Hope & Safety Featuring Angela Giampolo and Dr. Felecia Pullen


In this episode, Angela Giampolo, the self-described "Philly Gay Lawyer", discusses the challenges of her unique law practice and her Caravan of Hope. Then, Dr. Felecia Pullen, President & CEO of Let's Talk SAFETY, Inc., talks about how her journey from addiction led to her crusade for recovery in Harlem.
00:06 - Welcome to A Moment with Erik Fleming
01:56 - Incredible Women Making Impact
03:28 - Moment of News with Grace G.
05:29 - Introducing Angela Giampolo
08:29 - Icebreakers with Angela
15:29 - Navigating Current Events
15:39 - Philadelphia’s Gay Lawyer
19:21 - The Caravan of Hope
25:34 - Early Days of the Trump Administration
32:33 - Importance of Estate Planning
37:03 - Current Events and Activism
48:32 - Introducing Dr. Felecia Pullen
51:41 - Icebreakers with Dr. Pullen
57:17 - Overcoming Addiction
58:38 - Guided by Purpose
01:00:42 - Marijuana and Pregnancy Awareness
01:03:24 - Holistic Approaches to Recovery
01:05:51 - Integrating Alternative Therapies
01:13:19 - Challenges in Addiction Recovery
01:15:45 - Public Policy and Addiction Recovery
01:19:18 - Recognition and Community Impact
01:21:53 - Engaging with the Community
01:23:36 - Closing Thoughts and Next Steps
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Music.
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Hello, and welcome to Another Moment with Erik Fleming. I am your host, Erik Fleming.
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And today, we are very, very blessed because I have two guests that are coming on,
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two ladies who have dedicated their lives to going home and making an impact in their home.
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And, you know, one of the things that, you know, one of the things that's been
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stressed all the time is that, you know, in the communities that you live in,
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make as big of an impact as you can.
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Some people can do tremendous things. Some people can do small things.
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But anything that can be done positively to have an impact in the community
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will be greatly appreciated.
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And so it is my honor to have two women who have made that commitment to do
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that and to make a tremendous impact where they live.
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And at some point, I'm going to address people that are having a negative impact
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on where we live and especially the country that we live in,
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even the world that we live in. Right.
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So I'll get to that a little later after you listen to these incredible women.
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But before we do that, speaking about incredible women, it's time to kick off
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our program. And as always, we kick it off with a moment of news with Grace Cheek.
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Music.
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Thanks, Erik. The Trump administration deployed National Guard troops and U.S.
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Marines to address immigration protests in Los Angeles, drawing criticism from
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California Governor Gavin Newsom and Los Angeles Mayor Karen Bass.
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Over 290 people died when an Air India flight crashed into a medical college
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hostel shortly after takeoff from Amanabad to London, making it the deadliest
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aviation disaster in a decade, with at least one survivor reported.
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Kilmar Abrego-Garcia, a Salvadoran mistakenly deported under Trump's policies,
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faced smuggling charges upon return to the United States, which prompted a prosecutor's
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resignation from the Department of Justice.
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President Trump announced plans to phase out FEMA after hurricane season,
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shift disaster relief funding directly through the White House,
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and reduce federal aid to states.
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A federal judge blocked the Trump administration from detaining or deporting
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Colombian student Mahmoud Khalil under foreign policy justifications.
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The Supreme Court allowed DOGE access to sensitive personal data despite privacy concerns.
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A $2.8 billion NCAA settlement approved by a judge permits compensating student-athletes
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for name, image, and likeness use.
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The Supreme Court declined to challenge Washington, D.C.'s ban on high-capacity
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ammunition magazines, leaving the restriction intact.
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The U.S. State Department resumed Harvard student visa processing after a court blocked Trump's ban.
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And Sly Stone, funk pioneer and leader of Sly and the Family Stone, died at the age of 82.
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I am Grace Gee, and this has been a Moment of News.
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Music.
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All right. Thank you, Grace, for that Moment of News.
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And now it is time for my guest, Angela Giampolo.
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Angela Giampolo is an expert on LGBTQ plus legal issues and the founder of Giampolo
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Law Group, a law firm serving the LGBTQ plus community for all of their legal needs.
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Philly Gay Lawyer is the advocacy arm of Angela's law firm,
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and she actively blogs at www.lawyer.lgbt and is a legal columnist for the Legal
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Intelligencer and the Philadelphia Business Journal.
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Angela appears on a monthly newsletter.
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IHeartRadio show is the LGBTQ plus legal expert on a segment titled Speak Out,
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and she has appeared on NPR, Wall Street Journal, American News Radio,
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Fox News, and several serious stations.
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In the wake of the first Trump administration, Angela started a 501 C3 nonprofit,
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the Caravan of Hope, where she takes one month out of her firm every year to
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drive 5,000 miles cross-country,
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stopping in 14 cities to provide legal services to underprivileged and underserved
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LGBTQ plus folks in rural areas.
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In the wake of Trump 2.0, Angela co-founded LGBTQ plus Pride Planning,
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an online and automated service providing affordable LGBTQ plus estate planning
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documents to folks in all 50 states.
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Angela has served on many boards of local, statewide, and national nonprofit
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organizations, including the Philadelphia Bar Association's Board of Governors,
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the Victory Fund, Liberty City Democratic Club,
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National Adoption Center, and Philadelphia
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Gay and Lesbian Lawyers of Philadelphia, better known as Gallup.
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In her career thus far, Angela has been bestowed the honor of being the National
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LGBT Bar Association top 40 under 40 LGBT attorneys.
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Legal intense intelligences, most diverse attorney,
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Philadelphia Business Journal's woman of distinction, top 40 under 40 business
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people in Philadelphia, and top 25 LGBTQ owned businesses nine years running.
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Angela has worked in government at the Office of General Counsel in Harrisburg
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at the Election Law Division,
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as well as with the United Nations at the International Criminal Tribunal for
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Rwanda in prosecuting those responsible for the Rwandan genocide of 1994.
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Lastly, Angela is currently completing on her first book on how the LGBTQ plus
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community has protected themselves, their loved ones, and their rights through estate planning.
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Ladies and gentlemen, it is my distinct honor and privilege to have as a guest on this Podcast.
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Angela Giampolo.
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Music.
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All right, Angela Giampolo. How you doing, ma'am? You doing good? I was born doing good.
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Well, you were the only one. Most of us was at least screaming,
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crying, giving the doctor some fits.
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But I'm glad to know that at least one person was born doing good.
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But I know you've been doing good as an adult, for sure.
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And you've been a champion that I'm honored to recognize for what you've been doing.
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And I'm excited that you're getting ready to talk to the listeners about all that you do.
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But before we get started on all that, I do a couple of icebreakers.
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I guess it's the old moderator in me or whatever. But the first icebreaker is
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a quote. So I want you to respond to this quote.
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Always be clear what it is that you want and then make decisions accordingly.
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What does that quote mean to you?
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Make decisions quickly, rapidly, and never change your mind.
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That is the definition of success. You know, be clear on what you want and then follow suit.
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And that, I mean, that quote is the definition of how and why I started the law firm that I did.
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I am not your typical lawyer, but I am very happy.
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Most lawyers will tell prospective law students not to go to law school because
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it's a miserable profession and you'll be miserable and all of the things.
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And I do not think so, but I knew what I wanted to do.
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I knew what I wanted my life to look like.
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And then I worked backwards from that vision and stayed the course.
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Even when I was afraid, even when I was alone, even, you know,
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when it didn't make sense. But if I knew if that was my vision,
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then this is the course that I have to stay in order to reach that vision.
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So those are my thoughts on that. Yeah.
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So I understand at one point you were thinking about the WNBA,
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but you decided that that wasn't the move, huh?
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So I didn't so much decide as my knees didn't agree.
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So I went, I played basketball overseas, Sweden, Finland, Estonia,
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And blew out my knees in Estonia Or my one knee,
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my left knee in Estonia Came back to the US, got that fixed And I had not been
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playing professionally long enough that I was My NCAA status was still intact
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And so then I played college ball,
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And blew out my, before the season even started.
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Day one of training, blew out my right knee.
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And at that point, my team doctor was the team doctor for Duke when Bobby Hurley
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was rehabilitated from a body cast back to the court in nine months.
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And this team doctor was like, oh, my God, he's amazing.
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He's able to bring someone back from a body cast back to the court in nine months.
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And he looked at my itty-bitty little orthoscopic knee surgery,
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and he was like, you're done.
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And I was like, what? Like, you're the guy. What do you mean?
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And he was like, no, you can't come back from this.
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He's like, your kneecap is literally too small for the groove that it sits in.
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Like, I can't fix that. Like, that's just literally what your kneecap looks like.
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And so every six to nine months, you're going to be back here with a knee surgery.
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This is going to keep happening. And at that time, my coach, 32 years old,
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beautiful to look at from the front, and then she'd turn around and walk away,
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and she looked like a 92-year-old cripple because she had five knee surgeries while in college.
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So I had no idea where I had the wisdom, because I was a 19-year-old idiot, you know what I mean?
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And basketball was my life. I had no idea where I had the wisdom,
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but I said, you know what?
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I'm transferring out, and I'm done with basketball.
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I don't want to be her. I just distinctly remember
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that visual of her walking away from me and at 32
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barely being able to walk and I said I don't want to be that and so I transferred
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and I ended up at LaSalle University in Philadelphia and that's all she wrote
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yeah well that's all she wrote in basketball but it led to this this incredible
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law career so yeah I mean I never knew I had a brain until that.
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If my knees hadn't blown out we wouldn't been talking well we might have been
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it You never know how the world works.
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So my other icebreaker is I need you to give me a number between one and 20. Seven.
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All right. What do you consider the best way to stay informed about politics,
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current events, health, etc.?
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So what about the seven? That was it? Yeah, that was the question.
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Yeah, yeah. That was it? No, no.
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No, there's no grand prize with this. There's no...
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This is behind door number seven. No, no, that's not how that works.
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Your prize is the question I just asked you.
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Gotcha. All right. So what is my way of saying current?
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I am very, very guarded about push notifications to me.
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So I have a very few select outlets,
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that I do choose to get push notifications that tell me what I want to know
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at any time when I may or may not be ready for it LGBTQ Nation, them.us, Advocate,
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and then other than that a couple of friends that I trust to do get push notifications
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from CNN, BBC, and all of the things, but I don't want to get those.
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But other than that, I do not proactively on a daily basis read the news or
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do anything about taking on current events other than very specific LGBTQ,
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well, and crypto, cryptocurrency.
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I'm huge into crypto, so there's IA Answers, which
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is YouTube channel James who's awesome
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and all things crypto I get through him and then
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verify in other ways but as far as the you know daily news and whether we're
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going to war or you know life things that are happening I get that through LGBTQ
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specific outlets other folks email me or text me if there's something they think
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I should know that's outside of that and then crypto So I get the right answers.
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So let me let me make a note. So when I want to have a crypto discussion,
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let me let me call Angela again.
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Get her on. I call it crypto queerency.
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That's good, because that actually leads into my next question.
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How did you get the designation of being Philadelphia's gay lawyer?
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And was that a designation that you sought out? Now, I know,
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you know, back in the day, I'm old enough to remember that it was like,
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if you wanted to get a good lawyer, you got to get a Philadelphia lawyer,
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you know what I'm saying?
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And then, you know, all I kept thinking about, you know, was Denzel Washington
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and Tom Hanks and that movie, right?
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And so I'm just curious, how did you...
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Become the lawyer for the LGBTQ community?
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How did, and was that something you really wanted to do?
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Yeah, I definitely premeditated it. I bought the domain Philly Gay Lawyer in college.
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Okay. Long before I was a lawyer. So I'm probably one of the few lawyers that
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became a lawyer to fulfill a business model.
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I'm Canadian originally, and living here in the U.S., I saw that there was a
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distinct differentiation in how the laws treat folks.
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And basically, there's gay law and straight law. For a minute there,
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we were turning the tide where there was just the law.
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And now it's even worse than it was 17 years ago when I started my practice.
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So initially, it was Philly Gay Lawyer.
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And that was the moniker that I went by. There was my law firm, Giampolo Law Group.
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And anybody and even now
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the tagline is we represent the lgbtq community
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and those who love us we represent everyone
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but like let's be clear and those who love us and that's on the awning outside
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i own the building we have a forever home for jampolo law group and on the awning
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outside at a very walkable busy area in philly right off of south street 500 feet from South Street,
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there's a big sign that says we represent the LGBTQ community and those who love us.
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And I have straight people who email me all day and say, we love you.
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And we would love for you to be my lawyer and all of the things.
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But 17 years ago, or even earlier than that in college, it just always made
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sense to me that people do business with people that they know, love, and trust.
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They used to say, know, like, and trust.
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And I feel like we're at a point, have been for several years where it needs
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to be no love and trust, right?
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And the love piece, obviously, they don't love me before they meet me, but they can go online.
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They can see the things that I'm doing, that I stand for, that I'm actually,
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I'm putting my money where my mouth is and all of the things.
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And that part they can feel.
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And without fail, when most people reach out, they mention something about having
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Googled me and your caravan of hope, your love of senior chihuahuas, this, that, the other.
