.656
I think more about.

00:42:31.096 --> 00:42:35.876
This. I want, I write about the South, and I write about Mississippi because

00:42:35.876 --> 00:42:38.876
I want it to be a better place.

00:42:39.056 --> 00:42:48.756
And I do use that perspective of exile in order to try to get to some type of truth about the place.

00:42:48.836 --> 00:42:55.256
I fear that if I get too close to it, there are things that I won't see,

00:42:55.776 --> 00:43:01.676
that I want others to see, and that I may be kind of engaging in some,

00:43:01.676 --> 00:43:06.756
bringing some coding of nostalgia to writing about the place.

00:43:07.016 --> 00:43:13.416
And I try to stay away from that as much as I can. Does it creep in sometimes?

00:43:14.116 --> 00:43:19.616
Yeah, it does. Because this is the place where I'm from, this is the place that shaped me.

00:43:19.616 --> 00:43:22.916
But I'm also trying to keep, you know,

00:43:23.436 --> 00:43:30.556
that perspective of outsiderism while at the same time being an insider,

00:43:30.556 --> 00:43:34.616
having been born here, being, as Richard Wright would say, a native son.

00:43:35.416 --> 00:43:43.496
Right. So you've had the privilege of teaching at UVA, George Mason, Howard, Millsaps.

00:43:43.916 --> 00:43:47.256
But do those students compare to the writers you taught at Parchman?

00:43:48.502 --> 00:43:59.602
Do. I would put them as their equals. And I think what separates them is I guess

00:43:59.602 --> 00:44:02.942
the thing that really separates them is very often privilege.

00:44:03.982 --> 00:44:10.142
So many of the students that I worked with in Parchman said I saw this connection

00:44:10.142 --> 00:44:11.942
between poverty and violence.

00:44:12.142 --> 00:44:18.182
That poverty and violence at an intersection led them to commit crimes that

00:44:18.502 --> 00:44:20.602
landed them in Parks and Rec.

00:44:21.062 --> 00:44:27.882
Whereas my students at Millsaps and all these great schools that I've had the

00:44:27.882 --> 00:44:30.602
opportunity to be a professor at,

00:44:31.702 --> 00:44:37.782
those students were able to, they had a more middle-class background that shielded

00:44:37.782 --> 00:44:41.722
them from kind of having to move into that violence because they had the things

00:44:41.722 --> 00:44:43.862
that they needed that didn't lead

00:44:43.862 --> 00:44:49.322
them into committing crimes that they committed because they were poor.

00:44:49.842 --> 00:44:55.382
And that's the thing that separates them. Are they just as perceptive?

00:44:55.422 --> 00:45:02.282
And also, the other thing is, I realize too, is so many of the men that I worked

00:45:02.282 --> 00:45:09.642
with at Parchman didn't quite fit into the round hole.

00:45:09.882 --> 00:45:14.082
They're the square pegs that didn't fit into the round hole of the education system.

00:45:15.276 --> 00:45:22.296
And they did not come from families that had the means to figure out where I

00:45:22.296 --> 00:45:25.576
can take this child to get them to learn these things.

00:45:25.916 --> 00:45:29.996
I mean, I have three children, and they all went to three different schools

00:45:29.996 --> 00:45:33.736
because I saw they were all very different.

00:45:33.936 --> 00:45:36.336
And I wanted to find somewhere that fit for them.

00:45:37.096 --> 00:45:43.596
And I did that because I'm a person of great privilege. But these men did not

00:45:43.596 --> 00:45:44.896
come from families of privilege.

00:45:45.276 --> 00:45:47.756
Have the power to do that. Yes.

00:45:48.756 --> 00:45:54.116
All right. So this book we're discussing, When is Darkness on the Delta?

00:45:54.516 --> 00:46:00.576
You said only by looking at both the forces of history and the way we live now

00:46:00.576 --> 00:46:05.516
can we begin to understand not only the Mississippi Delta, but also the forces

00:46:05.516 --> 00:46:08.716
of inequality that have shaped America itself.

00:46:09.076 --> 00:46:13.336
That means the story of the people of the Delta is not just the Mississippi

00:46:13.336 --> 00:46:15.676
story, nor is it just the Southern story.

00:46:15.856 --> 00:46:19.216
At its very core, the Delta story is an American story.

00:46:19.616 --> 00:46:25.896
Was that your motivation to write this book, to have the world understand the

00:46:25.896 --> 00:46:27.216
importance of the Mississippi Delta?

00:46:28.617 --> 00:46:32.277
Was to understand the story of the Mississippi Delta, but I have to say it's

00:46:32.277 --> 00:46:34.057
maybe not where I started.

00:46:34.457 --> 00:46:40.537
It's kind of where I ended up with this, realizing that it was,

00:46:40.677 --> 00:46:44.517
I think I started out writing about the Mississippi Delta.

00:46:44.737 --> 00:46:49.877
It wasn't until I was deep into the project that I realized I wasn't really

00:46:49.877 --> 00:46:51.037
just writing about the Delta.

00:46:51.297 --> 00:46:57.457
I was writing about America itself and beginning to see the Delta in so many

00:46:57.457 --> 00:47:02.677
ways as a mirror to America, Mississippi as a mirror to America.

00:47:02.897 --> 00:47:08.317
So those are things that I really came to in the course of doing my research,

00:47:08.517 --> 00:47:09.637
in the course of writing.

00:47:09.777 --> 00:47:14.357
And this is a book that I started 10 years ago, and I put aside,

00:47:14.537 --> 00:47:17.897
and I wrote a book called A Place Like Mississippi, which is a journey through

00:47:17.897 --> 00:47:19.757
Mississippi's literary landscape.

00:47:19.757 --> 00:47:26.297
And it was while I was working on that book that I began to kind of get a sense

00:47:26.297 --> 00:47:28.837
of my voice to tell this story.

00:47:29.277 --> 00:47:34.257
And my editor was reading a chapter in a place like Mississippi,

00:47:34.297 --> 00:47:37.617
and he said, I really like what you're doing here, but where are you?

00:47:38.117 --> 00:47:42.817
And I was kind of deliberately kind of taking myself out of the narrative.

00:47:42.817 --> 00:47:46.117
One of the things that I learned from them is kind of like, where could I kind

00:47:46.117 --> 00:47:50.897
of go into the narrative, and how did I begin to kind of fade out of it and

00:47:50.897 --> 00:47:56.157
let these other voices kind of expand and have and take hold of the narrative?

00:47:57.577 --> 00:48:00.997
And that's what that editor taught me. It was that lesson that I learned while

00:48:00.997 --> 00:48:05.817
writing that book that I began to apply what I returned to this book.

00:48:06.437 --> 00:48:09.857
And when I returned to it, that's when I kind of,

00:48:10.784 --> 00:48:16.364
to that revelation, this is really about America itself. The original subtitle

00:48:16.364 --> 00:48:17.744
was An American Reckoning.

00:48:18.024 --> 00:48:22.244
And I use that as a working subtitle because I realized that's what I'm doing.

00:48:22.244 --> 00:48:27.184
It is not just a Southern Reckoning, it's an American Reckoning. Yeah.

00:48:27.784 --> 00:48:31.084
All right, so what is the deal with all the blues lyrics in the book?

00:48:33.284 --> 00:48:41.704
You know, the reason I use the blues lyrics as epigraphs is I wanted the reader

00:48:41.704 --> 00:48:48.144
to see that the blues tells the story of the Delta.

00:48:48.484 --> 00:48:57.004
And that everything that I'm writing about, whether it is health care, education, place,

00:48:57.924 --> 00:49:05.244
history, there's some thread from the blues that connects all of those things.

00:49:06.124 --> 00:49:11.304
And I wanted people again to think of them the way that sociologist Clyde Woods

00:49:11.304 --> 00:49:13.604
said we should think about the blues.

00:49:13.744 --> 00:49:18.604
We should think about people who wrote the blues as sociologists,

00:49:18.944 --> 00:49:23.204
as therapists, as, you know, poets.

00:49:23.604 --> 00:49:28.864
So that's how I wanted people to begin to think about the blues.

00:49:29.524 --> 00:49:35.104
And if you go to Spotify, I actually have a Spotify playlist with all the music,

00:49:35.124 --> 00:49:38.504
so it's almost like it's a soundtrack for the book.

00:49:39.573 --> 00:49:42.713
I wanted the reader to kind of get this story

00:49:42.713 --> 00:49:45.873
of of it but i also wanted them to kind of have these

00:49:45.873 --> 00:49:48.813
this other other soundtrack that kind

00:49:48.813 --> 00:49:51.953
of told a parallel story along with it yeah and

00:49:51.953 --> 00:49:55.233
you you're kind of self-revelatory when you said you

00:49:55.233 --> 00:49:58.073
know you was young i think you were had a chance to meet one of

00:49:58.073 --> 00:50:00.773
the the blues greats a book of

00:50:00.773 --> 00:50:03.913
white yeah and you were like yeah mama why why

00:50:03.913 --> 00:50:07.433
are we going to dab dinner with this dude you know what i'm saying so yeah

00:50:07.433 --> 00:50:13.733
so as your evolution in your exile as you put it is that evolution and in the

00:50:13.733 --> 00:50:20.313
love of the blues grown it has grown and it has you know it's it's interesting

00:50:20.313 --> 00:50:25.873
i i i came to that revelation about book of white,

00:50:26.493 --> 00:50:31.613
while I was on a fellowship at the Harvard Radcliffe Institute.

00:50:31.953 --> 00:50:37.093
And I got to go into this archive that had this interview that was done with Booker White.

00:50:37.693 --> 00:50:42.753
He was going to make an appearance at Club Passing in Harvard Square in Cambridge.

00:50:43.253 --> 00:50:46.593
But on the trip there, he had a stroke.

00:50:47.013 --> 00:50:50.553
And a local journalist sat down and did a long history with him.

00:50:50.673 --> 00:50:55.293
And I'm reading this, and I'm thinking about the date. And I'm saying, this is 1976.

00:50:56.133 --> 00:51:03.633
I saw him in 1976. What I realized is that he left that performance and went

00:51:03.633 --> 00:51:08.793
to Massachusetts after that, had the stroke, and was dead six months later.

00:51:10.496 --> 00:51:15.776
And that's when I began to realize this great missed opportunity I had as an

00:51:15.776 --> 00:51:20.036
arrogant 19-year-old telling my mother the blues is the music of oppression,

00:51:20.036 --> 00:51:24.896
because that's the way that my friends and I saw that music.

00:51:25.396 --> 00:51:32.756
We saw it as connected to slavery, but it had no connection to slavery at all.

00:51:32.976 --> 00:51:38.856
It had connection to survival, people in the 20th century post-Reconstruction.

00:51:39.776 --> 00:51:46.156
And that's when I realized what an arrogant, ignorant little snot I was at 19.

00:51:48.796 --> 00:51:55.036
And it began to, I mean, my relationship with the blues had been evolving,

00:51:55.196 --> 00:52:00.196
but that was, making that connection was a real revelatory moment for me. Yeah.

00:52:00.976 --> 00:52:06.316
All right. So why is Mileston a significant place for you and for the history

00:52:06.316 --> 00:52:08.076
of black folks in the Mississippi, don't you?

00:52:09.196 --> 00:52:13.056
And it's significant for me because my father went to work there in 1949 after

00:52:13.056 --> 00:52:14.336
he graduated from Tuskegee.

00:52:14.556 --> 00:52:19.376
He never really told me why. And I said, you know, why did you come to the Delta?

00:52:19.576 --> 00:52:20.956
He said, I came there for opportunity.

00:52:22.676 --> 00:52:27.936
And being very young, my father died when I was 18, I didn't ask more questions about it.

00:52:28.056 --> 00:52:31.796
So in some ways, this is a way for me to kind of probe a lot deeper.

00:52:31.956 --> 00:52:37.016
But the reason it's much so important for Black people of the South is it was

00:52:37.016 --> 00:52:40.856
a resettlement community that took a former plantation,

00:52:41.136 --> 00:52:45.496
subdivided, the federal government bought, subdivided it to,

00:52:45.496 --> 00:52:47.976
I think it was 111 families,

00:52:48.476 --> 00:52:50.616
if I'm not mistaken, the number there.

00:52:50.956 --> 00:52:54.576
And move them from sharecropping to land-owning.

00:52:54.716 --> 00:53:01.116
And today, that segment of land is the largest Black-owned segment of land in the Mississippi Delta.

00:53:02.376 --> 00:53:06.376
That's why it's significant. And there could have been more milestones had the

00:53:06.376 --> 00:53:11.856
state of Mississippi not blocked more of those black resettlement communities from happening.

00:53:12.216 --> 00:53:16.876
And they stopped it because they had these white politicians,

00:53:17.156 --> 00:53:23.076
these white segregationist politicians believed that if more black people owned

00:53:23.076 --> 00:53:26.096
this land, that they were going to ask to vote.

00:53:29.236 --> 00:53:34.176
They And Mileston and Holmes County, those were the first people to demand

00:53:34.176 --> 00:53:37.796
to register to vote in that county. So they were right about that.

00:53:38.096 --> 00:53:42.676
But that was the fear. That fear was actually a very real one.

00:53:43.376 --> 00:53:49.936
Yeah. Yeah. And it's a very significant place. I never had the privilege of stopping there.

00:53:50.336 --> 00:53:54.776
I always ended up either going to Tchula or Ruleville on that side of Holmes

00:53:54.776 --> 00:54:00.476
County if I had to go up that way. But you had to pass it if you took 49E.

00:54:00.856 --> 00:54:06.716
Yeah. And a lot of people need to understand the history of Mileston.

00:54:06.936 --> 00:54:10.776
And I'm glad that you highlighted it. But speaking of special places,

00:54:10.936 --> 00:54:15.416
Mount Bayou is a special place for me because I have family there.

00:54:16.236 --> 00:54:20.456
But why is it a special place for most black Mississippians?

00:54:20.456 --> 00:54:25.516
It's a special place because it was a black-owned town, an independent,

00:54:25.976 --> 00:54:35.496
black-owned, black-run town, established by formerly enslaved people from around Vicksburg,

00:54:35.656 --> 00:54:40.836
who were enslaved on the plantation of the brother of Jefferson Davis,

00:54:41.016 --> 00:54:42.616
the president of the Confederacy.

00:54:43.216 --> 00:54:46.456
And once there were some...

00:54:46.964 --> 00:54:50.084
Land that they were on was contested and crops started to fail,

00:54:50.644 --> 00:54:57.344
they left that place and moved to the Delta and created their own world there

00:54:57.344 --> 00:55:03.244
in Mound Bayou and were incredibly independent.

00:55:03.904 --> 00:55:08.604
And I'd say Mound Bayou went through two really significant periods,

00:55:08.604 --> 00:55:15.524
from its founding in the 1890s, probably through the collapse of Cotton in the 1920s.

00:55:15.764 --> 00:55:22.764
And then it undergoes a renaissance in the post-war era with the arrival of Dr.

00:55:22.904 --> 00:55:27.304
T.R.M. Howard, the establishment of Taborian Hospital, which becomes kind of

00:55:27.304 --> 00:55:30.744
a key spot for health care in the Mississippi Delta.

00:55:31.124 --> 00:55:37.884
And Meadow Bayou becomes a place of refuge for Mamie Till Mobley during the trial of Emmett Till.

00:55:38.564 --> 00:55:45.944
Yeah yeah we uh we we had our last family reunion i i went to we were in mount

00:55:45.944 --> 00:55:49.424
bayou we did like one thing and then we spent most of the time in cleveland.

00:55:50.144 --> 00:55:53.064
Just up the road but yeah there was

00:55:53.064 --> 00:55:56.284
a colleague when i served in the mississippi house there was

00:55:56.284 --> 00:55:59.524
a young lady named linda coleman was a state representative there

00:55:59.524 --> 00:56:02.264
at the time she's a judge now and i

00:56:02.264 --> 00:56:05.924
used to tell everybody you give linda what she wants because she represents

00:56:05.924 --> 00:56:10.884
my people and she always thought that was like why you putting that pressure

00:56:10.884 --> 00:56:16.224
off i just i mean you know it's the truth she represented my people so yeah

00:56:16.224 --> 00:56:21.624
mount bayou is a cool place what was the big deal about chinese grocery stores.

00:56:23.001 --> 00:56:26.501
Grocery stores, the Chinese were brought to the Delta to pick cotton.

00:56:27.001 --> 00:56:34.041
As the Exodusters were leaving, the ones that I guess Irving Painter referred

00:56:34.041 --> 00:56:35.921
to as Exodusters were beginning to move west.

00:56:36.001 --> 00:56:38.661
They brought in the Chinese. They also brought in the Italians.

00:56:39.181 --> 00:56:42.441
And both of those groups said, we are not doing this work.

00:56:42.881 --> 00:56:49.201
But what the Chinese did is they started grocery stores that were largely in Black communities.

00:56:49.321 --> 00:56:54.041
In a lot of ways, what they did is they competed with the plantation commissaries.

00:56:55.341 --> 00:56:59.581
And all of the clientele of those stores were Black.

00:56:59.981 --> 00:57:05.361
And actually the same with some of the Lebanese businesses too.

00:57:05.601 --> 00:57:09.061
It's like I was speaking with a friend of mine who's from Greenville and his

00:57:09.061 --> 00:57:11.501
family owned a grocery store in Greenville is Lebanese.

00:57:11.721 --> 00:57:15.581
And he said all of our clientele was Black.

00:57:15.781 --> 00:57:20.661
We served those communities because the white stores did not.

00:57:20.661 --> 00:57:26.001
And that's the significance of the Chinese grocery stores, as I see.

00:57:27.201 --> 00:57:32.921
Once they left, that's why I think the Delta is a food desert today,

00:57:33.541 --> 00:57:35.381
is those Chinese grocery stores

00:57:35.381 --> 00:57:40.021
filled a very important need in Black communities across the Delta. Yeah.

00:57:41.201 --> 00:57:46.321
You know, people look at Mississippi and they listen to the politics now and

00:57:46.321 --> 00:57:49.261
they're like, oh, that can't be a good place for immigrants.

00:57:49.261 --> 00:57:51.381
But it's like Mississippi was...

00:57:52.564 --> 00:57:59.624
So really, a haven, well, haven might be too altruistic a word,

00:57:59.724 --> 00:58:03.324
but it was a place where a lot of immigrants landed and contributed.

00:58:03.864 --> 00:58:09.024
One of the most popular weathermen in the history of Mississippi was this guy named Woodie Assaf.

00:58:09.444 --> 00:58:12.904
I know. I remember Woodie Assaf. And people were like, you know,

00:58:13.504 --> 00:58:15.124
it was like, oh, that's Woodie. That's Woodie.