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So, yeah, it was definitely a niche that I started out in.
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My law school professors, the two that I respected the most said, don't do it.
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You know, at that point, back in 2008, you represent 3% of the population.
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You're going to start a law firm representing 3% of the population. Why would you do that?
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You're going to need PB&Js the rest of your life.
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But we always represented more than 3%. It's just so many people weren't out.
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There wasn't a way to count us on the census, you know, and I was like, this is what I want to do.
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And so I've always been a low volume because we don't, make up,
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you know, 100% of the population.
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So I've always been a low volume, high touch law firm.
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And we really love what we do and how we do it and who we do it for. Yeah.
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Yeah. That's, that's, that's interesting that you, you had that vision and,
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and you, and you set out to do it as opposed to, it just kind of fell in your
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lap that that's all you were getting?
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I think because I'm the daughter of two entrepreneurs.
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So my dad stopped school in second grade, third grade maybe,
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and followed his father, you know, last name Jam Polo.
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So read between the lines, but they went off and did that.
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And, and then my mom stopped at type writing school and then they met my mom's
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from Quebec and then they met and they started a business.
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And I just grew up with entrepreneurs. And so I didn't know any other way.
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You know, Monopoly was my jam. And I won all the time.
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My poor brother never could win, even though he's older than me.
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And so it was just, I, without, before I even realized it, I knew that I was
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going to open up my own business.
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And so, and then the other part about me is I'm always going to be happy.
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You know, we, Edie Windsor, marriage equality plaintiff, never postpone joy.
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And, and that always rang, you know, true for me.
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So it's like, if I'm going to open up my own law firm, what's it going to look like?
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How am I going to exist in it? Who are we going to serve in order to ensure
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that I love what I do on a daily basis? And that was very clear.
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So you mentioned the Caravan of Hope. Kind of explain what that is and how did
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you even come up with the concept of doing that?
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Yeah, so the Caravan of Hope is exactly what it sounds like. It's a caravan,
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32-foot RV that I take cross-country once a year, and we stop in 14 cities providing
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pro bono legal services to LGBTQ folks,
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specifically in rural and underserved areas where folks don't have an easy,
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at least, access to someone like myself, a competent out.
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You know, Not that they have to be out.
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Some of my partners in these cities are not out, especially I won't name the
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cities or the states, but some of the southern ones, trans lawyers that aren't out.
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So the out part doesn't matter, but at least competent and LGBTQ legal issues
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and in rural areas, folks don't have access to those.
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So it was 2016, Trump 1.0, and I was super depressed.
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And folks in Philadelphia, HRC at that point, HRC is to this day even.
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Number one rated city in the country, tied eight ways with Seattle and New York
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and San Fran and, you know, all the things.
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Yet folks in Philadelphia were messaging me on Facebook and emailing me and
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all the things like we're afraid.
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So if folks in Philadelphia, HRC's number one rating, city in the country,
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folks are vehemently afraid.
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What about Fort Worth, Texas, Mississippi, Memphis, Tennessee?
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What about those folks? and this
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unidentifiable, no-face avatar never left basically the front of my brain.
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And while I was helping folks in Philadelphia and in New Jersey,
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I always had this vision of this person that I didn't know, that I'd never reached
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out, but that I knew existed in these rural areas.
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And it's like, if folks here need me, what about there?
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What are they feeling? How afraid are they? And so it was in between election
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and inauguration, literally December 31st.
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I always do private, solo, strategic planning.
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And the idea just came to me. Caravan of hope.
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That's what everybody needed and wanted. It was post-Obama, hope, you know.
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And it was just like, this is what we need. And so I take one month off out of my law firm.
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This year, it's going to be October, national coming out month,
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and drive 5,000 miles and visit these 14 cities and provide pro bono legal services.
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Yeah, that's pretty cool.
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It was like, that's what really caught my attention to you. It was like,
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okay, so this lawyer is traveling the country to provide legal services for folks.
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And then the timing of it, you know, that was when I was doing my ACLU work in Mississippi.
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Yeah, it's just, I just think that's incredible.
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That was one of the reasons why I was drawn to get you on because as a black
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person, one of the things that's been, that was really, really hard to do was
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to get lawyers to do civil rights work.
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And you would think that would be a no brainer, But it's like,
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you know, just like your law professors were saying, you know,
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you're in you're in the legal profession to make income to and and to sustain a business.
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And, you know, a lot of civil rights work, a lot of people that need that work,
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they can't pay top lawyer rates or anything like that.
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And you only can do so many pro bono hours.
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So it's just really, really tough. So I can only imagine from the LGBTQ community
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how desperate it is to, well, not imagine.
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I mean, I kind of know, but I mean, it's like, you know, it's just how desperate
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it is for people to, one, trust that somebody is going to do the work for them
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and be thorough about it.
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And then two, availability. So, you know, I commend you for having the courage
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and the vision to do that.
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So speaking about clients, how have you been helping your clients navigate through
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these early days of the Trump administration?
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And I guess I'll throw in another question.
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You're a dual citizen, so you have citizenship in Canada and here in the United States.
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Did you ever think at some point, yeah, I might need to cash in on this Canadian
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citizenship and get them out of here?
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I mean, I thought that in 2016, my friend, you know, if I had it. But yeah.
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Well, I mean, it's it's real as when I say it's real for 17 years,
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there's always been a, you know, what not even 17 years that I've had my law firm.
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But we look at what LGBTQ plus folks have been dealing with historically.
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Right. And we've been here before. my
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elder especially gay male mentors
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brought dead bodies to congress
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steps and laid them on the capitol
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laid dead bodies on the capitol hill
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steps saying you did this because you
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won't talk about this right so we've
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the pendulum has been swinging back
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and forth historically but eric
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the pendulum snapped and full-on
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hit us in the face like this is there's no more what if right
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if if we were to look at a year ago
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to today a year ago in all
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of 2024 there were 525 anti-lgbtq bills
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introduced in the first six months of this year 575 more in the first six months
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we are on pace to double that and be at 1,200 or definitely more than 1,000
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anti-LGBTQ bills, right?
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So the first question was, you know, have you been helping your clients?
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Second, as a Canadian, when would you cash in? You know, at the end of the day,
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you have to put the mask on yourself, right, as the plane goes down before you
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do anyone else, the oxygen mask. And...
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And I am not a conspiracy theorist by any way, shape, or form,
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but I do believe there are lists.
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I have a nonprofit. I have a 501c3 where I put myself, I registered with the
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IRS as having an LGBTQ-focused, right?
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And then you have Doge, who just took, however, 27 million IRS social securities.
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Like, I know they're compiling lists. I know I'm on a list.
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And so if at some point I have to leave, I will. I'll probably use my Canadian
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citizenship to go south.
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It's really cold there.
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So I'll probably choose somewhere else and then do exactly what we're doing now.
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I mean, during COVID, I moved 3,000 miles away to La Jolla, San Diego, and said, you know what?
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If we're going to die, we're going to die in the most beautiful place in this
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country because we had no idea what was happening. And actually,
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and I stopped doing any litigation.
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My revenue shot up 30%, but I lived 3,000 miles away.
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And that was a huge demarcation point. And my loving my law firm was for two
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and a half years, I didn't actually live in Philadelphia.
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But I got all my clients on board with doing this via Zoom.
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And then I would fly back every six weeks and I would do signings and things in ink.
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And so I'm fine. If I have to leave, it will be I have to leave.
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It's not I will choose to leave. Like, it'll be that it's best for everyone,
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meaning more so the LGBTQ community, that I actually remove myself so that I
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can continue to help them.
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That's the only time that I would leave. And then how I've been helping them
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from what they've said and their feedback, both on social and,
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you know, real life clients, is being an objective.
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Authentic balance of being honest when shit gets real and telling them this is really effing bad.
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And you know what you don't really don't worry about that that's a
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red herring don't you have nothing to worry
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about but there are certain things i see going through the news like
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when michigan state ref was like we're calling for the overturning of a burger
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fell and everyone was like oh my god like marriage is gonna be overturned tomorrow
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no this guy has zero power let it go he's saying what they've been saying for
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12 years he's just reiterating it to get on the news only the Supreme Court can do that.
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You are safe for right now. Do I think you're not safe two years from now?
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100%. I think Obergefell is being overturned. But you're not going to wake up
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tomorrow because this guy in Michigan said it should be.
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Right. And so that authentic, honest, not fear mongering,
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also not placating, also not monotone, but just 23 and me, you know,
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being taken, going bankrupt and folks like Elon Musk and others wanting to buy all the DNA data.
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Delete your shit. You know, like these are people who believe in eugenics,
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which is basically genocide before you have to do genocide.
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It's basically, let's just create a human race that we believe in,
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which means no black people, no gay people, no ADHD, no mental health unit.
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Like, let's just remove all genetics of anything that we think is inferior.
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And then that becomes the future. And with all of the information of DNA with 23andMe.
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So I feel like and then and then there's the work on the ground,
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like the actual work that I can do for people where they retain me to.
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Do their LGBTQ estate planning, do their confirmatory adoptions,
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do their name changes, do their, you know, identity marker changes.
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But I would say the biggest way in which I've helped is to just be a voice and
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a soundboard of all the noise and negativity out there.
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And like, I think you should listen to that and don't listen to that.
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And people trust that because I treat them like I would want to know that information.
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Right. And none of it helps me get clients or
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anything like that like i'm just it's once i
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was deathly ill can't believe that video went viral
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deathly ill i looked horrible it was two in the morning and i
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was like this is what you know and and of course they're like you know because
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it was important information regardless of what i looked or sounded like but
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it was important information and people just see that you know yeah well you're
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also pretty good at pronosticating.
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Because you basically answered two of my next questions. But I'm going to drill
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down on one of them because I was going to ask you about the 23 and me for real.
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And then I want you to explain why is estate planning such an important legal,
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I guess, strategy for the LGBTQ community?
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Estate planning has been for decades
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over 50 years our first impenetrable
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inseverable line of defense it is
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what we've been using to create ties between and
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with one another that we couldn't do legally you could be together 47 years
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and you don't have an estate planning this is long before marriage equality
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obviously you have no estate planning documents you die everything goes to the
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homophobic family that you're estranged from that disowned you when you were 16, right?
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So, and even if you had a lovely family, lovely family, all of the things,
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nothing could pass to someone that you were with and were committed to the same
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way a straight couple would get married and be together for 47 years.
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So we've known forever that we needed estate planning documents in order to
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recreate those marriages.
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Then marriage equality hit Now, one of the things that I always say is there
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are 1,138 state and federal privileges tied to marriage.
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Privileges, rights, not power. There is zero power inherent in marriage.
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I got passionate around this topic 20 years ago with the Terry Schiavo case.
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Straight married cis couple, 29 years old. Terry Schiavo ended up in a persistent
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vegetative state, brain aneurysm.
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He was not her health care power
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of attorney. She did not have an advanced directive or a living will.
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He had no more power over his wife's body than the mother did.
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Mom disagreed. They duked it out in litigation.
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He went bankrupt after eight years. She languished on life support for 15 years.
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We, 10 years ago, got marriage equality. and sociologically,
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psychologically, I feel as though we breathed in legitimacy for the first time
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and mistook that for power because it felt good to be seen, to be legitimized in this country.
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And we mistook it for power, but we've never had power.
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Straight people don't have power in their marriage, just like Terry Shiavo's husband.
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So there are fiscally advantageous, financially significant privileges tied
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to marriage, 1,138 of them, social security survivor benefits,
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inheritance rights, inheritance tax,
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probate avoidance, you know, you name it, immigration rights, bankruptcy rights.
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Basically, there's gay law and straight law, and it's all tied to marriage.
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I never thought I'd agree with Rand Paul on anything, or he, me, for that matter.
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But there we were on Newsmax making for bad TV because we were in complete agreement.
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That if they wanted marriage to remain a religious institution,
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they never should have tied 1,138 privileges to it.
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But if I were told right now that I was going to an island tonight and I could
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only take one thing with me, privilege or power, I would take power time and again.
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And only the estate planning documents could be that.
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Being someone's health care power of attorney, being able to live out their
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living will, their end of life wishes, being able to be their executor,
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being able hospital visitation authorization forms.
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And that's another thing, you know for 17 years i've been treating my clients
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as though they're unmarried even after marriage equality because even after
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marriage equality we're only considered married in 37 countries out of 195 that
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fly a flag i fly to beijing i slip fall on the great wall of china,
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wife and i are not married get nipped by lion and safari in tanzania it's illegal
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to be gay i don't want you yelling, that's my husband, right?
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So 37 out of 195, that is a fraction.
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So I've always done these documents for folks, even after marriage equality.
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Treating them as though they're unmarried because that is the reality globally.
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And that's how I protect my clients, you know, the most.
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So through these estate planning documents, there's nine essential estate planning
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documents that I recommend for my LGBTQ folks.
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And with that, no matter where you are in the world or what's happening with
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marriage equality here and Obergefell and all the things, you can consider yourself
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safe outside of the pendulum.
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Yeah. And that's just good to know, period.
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But I was in doing my research, I noticed you really, really emphasize that.
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So I wanted you to expound on that a great deal.
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All right. So we're going to close it out. But there's been a couple of things
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that, you know, have been going on.
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And so I wanted to get your take on it because you're not only an attorney,
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but you're an activist in the community.
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And so, let me, Riley Gaines, what's your thoughts about her and people like her?
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I'm going to tell you what I think about it. And then you tell me or you agree or disagree.
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I think she's an incredible loser.
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I think she is an incredible loser.
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I think she's the worst loser in the history of sports.
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I can understand if you were fighting for a gold medal and you missed it by
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one-tenth of a second, I can understand you being disappointed and you have
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a grievance and all that.
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But even at some point, you got to get over that. But you weren't even in the
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top five in this particular race that you were upset about.
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And it's like You just harped on this one swimmer Who was transgender But there
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were three other swimmers that were better than you.
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And it's like, what the hell?
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So you're not mad at them? I mean, what's the young lady, Sheba Lincoln?
00:38:25.065 --> 00:38:28.345
She was mad at Coco Gauff because she beat her one-on-one.
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It's like, you're not mad at these three other women? You're just picking on
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the one who finished in fourth place, right?
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I just think she's the most incredible. I think out of all the grifters,
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she's got to be the greatest grifter.
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Because it was like, you haven't won anything. And you
00:38:46.465 --> 00:38:55.545
were given this platform That's just me So before she lost If you googled her
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It always said A conservative political activist So I almost compared her to J.K.
00:39:04.425 --> 00:39:13.425
Rowling But it's not really a relevant comparison But I think she took the opportunity,
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of this loss to put herself in the spotlight of the MAGA conservatives,
00:39:21.425 --> 00:39:25.365
to then get more opportunity going that way, since she obviously knows swimming's
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not happening in any way, shape, or form.
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So she's, I agree with you, I mean, she sucks at her sport, like,
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awesome, way to go, you know.
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But, like, most people who surround themselves around Trump,
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in my opinion, they're all opportunists. Tunis.
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They all see how being within a certain degree of separation from him helps
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them do the thing that they've always wanted to do.
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So she lost and then went after the fifth as the fifth place person.
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Right. Like to your point, you're absolutely correct. There's zero tie to her
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loss and that person winning.
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All these people in between but she was an opportunist and
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went after that and is now on the
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spotlight and MAGA people are talking to her
00:40:15.539 --> 00:40:18.279
and she's on news circuits and doing all the
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things and exactly where she wanted to be I wish
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Simone Biles hadn't apologized yesterday you
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know I think her reaction was immediate and therefore
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authentic it was almost immediate I think
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it was like 46 minutes after riley's comment
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went live then simone biles on x you
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know commented but it was so soon that it was obviously authentic
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and then a few days later to apologize for it
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i don't know i don't know who's advising her but i wouldn't have done that well
00:40:50.359 --> 00:40:54.099
it's definitely it's definitely handlers it's like somebody's like hey you know
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simone you got this appeal you know your husband's in the nfl you you know you
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got you know you gotta think of wheaties we I think at night,
00:41:02.139 --> 00:41:02.819
you know what I'm saying?
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So, yeah, you know, you're always going to have those kind of protectionists
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because, of course, their income is based off her income.
00:41:10.459 --> 00:41:16.239
So, you know, that's one of those things where it's like you just have to,
00:41:16.559 --> 00:41:21.999
as Kendrick Perkins would say, stand on business and just let that ride.
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You know, I really hated that.
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You know, when I saw that she had apologized. So this girl made a reference
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to a trauma that happened in Simone's life. And Simone's the one who's apologizing?
00:41:37.619 --> 00:41:42.719
Apologizing, right. What are we doing? But anyway, I just wanted to get that
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off my chest, and I'm glad you helped me do that.
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But does that make sense? Does that make sense that I think she just used it
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as an opportunity to just further ingrain herself in the MAGA political?
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That's exactly what all of them do. He'll probably be Speaker of the House next week.
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God, I hope. Well, I might need to borrow your Canadian membership if it gets that instant.
00:42:05.299 --> 00:42:10.979
But the other thing connected with that is, what was your reaction to the decision
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to remove Harvey Milk's name from the Navy?
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Oh, mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah.
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Everything they did during Pride Month, I mean, you know, this month is Title
00:42:22.068 --> 00:42:27.548
IX month as they remove all, you know, purposely removing June is not Pride Month.
00:42:27.748 --> 00:42:33.488
June is Title IX month where we remove all trans athletes from colleges and whatnot.
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I there are two people that are
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no longer here that i think about a lot some
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daily every once in a while daily definitely weekly and that's matthew shepherd
00:42:46.468 --> 00:42:53.288
and harvey milk yeah i know this is audio but you have a got milk thing behind
00:42:53.288 --> 00:42:57.388
me right there right with this face so you don't have to say got milk because
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it just got Harvey, right?
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And so that was huge. He was dishonorably discharged for being gay at a time.
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And I, you know, when right now on last Friday, all trans folks were dishonorably,
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honorably, if they chose to leave and accept the separation and termination,
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separated from active forces.
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Just, I mean, salt in the wounds.
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There's no other way to say it. At a time when trans folks in particular are
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being actively separated from all military branches, and it's Pride Month,
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and to publicly do that was just like the vitriol, the meanness.
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It's just gross You know, it almost doesn't impact me Because it's so gross
00:43:49.908 --> 00:43:55.508
But again, I think about Just like the Caravan of Hope I think about those that are not as resilient,
00:43:56.188 --> 00:44:02.068
As I am That haven't fought the fought That it's my career This is what I signed
00:44:02.068 --> 00:44:04.948
up to do But there are folks just trying to live.
00:44:06.273 --> 00:44:09.793
This does actually impact them negatively mentally.
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Suicide rates have skyrocketed, you know? And so, yeah, it's just gross.
00:44:17.413 --> 00:44:22.153
Yeah. I mean, you know, and then, you know, again, you know,
00:44:22.213 --> 00:44:26.113
they wanted to take Megger Evers' name off and Harry Tubman and,
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you know, just anybody who, like you said. Well, that's the other thing, Erik.
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Like, we're talking about LGBTQ things because that's what I do.
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But it's like that poem, you know, they came for the trade unionists,
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but I'm not a trade unionist, so I didn't stand up.
00:44:44.613 --> 00:44:47.693
They came for the communists, but I'm not a communist, so I didn't stand up.
00:44:47.893 --> 00:44:50.433
They came for the Jews, but I'm not a Jew, so I didn't stand up.
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Then they came for me, and there was no one left to stand up.
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There are 270 words that they deemed to be woke and diverse that were removed
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from the White House website.
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As my friend in black as my friends i don't mean to cut you off but as my friend
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would say say it louder because the people in the back didn't hear that totally
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but i mean woman uterus pregnant.
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Black equity diversity we're all if you are not a white rich man cis man like
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you are on the chopping block.
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You are on the menu because you're not at the table anymore.
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We're all on the menu. You're on the menu. I'm on the menu. Most of the people
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probably are sitting on the menu.
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So, yeah, we, you know, folks say, like, what can I do? If nothing else,
00:45:46.613 --> 00:45:49.833
just know that everyone is an ally to someone.
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Even if you're a black, straight, cis guy, you're an ally to a black gay man
00:45:55.093 --> 00:46:00.313
or another black person or a white lesbian like you're an ally we are all we
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we are only going to get through this together.
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Period. End of story. That's how we we've all dealt with horrific things throughout
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the history of the United States of America.
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I don't think this ends in my lifetime. I think this is it.
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I think there's a demarcation point for while I'll be alive for the United States of America.
00:46:21.831 --> 00:46:30.851
But I do, you know, Martin Luther King, the arc of moral justice bends long,
00:46:31.431 --> 00:46:35.651
but ultimately, I'm bastardizing that quote, but towards justice,
00:46:36.051 --> 00:46:38.051
something like that. The arc is long.
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And I don't think I think in my lifetime, this will be what the United States
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continues to be, unfortunately.
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And so I'm here to help LGBTQ folks
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and those who love us survive it and actually try to thrive during it.
00:46:53.831 --> 00:46:59.471
So if people want to get your help, if people want to contact you and and all
00:46:59.471 --> 00:47:01.991
that, how can they how can they get in touch with you?
00:47:01.991 --> 00:47:06.011
So instagram you're gay lawyer tiktok
00:47:06.011 --> 00:47:09.031
just gay lawyer and my law
00:47:09.031 --> 00:47:12.331
firm is champola law group my website is very simple lawyer
00:47:12.331 --> 00:47:20.131
dot lgbt so it's not that com it's lawyer dot lgbt and it's like the gayest
00:47:20.131 --> 00:47:25.911
website ever and you'll find me there so you're gay lawyer on instagram Gay
00:47:25.911 --> 00:47:29.411
Lawyer on TikTok for Lawyer.LGBP. Nina.
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Well, Andrew Giampolo, you know, we talked for a good minute,
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but it seems like a disservice because I feel we can talk a long time and cover
00:47:42.071 --> 00:47:43.871
a lot of ground about a lot of things.
00:47:44.071 --> 00:47:48.451
But I am honored that you took the time today to do that. And I hope that my
00:47:48.451 --> 00:47:52.371
listeners gathered something from what you were saying.
00:47:53.779 --> 00:47:58.839
And I hope that you continue to, oh, tell people about how people can donate
00:47:58.839 --> 00:48:02.019
to the caravan because that's, that's one of your favorite.
00:48:02.799 --> 00:48:07.719
Yeah. Caravan of Hope is just caravanofope also dot LGBT. So caravanofope dot LGBT.
00:48:08.399 --> 00:48:11.919
And then you can go there and there's a donate button. All we really look for
00:48:11.919 --> 00:48:15.079
is gas money. I mean, I, I pay for the caravan.
00:48:15.339 --> 00:48:19.779
I self fund, you know, the more I raise the better, like it's an entire month out of my practice.
00:48:20.319 --> 00:48:23.639
I don't have the bandwidth or the time to raise the amount of money that I need
00:48:23.639 --> 00:48:28.299
to in order to really make it a net even. But if anyone wants to donate, it's appreciated.
00:48:29.159 --> 00:48:32.699
Yeah. So caravan.lgbt. All right.
00:48:32.839 --> 00:48:39.679
Well, Angela, again, thank you for doing what you're doing and for being not
00:48:39.679 --> 00:48:46.119
only an activist, but a sign of hope for not just the community you serve,
00:48:46.159 --> 00:48:48.939
but for the nation that you live in. So thank you again. Yeah.
00:48:50.199 --> 00:48:53.599
And Erik, thank you. You reached out back in February almost four months ago,
00:48:53.939 --> 00:48:55.359
right in the height of everything.
00:48:55.799 --> 00:49:00.999
Thank you for using your platform to spread this information, to spread the hope.
00:49:01.559 --> 00:49:06.219
Ultimately, again, we are all allies and we can all do our part.
00:49:06.219 --> 00:49:11.979
And this is your way of doing your part of spreading this out to your audience.
00:49:12.939 --> 00:49:17.379
And it's been lovely to share a moment with you, even though it's longer than normal.
00:49:18.479 --> 00:49:22.399
No, this is good. All right, guys, we're going to catch y'all on the other side.
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Music.
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We'll be right back.
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All right, and we are back. And so now it is time for my next guest, Dr. Felecia Pullen.
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Dr. Felecia Pullen is Harlem born and raised and is a leading researcher,
00:49:55.179 --> 00:49:58.999
advocate and social entrepreneur dedicated to health equity,
00:49:59.279 --> 00:50:01.699
racial justice and addiction recovery.
00:50:02.499 --> 00:50:06.519
She is the founder, president, and CEO of Let's Talk Safety,
00:50:06.739 --> 00:50:14.179
Inc., and over the last 10 years, she has overseen the operations of the Pillars and SAFE in Harlem.
00:50:14.719 --> 00:50:19.199
Both divisions of Let's Talk Safety, Inc. are New York State and federally funded
00:50:19.199 --> 00:50:23.839
programs that have provided holistic health and wellness services for nearly
00:50:23.839 --> 00:50:27.479
50,000 adults, teens, and youth in the community.
00:50:28.179 --> 00:50:33.199
Dr. Pullen, alongside her dedicated staff, worked to provide comprehensive support
00:50:33.199 --> 00:50:35.459
to individuals and families in New York City.
00:50:36.558 --> 00:50:40.578
Particularly those affected by systemic racism and structural oppression.
00:50:40.858 --> 00:50:43.838
Under Dr. Pullen's leadership, Let's Talk Safety, Inc.
00:50:43.898 --> 00:50:50.138
Has secured over $6.2 million in local, state, and federal funding,
00:50:50.438 --> 00:50:53.598
enabling her to offer job training, mentorship.
00:50:54.318 --> 00:50:59.418
Health care, holistic wellness, prevention programming for under-resourced adults,
00:50:59.898 --> 00:51:04.018
teens, and youth who face barriers to education, health care,
00:51:04.298 --> 00:51:05.998
employment, and stable housing.
00:51:06.558 --> 00:51:11.678
As a qualitative researcher, Dr. Pullen applies critical race theory to examine
00:51:11.678 --> 00:51:18.058
structural racism's impact on people of color, especially those in recovery and who use substances.
00:51:18.418 --> 00:51:23.718
She is known for designing innovative frameworks to drive social and health equity.