00:58:15.244 --> 00:58:17.904
That's Woodie. But they didn't concentrate on the Assaf part.

00:58:18.124 --> 00:58:20.864
Right. And he, you know, he's Lebanese.

00:58:21.164 --> 00:58:25.484
And so his family, you know, I think his daughter was a city council person

00:58:25.484 --> 00:58:27.784
in one of the suburbs of Jackson and all that.

00:58:28.184 --> 00:58:34.204
So, you know, they were accepted because they had roots, right?

00:58:34.464 --> 00:58:38.764
The same as going to the Delta. It was a mind-blowing experience to walk into

00:58:38.764 --> 00:58:42.404
a store and you see somebody of Asian descent.

00:58:42.644 --> 00:58:45.284
And Sinners, the movie Sinners kind of highlighted that.

00:58:45.984 --> 00:58:49.384
When you walk into the store, you had this person of Asian descent,

00:58:49.384 --> 00:58:52.564
and they're talking just like Bubba from right down the road.

00:58:53.864 --> 00:59:00.204
Well, I went to school at the University of Mississippi with a number of Delta Chinese.

00:59:00.304 --> 00:59:06.024
My dear friend, Gwendolyn Gong, her family owned a grocery store in Boyle, Mississippi.

00:59:06.464 --> 00:59:09.464
And her mother arrived there from China.

00:59:10.304 --> 00:59:14.624
You know, very complicated story, kind of getting there. but her mother said

00:59:14.624 --> 00:59:16.804
her mother learned to cook from,

00:59:18.185 --> 00:59:22.125
the Black women who were patrons of the store. And she always asked me,

00:59:22.305 --> 00:59:23.185
what do you make with that?

00:59:23.685 --> 00:59:27.385
And because her mother wanted them to eat like Southerners.

00:59:28.465 --> 00:59:31.425
And those Black women taught her mother how to cook.

00:59:32.245 --> 00:59:36.865
Yeah, yeah. It's just a cool experience.

00:59:38.385 --> 00:59:43.185
So I want to get in a couple more questions while I have you.

00:59:43.185 --> 00:59:48.265
In another part of the book, you said, Caste may no longer divide the Delta's

00:59:48.265 --> 00:59:54.805
people into perceived superior and inferior groups, but race still regulates

00:59:54.805 --> 00:59:56.145
the behavior of each group.

00:59:56.505 --> 01:00:01.345
The plantation system is gone, but the remnants of that system still wield power.

01:00:01.665 --> 01:00:03.705
Break that down for the listeners.

01:00:05.345 --> 01:00:11.225
Well, race is still very much a divide, largely because the school systems are divided.

01:00:11.225 --> 01:00:16.745
There was never school integration, for all practical purposes,

01:00:17.185 --> 01:00:21.165
never really happened in most of those delta towns.

01:00:21.865 --> 01:00:27.085
And the other thing that I would say with the idea of the plantation that's

01:00:27.085 --> 01:00:34.345
there, the plantation mindset continued over time because there was nothing

01:00:34.345 --> 01:00:36.425
that kind of came into pain.

01:00:36.425 --> 01:00:41.785
I mean, getting suffrage really, and getting the vote and getting political

01:00:41.785 --> 01:00:47.985
power changed things a great deal, but economic power did not come with that.

01:00:48.785 --> 01:00:54.205
And therein kind of lies that divide, and then that allowed this whole idea

01:00:54.205 --> 01:01:00.305
of the plantation mentality to persist, because even though you've got political

01:01:00.305 --> 01:01:01.505
power, you've got political,

01:01:02.494 --> 01:01:08.894
There was never really this real change in mindset that happened there.

01:01:09.114 --> 01:01:13.114
It's all part of this continuum from the past.

01:01:14.174 --> 01:01:19.834
And I'm always looking for these connections between the past and the present.

01:01:20.154 --> 01:01:25.634
And when you go around the Delta, you see that connection to that plantation past.

01:01:27.454 --> 01:01:32.194
You see it on the landscape. And among the way that people interact with people,

01:01:32.494 --> 01:01:34.374
with each other all the time.

01:01:34.694 --> 01:01:41.154
It is a constant. So there may not be, you know, the idea of caste separating

01:01:41.154 --> 01:01:45.254
people, but race still separates people. Yeah.

01:01:46.134 --> 01:01:51.094
And, you know, you mentioned the schools because, you know, one of the things

01:01:51.094 --> 01:01:55.394
about being involved in Mississippi politics, you can travel the state.

01:01:55.574 --> 01:02:03.234
It's, you know, it's a good-sized state, But it's not huge, like Texas or somewhere like that.

01:02:04.394 --> 01:02:09.574
And I remember going and it was like, you know, if you live in Jackson,

01:02:10.214 --> 01:02:14.454
it's like when you say these private academies, right?

01:02:14.554 --> 01:02:18.354
And you use the term segregated academies because that's what they were because

01:02:18.354 --> 01:02:20.934
all of them started like after the Brown decision.

01:02:22.668 --> 01:02:26.228
Go to Jackson Academy, Jackson Prep, you see like, oh, wow, these,

01:02:26.468 --> 01:02:30.468
oh, yeah, you know, and, you know, the white folks paid for that.

01:02:30.608 --> 01:02:33.448
You know what I'm saying? But if you go up to the Delta, right,

01:02:33.668 --> 01:02:37.128
it's like where you've got the public schools and then you say,

01:02:37.248 --> 01:02:42.628
well, I want to go to, I think it's Pillow Academy, I think it's one of them. Pillow Academy. Yeah.

01:02:42.988 --> 01:02:48.048
And it's a bunch of permit steel buildings. And I'm like going, y'all paying for that?

01:02:48.688 --> 01:02:53.548
Y'all would rather pay for it to be in school, the permit. They go into a brick and mortar building.

01:02:53.748 --> 01:02:56.828
I just, you know, I said, oh, the racism is strong.

01:02:57.088 --> 01:03:02.368
You know what I'm saying? It just, you know, so that's why I want people to

01:03:02.368 --> 01:03:03.788
understand Mississippi has

01:03:03.788 --> 01:03:09.828
evolved in a certain way, but it's still that race thing is still real.

01:03:09.828 --> 01:03:14.788
And you highlighted the fact that it's more on the economic power rather than

01:03:14.788 --> 01:03:19.508
anything else. It is with respect to the economic power.

01:03:19.688 --> 01:03:23.988
And what is so interesting about the segregated school system,

01:03:24.148 --> 01:03:26.408
and one of the things that I kind of highlight in this book,

01:03:26.588 --> 01:03:36.588
is how that shift toward segregated academies, it's accepted by everyone that's there,

01:03:36.608 --> 01:03:41.748
because no one kind of remembers that time of integration.

01:03:41.748 --> 01:03:47.988
And it's so as when I interviewed students there, they had no idea that they

01:03:47.988 --> 01:03:52.688
said they're just these schools here that only white people go to because you have to pay to go to them.

01:03:53.088 --> 01:03:56.948
And they didn't understand that there was a whole history with those.

01:03:58.299 --> 01:04:05.679
Yeah. All right. So talk about the impact of philanthropy versus government

01:04:05.679 --> 01:04:08.339
assistance as it relates to the Delta.

01:04:08.539 --> 01:04:11.239
And I found out something in the book that I didn't even know.

01:04:11.619 --> 01:04:18.559
At one time, it was hard. It was a challenge for a native Mississippian to start a foundation.

01:04:19.079 --> 01:04:24.539
I did not know that. And when I was reading, I was like, huh, that's that's amazing.

01:04:24.539 --> 01:04:30.419
That explains why you have more foundations from outside of the state giving

01:04:30.419 --> 01:04:32.779
money as opposed to the local foundations.

01:04:32.779 --> 01:04:38.039
I just assume because Mississippi underpays everybody that you didn't have the

01:04:38.039 --> 01:04:43.819
abundance of rich folks to give money back. Right.

01:04:44.239 --> 01:04:48.819
That question I began to ask myself is, there's all this wealth that's created

01:04:48.819 --> 01:04:55.219
with cotton. And why didn't any of that wealth create a Carnegie or Rockefeller Foundation?

01:04:55.899 --> 01:04:59.379
And the reason it didn't is because there was something called a mortaring statute

01:04:59.379 --> 01:05:05.439
that did not allow people to leave estates to nonprofit organizations.

01:05:05.899 --> 01:05:09.959
You could if you were a bachelor. And so the Hardin Foundation,

01:05:10.139 --> 01:05:13.619
which is a foundation in Mississippi that supports educational initiatives,

01:05:14.399 --> 01:05:16.379
Phil Hardin was a bachelor.

01:05:16.539 --> 01:05:18.719
So he was able to establish a foundation.

01:05:19.479 --> 01:05:23.719
And those laws did not change until I think it was the mid-1980s.

01:05:24.559 --> 01:05:29.239
But thinking about philanthropy government is that the way that Mississippi

01:05:29.239 --> 01:05:33.799
has viewed philanthropy, people like the Kellogg Foundation coming to Mississippi

01:05:33.799 --> 01:05:35.279
with their Mississippi Delta Initiative,

01:05:35.699 --> 01:05:40.559
is they viewed them as, okay, you want to tackle that? You go right ahead.

01:05:41.339 --> 01:05:44.739
We don't have anything to do with it. Whereas what.

01:05:45.903 --> 01:05:48.763
Philanthropy is thinking, we're going to kind of do some work here,

01:05:48.863 --> 01:05:51.623
and we're going to figure out what actually works here.

01:05:52.143 --> 01:05:55.523
And then we want government to kind of come in and take that over,

01:05:55.983 --> 01:05:56.763
you know, state government.

01:05:57.063 --> 01:06:00.823
And then, you know, you have to have the federal government with monetary policy.

01:06:01.143 --> 01:06:06.083
You know, Mississippi Delta is on the supervision of the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis.

01:06:06.303 --> 01:06:10.183
So you've got to have connections here. And if all those things could work together,

01:06:10.423 --> 01:06:13.063
there could be some transformative impact.

01:06:13.223 --> 01:06:17.263
But they don't really work together. They're not really coordinated in the way that they should be.

01:06:18.103 --> 01:06:22.783
As someone at the St. Louis Fed said to me, the Dalton has been philanthropy-bombed.

01:06:23.103 --> 01:06:28.243
So it's like there's lots of philanthropy that has come in, and nothing has

01:06:28.243 --> 01:06:34.303
really stuck because no one really asked the local people what it was they needed.

01:06:34.483 --> 01:06:39.403
And what was needed in Drew is different from what's needed in Greenwood than

01:06:39.403 --> 01:06:43.303
what's needed in Mount Bayou, what's needed in Clarksdale.

01:06:43.303 --> 01:06:48.423
So realizing these are all places with unique histories and cultures,

01:06:48.423 --> 01:06:52.143
and you have to figure out what's going to work each of those places. Yeah.

01:06:52.623 --> 01:06:56.603
Yeah. And there's so many things. I had so many questions for you, man.

01:06:56.743 --> 01:07:01.723
It's like, you know, because you highlight Robert Kennedy's tour of the Delta

01:07:01.723 --> 01:07:06.243
and you really get into why that was a monumental thing.

01:07:06.503 --> 01:07:13.003
You highlight people like Gloria Carter Dickerson and her family and their big

01:07:13.003 --> 01:07:14.503
role in the Delta and all that.

01:07:14.903 --> 01:07:18.363
But we don't have time to do all that. I just want people to read the book.

01:07:18.363 --> 01:07:21.303
But what do you want readers of this book

01:07:21.303 --> 01:07:24.383
to take away from it what i want readers

01:07:24.383 --> 01:07:31.823
to take away is i want them to begin to see and know things about the delta

01:07:31.823 --> 01:07:37.403
in a very different way as i say you can't read i mean thinking about piggybacking

01:07:37.403 --> 01:07:43.523
what robert kennedy said when he came to delta unless we change what we see.

01:07:44.779 --> 01:07:54.139
Can't change what we know. And he really wanted to kind of change what we see

01:07:54.139 --> 01:07:58.979
and what we know, and then to kind of create greater social change there.

01:07:59.139 --> 01:08:04.199
And that's the big takeaway I want people to come away from with this book,

01:08:04.239 --> 01:08:08.899
is how do we change our way of seeing the Mississippi Delta?

01:08:09.199 --> 01:08:13.199
And the way we change it is by what we know about it. I want them to learn about it.

01:08:13.399 --> 01:08:18.939
And then I want them to think about how many other places around the country are deltas.

01:08:19.319 --> 01:08:23.739
You know, whether it is Appalachia, whether it is the Black Belt of Alabama,

01:08:24.059 --> 01:08:26.119
or whether it's Western Pennsylvania.

01:08:26.559 --> 01:08:31.199
There are all these places. I think about, I quote the photographer Latoya Ruby

01:08:31.199 --> 01:08:33.599
Frazier, who's from Braddock, Pennsylvania.

01:08:33.819 --> 01:08:37.359
She says, I go around the other parts of the country and I see Braddock.

01:08:37.559 --> 01:08:40.759
Well, I go to other parts of the country and I see the Mississippi Delta.

01:08:41.239 --> 01:08:45.899
And I want people to begin to see that and make those connections and realize

01:08:45.899 --> 01:08:51.159
that the connections between these places and the roots of American income inequality.

01:08:51.399 --> 01:08:52.579
That's what I want people to take away.

01:08:53.439 --> 01:08:58.159
And ladies and gentlemen, I think Braddock, Pennsylvania is the place that Senator

01:08:58.159 --> 01:09:01.259
Fetterman was the mayor of before he got elected as the senator.

01:09:01.579 --> 01:09:03.079
That is exactly right. Okay.

01:09:04.039 --> 01:09:06.859
There's a tie-in to that later on in the podcast. But anyway,

01:09:07.419 --> 01:09:10.079
I'm glad you brought that up.

01:09:10.779 --> 01:09:14.119
Finish this sentence. I have hope because.

01:09:15.059 --> 01:09:22.419
I have hope because there are people in the Mississippi Delta who have hope

01:09:22.419 --> 01:09:28.699
and are actually doing the work to transform the place in spite of forces to

01:09:28.699 --> 01:09:31.679
the contrary that would say that they should not have any hope at all.

01:09:32.860 --> 01:09:38.360
Okay. So how do people get this book?

01:09:38.660 --> 01:09:43.040
When is darkness on the Delta? How can people reach out to you?

01:09:43.460 --> 01:09:49.640
Just go ahead and make it. People can find my book in bookstores everywhere.

01:09:49.880 --> 01:09:53.780
And if you would actually like a signed copy of the book, you can order one

01:09:53.780 --> 01:09:58.140
from Square Books in Oxford, Mississippi at squarebooks.com.

01:09:58.280 --> 01:10:02.620
You can find me at wralfeubanks.com.

01:10:03.120 --> 01:10:09.100
Well, W. Ralph Eubanks, it is truly an honor of mine to have you as a guest

01:10:09.100 --> 01:10:13.960
on the podcast. When I was approached and said, would you like for him to come on? I was like, sure.

01:10:14.220 --> 01:10:18.640
It was just kind of like, so let me put it in perspective for you, sir.

01:10:19.300 --> 01:10:23.780
When I was student body president at Jackson State, we were trying to put together a homecoming concert.

01:10:24.400 --> 01:10:28.100
And initially, we had this rapper named Joski Love that was coming in.

01:10:28.220 --> 01:10:31.680
He was kind of popular, but, you know, he wasn't big time.

01:10:31.880 --> 01:10:35.140
But it was somebody we thought we could afford, right?

01:10:35.480 --> 01:10:41.540
And so the promoters called us and said, yeah, Joski Love ain't going to make it.

01:10:41.900 --> 01:10:44.220
Would y'all accept Run DMC instead?

01:10:44.760 --> 01:10:47.920
And we were like yeah we'll take

01:10:47.920 --> 01:10:50.740
run dmc so when i was

01:10:50.740 --> 01:10:53.780
approached for you coming in it was that same kind of enthusiasm it

01:10:53.780 --> 01:10:59.960
was like uh yeah yeah mr eubanks wants to be on my podcast sure sure so it's

01:10:59.960 --> 01:11:04.900
really really been an honor to talk to you and to form and to meet you and the

01:11:04.900 --> 01:11:09.360
rule is is that once you've been on you have an open invitation to come back

01:11:09.360 --> 01:11:11.900
so when you write your next book or whatever.

01:11:13.100 --> 01:11:16.060
Yeah, feel free to come on back and we'll talk about that too.

01:11:16.780 --> 01:11:21.640
I would love to do that. All right. All right. All right, guys,

01:11:21.780 --> 01:11:23.160
we're going to catch y'all on the other side.

01:11:34.918 --> 01:11:41.558
All right, and we are back. So I want to thank Leatrice De Bruhl and W.

01:11:41.738 --> 01:11:46.258
Ralph Eubanks for coming on the podcast.

01:11:47.318 --> 01:11:53.938
It really is cool when people feel comfortable enough to tell their stories.

01:11:53.938 --> 01:12:00.158
And I know Leatrice has been through a lot,

01:12:00.178 --> 01:12:08.018
but the fact that she has decided to take all of those experiences and try to

01:12:08.018 --> 01:12:12.018
help others as they go through is commendable.

01:12:12.018 --> 01:12:19.918
And, you know, the timing couldn't be any more perfect in that she's celebrating

01:12:19.918 --> 01:12:28.198
another year of life while she's working to help people get through their life

01:12:28.198 --> 01:12:30.318
and the challenges that they face.

01:12:30.578 --> 01:12:39.178
So I think that's commendable and I wish her continued success in that journey and in her work.

01:12:39.898 --> 01:12:49.818
And then to sit down and talk to Ralph Eubanks, man, that's, you know, I try to,

01:12:50.550 --> 01:12:54.990
to be starstruck. But, you know, I'm human.

01:12:56.050 --> 01:13:03.430
And, you know, it's not like, you know, I got like this Eubanks fan page and

01:13:03.430 --> 01:13:04.790
all that stuff. It's not like that.

01:13:04.970 --> 01:13:08.150
But I mean, to have somebody of his magnitude,

01:13:08.430 --> 01:13:14.490
somebody of his talent, and, you know, the fact that he is teaching,

01:13:14.490 --> 01:13:19.150
we had to get through that interview as quick as possible because he had to

01:13:19.150 --> 01:13:23.250
meet a student like right away after the interview.

01:13:23.750 --> 01:13:30.450
You know, it's just that rare combination. He's very humble and down-to-earth

01:13:30.450 --> 01:13:33.030
person, but a tremendous talent.