00:51:23.718 --> 00:51:29.918
She has advised policymakers, served on New York City's Municipal Drug Strategy Council,
00:51:30.138 --> 00:51:37.418
and holds key leadership roles on the 4NY Ballistic Street Wellness Solutions
00:51:37.418 --> 00:51:40.998
and Let's Talk Safety Board of Directors. Dr.
00:51:41.118 --> 00:51:45.938
Pullen is a sought-after speaker on addiction prevention, critical race theory,
00:51:46.478 --> 00:51:49.938
recovery capital, racialized drug enforcement policies,
00:51:50.558 --> 00:51:56.778
harm reduction, and financial equity for small nonprofits Her unwavering commitment to advocacy,
00:51:57.178 --> 00:52:02.058
research, and community empowerment continues to shape policies and improve
00:52:02.058 --> 00:52:07.118
lives in Harlem across New York City, nationwide, and beyond,
00:52:07.838 --> 00:52:11.938
Ladies and gentlemen, it is my distinct honor and privilege to have as a guest
00:52:11.938 --> 00:52:16.178
on this podcast, Dr. Felecia Pullen.
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Music.
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Dr. Felecia Pullen. How are you doing, sister? You doing good?
00:52:31.960 --> 00:52:38.320
I'm great, thanks. How are you, Erik? I'm doing fine. I am honored and glad
00:52:38.320 --> 00:52:40.180
that you were able to come on.
00:52:40.620 --> 00:52:45.360
I appreciate you taking the time out to talk about the work that you're doing.
00:52:45.920 --> 00:52:50.040
One of the things I like to do to kick everything off is I do some icebreakers.
00:52:50.820 --> 00:52:55.820
So my first icebreaker is a quote, and I want you to respond to that quote.
00:52:56.400 --> 00:53:02.460
In recovery, I found that my purpose was to come back to the community where I was born and raised.
00:53:02.960 --> 00:53:08.460
I want the youth to see me as an example of what is possible in the community.
00:53:08.960 --> 00:53:10.200
Talk to me about that quote.
00:53:10.980 --> 00:53:15.460
First of all, it's interesting because I didn't think that you were going to give me my own quote.
00:53:16.680 --> 00:53:22.860
But yeah, I, after 30 years in corporate America, found my purpose and understood
00:53:22.860 --> 00:53:27.720
that my purpose wasn't about a pretty pair of shoes or a nice designer bag.
00:53:27.720 --> 00:53:33.360
It was about giving back to where I was born and raised and trying to prevent
00:53:33.360 --> 00:53:38.540
young people from traveling down some roads that I definitely traveled down
00:53:38.540 --> 00:53:40.420
that helped me be who I am.
00:53:40.420 --> 00:53:45.840
But it was really important for me to live in my true purpose and not,
00:53:45.840 --> 00:53:51.600
you know, a Tiffany's box that was empty on the inside after you opened it up.
00:53:52.480 --> 00:53:58.000
Yeah. All right. So my next icebreaker is something I call 20 questions.
00:53:58.360 --> 00:54:02.000
So give me a number between 1 and 20.
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12. Okay. What advice do you have for recognizing fake news? Oh, why did I pick 12?
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So I'm a researcher, right? And I will just defer to that sense and sensibility that I have.
00:54:24.360 --> 00:54:28.600
I don't just gravitate to what resonates for me.
00:54:28.820 --> 00:54:33.620
If something resonates for me, I will also do the research and check the sources.
00:54:33.620 --> 00:54:38.540
And if something doesn't resonate for me and it doesn't make sense, I question that too.
00:54:38.740 --> 00:54:43.080
So I think that it's important to just question everything right now,
00:54:43.240 --> 00:54:48.340
especially with AI and everything that is in our ethos, right,
00:54:48.400 --> 00:54:52.900
in the atmosphere that is coming at us so quickly that the first thing that
00:54:52.900 --> 00:54:57.520
I would say is question what you're hearing and what you're exposed to and research.
00:54:58.120 --> 00:55:03.220
Yeah. You recently said, yeah, this is not the only quote I got from you.
00:55:03.620 --> 00:55:08.760
You recently said, if I want to know why I'm passionate about and committed
00:55:08.760 --> 00:55:12.660
to my work, it's because it's never about the work.
00:55:12.840 --> 00:55:18.700
I owe my community. I owe my people. I owe my elders and I owe our children.
00:55:19.180 --> 00:55:22.980
So let's discuss the work that you are so passionate about.
00:55:23.140 --> 00:55:27.460
Talk to the listeners about Let's Talk Safety and the Pillars Recovery Center.
00:55:28.456 --> 00:55:37.156
Yeah. So in 2015, 2013, I actually conceptualized Safe in Harlem.
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And Safe in Harlem is the prevention of the onset of use for teens and youth.
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And that was really born out of first my journey in addiction and then my journey in recovery.
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So it was very organic for me to think about, well, how do I prevent young people
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from, you know, crack addiction, heroin addiction,
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alcohol addiction, because those
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are the things that I was exposed to and impacted by growing up in Harlem.
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So there were some processes that I used in order to get to this thing that
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is, let's talk safety, the pillars and safe in Harlem.
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And that's answering my who, what, where, when, and why.
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And I encourage all young people when they talk about, you know,
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what they want to be when they grow up, it's, well, what is your who,
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what, where, when, and why? Who was I passionate about?
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I am and always passionate about Black people and people of color.
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The where was Harlem because I was born and raised in Harlem,
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and that's where a lot of my early experiences occurred.
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The what was addiction because of what I had journeyed through and had come to the other side of.
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And the when was, this needs to happen absolutely now.
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Because as I look at the community and the history of Harlem,
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the beauty of Harlem, but also the disinvestment in Harlem, I knew that there
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was work that I needed to do and I needed to do it there and now.
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Yeah. So what was your, what was your Damascus Road experience, right?
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What was, what was the moment that got you from.
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Well, your, your self-awareness that it was like, okay, I have an addiction
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and I need to, to recover? What was that moment like?
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That moment was, I am spending way too much time in my bathroom consuming drugs,
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and I have children on the other side of that door.
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And it didn't feel good. I knew that I wasn't the woman that I was supposed
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to be. I was not the mother I was supposed to be.
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I was not the wife that I was supposed to be. I was not the daughter,
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the sister I was supposed to be. And this is not.
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Was intended for me. I knew that in my soul and in my heart.
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But I also, it took me a long time before I got to the part where I understood
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that the journey led me to here and now.
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So there was a purpose for that journey once I got to the other side.
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But that Damascus road was, I am not living up to who I am and what I am supposed
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to be to all of these people in my inner circle.
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Yeah. So yet another profound quote you said was that I'm not religious, but I'm guided.
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Expound on that, especially as it relates to the work that you do.
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Oh, I am definitely guided. And I do, I call my guy God.
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Religious, I don't go to church, and I don't feel like I need this middle person
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or middle people between me and God.
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He, and I refer as a he, speaks to me and speaks to me loudly every day.
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And sometimes I'm smart enough to go, yep, I heard you. Let me go do that.
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Usually it's like the third time when he's screaming at me and I'm like, okay, I heard you.
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Now let me go do that. So, you know, often I'm still defiant and willful,
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but I am so guided by God. And I know that the pillars and safe in Harlem is God bled.
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I'm only the vessel that opens the doors and comes through and speaks to the
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politicians and speaks to the people and gets the young people together. I'm just a vessel.
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Yeah. So one of the things when I was doing my research,
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you were focused in on, you got a lot of headlines when you were trying to educate
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pregnant mothers about marijuana use.
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You know, a lot of states have legalized marijuana now, recreational use.
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And a lot of people talk about, well, you know, that people debate about whether
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it's a gateway drug or not.
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But you know and I've had people on
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this podcast pro and con as far as legalization but you know one of the things
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I think you were trying to stress was that marijuana has a similar if not a
01:00:27.634 --> 01:00:33.394
greater impact on pregnant women talk about that and why you felt that it was important,
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well I take that back it was like from what I understand the hospital community
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reached out to you to do this work.
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So just kind of talk about that. And I guess it's been about almost 10 years
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since you started doing that work and what kind of results have you been able to achieve?
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Wow, I didn't realize that it's been that long because I still feel very passionate
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about that. Really, it was an education campaign.
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And I am very tied to multiple sectors that help me do the work that I do.
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And so I never claim to be like this one-woman shop that just gets it all done.
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It is because of some amazing partners that I have in the community that I'm able to do the work.
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And yes, one of our hospitals, it's a doctor who was the chief of pediatrics
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and neonatology that had informed me that several mothers, and I'm going to say,
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and who were tested at the time of birth,
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the babies, the babies who were tested at the time of birth were testing positive for THC.
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And there was some data that was presented to me from the American Medical Association
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and Pediatrics Association that said that it impacted the fetal brain development.
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And that resonated enough for me that I knew that there was something that I should do about it.
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But I needed to make sure that it was from this compassionate perspective,
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right? Yes, marijuana is legal, and yes, it has benefits for people who use it.
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And our children need every opportunity that they can have from the wound to the tomb to succeed.
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And so I just wanted to inform moms, if you are smoking and pregnant, here is the data.
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This is what the data is saying that is a harm to the fetal brain development.
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And with no judgment, come to the pillars, take a yoga class,
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let us show you how to use some of these other alternative forms of that medicine,
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if that's why they were using it, that you can use to de-stress and to really
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bring a more healthy baby to full term.
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So that's where that came from. And I'm grateful for the partnerships that I
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had that brought that information to me and that we were able to just love on
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women who were pregnant and smoking at the time.
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So you mentioned yoga, and one of the things is that with Pillars is that you
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deliberately have a holistic approach to addressing issues about addiction and recovery.
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Kind of elaborate on what all that you offer with that. Yeah.
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So we offer, and holistic is not just the alternative forms of medicine like
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Reiki that we offer, acupuncture, yoga, meditation.
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Holistic really refers to that whole person. And so the Pillars logo is in four parts for a reason.
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And it talks about what we offer that is a direct benefit to self.
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And then to the family, we have parenting skills enhancement classes.
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To the community, we distribute naloxone.
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We also have, we host AA and NA meetings. But that last piece is about integration
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and reintegration into society as a whole, and that's the workforce development that we do.
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So we make sure that, you know, it's the individual that's coming in and also
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how do we help to support their family?
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How do we help them in community, whether they are directly impacted by addiction
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or a family member of or a community member that is impacted by addiction?
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Because we are all touched by it in some way, shape or form.
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And then that workforce development piece that is important to,
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you know, housing stability, economic stability and familial stability. Yeah.
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And, you know, I appreciate you defining it totally.
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But, you know, the approach about yoga and all that is unique to me.
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You know, most of the programs that I've been affiliated with or...
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Know, know about. It's like, you know, they make sure that you go through the steps.
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And, and, you know, the one that I had direct impact with, you know,
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was like the religious component was in there that they had to,
01:05:23.576 --> 01:05:26.216
you know, attend church while they were in rehab,
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you know, our church, since we were sponsoring the program.
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You know, so people, people kind of do that, but I I never had heard about doing
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things that most people, you know, just kind of do to de-stress and never really
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heard it apply to, you know, recovery.
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And so what led you to use that? Was it something in your research?
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Was it God talking to you? What exactly got you to say, let's try this approach,
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especially with people in the inner city?
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Yeah, it was all of those things. right? And so when I went to rehab.
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I had private health insurance and my private health insurance paid $50,000
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for me to do 57 days in rehab.
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And during that time, I was exposed to a lot of the things that I just mentioned,
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the acupuncture, there was a sweat lodge.
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I mean, I was very fortunate and privileged, right?
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So I have to also understand as a woman in this recovery space,
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but also when I was in that state of active use, I was privileged.
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And so I wanted to make sure that income...
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Not a barrier to receiving all of the things that I was exposed to and that
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I found to be beneficial in my journey.
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And so when I was doing my who, what, where, when, and why, right,
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what services am I going to bring to this community?
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It was, yep, that acupuncture was great. I de-stressed.
01:07:00.964 --> 01:07:08.464
I was able to listen to that inner voice and that spirituality that we often talk about in recovery.
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And I just needed to bring that back and offer that to that inner city community that,
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you know, and I'm really glad that you touched on the part about the inner city
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because there's a misnomer that, you know, we don't really take advantage of, let's say, Reiki.
01:07:28.184 --> 01:07:34.024
I think it's the name that is confusing to us because as a Black people,
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we have been talking about laying hands on forever, right?
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We want to lay hands on. And that's really what Reiki is.
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It is an opportunity for one person to use their energy to heal another.
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So none of this is really unique to our community, but some of the names may
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be different from what we're used to calling them.
01:07:58.984 --> 01:08:05.284
Yeah, yeah. It just reminds me of that Wire episode where Idris Elba,
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his character, he's been dealing drugs all this time.
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And then he finally decides to go to a community college and to take business.
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And he looks in the business and he's seeing what these folks are doing.
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He said, oh, we've been doing this the whole time. It just was,
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you know, we just called it something different.
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And, you know, I think that, you know, we've been exposed to a lot of things in our community.
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And because of our history, we've lost a connection with that.