01:13:33.570 --> 01:13:42.130
And just another reminder to the nation and to the world that Mississippi has a lot to offer.

01:13:42.510 --> 01:13:49.830
You know, I remember growing up in Chicago, you know, Mississippi was the butt

01:13:49.830 --> 01:13:55.230
of a lot of jokes, and that was based off of bitter and terrible experiences.

01:13:56.788 --> 01:14:03.048
And even living there, you know, you would hear the connotations.

01:14:03.468 --> 01:14:10.028
So it was always important for me whenever I was on a national stage or platform,

01:14:10.368 --> 01:14:14.408
whatever, whether it was at a convention or a meeting,

01:14:14.748 --> 01:14:18.648
conference, whatever, that I was,

01:14:18.908 --> 01:14:25.288
one, on my best behavior, and two, I put my best foot forward because I wanted

01:14:25.288 --> 01:14:29.988
people to have a different mindset about Mississippi.

01:14:30.528 --> 01:14:39.068
And for some folks, I was probably the first person or the closest they ever

01:14:39.068 --> 01:14:42.208
got to somebody from Mississippi, right?

01:14:43.728 --> 01:14:50.328
And, you know, and it wasn't just me. It was a lot of us that had the privilege to do that.

01:14:50.508 --> 01:14:53.448
We kind of felt we had that obligation.

01:14:54.268 --> 01:14:59.608
You know, when we were in a position to relax and, as the folks say,

01:14:59.648 --> 01:15:01.328
let your hair down and all that stuff.

01:15:01.448 --> 01:15:06.268
I mean, you know, we enjoyed, like if we were out of town or whatever,

01:15:06.468 --> 01:15:08.608
enjoyed the city we were in.

01:15:09.788 --> 01:15:17.208
But when it came down to business we were about that business and it's,

01:15:18.646 --> 01:15:22.986
obligation because people say so many bad things.

01:15:23.146 --> 01:15:26.166
And when you look at all of these people, it doesn't matter what,

01:15:26.626 --> 01:15:36.786
whether it's music or sports or film, the arts, as far as, you know, sculpting or whatever.

01:15:37.226 --> 01:15:43.306
I mean, writing, Mississippi has contributed in a great way.

01:15:43.986 --> 01:15:49.986
And I hope that some people recognize that there's been some decent people that

01:15:49.986 --> 01:15:52.066
came out of Mississippi in politics as well.

01:15:53.546 --> 01:15:56.906
So, you know, it's just that kind of vibe.

01:15:58.126 --> 01:16:04.366
And to just be in the presence of somebody else that has represented Mississippi

01:16:04.366 --> 01:16:06.586
well was really, really cool.

01:16:08.066 --> 01:16:14.446
And so y'all need to get that book. when it's darkness in the Delta.

01:16:16.346 --> 01:16:20.026
Please get that. And I hope I said that right.

01:16:23.066 --> 01:16:29.766
But it was really a treat to talk to both of them.

01:16:30.866 --> 01:16:34.206
But now I got to get into the dirty stuff.

01:16:35.906 --> 01:16:42.426
And this particular rant is directed toward two individuals.

01:16:43.086 --> 01:16:49.146
Now, I know I'm just a voice out here in the wilderness and my opinions are

01:16:49.146 --> 01:16:55.066
based on my experience and, you know, what I see and what I hear,

01:16:56.464 --> 01:17:02.164
You know, I have the right to say it. And if by some chance these people hear

01:17:02.164 --> 01:17:05.684
it and they got a problem with it, well, you know, refine me.

01:17:06.744 --> 01:17:09.304
And, you know, or they can find out.

01:17:10.804 --> 01:17:15.524
And, you know, we can deal with that. because, you know, when I was elected,

01:17:15.884 --> 01:17:21.564
people had no problem saying, Fleming, I think this, or I don't agree with that,

01:17:21.764 --> 01:17:22.784
or whatever the case may be.

01:17:23.584 --> 01:17:27.244
So I expect people to live by that same standard.

01:17:27.564 --> 01:17:32.624
Now, I know that in this day and age, because I have to remind myself that I

01:17:32.624 --> 01:17:37.664
haven't been an elected official in almost 20 years, things have changed.

01:17:38.524 --> 01:17:41.244
Personalities have changed of people that get elected.

01:17:42.164 --> 01:17:47.844
And, you know, I just, the biggest thing I miss is the honor part of it,

01:17:48.504 --> 01:17:50.644
right? The accountability part of it.

01:17:51.124 --> 01:17:54.424
And, you know, leadership sets the example.

01:17:55.204 --> 01:17:59.524
And if we've got a president that never admits when they're wrong,

01:17:59.844 --> 01:18:06.044
doesn't have any sense of morality or accountability for himself,

01:18:06.344 --> 01:18:11.984
let alone others, has no empathy for other people, then that fans out.

01:18:12.564 --> 01:18:15.664
It's a ripple effect. It fans out throughout the nation.

01:18:16.204 --> 01:18:21.864
And so the people that are aligned with him politically are going to act the same way.

01:18:22.364 --> 01:18:28.584
Even people that are opposed to him will dive into that behavior, right?

01:18:29.324 --> 01:18:31.484
So there's two examples, two gentlemen.

01:18:33.024 --> 01:18:37.884
One, I didn't expect anything better. The other one, I had high hopes for,

01:18:37.884 --> 01:18:40.124
and it's been a total disappointment.

01:18:41.304 --> 01:18:45.744
And, you know, I'll start with the disappointment first.

01:18:46.904 --> 01:18:51.504
And that's the senior senator from the state of Pennsylvania,

01:18:52.524 --> 01:18:55.324
or I guess if I was being formal, the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania.

01:18:56.897 --> 01:19:09.097
Fetterman, you know, when he ran, it was kind of an awkward deal because he was so favored to win.

01:19:09.377 --> 01:19:12.117
And this was his second time running for the U.S. Senate.

01:19:12.277 --> 01:19:16.757
But this time, you know, he had been mayor of a town, Braddock,

01:19:17.557 --> 01:19:24.857
Pennsylvania, and he was the lieutenant governor of the state at the time he was running.

01:19:24.857 --> 01:19:27.337
And so he had built up a cachet.

01:19:27.517 --> 01:19:31.837
So by the time he ran the second time, even though a U.S.

01:19:32.017 --> 01:19:35.757
Congressman was running against him, he was still the favorite.

01:19:36.457 --> 01:19:37.877
And then he got sick.

01:19:38.657 --> 01:19:42.577
Right. He beat, I think it was Congressman Lamb.

01:19:42.817 --> 01:19:48.837
He beat him in the primary. And then he got, he had the stroke right at the end of the primary.

01:19:49.357 --> 01:19:55.557
And so, you know, his Republican opponent is Dr. Oz.

01:19:56.057 --> 01:19:59.497
That's who Fetterman beat. He beat Dr. Oz.

01:20:00.237 --> 01:20:07.037
So, of course, you know, Dr. Oz is, you know, he is what he is.

01:20:08.410 --> 01:20:15.410
And, you know, while he's busy trying to explain to us what a chudery,

01:20:15.690 --> 01:20:19.970
a chudery or, you know, hors d'oeuvres is, right?

01:20:20.110 --> 01:20:22.690
The fancy word for hors d'oeuvres.

01:20:23.090 --> 01:20:31.410
He was trying to explain how that was a problem in grocery stores and prices.

01:20:32.310 --> 01:20:37.470
You know, Fetterman was trying to recover from a stroke, a serious stroke.

01:20:37.470 --> 01:20:42.310
I mean, anytime you're dealing with a stroke, that's life or death, right?

01:20:42.990 --> 01:20:50.870
So, you know, we rallied around him because he really needed surrogates.

01:20:51.530 --> 01:20:57.310
You know, whether it was through our podcast or interviews or actually going

01:20:57.310 --> 01:21:01.810
to Pennsylvania and campaigning on his behalf alongside his wife,

01:21:01.830 --> 01:21:05.090
who, you know, was the second lady of Pennsylvania.

01:21:05.090 --> 01:21:09.830
It was like it was kind of a crusade to get him over the finish line.

01:21:11.030 --> 01:21:17.190
And there were concerns. But then when he started his recovery process and was

01:21:17.190 --> 01:21:22.110
brave enough to step in front of a microphone, knowing that he wasn't quite all there.

01:21:22.790 --> 01:21:26.050
I mean, you couldn't help but rally around him.

01:21:26.810 --> 01:21:31.090
You know, and we knew he was a different kind of cat because he didn't like to wear suits.

01:21:31.930 --> 01:21:34.910
He always liked to wear a hoodie or whatever the case may be.

01:21:35.090 --> 01:21:38.650
And, you know, I guess when he had to speak on the Senate floor,

01:21:38.910 --> 01:21:44.370
he's he's conformed to wear at least a jacket and a tie for those moments.

01:21:44.610 --> 01:21:47.790
But, you know, most of the time he's casually dressed.

01:21:48.290 --> 01:21:51.990
That was just kind of his quirk, his nature. Right.

01:21:53.190 --> 01:22:02.890
But as he recovered and I assume he was back in his right mind, fully functional.

01:22:04.864 --> 01:22:10.464
Still got some side effects from the stroke, but he's a lot healthier now than

01:22:10.464 --> 01:22:12.524
he was when he won the seat.

01:22:13.404 --> 01:22:17.624
Now we're seeing a side of him that is very, very concerning.