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And so, you know, for you to try to bring some of those connections back,
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like you said, we've we've called it laying hands for years,
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especially in the church community.
01:08:54.304 --> 01:09:00.164
But, you know, to bring it back, you know, and people like, oh, OK, I get it.
01:09:00.304 --> 01:09:03.224
You know, they were thinking I'm sure some people probably like,
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yeah, I don't know if I'm going to do this Reiki stuff, Doc.
01:09:06.104 --> 01:09:10.644
Like I, that sounds a little, and then when they realized what it was,
01:09:10.684 --> 01:09:14.524
it's like, oh yeah, we've been doing this all the time.
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So I'm glad that you, you, you took that approach to that and,
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and, and explained it so people would feel comfortable doing it.
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What is the biggest challenge you face in doing your work?
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That is a huge question. Certainly financial.
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That's number one. That's the biggest challenge are the financial resources to do the work.
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And I think that part of that is me and part of that are the systems in which we operate.
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And so when I say part of that is me is I want to do all things that are necessary
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for people to thrive, not just to survive, but to thrive.
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So it's my desire. And the systems that I am confined within are not designed for people to thrive.
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So it's a conflict between what I want to do for the people and what I am able
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to do based on the funding.
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Yeah. And I, you know, whenever I'm having these conversations with people,
01:10:28.784 --> 01:10:30.904
you know, that's kind of a general theme.
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Well, you know, systems not designed to, you know, do this or do that.
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And I've never, you know, I tend to understand the results, but I never really got into that.
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And I, and I tell you why, the only reason why I say that is because maybe I'm altruistic about it.
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And of course, as you get older, you might get a little jaded,
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but I just feel that systems were meant to be altered.
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Right. And I use sports as an example. Basketball was around for a long time
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and, you know, it had become a professional sport.
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And then somebody looked at the rules and said, okay, I can't go forward without
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dribbling the ball, but there's nothing saying I can't go vertical.
01:11:24.244 --> 01:11:27.704
With the ball. And they invented the jump shot.
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They said, I'm not going to stand here and let this guy block my shot.
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I'm going to jump over him and shoot it, right?
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And it changed the game. Now, it wasn't designed that way, but somebody found
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a way to make it work and in essence,
01:11:44.084 --> 01:11:48.604
change the dynamics of it where people were able to succeed more.
01:11:49.084 --> 01:11:55.044
So that's just kind of my mindset said about systems. I'm not really pushing back on you.
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I just, you know, when I hear that, because what you're doing is breaking that
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cycle about what the system is restricting people to do. You understand what I'm saying?
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Absolutely. And I love that analogy. And if I took that analogy and applied
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it to the continuum of care,
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yes, we've gone vertically, even with the conceptualization of a recovery center,
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because that was not always a part of recovery.
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Neither was harm reduction. Neither was safe consumption sites.
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So there has definitely been this vertical jump shot, if you will,
01:12:36.884 --> 01:12:40.984
relative to the continuum of care across the recovery spectrum.
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And it is also frustrating when somebody blocks your shot, when you are trying
01:12:50.944 --> 01:12:56.564
to use the lane that you were given and say,
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I thank you for altering the rules.
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And within this framework, I am now going to expand what this means and what this can be.
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But you're dealing with people in the system that cannot conceptualize or be
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creative within those confines that you can be.
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And so, therefore, you are faced with a constant barrage of people blocking
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your shot. I have dreams for my people.
01:13:33.590 --> 01:13:40.590
And it is extremely frustrating when people cannot see the dream or do not want
01:13:40.590 --> 01:13:44.910
to fund the dream or do not want to use their power to advance the dream.
01:13:45.190 --> 01:13:49.710
So it's challenging. I understand.
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Excuse me. So you're a researcher by training. So do you measure success in
01:13:56.210 --> 01:13:59.590
this work quantitatively or qualitatively?
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Well, the researcher in me has to say both. And so quantitatively,
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I can tell you that per year,
01:14:10.950 --> 01:14:16.150
we serve 3,000 people who come through the doors of the pillars for all of those
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services that I've mentioned.
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Qualitatively I can tell you that and
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here is how those people have been
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impacted when they tell me this is home this is my safe space this is the place
01:14:32.070 --> 01:14:37.570
where I have grown from just coming in and hanging out in the computer lab where
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I am just engaging with that machine one-on-one but I knew I was in a safe space to,
01:14:44.310 --> 01:14:49.750
and now I have the benefits of yoga and the benefits of meditation.
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This is how it's impacting me. I don't use when I'm here because I have the tools that I need.
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That's the narratives that support the quantitative data.
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But by trainer, I am a qualitative researcher.
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I want to know the who, what, where, what, and why. I want to know far beyond...
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What drug are you using and how long have you been using it?
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I want to know who were you before you met your drug of choice.
01:15:19.120 --> 01:15:22.780
Tell me about your family. Tell me about your connection to the community.
01:15:22.980 --> 01:15:24.520
Tell me about your spirituality.
01:15:25.340 --> 01:15:31.620
Tell me about your human resources and how you feel about the community that you're in.
01:15:31.940 --> 01:15:38.620
And how does that contribute to either your recovery and or why you still use?
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So, yeah, it's the qualitative that drives me to do the work that I do.
01:15:45.860 --> 01:15:51.920
All right. So what more can be done in public policy to deal with addiction
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prevention and recovery?
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So I won't only go down the easy road of funding.
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And I think it's extremely important to make sure that people who are impacted
01:16:05.520 --> 01:16:08.080
by policy are at the table and driving policy.
01:16:08.860 --> 01:16:14.000
Far too often we're seeing that policies are designed and developed without
01:16:14.000 --> 01:16:23.680
the voices of those that, and even, you know, the well-meaning policymakers are trying to enact.
01:16:23.980 --> 01:16:28.860
So I think the biggest thing that we can do is to make sure that the voices,
01:16:29.200 --> 01:16:32.740
whatever the policy is, the voices of the people are at the table.
01:16:33.600 --> 01:16:44.380
Yeah. When I was a legislator, I was I was given a speech to the American Lung Association.
01:16:45.780 --> 01:16:51.860
And I don't know what it was that initially drew them to have me talk,
01:16:52.020 --> 01:16:57.980
but they didn't know my history. They didn't know that I grew up with childhood asthma.
01:16:59.060 --> 01:17:05.060
And, you know, I think it was it was it was a bill that I was pushing because
01:17:05.060 --> 01:17:11.900
somebody in the community made me aware that children in Mississippi that had asthma,
01:17:12.120 --> 01:17:17.680
if they had an inhaler, they had to go to the office or the school nurse,
01:17:17.920 --> 01:17:21.360
drop off their inhaler there and then go to class.
01:17:21.960 --> 01:17:29.000
So if they had an attack, right, then that school nurse would have to find their
01:17:29.000 --> 01:17:32.940
particular inhaler, get to that classroom and all that stuff.
01:17:33.280 --> 01:17:38.180
And so I was able to get legislation passed to say, I think it's all right for
01:17:38.180 --> 01:17:39.820
that kid to have the inhaler with them.
01:17:40.160 --> 01:17:44.000
Because if they need it, they need it. Because if you can't breathe,
01:17:44.500 --> 01:17:47.720
that's a game changer. That's game over. Right.
01:17:48.260 --> 01:17:53.540
And so, you know, that led me to being on the state task force and all that
01:17:53.540 --> 01:17:57.040
stuff and then hearing more stories and trying to push legislation,
01:17:57.180 --> 01:17:59.840
all that stuff. So it means a lot.
01:18:00.180 --> 01:18:05.180
And this is more to the listeners than you, but it means a lot for people that
01:18:05.180 --> 01:18:09.860
are going through something to engage with the elected officials.
01:18:11.111 --> 01:18:14.631
You know, just because these people get elected don't mean that all of a sudden
01:18:14.631 --> 01:18:16.931
their IQ just raised tremendously.
01:18:17.411 --> 01:18:20.411
Right. They're the same human being they were when they got elected.
01:18:20.571 --> 01:18:22.311
They just have an obligation now.
01:18:22.551 --> 01:18:28.411
And so part of our job is not just to vote for them, but to inform them and
01:18:28.411 --> 01:18:31.971
to guide them and say, hey, look, now that you're in this position,
01:18:31.971 --> 01:18:36.491
I need help with X, Y and Z. What can you do to make that help?
01:18:36.671 --> 01:18:42.631
So I'm glad that you you understand that and that you're you're constantly engaged
01:18:42.631 --> 01:18:47.771
with the elected officials in your community and you constantly bring people
01:18:47.771 --> 01:18:50.811
to the table that need to be heard.
01:18:50.811 --> 01:18:55.691
Because that's the ultimate thing is there's a lot of people in politics that
01:18:55.691 --> 01:18:59.931
think, you know, the sun rises and sets with them.
01:19:00.071 --> 01:19:03.511
I don't know where they got that notion when you had to do the same thing I
01:19:03.511 --> 01:19:06.971
did, knock on doors and give speeches and beg people to vote for you.
01:19:07.731 --> 01:19:11.211
So, you know, it's always good to have people in the community that reminds
01:19:11.211 --> 01:19:13.751
folks that, hey, you need to listen to people.
01:19:14.991 --> 01:19:18.411
So I'm glad that you answered it the way that you did. All right.
01:19:18.491 --> 01:19:24.671
So let's close this out. In January of 2024, you were inducted into the Online
01:19:24.671 --> 01:19:29.751
Museum of African-American Addictions, Treatment, and Recovery Hall of Fame.
01:19:30.011 --> 01:19:32.551
How did that distinction make you feel?
01:19:35.431 --> 01:19:41.531
That was probably one of my biggest honors because it was our people recognizing
01:19:41.531 --> 01:19:43.711
the work that I'm doing for our people.
01:19:44.571 --> 01:19:50.891
And, you know, I've received several commendations and recommendations,
01:19:50.891 --> 01:19:53.311
you know, at the White House, right?
01:19:54.091 --> 01:20:03.631
But that moment was pivotal for me because I don't need the recognition of those others.
01:20:03.651 --> 01:20:09.431
But to have it from my people saying, we see you, we champion you,
01:20:09.731 --> 01:20:12.591
we stand behind you, we lift you up.
01:20:13.651 --> 01:20:18.791
Is really a game changer for me because that's why I do it.
01:20:19.631 --> 01:20:25.731
Yeah. Yeah. I definitely feel the same way, you know, because in this industry
01:20:25.731 --> 01:20:30.031
that we're in now, as far as, you know, me, as far as podcasting,
01:20:30.871 --> 01:20:37.891
the, you know, the only award show I apply for is the Black Podcasters Award
01:20:37.891 --> 01:20:41.991
because, you know, and I've been fortunate to be nominated twice.
01:20:42.631 --> 01:20:46.831
And I'm not saying this to pat myself on the back, but it's to be in agreement
01:20:46.831 --> 01:20:51.371
with what you're saying is that it means a lot more when it's your people.
01:20:52.414 --> 01:20:56.294
Understand the work that you're doing they recognize that you're out there that
01:20:56.294 --> 01:21:05.714
you know it's like an NAACP image award means more than an Oscar now it doesn't relate to pay right,
01:21:06.674 --> 01:21:11.174
you get an Oscar it's like bam you're guaranteed x about a dollar is every movie
01:21:11.174 --> 01:21:18.954
you make but you know you can you can see it with the artist that it's like it it's more emotional.
01:21:20.034 --> 01:21:23.634
And to be honest is more attainable because you're
01:21:23.634 --> 01:21:26.814
doing what you want to do to help our
01:21:26.814 --> 01:21:30.054
folks and so for our community to
01:21:30.054 --> 01:21:33.114
say yeah we see what you're doing we appreciate
01:21:33.114 --> 01:21:38.334
that and and and we want you to keep going that that that's tremendous so I
01:21:38.334 --> 01:21:43.914
I was I threw that question in there because I just wanted to see not very often
01:21:43.914 --> 01:21:50.414
you know you get to hear about people doing the work and being recognized for it by our own folks.
01:21:50.654 --> 01:21:53.354
So yeah, I was glad I was able to get that in.
01:21:53.734 --> 01:22:00.714
So Dr. Felecia Pullen, let me just say it's an honor to meet you and I appreciate
01:22:00.714 --> 01:22:01.714
the work that you're doing.
01:22:02.154 --> 01:22:08.134
If people want to get more engaged in what you're doing financially,
01:22:08.134 --> 01:22:12.834
commitment, pick your brain, how can people reach out to you?
01:22:13.734 --> 01:22:18.974
Directly through the Pillars. Our website, if they wanted to donate or find
01:22:18.974 --> 01:22:22.574
where we're located, come and participate in services, call me,
01:22:23.074 --> 01:22:31.514
is www.pillarsnyc.org.
01:22:31.674 --> 01:22:38.434
And all information is there for anyone that wants to get involved or to participate.
01:22:38.434 --> 01:22:42.574
We even have virtual services, free medical appointments virtually,
01:22:43.374 --> 01:22:49.654
meditation virtually. So if they're not in New York City, they can still receive
01:22:49.654 --> 01:22:51.694
the benefits of some of what we offer.
01:22:52.774 --> 01:22:56.114
Well, Dr. Pullen, thank you for coming on the podcast. Again,
01:22:56.354 --> 01:23:02.374
it's been an honor and much continued success in your personal journey as well
01:23:02.374 --> 01:23:04.874
as the journey of the work that you're doing.
01:23:05.294 --> 01:23:10.354
Thank you. It was an honor to be here, and I appreciate the connection.
01:23:10.354 --> 01:23:15.354
And I would love to continue to converse with you, somebody who's like-minded.
01:23:15.354 --> 01:23:17.294
I appreciate you and what you do.
01:23:17.854 --> 01:23:22.754
Well, one of the rules is now that you've been a guest, you have an open invitation.
01:23:22.934 --> 01:23:26.714
Anytime you want to come on, feel free to do that.
01:23:27.054 --> 01:23:30.574
And I'll definitely be keeping you in mind about certain things.
01:23:30.714 --> 01:23:35.714
I already got something in mind, but I got to have more talks with God to make sure that happens.
01:23:36.754 --> 01:23:40.834
But again, thank you. I appreciate you. Thank you. All right,
01:23:40.914 --> 01:23:42.734
guys, and we're going to catch y'all on the other side.
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Music.
01:23:55.808 --> 01:24:01.488
We are back. So I want to thank Angela Giampolo and Dr.
01:24:01.728 --> 01:24:04.788
Felicia Pullen for coming on the show.
01:24:05.488 --> 01:24:10.208
As I stated at the beginning, these are two incredible women who are making
01:24:10.208 --> 01:24:16.488
a tremendous impact in the communities that they live in and really nationwide
01:24:16.488 --> 01:24:20.788
by setting an example and making a difference,
01:24:20.788 --> 01:24:30.988
whether it's fighting for individual rights or providing hope and comfort to
01:24:30.988 --> 01:24:35.528
people who are trying to improve their individual lives, right?
01:24:36.608 --> 01:24:42.128
And so I just want to thank them for coming on, thank them for doing what they do.
01:24:42.808 --> 01:24:47.668
And as always, we're going to continue to highlight those folks.
01:24:48.388 --> 01:24:53.308
As part of our journey in making sure that people like that are highlighted,
01:24:53.648 --> 01:24:57.928
we are continuing our drive for 20,000 subscribers.
01:24:58.408 --> 01:25:04.328
You can go to patreon.com slash momentericfleming and do that. It's only $1.
01:25:04.788 --> 01:25:12.988
If you want some nice little souvenirs, you can pay a little more and you'll get that. But,
01:25:14.110 --> 01:25:17.550
know, the most important thing is just trying to build a subscriber base up.
01:25:17.930 --> 01:25:24.190
I've noticed I've been getting an increase in followers in certain social media sites. That's cool.
01:25:25.330 --> 01:25:30.990
And I've been connecting with some fellow podcasters who are doing the work
01:25:30.990 --> 01:25:35.870
in their respective communities and reaching out to folks,
01:25:36.030 --> 01:25:41.570
whether it's strictly audio or, you know, through TikTok and YouTube and all that.
01:25:41.930 --> 01:25:43.910
And I appreciate the work that they're doing.
01:25:44.730 --> 01:25:50.590
And, you know, I encourage you to, you know, listen to as many as them as you
01:25:50.590 --> 01:25:55.050
can, you know, because I'm not the only perspective out there.
01:25:55.170 --> 01:25:59.570
I'm not the only person watching this craziness that's going on.
01:25:59.990 --> 01:26:05.330
And, you know, there might be some people that might relate to other podcasters better than me.
01:26:05.890 --> 01:26:10.350
That's fine. And we're all in this mission together is to keep you informed,
01:26:10.670 --> 01:26:15.990
give you our perspective about what's happening, and hopefully enlighten you
01:26:15.990 --> 01:26:18.750
and activate you to do the right thing.
01:26:19.630 --> 01:26:26.990
As I'm recording this, there will be a lot of people activated for June the
01:26:26.990 --> 01:26:28.790
14th, which is no King's Day.
01:26:29.930 --> 01:26:34.890
It's also traditionally Flag Day. But the Army is going to celebrate.
01:26:36.430 --> 01:26:39.630
It's 250 years of service to the nation.
01:26:41.110 --> 01:26:45.630
And fortunately, unfortunately, depending on what side of the bread you butter,
01:26:46.310 --> 01:26:48.530
it's also the president's birthday.
01:26:49.190 --> 01:26:51.410
So we're going to have this big parade.
01:26:52.310 --> 01:26:56.230
You know, he's going to finally have his Bastille Day, right?
01:26:56.350 --> 01:27:01.430
He's been wanting to have it ever since he went to France and since he idolizes
01:27:01.430 --> 01:27:05.610
all these other dictators that have these military parades,
01:27:06.370 --> 01:27:08.950
he's finally going to get it off
01:27:08.950 --> 01:27:15.290
the backs of the Army doing their planned celebration in Washington, D.C.
01:27:15.530 --> 01:27:18.790
But as I stated, it's also no King's Day.
01:27:19.150 --> 01:27:25.790
And so there's going to be a lot of people out there protesting and reminding
01:27:25.790 --> 01:27:30.670
people that we didn't anoint a king or a king wasn't anointed to us.
01:27:30.890 --> 01:27:32.850
We elect our leaders.
01:27:34.830 --> 01:27:39.410
And even though he has said publicly, and I'll get into that a little more in
01:27:39.410 --> 01:27:45.010
the commentary, but he said that he doesn't see himself as a king.
01:27:45.530 --> 01:27:48.030
Well, action speaks louder than words, sir.
01:27:49.590 --> 01:27:56.750
So, you know, there's that. And so, and while he may not think that he's a king,
01:27:56.950 --> 01:27:58.970
he definitely thinks that he's an authoritarian.
01:27:59.690 --> 01:28:02.550
He hasn't denied that part. So anyway...
01:28:03.947 --> 01:28:10.427
Support the podcast. And I want to get into the commentary,
01:28:10.427 --> 01:28:15.927
but the way I want to do it is a little different because I just want to highlight
01:28:15.927 --> 01:28:19.587
how crazy stuff is, right?
01:28:19.987 --> 01:28:25.267
And we're talking about protesters. Well, in Los Angeles, people have been protesting
01:28:25.267 --> 01:28:29.367
and they haven't been protesting citywide.
01:28:29.607 --> 01:28:31.187
The city is not on fire.
01:28:31.747 --> 01:28:34.887
I repeat, the city of Los Angeles is not on fire.
01:28:35.147 --> 01:28:38.807
The city of Los Angeles, part of the city was on fire earlier this year,
01:28:38.827 --> 01:28:42.687
and the president tried to cut off the water, right?
01:28:45.687 --> 01:28:51.367
So, you know, it's like when it really was on fire, there were no National Guard troops.
01:28:51.507 --> 01:28:54.887
They were not federalized by him.
01:28:55.027 --> 01:28:59.567
There was no Marines, and if it was up to him, there'd be no water, right?
01:29:00.207 --> 01:29:05.627
And so I greatly appreciate those of y'all who listened and contributed to help
01:29:05.627 --> 01:29:07.227
those folks out during that time.
01:29:07.547 --> 01:29:10.247
And they still need help because they're still trying to rebuild.
01:29:10.807 --> 01:29:15.727
But in the meantime, you know, with all these ICE raids that have been happening,
01:29:17.167 --> 01:29:22.827
nationwide, and particularly Los Angeles, people decided that they were going to protest.
01:29:22.847 --> 01:29:26.487
And so They basically gathered downtown L.A.
01:29:26.627 --> 01:29:33.787
And decided they were going to demonstrate and show their disapproval for the
01:29:33.787 --> 01:29:35.647
policy being implemented in their city.
01:29:36.367 --> 01:29:40.227
And the president decided he was going to fertilize the National Guard.
01:29:40.467 --> 01:29:46.567
Now, if they had been tearing the city apart, if they had been equivalent to
01:29:46.567 --> 01:29:51.247
what happened after those officers were acquitted for beating Rodney King.
01:29:52.067 --> 01:29:54.567
Okay, and the police couldn't handle it?
01:29:55.746 --> 01:30:00.866
That's kind of like why that power is there. But just because people were out
01:30:00.866 --> 01:30:05.966
in the streets downtown, you know, there were a few people burning Waymos and
01:30:05.966 --> 01:30:10.626
doing graffiti stuff, which we strongly discourage.
01:30:12.106 --> 01:30:16.326
But nothing to the point that it was out of control.
01:30:16.826 --> 01:30:22.046
I mean, the Los Angeles Police Department had it pretty much contained.
01:30:23.466 --> 01:30:30.106
And, yeah, and, you know, President Trump and his minions, including Kristi
01:30:30.106 --> 01:30:33.686
Noem, decided to make a show of it, right?
01:30:33.786 --> 01:30:38.846
And got P-Hexef involved in sending Marines, right?
01:30:39.206 --> 01:30:44.826
And so you understand these people are not trained to do law enforcement,
01:30:45.126 --> 01:30:48.446
not in communities, right?
01:30:48.446 --> 01:30:55.466
You know, you have some military police, but they handle military issues.
01:30:55.806 --> 01:30:58.906
They have a whole code of military justice.
01:30:59.166 --> 01:31:07.066
So those officers fall into that realm, not like people like I used to be or
01:31:07.066 --> 01:31:11.046
others that are out in the streets or in the jails or whatever.
01:31:11.706 --> 01:31:15.366
And so, it's kind of out of their skis.
01:31:15.546 --> 01:31:21.466
So, you know, if their whole mission was just to protect federal buildings, okay.
01:31:22.546 --> 01:31:24.986
Especially where they're keeping
01:31:24.986 --> 01:31:29.266
some of the detainees that they've gathered up in these raids, okay.
01:31:29.486 --> 01:31:33.066
But to be out in the streets and trying to do riot control and all that stuff,
01:31:33.226 --> 01:31:35.646
it's an overkill. It really was.
01:31:37.746 --> 01:31:42.706
So, something evolved out of that. Really, really heinous.
01:31:43.186 --> 01:31:49.586
And it will tie into everything else that I got to say, but I want to play Secretary
01:31:49.586 --> 01:31:58.026
Noem addressing a group of people at a press conference and I'll come in after a certain point.
01:31:59.374 --> 01:32:02.894
That you all are here. My name is Kristi Noem. I'm the Department of Homeland
01:32:02.894 --> 01:32:05.654
Security Secretary for President Donald J.
01:32:05.794 --> 01:32:09.914
Trump, and I am so thankful for the men and women of law enforcement who have
01:32:09.914 --> 01:32:13.574
been working every single day to bring law and order and peace back to the citizens
01:32:13.574 --> 01:32:15.674
of Los Angeles and to the state of California.
01:32:15.954 --> 01:32:21.074
As you know, we've seen under this last week some operations that have been
01:32:21.074 --> 01:32:25.074
working to bring in criminals that have been out on our streets for far too long.
01:32:25.254 --> 01:32:29.734
Our HSI and ICE individuals have been out conducting operations with our government
01:32:29.734 --> 01:32:33.114
partners to make sure that these criminals, bad actors, murderers,
01:32:33.194 --> 01:32:37.734
rapists, pedophiles, traffickers, and drug traffickers are brought in and brought
01:32:37.734 --> 01:32:39.734
to justice finally under this administration.
01:32:39.994 --> 01:32:43.094
I do want to thank the men and women of law enforcement. They've been absolute
01:32:43.094 --> 01:32:47.114
rock stars in what they've done to protect this community and to protect this city.
01:32:47.254 --> 01:32:51.794
I want to specifically name those that are under the umbrella within our components,
01:32:51.794 --> 01:32:53.734
under the Department of Homeland Security.
01:32:53.994 --> 01:32:57.774
That has been our ICE officers who have been on the front line out there interdicting
01:32:57.774 --> 01:32:59.274
with many of these dangerous criminals.
01:32:59.494 --> 01:33:04.354
Also, HSI with their investigative skill set and tactical teams have been absolutely
01:33:04.354 --> 01:33:08.514
imperative to us in helping us make sure we're running operations and really
01:33:08.514 --> 01:33:09.894
targeting these bad actors.
01:33:10.134 --> 01:33:14.814
Our Federal Protective Services and also our Border Patrol agents have come
01:33:14.814 --> 01:33:19.254
and been partners with us in an incredible They bring a skill set that has helped
01:33:19.254 --> 01:33:22.954
us have a whole-of-government approach under the Department of Homeland Security
01:33:22.954 --> 01:33:24.734
that has never happened before.
01:33:25.054 --> 01:33:28.994
The assets that they have and the willingness to do their jobs that this president
01:33:28.994 --> 01:33:32.014
has allowed them to do has been absolutely incredible.
01:33:32.214 --> 01:33:36.074
But what you see standing behind me, too, is also other federal partners.
01:33:36.823 --> 01:33:40.003
Partners that have come to the table that are here to bring safety and security
01:33:40.003 --> 01:33:43.903
to the city of Los Angeles. I want to specifically thank the Army.
01:33:44.183 --> 01:33:46.803
I want to thank the Marines, the National Guard, our soldiers,
01:33:46.983 --> 01:33:51.303
our military men and women who have shown up here to help make sure that we have security.