01:22:19.224 --> 01:22:28.864
Because in December of 2021, he made a statement that, you know,

01:22:28.924 --> 01:22:32.144
this is when everybody was gearing up to run for the Senate in Pennsylvania.

01:22:32.144 --> 01:22:34.804
He made a statement that he wasn't going to be a U.S.

01:22:35.124 --> 01:22:39.784
Senator like Joe Manchin of West Virginia or Kyrsten Sinema of Arizona.

01:22:40.284 --> 01:22:44.344
He wasn't going to be that kind of Democrat. He was going to be a progressive

01:22:44.344 --> 01:22:46.544
Democrat. That's what he said.

01:22:47.604 --> 01:22:53.024
Now, since he's been up there, he hasn't been the most reliable vote.

01:22:53.244 --> 01:22:58.544
He's been more of a Manchin or a Sinema Democrat, especially when it comes to

01:22:58.544 --> 01:23:07.044
issues dealing with Israel, right? It was one thing to stand with Israel when October 7th happened.

01:23:07.924 --> 01:23:12.984
That was understood. That was just, you know, we went through 9-11. So we understood.

01:23:13.584 --> 01:23:16.444
All right, we got to deal with these folks.

01:23:17.984 --> 01:23:23.404
But then when it got to the point where it was a bloodlust, it was a genocide

01:23:23.404 --> 01:23:29.144
deal, then it was like, okay, we didn't sign up for that.

01:23:29.904 --> 01:23:35.264
We were down with you to deal with Hamas. We weren't down with you to wipe out

01:23:35.264 --> 01:23:37.244
every Palestinian that you see.

01:23:39.571 --> 01:23:46.511
If you got somebody from a mall shooting back at you and you take them out, that's one thing.

01:23:46.771 --> 01:23:50.151
If you got somebody standing in line to get food and you shoot them,

01:23:50.411 --> 01:23:51.871
that's something totally different.

01:23:52.411 --> 01:23:56.491
And for some reason, there are people that don't get that.

01:23:57.211 --> 01:24:02.191
There's some reason that people can't make the difference in that.

01:24:03.951 --> 01:24:10.691
Nobody cheerleads for people that kill thousands of folks, kidnap people.

01:24:11.971 --> 01:24:15.671
Nobody cheerleads for that except the people that do that kind of stuff.

01:24:16.111 --> 01:24:24.771
But on the flip side, you can't kill their third cousin who's not involved with

01:24:24.771 --> 01:24:27.491
any of that at all for no reason.

01:24:27.851 --> 01:24:34.991
You can't do that. I tell this story because this guy was a good guy as far

01:24:34.991 --> 01:24:38.111
as our relationship goes, but he was an inmate.

01:24:39.191 --> 01:24:46.091
And the reason why he was in jail was because somebody killed his brother.

01:24:46.571 --> 01:24:50.471
It was back in the day. They were gambling and stuff.

01:24:51.071 --> 01:24:57.011
You know, you all know that gambling culture, rolling dice, whatever.

01:24:57.491 --> 01:25:03.091
So his brother got killed. So he killed the dude that killed his brother, right?

01:25:03.631 --> 01:25:08.511
So he got charged with manslaughter instead of murder.

01:25:09.411 --> 01:25:12.851
So he went to jail. He did his time.

01:25:13.451 --> 01:25:21.331
And then when he came out, he killed other people in that family.

01:25:21.611 --> 01:25:29.011
The family of the person he had already killed, he came back and killed a couple more of them. Right.

01:25:29.711 --> 01:25:33.111
So at this point now, he's in jail for life.

01:25:34.716 --> 01:25:39.316
And he has been in jail, you know, for both of his adult life now.

01:25:41.336 --> 01:25:49.116
And before I left the sheriff's office in Mississippi, he was assigned to what

01:25:49.116 --> 01:25:51.956
we call the county farm, where I was in Hines County.

01:25:52.816 --> 01:25:57.556
And so a lot of us in the sheriff's office was trying to appeal to the governor

01:25:57.556 --> 01:26:05.216
to give him a pardon because, you know, he had died over 40, 50 years in jail. Right.

01:26:06.156 --> 01:26:13.076
And so at that point, you know, we were working it and it seemed like we were getting some movement.

01:26:14.816 --> 01:26:19.856
But a couple of us talked to him about it and let him know and say,

01:26:20.036 --> 01:26:23.636
well, hey, look, you know, you've been a good trustee all these years.

01:26:23.636 --> 01:26:28.516
And, you know, you've done more than your time.

01:26:29.976 --> 01:26:37.516
And, you know, we want to see you at least the last few years of your life be free.

01:26:38.236 --> 01:26:45.216
And he told us that if he got out, he was going to finish the job.

01:26:45.356 --> 01:26:47.936
And he said, finish the job, what are you talking about? He said,

01:26:48.136 --> 01:26:55.416
as long as those people, that family still exists, the family of the person

01:26:55.416 --> 01:26:57.676
who killed his brother, they still exist.

01:26:58.456 --> 01:27:01.596
He's going to deal with them. He's going to take them out. I said,

01:27:01.616 --> 01:27:05.356
you're too old to do all that. He said, I would do my best.

01:27:07.124 --> 01:27:10.544
Basically, we said, yeah, you know that pardon thing we were talking about?

01:27:10.824 --> 01:27:13.024
Yeah, don't worry about that, right?

01:27:13.564 --> 01:27:16.544
And that's what he wanted. He wants to die in jail.

01:27:17.744 --> 01:27:24.424
He's a grown man. He can make that decision, right? And he told us why he should stay.

01:27:25.904 --> 01:27:31.724
The mindset that he has, the hatred he has for that family that killed his brother,

01:27:31.724 --> 01:27:38.524
is the same hatred we see in Netanyahu and the Israeli government when it comes

01:27:38.524 --> 01:27:41.124
to Palestinians, right?

01:27:42.684 --> 01:27:47.824
Because Hamas is an organization that you can pinpoint the leaders and take

01:27:47.824 --> 01:27:50.104
out, which they did. They took out the leaders.

01:27:50.564 --> 01:27:54.244
And, you know, after they negotiated with them for a while and got some of the

01:27:54.244 --> 01:27:59.764
hostage out, they decided to take them out. So the remaining hostages were released

01:27:59.764 --> 01:28:04.744
by the temporary leadership that Hamas had put together to finish the deal.

01:28:06.332 --> 01:28:11.552
You started killing everybody else just because they're Palestinian and you're

01:28:11.552 --> 01:28:16.812
still going into the West Bank with the people who are ruled by the Palestinian

01:28:16.812 --> 01:28:20.272
Authority, who are not friends of Hamas.

01:28:20.872 --> 01:28:26.412
You're still just taking land from them, just building settlements or whatever.

01:28:27.852 --> 01:28:34.212
And, you know, it's just like, it's just like the way that America was set up.

01:28:34.292 --> 01:28:38.832
It was like the Klan was in the South, and then you had all this other stuff

01:28:38.832 --> 01:28:44.452
going on in other cities. You had the riots and the rebellions and all that

01:28:44.452 --> 01:28:47.732
kind of stuff, race-related, you know, throughout the years.

01:28:48.372 --> 01:28:54.332
Well, that's the way it is in Israel. It's like the West Bank is where the Israeli,

01:28:55.012 --> 01:28:56.992
clan, for lack of a better term,

01:28:57.712 --> 01:29:03.692
those extremists go in the West Bank and harass the Palestinians and take land

01:29:03.692 --> 01:29:07.932
and all that kind of stuff, land that was supposed to be set aside for them, right?

01:29:08.672 --> 01:29:12.572
Well, we've got to expand. Well, you're just going to have to build taller buildings.

01:29:12.572 --> 01:29:14.152
You just can't go into other people.

01:29:14.292 --> 01:29:17.032
You set that land, right?

01:29:17.572 --> 01:29:22.392
That's just like if the United States government decided, now that we have all

01:29:22.392 --> 01:29:28.292
these Native American reservations set up, right, and then all of a sudden, you know what?

01:29:29.052 --> 01:29:34.452
We need to build some condos over there. It would be holy hell over here if

01:29:34.452 --> 01:29:36.392
we did that. But that's what's going on.

01:29:36.612 --> 01:29:40.732
And then on the flip side, you just basically wiped out the other settlement,

01:29:41.392 --> 01:29:45.952
because Hamas was based out of there and they were running that part. Right?

01:29:48.752 --> 01:29:53.192
But when you say that, then people want to say, oh, you hate Jewish people.

01:29:53.472 --> 01:29:56.652
Oh, you're anti-Semitic, all this stuff. That is not true.

01:29:57.692 --> 01:30:01.892
But nonetheless, they don't have to worry about that from John Fetterman because

01:30:01.892 --> 01:30:06.572
John Fetterman is down with the genocide. He's down with it.

01:30:08.088 --> 01:30:13.308
And, you know, it's like the minute people started saying, well,

01:30:13.448 --> 01:30:16.448
I think Donald Trump was influenced by Israel to attack Iran.

01:30:17.328 --> 01:30:21.508
And John Fetterman's like, let's go to war. What are we talking about?

01:30:22.288 --> 01:30:28.108
You want to go to war on behalf of Israel and you're a U.S. senator?

01:30:28.628 --> 01:30:38.248
What are we doing? You know, and then he's he he when Rand Paul voted against

01:30:38.248 --> 01:30:42.948
Mark Wayne Mullen to be the DHS secretary.