01:33:51.583 --> 01:33:54.803
Not only do they protect our country around the world, but they're doing it
01:33:54.803 --> 01:33:59.643
every single day here in the United States of America, too, and doing it as
01:33:59.643 --> 01:34:04.483
service, public service to the people in this country because they took an oath to uphold the law.
01:34:04.663 --> 01:34:09.843
We also have a U.S. attorney here who has been aggressive, has been making sure
01:34:09.843 --> 01:34:12.783
that we don't pick winners and losers in this country, that the rule of law
01:34:12.783 --> 01:34:16.323
will be followed, and that people who break the law and perpetuate violence
01:34:16.323 --> 01:34:17.683
will be brought to justice.
01:34:17.843 --> 01:34:21.963
They will be prosecuted, and there will be consequences for that kind of activity.
01:34:22.103 --> 01:34:25.943
The Department of Justice is here and has a presence in our Incident Command
01:34:25.943 --> 01:34:30.503
Center, as well as the DEA, the FBI, and their investigative teams have been
01:34:30.503 --> 01:34:32.463
fantastic with their leadership.
01:34:32.603 --> 01:34:37.023
And we also have the IRS here that's helping us track how these violent protesters
01:34:37.023 --> 01:34:40.163
are funded, what NGOs out there, what unions.
01:34:40.463 --> 01:34:44.763
What other individuals may be funding these violent perpetuators that are in
01:34:44.763 --> 01:34:48.583
these protests that take people who may be wanting to come and be peaceful,
01:34:48.583 --> 01:34:52.503
but instead turn these into very violent activities that go after law enforcement
01:34:52.503 --> 01:34:54.263
that's just simply not acceptable.
01:34:54.483 --> 01:34:58.623
And I also want to thank our U.S. Marshals. They've been so great in helping
01:34:58.623 --> 01:34:59.903
us to secure facilities,
01:35:00.123 --> 01:35:04.123
but also operations and also with transportation, that as soon as someone is
01:35:04.123 --> 01:35:08.983
arrested and brought into incarceration, that they are transported out and able
01:35:08.983 --> 01:35:11.703
to face prosecution and the consequences for their crimes.
01:35:11.943 --> 01:35:16.503
I want people to know that while these officers and these agencies and our military
01:35:16.503 --> 01:35:22.963
are here doing this work and these operations, that the people across this country are so grateful.
01:35:23.987 --> 01:35:26.947
Are so grateful for the work that is being done here in Los Angeles.
01:35:27.127 --> 01:35:31.167
They are setting an example for what is happening across the country and other
01:35:31.167 --> 01:35:35.907
cities and putting together a model and a blueprint for how we can continue
01:35:35.907 --> 01:35:40.007
to work to make every single community great again and safe again for our kids
01:35:40.007 --> 01:35:41.907
and for our grandkids far into the future.
01:35:42.227 --> 01:35:45.967
I've been in many different states with all the different components that I
01:35:45.967 --> 01:35:48.887
represent over the last four or five days.
01:35:49.187 --> 01:35:53.567
And everywhere I go, people stop me and say, tell everybody who's working in
01:35:53.567 --> 01:35:57.967
Los Angeles that is working to bring safety to those city streets and to those
01:35:57.967 --> 01:36:00.707
families and protect those small business, tell them thank you.
01:36:00.867 --> 01:36:04.967
Tell them God bless you, that I hope that they are safe and they have been suffering.
01:36:05.027 --> 01:36:07.027
The people that live here under
01:36:07.027 --> 01:36:11.027
the policies of Governor Newsom and under the policies of Mayor Bass,
01:36:11.167 --> 01:36:14.687
and they recognize that it's a huge disservice to the people who have to try
01:36:14.687 --> 01:36:18.287
to raise their families here and that these agents and that these law enforcement
01:36:18.287 --> 01:36:22.267
officers are working to change that and give them an opportunity to be successful
01:36:22.267 --> 01:36:23.707
and to live the American dream.
01:36:25.087 --> 01:36:29.207
So you heard that, right? That
01:36:29.207 --> 01:36:33.987
was Christy Noem basically telling
01:36:33.987 --> 01:36:44.267
you all that this is a model of how they're going to go about targeting cities
01:36:44.267 --> 01:36:49.687
that have democratic leadership and in the very rare cases,
01:36:50.047 --> 01:36:55.447
cities and states that have democratic leadership and how they're going to go
01:36:55.447 --> 01:37:03.467
about doing what they want to do and imposing their will and basically terrorizing
01:37:03.467 --> 01:37:05.527
a segment of the population.
01:37:06.687 --> 01:37:12.647
Because I wanted to be clear, they're not just going after criminals.
01:37:13.407 --> 01:37:17.727
That's good rhetoric, and that gets people in the mindset. It's like,
01:37:17.847 --> 01:37:19.327
yeah, we need to get the criminals out.
01:37:19.967 --> 01:37:23.247
It's kind of like, yeah, you want to get criminals out.
01:37:23.787 --> 01:37:28.147
That's the whole thing. You know, you don't want criminals on the street.
01:37:28.307 --> 01:37:32.327
Doesn't matter if they were born here or somewhere else. You want them off the streets.
01:37:33.747 --> 01:37:42.007
But, you know, it's the blanket approach, right? And like anybody that fits the profile.
01:37:43.512 --> 01:37:45.992
Them. Anybody that fits the profile,
01:37:46.152 --> 01:37:50.852
stop their car. Anybody that fits the profile, detain them, right?
01:37:51.412 --> 01:37:56.012
I mean, wasn't the criteria at one point, if they had tattoos,
01:37:56.372 --> 01:37:59.032
send them to El Salvador? Isn't that what we were doing?
01:38:00.092 --> 01:38:07.112
So, you know. Now, I stopped it at a certain point because at that point,
01:38:07.432 --> 01:38:10.552
the senior senator from California walked in.
01:38:12.752 --> 01:38:22.492
And he was not technically invited to the press conference, but he was let in
01:38:22.492 --> 01:38:27.712
because people recognized he was the senior senator from the state of California.
01:38:28.572 --> 01:38:34.652
And he came in right around when she was disparaging Governor Newsom and Mayor Bass.
01:38:35.792 --> 01:38:44.092
So at that point, the senator, you know, wanted to interject and wanted to ask
01:38:44.092 --> 01:38:45.432
the secretary a question.
01:38:46.852 --> 01:38:54.632
And at that point, the same officers who let him in the building basically manhandled
01:38:54.632 --> 01:38:57.772
him and threw him out of the room, right?
01:38:58.612 --> 01:39:03.052
And, you know, I heard somebody who's not a political commentator,
01:39:03.192 --> 01:39:09.032
who is now all of a sudden trying to be one, and I guess trying to be a politician too,
01:39:10.072 --> 01:39:14.272
you know, try to disparage the senator for doing that,
01:39:15.412 --> 01:39:20.492
for showing up at the press conference and being disruptive.
01:39:21.032 --> 01:39:25.472
But this same person didn't say that when a certain U.S.
01:39:25.612 --> 01:39:29.692
Congresswoman from Georgia acted a fool at the State of the Union,
01:39:30.212 --> 01:39:32.292
right? She was disruptive.
01:39:32.672 --> 01:39:35.052
Did nobody kick her out of the Capitol building?
01:39:35.852 --> 01:39:42.352
He didn't get on his podcast and blast her for her actions, right?
01:39:42.792 --> 01:39:48.672
But this guy, he can't, you know, the rules of engagement change, right?
01:39:48.772 --> 01:39:51.832
So if you could disrupt a president of the United States of the State of the Union,
01:39:52.612 --> 01:39:57.572
surely a senator can disrupt a secretary in the president's cabinet,
01:39:57.572 --> 01:40:02.172
especially when she's saying some disparaging about his colleagues people that
01:40:02.172 --> 01:40:07.492
help govern the state that he represents right and the city that he represents,
01:40:08.332 --> 01:40:12.952
he wanted to shut that down and you know.
01:40:14.436 --> 01:40:21.876
This point, decorum be damned, right? It's pretty clear that decorum only works on one side.
01:40:23.856 --> 01:40:30.356
And they judge what is appropriate and what is not. And that's bullshit.
01:40:30.676 --> 01:40:32.116
That's not how that works.
01:40:32.676 --> 01:40:37.696
You can't have the double standard. If you're going to be an asshole to the
01:40:37.696 --> 01:40:41.016
president of the United States, then everybody's fair game.
01:40:41.656 --> 01:40:45.376
Since you didn't apologize for that, since you didn't feel that that was out
01:40:45.376 --> 01:40:48.776
of bounds, then let the chips fall where they may.
01:40:49.616 --> 01:40:52.836
As somebody that's been in politics, I don't like that.
01:40:52.896 --> 01:40:59.336
I don't like the fact that it's gotten to that point, but it is what it is, you know?
01:41:00.036 --> 01:41:07.416
I just know that had that ever happened to me, there is no way I would rest
01:41:07.416 --> 01:41:13.656
until, one, those officers that physically tackled me would no longer be in law enforcement.
01:41:13.736 --> 01:41:18.176
I promise you that would be a never-ending quest, right?
01:41:18.536 --> 01:41:27.176
And then there's no way that I wouldn't be trying to get to people that authorized
01:41:27.176 --> 01:41:31.836
that, whether it was Kristi Noem or Donald Trump. There's no way they would stay in power.
01:41:32.416 --> 01:41:36.036
There's nothing they could do. There's nothing they could say at this point
01:41:36.036 --> 01:41:42.296
outside of an apology, a sincere apology, not an apology to say face or whatever.
01:41:42.296 --> 01:41:47.496
I mean, like, bro, we we did not know that was you.
01:41:47.736 --> 01:41:49.996
That's not how we roll. It's, you know.
01:41:51.453 --> 01:41:55.993
But you're never going to get that from them because that's how they are. Right.
01:41:56.673 --> 01:42:01.693
And I've just come to realize that it's not just the United States, it's worldwide.
01:42:01.893 --> 01:42:08.913
The right wing thought process, the white right wing political apparatus in
01:42:08.913 --> 01:42:11.753
the world has literally lost their mind.
01:42:13.973 --> 01:42:18.393
And, you know, I said this on the last podcast, I think, or previous one,
01:42:18.513 --> 01:42:20.993
I'm sure it's, you know, there's no honor among thieves.
01:42:21.173 --> 01:42:26.113
So they will even disrespect each other, let alone disrespect right-minded people
01:42:26.113 --> 01:42:30.213
or people that are just trying to do the right thing or just maybe have a different
01:42:30.213 --> 01:42:32.573
viewpoint of how to do the right thing, right?
01:42:34.093 --> 01:42:39.353
Because the old saying, a broken clock tells the time right twice a day.
01:42:39.873 --> 01:42:44.333
So every now and then, these crazy people will have a good idea.
01:42:45.013 --> 01:42:50.833
And you can get some of us to get behind it now, or at least a good thought.
01:42:50.973 --> 01:42:56.953
And we might differ on the approach, but if there's a concept we agree with, we'll go with that.
01:42:57.453 --> 01:43:02.213
That's what reasonable people do, but not these folks, right?
01:43:02.573 --> 01:43:05.233
These folks is their way or the highway.
01:43:06.193 --> 01:43:11.333
And it was up to them. They blow up the highway. So you wouldn't have no option.
01:43:12.973 --> 01:43:19.213
I mean, that's just it. I mean, you know, you let Christy Noem and Pam Bundy
01:43:19.213 --> 01:43:23.933
and Carolyn Levitt and all these other folks get on there with their.
01:43:23.933 --> 01:43:31.533
And it seems like every press hit their crucifixes or crosses are getting bigger around their necks.
01:43:32.333 --> 01:43:38.253
You know, they wanted to give you the impression that Los Angeles was burning
01:43:38.253 --> 01:43:41.653
down, that people were just out in the streets terrorizing everybody.
01:43:41.653 --> 01:43:44.633
And it was just chaos and mayhem.
01:43:44.833 --> 01:43:47.173
And the LAPD was just overwhelmed.
01:43:47.993 --> 01:43:53.013
If there's any police department in the United States, I can name two others
01:43:53.013 --> 01:43:55.493
that are pretty equal, in my opinion.
01:43:56.053 --> 01:44:02.433
It's like the Los Angeles PD, they're used to dealing with riots.
01:44:02.633 --> 01:44:06.573
They have never been friendly when it comes to protesters.
01:44:07.313 --> 01:44:13.253
It's just not how they roll, right? It's never been my experience in watching what they do.
01:44:13.253 --> 01:44:17.893
You know, but they're a major city, and so they are used to,
01:44:18.093 --> 01:44:21.933
they have a population over 5 million people, so they have a police force that
01:44:21.933 --> 01:44:25.033
is geared for mass demonstrations.
01:44:25.073 --> 01:44:30.073
They have a police force that's geared toward mass unrest, if there is unrest, right?
01:44:31.829 --> 01:44:36.669
Of a violent nature. And if it got to the point where they couldn't handle it,
01:44:36.889 --> 01:44:41.409
they would be saying, hey, governor, call the president, tell him we need some help.
01:44:41.929 --> 01:44:45.849
They hadn't made that call. They had the situation under control.