01:30:44.817 --> 01:30:47.917
Fetterman had voted with his fellow Democrats.

01:30:48.677 --> 01:30:51.497
Mullen wouldn't have got the job because he wouldn't have got a committee.

01:30:52.037 --> 01:30:57.357
But it was because of Fetterman, Mullen got the job, right?

01:30:57.837 --> 01:31:01.737
And it's like, well, you know, I served with him. Rand Paul served with him.

01:31:02.597 --> 01:31:08.077
Y'all were in the Senate together as of like two weeks ago. Y'all were all there together.

01:31:08.657 --> 01:31:13.897
If the chairman of the committee he had to go through did not want him.

01:31:13.897 --> 01:31:17.357
Now, I blame Rand Paul for even having a hearing.

01:31:17.897 --> 01:31:27.377
If I was the chairman, that hearing would be like, maybe we'll do it in November after the election.

01:31:28.177 --> 01:31:33.057
He would be the acting secretary for a long time, if that was me.

01:31:34.017 --> 01:31:37.157
And I had the history that Rand Paul had with him.

01:31:38.017 --> 01:31:43.057
But Paul had the hearing. He said what he needed to say, and he voted against it.

01:31:43.477 --> 01:31:47.357
So in a normal world, that nomination would be dead.

01:31:47.757 --> 01:31:54.397
But John Fetterman decided to be a hero to a guy that doesn't give a damn about

01:31:54.397 --> 01:31:58.517
him or people that look like his wife.

01:31:59.157 --> 01:32:05.337
Right? Which is a whole other dynamic I'm trying to figure out because Donald

01:32:05.337 --> 01:32:06.757
Trump is married to an immigrant.

01:32:07.157 --> 01:32:11.657
John Fetterman's married to an immigrant. J.D. Vance is married to an immigrant.

01:32:12.257 --> 01:32:15.057
But they all hate immigrants.

01:32:15.817 --> 01:32:21.377
And in Fetterman's case, it's your actions, not your words, right?

01:32:21.697 --> 01:32:25.757
Because you voted for Mark Wayne Mullin. You voted for Kristi Noem.

01:32:26.317 --> 01:32:27.857
Let me see how that turned out.

01:32:29.568 --> 01:32:33.788
Like your wife, but you don't like any other immigrants. I'm just saying,

01:32:34.508 --> 01:32:37.628
you know, they've all had kids by these immigrants.

01:32:38.968 --> 01:32:46.168
So all this talk about birthright citizenship and all that. Now they're down with ending that?

01:32:47.088 --> 01:32:54.548
Your current life existence, you have children that fall in that category.

01:32:55.428 --> 01:32:56.588
What are we talking about?

01:32:57.748 --> 01:33:02.768
You know, people are going to be cruel and, you know, say something,

01:33:02.968 --> 01:33:04.848
well, he never recovered from the strokes. I mean, you know,

01:33:04.908 --> 01:33:05.868
that's just how I go ahead.

01:33:06.988 --> 01:33:10.588
Bruh, I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt because he's still showing up.

01:33:11.148 --> 01:33:15.588
Yeah, I've heard reports that he's cruel to his staff and all that stuff,

01:33:15.628 --> 01:33:19.648
but that's usually how they try to get you out in a smooth way.

01:33:20.248 --> 01:33:26.768
You know, there's a number of House and Senate members that people say on both

01:33:26.768 --> 01:33:30.728
sides that say, oh, you know, well, yeah, she's really tough to work with.

01:33:31.388 --> 01:33:32.828
He's really tough to work with.

01:33:33.608 --> 01:33:38.288
You know, you are dealing with certain types of personalities that run for office.

01:33:40.055 --> 01:33:47.815
Hung up on this, this mindset where it's like, I don't like immigrants, but I'm married to one.

01:33:48.475 --> 01:33:58.295
I want to support a country destroying an entire population of people for what money?

01:33:59.375 --> 01:34:05.555
I don't get it. And I think, and then you, you, you broke your promise because

01:34:05.555 --> 01:34:08.095
you had people like Bernie Sanders and all these other folks.

01:34:08.795 --> 01:34:12.775
Hell, you had people like me saying, please vote for this guy.

01:34:13.415 --> 01:34:17.155
Now, was he better than Mesmit Oz? Of course he was.

01:34:20.515 --> 01:34:26.195
But, you know, we didn't think we were just getting Oz-like, right?

01:34:27.675 --> 01:34:33.855
So he's safe this year because his seat is not up. His seat won't be up till 2028.

01:34:35.075 --> 01:34:38.635
So we'll have to deal with him Just like we have to deal with the president

01:34:38.635 --> 01:34:40.495
Until that election cycle.

01:34:42.756 --> 01:34:51.556
That something happens, that he has a Damascus Road experience and he gets back

01:34:51.556 --> 01:34:56.276
to the person that people thought he would be,

01:34:57.316 --> 01:35:02.356
the kind of mayor that he was, the kind of lieutenant governor that he was, right?

01:35:02.736 --> 01:35:09.136
That's what they're hoping for. The guy who was listed as one of America's best

01:35:09.136 --> 01:35:14.376
mayors, who single-handedly, because he fought with the city council two for nail,

01:35:15.136 --> 01:35:20.436
single-handedly did everything he could do, whether it was like reviving a building,

01:35:21.096 --> 01:35:25.016
starting a restaurant, whatever, to kind of keep the economy going in the town

01:35:25.016 --> 01:35:30.976
that he was only getting paid $150 a month, I think, to be the mayor of.

01:35:33.036 --> 01:35:37.056
So anyway, that's my deal with Fetterman. Now, this other guy,

01:35:37.276 --> 01:35:40.716
I guess I won't have a whole lot of time to talk to him because he's not really

01:35:40.716 --> 01:35:45.336
worth it, but he's, this guy's name is James Utmeyer.

01:35:46.616 --> 01:35:50.936
So James is an attorney in the state of Florida.

01:35:52.569 --> 01:36:00.689
Was until Marco Rubio became the Secretary of State, the Chief of Staff for Ron DeSantis.

01:36:01.009 --> 01:36:05.369
So already, he's the Stephen Miller of Florida, right?

01:36:07.829 --> 01:36:12.589
So because of Rubio ascending, that meant that the Attorney General,

01:36:12.809 --> 01:36:17.069
I think her name was Moody, DeSantis moved her into the Senate position,

01:36:17.069 --> 01:36:21.729
and then he gave his Chief of Staff the position of Attorney General.

01:36:22.569 --> 01:36:28.549
And, you know, I mean, he was just doing the typical stuff that all these Florida Republicans are doing.

01:36:29.309 --> 01:36:37.309
And, you know, but up until this point, his most egregious thing was Alligator Alcatraz, right?

01:36:37.829 --> 01:36:40.909
Because he was the brains behind that.

01:36:41.449 --> 01:36:49.609
He was the one who made the proposal, picked a spot, came up with a plan to build it, right?

01:36:51.329 --> 01:36:59.129
And, of course, led the fight in court to stop the Native American nation that

01:36:59.129 --> 01:37:03.369
was suing on the land day in Crowadstone.

01:37:05.689 --> 01:37:10.049
And, of course, being the attorney general, he fought them and got the case

01:37:10.049 --> 01:37:12.349
dismissed, the lawsuit. Yeah.

01:37:13.643 --> 01:37:17.803
Showed his utter brazen ignorance, right? Because that's where we are now.

01:37:17.943 --> 01:37:22.723
It's not just normal ignorance and naivete. It's brazen.

01:37:23.543 --> 01:37:28.223
A lot of people are humbled by their ignorance. At least that's the way it used to be.

01:37:28.663 --> 01:37:34.883
But over these last 10 years, these folks are wearing their ignorance like a badge of honor.

01:37:35.623 --> 01:37:40.083
And so he got on. He decided he was going to write a letter to the National

01:37:40.083 --> 01:37:43.383
Football League, just random as hell.

01:37:44.123 --> 01:37:52.823
And he decides to write and to state to them that the Rooney Rule was a violation of Florida law.

01:37:53.643 --> 01:37:57.943
And he felt he had jurisdiction to say that because there are two NFL,

01:37:57.943 --> 01:38:01.403
well, there's three NFL teams in the state of Florida.

01:38:01.803 --> 01:38:08.583
The Jacksonville Jaguars, the Miami Dolphins, and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers, right? Okay.

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So Jacksonville has, the Rooney rule is the rule that was brought in after Tony

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Dungy was fired by the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.

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Tony Dungy had built the Tampa Bay Buccaneers into a contending team and they

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fired him and hired John Gruden.

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And that's the year that John Gruden won his Super Bowl.

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With the Raiders and they lured him from the Raiders to coach Tampa Bay and they won.

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And of course they beat the Raiders, right? The team he had just coached, the team he knew.

01:38:47.926 --> 01:38:53.106
And he took the team that Dungy had built and won. And so Dungy,

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when he played, he primarily played for the Pittsburgh Steelers.

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Well, Mr. Bruni is the owner of the Steelers and him and Tony were close.

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And so he got with the other owners and said, hey, look, we got to protect these

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black coaches from getting fired and they're doing their job.

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They're winning. They may not win the Super Bowl. Not everybody can win the Super Bowl.

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But you get into the playoffs, winning your division, whatever.

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You have a winning record.

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That's the National Football League. It's not supposed to be easy.

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And there was another coach that got fired around the same time, had a winning record.

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And so Mr. Rooney convinced the other owners to come up with a rule that would

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say that all of them have to at least interview, you know,

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black perspective coaches, right?

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They have to at least interview some black candidates for those vacant positions whenever they come up.

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And they agree to that. So that's been going on since, I guess, 2003.

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So since the Rooney Rule has been in place, which obviously Mr.

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Utmeier has no clue about, right?

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Since the Rooney Rule has been in place, two of the three teams in Florida has had a black coach.

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But Ryan Flores was the coach in Miami for a minute, and Todd Bowles is still the coach at Tampa Bay.

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So, I don't know if Mr. Utmire even pays attention to that, for him to write that letter.

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But to sit there and say, well, you know, it discriminates against white men,

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because that's the whole argument about DEI.

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It's like diversity, equity, and inclusion is discriminatory to white men.

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Anyway, so, again, I don't know.

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He ran, Mr. Utmire ran track at Florida. I don't know if he paid attention to

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what happened to the football players that played at Florida during that time

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and where they went in the National Football League.

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But obviously, Mr. Utmire doesn't understand that all of the owners are white.

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Only three of the coaches are black.

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I mean, you know, I think you have a few more general managers than coaches

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that are black. Not many.

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But there's nothing in the National Football League that discriminates against

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white people. Nothing. The commissioner's white.

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I mean, it is, we never had a black commissioner.

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If there's any disparity, it's the fact that 75 to 80% of the players are black,

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which is the reason why people are like, well, these guys that played the game,

01:41:58.935 --> 01:42:03.515
the white guys that don't play anymore, get a shot to coach.

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Why not the black guys, especially since they make up the majority of the league?

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Meyer is too fragile for that. We all know that his boss is too fragile for that, DeSantis.

01:42:20.062 --> 01:42:26.962
So all I need to say about all this stuff is that we've got to get these people out of office.

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Because Udmeyer is running this year in Florida.

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He was appointed to the position, but the position is up on the ballot this year.

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And I hope that Florida can continue to do the thing.

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We congratulate Ms. Gregory for pulling off the victory and flipping that seat.

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So now Donald Trump is actually represented in the state house of Florida by a Democrat.

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Love that for him. And I hope that that's a trend in Florida,

01:42:59.242 --> 01:43:06.522
that we can see some Democrats get the statewide office because the last statewide

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Democrat is now the chair of the party, Nikki Freed.

01:43:10.462 --> 01:43:17.062
And if they had been smart, they would have had her run against DeSantis the second time.

01:43:17.622 --> 01:43:18.742
First of all, they should have

01:43:18.742 --> 01:43:21.042
voted for Andrew Gillum. That was the first thing they should have done.

01:43:21.942 --> 01:43:26.522
But they didn't do that. And so at least not enough folks because it was close.

01:43:27.262 --> 01:43:31.502
But the second time around, Nikki should have had her shot.

01:43:31.982 --> 01:43:37.002
Nonetheless, Ms. Freed is doing a wonderful job as the chair of the Florida Democratic Party.

01:43:37.842 --> 01:43:40.622
And so now we hope that she can...

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Turn statewide, especially for these statewide positions.

01:43:45.828 --> 01:43:55.448
But I promise you, if you can't get anybody else, please get Utmire out of there.

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Get him out. You got it. The positions you got to get is governor,

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secretary of state, attorney general.

01:44:04.188 --> 01:44:07.288
You know, the insurance commissioners, Republican or Democrat,

01:44:07.748 --> 01:44:13.788
you know, I mean, I'm partisan, so I want Democrats to win, right?

01:44:13.948 --> 01:44:18.408
But in the scheme of things, the most dangerous positions right now that the

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Republicans are using as weapons is the Secretary of State, the Attorney General,

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and the Governor's Mansion.

01:44:25.568 --> 01:44:31.788
Those are the three positions that you got to get Republic this MAGA influence out of in every extent.

01:44:32.968 --> 01:44:39.568
And, you know, Utmeier has proven with this letter to the National Football

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League that he's not worthy of the position.

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If you want to have a podcast, bro, like me, if you want to be an advisor to people, that's fine.

01:44:48.628 --> 01:44:53.988
But you should not be given a taste of any kind of power or political responsibility

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because you're crazy, right?

01:44:57.908 --> 01:45:02.508
You didn't have a stroke like Mr. Fetterman. You're crazy on your own fruition.

01:45:03.268 --> 01:45:07.928
The NFL discriminates against white people? As old folks say,

01:45:08.008 --> 01:45:09.968
I didn't hurt at all, y'all.

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It's just, we got to get away from these people. We got to get them out.

01:45:16.888 --> 01:45:21.428
You know, we can't be like the movie The Purge and violently take them out,

01:45:21.568 --> 01:45:24.688
although there's some people I know that desire that.

01:45:25.088 --> 01:45:29.928
But we got to use the process to get them out, which means that you got to show up.

01:45:30.788 --> 01:45:35.108
Shout out to all the people that attended the No Kings rallies, right?

01:45:36.590 --> 01:45:40.830
Up on election day, too. Just like you took the time to show up to any kind

01:45:40.830 --> 01:45:46.530
of demonstration, you got to take the time in your respective states on election day.

01:45:46.710 --> 01:45:50.430
If your state has early voting, take advantage of that.

01:45:51.010 --> 01:45:53.010
But we got to get these people out.

01:45:53.750 --> 01:46:00.550
Again, you know, it's like, and they say that when Rome burned,

01:46:00.830 --> 01:46:06.050
Nero fiddled in the United States, Trump is golfing.

01:46:06.590 --> 01:46:13.890
We're talking about the price of ballpoint pens or how many cognitive tests he's taken, right?

01:46:14.730 --> 01:46:18.810
Enough of that foolishness. It's just time out for that.

01:46:19.490 --> 01:46:24.410
We've got to take it to the new level for the next 250 years.

01:46:24.990 --> 01:46:34.490
And the way we do that is that we don't vote for people who don't have the conviction of their campaign.

01:46:35.230 --> 01:46:39.290
And we just don't vote crazy fanatical people in either.

01:46:39.670 --> 01:46:42.850
We need people that are even keeled, that have common sense,

01:46:42.990 --> 01:46:47.950
that can disagree without being disagreeable, right?

01:46:48.130 --> 01:46:51.670
Because now everybody's going to see the puzzle the same way.

01:46:52.110 --> 01:46:57.550
But if we can all figure out a way to put the pieces together, job done.

01:46:58.250 --> 01:47:02.630
It's more than one approach to solve a problem. them is just which one is the

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most feasible at that moment.

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Which one is going to do the less harm to the people that you're supposedly trying to help?

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Adics don't understand that. They just believe in something and come hella high

01:47:17.132 --> 01:47:22.012
water, no matter how many times it's been disproven.

01:47:22.652 --> 01:47:26.352
That's their belief and they're sticking to it. That's James Utmire.

01:47:27.072 --> 01:47:32.532
No more of those type of folks. And then we have to vet people that say they're

01:47:32.532 --> 01:47:38.572
your friend when they're campaigning and really see if their actions match their words.

01:47:39.432 --> 01:47:46.152
So we won't get another John Fetterman. or Joe Manchin or Kirsten Sinema.

01:47:46.792 --> 01:47:51.712
Again, you don't need to go extreme.

01:47:52.312 --> 01:47:56.892
And there are some folks that are unfairly called extreme because they have

01:47:56.892 --> 01:47:59.252
radically different ideas.

01:48:00.452 --> 01:48:06.252
But if the difference between an extremist and somebody that's radical,

01:48:06.532 --> 01:48:12.292
liberal in thought is that extremists want to tear the system apart.

01:48:13.152 --> 01:48:19.852
Radicals want to change the system from within, do a whole remodel, right?

01:48:21.071 --> 01:48:24.491
Of the building, but the interior, we're going to move this wall here.

01:48:24.651 --> 01:48:28.891
We're going to move this wall there. The bathroom should be in the back instead of the front.

01:48:29.551 --> 01:48:35.851
That's radical thinking. We just want to keep the house, but we don't rearrange

01:48:35.851 --> 01:48:39.551
some things now, right? We're not going to keep the status quo.

01:48:40.671 --> 01:48:43.331
Extremists is like tear the whole fucking house down and start over.

01:48:43.331 --> 01:48:52.071
And right now we have extremists leading us and we got to get them out because

01:48:52.071 --> 01:48:53.631
they don't care about us.

01:48:53.751 --> 01:48:55.991
They care about their extreme.

01:48:56.751 --> 01:49:02.671
They want their agenda and care about you and how that impacts you.

01:49:02.951 --> 01:49:05.171
They just want to see it come to fruition.

01:49:05.551 --> 01:49:07.551
That's why Doge was a failure.

01:49:08.351 --> 01:49:14.371
That's why this latest excursion, as the president refers to it, in Iran is a failure.

01:49:14.991 --> 01:49:17.311
Because you just wanted to do something.

01:49:18.651 --> 01:49:22.471
You had no plan. It is what it is, ladies and gentlemen.

01:49:22.691 --> 01:49:27.411
So I just, just let's be careful.

01:49:27.611 --> 01:49:33.251
Let's commit to electing American leaders, people who actually give a damn about

01:49:33.251 --> 01:49:35.571
the country and give a damn about their fellow citizen.

01:49:36.611 --> 01:49:41.031
And stop voting in these folks that are crazy.

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All right, that's all I got. Thank y'all for listening. Till next time.

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