01:44:47.029 --> 01:44:50.829
But Donald Trump, just like he did when he was president the first time,
01:44:51.569 --> 01:44:52.769
wanted to send a message.
01:44:53.349 --> 01:44:57.349
You remember the first time there's a park, if you've ever been to D.C.,
01:44:57.349 --> 01:45:00.049
there's a park right across the street from the White House called Lafayette
01:45:00.049 --> 01:45:05.029
Park, and And that's traditionally the public square where people protest whoever
01:45:05.029 --> 01:45:06.629
the president is, right?
01:45:06.989 --> 01:45:11.749
There's people that are basically homeless people who have become professional protesters.
01:45:12.289 --> 01:45:15.289
They sleep in the park and they got signs or whatever.
01:45:15.689 --> 01:45:19.949
But that's usually the place where people gather. Now, the park is in between
01:45:19.949 --> 01:45:25.909
the White House and this church that has been there forever and since the inception
01:45:25.909 --> 01:45:26.809
of the city, pretty much.
01:45:28.449 --> 01:45:32.309
And it's tradition that the president of the United States, the sitting president
01:45:32.309 --> 01:45:35.769
of the United States, attends at least one church service at that church.
01:45:36.389 --> 01:45:40.669
I'm trying to think who broke that tradition. Somebody seemed to have broken,
01:45:40.709 --> 01:45:44.949
I don't know, but it seems like every president has attended this church at
01:45:44.949 --> 01:45:46.609
one point in time during their term.
01:45:47.649 --> 01:45:51.069
And so Donald Trump wanted to send a message.
01:45:51.069 --> 01:45:57.209
This was in the height of the Black Lives Matter protests, George Floyd protests,
01:45:58.169 --> 01:46:04.409
And when he and Mark Milley were cool They set it up where the military cleared
01:46:04.409 --> 01:46:09.329
a path This tear gassed and moved these people out of Lafayette Park So the
01:46:09.329 --> 01:46:12.849
president could walk from the White House Stand in front of this church,
01:46:13.409 --> 01:46:19.609
Hold the Bible upside down And make it a press-up That's it He didn't have anything
01:46:19.609 --> 01:46:23.809
substantive to say He just wanted to send a message Right?
01:46:25.365 --> 01:46:30.645
And that's what this show of force in L.A. is when sending a message.
01:46:31.045 --> 01:46:34.225
Now, there have been raids in Mississippi.
01:46:35.105 --> 01:46:36.805
There's been protests in Mississippi.
01:46:37.885 --> 01:46:43.005
He hasn't sent the National Guard. He hasn't federalized the National Guard
01:46:43.005 --> 01:46:46.245
to deal with the protests there because there's a Republican governor,
01:46:46.845 --> 01:46:48.985
right, that he's cool with.
01:46:49.605 --> 01:46:54.745
In Texas, he ain't had to do it. And Abbott just unleashed the National Guard
01:46:54.745 --> 01:46:57.805
to get ready for these no King Day protests that's happening,
01:46:57.985 --> 01:47:04.225
plus the protests that are already going on in Texas, because that's Greg Abbott, right?
01:47:05.205 --> 01:47:10.205
You know, but these people in Florida, it's like you got a sheriff talking about,
01:47:10.385 --> 01:47:14.305
you know, if you spit on an officer, we're going to shoot you.
01:47:14.465 --> 01:47:16.465
You know what I'm saying? What are we doing?
01:47:16.905 --> 01:47:19.085
And that's okay to say out loud.
01:47:19.805 --> 01:47:27.405
You have basically told us what your use of force form is going to look like, right?
01:47:27.965 --> 01:47:31.065
You know, if you're standing in the way of a car, you're going to get run over.
01:47:31.945 --> 01:47:33.985
And Governor DeSantis doubled down
01:47:33.985 --> 01:47:42.085
on that, right? So when I say the right wing has lost it, I mean that.
01:47:42.685 --> 01:47:46.265
I don't know if there's any coming back to that, right?
01:47:47.105 --> 01:47:51.125
I think if there's going to be a new Republican Party, they're going to be more centrist.
01:47:52.903 --> 01:47:57.703
Because the right wing, you know, they're trying to say the alt-right.
01:47:57.843 --> 01:48:00.183
No, this is not an alternative.
01:48:00.683 --> 01:48:03.243
This is the real, this is who they are.
01:48:04.003 --> 01:48:08.143
And it's like if you just get your news from the conservative media outlets,
01:48:08.263 --> 01:48:12.023
you're thinking, you know, L.A. is about to explode, literally.
01:48:12.863 --> 01:48:19.963
And you're thinking everything is justified. And it is not. It is not anywhere close to that.
01:48:20.783 --> 01:48:26.403
It's just really, really sad. And then to see what they did to the senator now,
01:48:26.723 --> 01:48:29.683
supposedly afterwards, you
01:48:29.683 --> 01:48:34.663
know, the secretary did talk to him and tried to do a mea culpa on that.
01:48:34.843 --> 01:48:40.583
But, you know, and then and then she turned around on Fox News and said he didn't identify himself.
01:48:41.143 --> 01:48:46.103
If you've watched the news clips, you clearly if there's nothing else,
01:48:46.123 --> 01:48:47.423
you make out what he's saying.
01:48:47.643 --> 01:48:50.183
He's saying I am Senator Alex Padilla.
01:48:50.583 --> 01:48:55.683
He's saying that out loud. as they are manhandling and tackling him, right?
01:48:56.183 --> 01:49:03.363
The same people who escorted him into the room are now putting handcuffs on him.
01:49:03.843 --> 01:49:08.863
What are we doing, right? I'm just telling you, it's like, you know,
01:49:09.843 --> 01:49:15.923
there's certain things that, you know, I miss being an elected official.
01:49:15.923 --> 01:49:18.583
I miss being in politics at that level.
01:49:19.783 --> 01:49:26.783
But there is no way There is no way I would tolerate that No way You're not
01:49:26.783 --> 01:49:30.563
going to manhandle me like you did Mayor Baraka Or the congresswoman from New
01:49:30.563 --> 01:49:32.803
Jersey Who now you're indicting for manhandling,
01:49:33.363 --> 01:49:39.103
You beat her up And then you charge her Elena Harba, the lady who couldn't stop
01:49:39.103 --> 01:49:42.663
Donald Trump From getting 34 felony convictions Now she's going to try to convict
01:49:42.663 --> 01:49:44.123
a U.S. congresswoman, right?
01:49:46.763 --> 01:49:47.603
I don't know.
01:49:49.177 --> 01:49:53.117
You know, it's just, it's insane.
01:49:53.717 --> 01:49:58.537
And then on this day, right, they're having an oversight hearing.
01:49:58.717 --> 01:50:00.277
So they've invited the governor.
01:50:00.577 --> 01:50:06.977
They couldn't get Newsom because Los Angeles, right? But they excused him.
01:50:07.877 --> 01:50:12.997
But they had Tim Walz, Governor of Minnesota, former vice presidential running
01:50:12.997 --> 01:50:18.077
mate of Kamala Harris, Governor Pritzker of Illinois, and Governor Hochul of
01:50:18.077 --> 01:50:19.757
New York had them up there.
01:50:20.577 --> 01:50:25.037
And all the Republicans wanted to do was just put on the show.
01:50:25.517 --> 01:50:30.357
It's like, maybe a few of them asked some questions about immigration policy,
01:50:30.437 --> 01:50:33.097
because technically that's what that hearing was about.
01:50:33.837 --> 01:50:39.297
But you know, you got Nancy Mace, who I offered to come on the show.
01:50:39.677 --> 01:50:44.957
Her press people took the information, haven't responded.
01:50:45.777 --> 01:50:52.537
I don't know. I guess I don't have in the followers. I don't agree with her approach, so whatever.
01:50:53.057 --> 01:50:56.037
And that's been kind of the, you know, there's been a few people,
01:50:56.057 --> 01:50:59.677
and I'm grateful to the Republicans that have come on the show,
01:51:00.457 --> 01:51:02.377
the Trump supporters that have come on the show.
01:51:03.117 --> 01:51:06.497
And there's an open invitation for folks. If I invite you to come on,
01:51:06.957 --> 01:51:09.017
we're going to have a civil conversation.
01:51:09.357 --> 01:51:12.137
You may try to act a fool, but that's not going to happen.
01:51:12.817 --> 01:51:14.417
You'll be able to get your points across.
01:51:15.377 --> 01:51:21.957
And as always, I can do what I'm doing right now if I think what you're saying is crazy and just...
01:51:23.574 --> 01:51:26.754
Take my time and tell you how I feel.
01:51:27.034 --> 01:51:32.914
But I'm going to give you respect that you don't give governors of their respective
01:51:32.914 --> 01:51:37.894
states if they're not of your party, or senators even, right?
01:51:38.714 --> 01:51:42.974
But, you know, they got on there, Marjorie Taylor Greene, she was in her element too.
01:51:43.294 --> 01:51:47.014
And, you know, everybody just, you know, and this one young guy,
01:51:47.294 --> 01:51:52.394
I don't know, he was trying to score some points on Pritzker and it's like,
01:51:53.114 --> 01:51:55.474
yeah, he's not that dude.
01:51:56.374 --> 01:52:00.894
He's not that dude. And he's really not that dude because he's wealthy.
01:52:01.994 --> 01:52:08.774
He's like a lot of these Republican senators and elected officials. He's got a lot of money.
01:52:09.974 --> 01:52:14.834
So he ain't worried about anything you do to him, you know?
01:52:16.114 --> 01:52:25.434
So, you know, just crazy. And then you got the chairman of the committee trying
01:52:25.434 --> 01:52:27.754
to tell a member to just shut up.
01:52:27.914 --> 01:52:30.894
I mean, just crass stuff.
01:52:31.654 --> 01:52:37.294
And it's really a bad optic because most of the Republicans are white folks.
01:52:37.694 --> 01:52:41.414
You got, you know, Byron Donalds, who finally showed up at a committee meeting.
01:52:42.894 --> 01:52:49.334
And Luna from Florida, you know, but pretty much everybody else is white.
01:52:49.434 --> 01:52:54.874
It was some woman, it was like, are you filling the seat for your late husband?
01:52:54.874 --> 01:52:58.094
It's like, how long have you been in Congress?
01:52:58.754 --> 01:53:02.614
You're talking about Feinstein and all these other, Pelosi and all these other
01:53:02.614 --> 01:53:05.774
folks. It looks like you've been up there a long time too.
01:53:06.634 --> 01:53:15.634
You trying to go after these younger sharper-minded governors trying to put
01:53:15.634 --> 01:53:18.194
zingers on them, it was a bad look, right?
01:53:19.811 --> 01:53:23.371
That was going on. While a U.S.
01:53:23.711 --> 01:53:27.331
Senator is being tackled by law enforcement, this hearing was happening.
01:53:27.631 --> 01:53:33.851
So numerous members, and this is why Maxwell Frost was being told to shut up,
01:53:33.951 --> 01:53:39.351
because he was trying to get the chairman to commit to having Kristi Noem come
01:53:39.351 --> 01:53:41.751
before the committee, the oversight committee, right?
01:53:42.471 --> 01:53:47.471
I mean, it's just crazy. And then to top it all off, to cap our night off,
01:53:47.911 --> 01:53:53.031
Israel decided that tonight was the night, or last night was the night,
01:53:53.091 --> 01:54:01.131
as I'm recording this, that they wanted to take out Iran's nuclear program.
01:54:02.391 --> 01:54:07.271
Supposedly, according to their intelligence reports, they took out all the military
01:54:07.271 --> 01:54:10.371
leaders that were over the program, They took out the scientists.
01:54:12.691 --> 01:54:17.891
You know, took out some major targets. So we know Iran's going to respond.
01:54:18.911 --> 01:54:26.011
But the reason why I use the no honor among thieves quote is because they didn't
01:54:26.011 --> 01:54:28.091
communicate with the United States that they were going to do that.
01:54:28.431 --> 01:54:30.151
Now, they use some of our weapons.
01:54:30.791 --> 01:54:35.311
They did not communicate with the United States until it launched its attack.
01:54:36.991 --> 01:54:41.951
And the reason why we know that is because the president had sent his special
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envoy to Iran to try to negotiate a deal where they would set down the nuclear weapons.
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Which, if you follow the details, sounds very similar to what President Obama
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had done. But because Obama did it, Trump scrapped it.
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Now he was basically about to offer the same plan or close to it.
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And this envoy is on his way. And it would seem like that if Netanyahu and Trump
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were communicating, that would have been conveyed.
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And you probably shouldn't be shooting rockets into a country where the United
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States is sending their special envoy to negotiate with the government you're about to attack.
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And then they get on their state TV in Israel and say, okay,
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people, you know, just be ready.
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We're about to, we just did something. So get ready for missiles to start being
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blown up over your houses.
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These people have lost their minds, bro. They've lost their minds and they want
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power and they want power to stay away from being accountable.
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Usually people that are seeking power are supposed to be the models of accountability.
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These people are seeking power so they don't have to be accountable,
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especially from a criminal aspect.
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Donald Trump ran for president so he wouldn't go to jail.
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Daniyahu ran for prime minister so he wouldn't go to jail, right?
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And they want to stay in power so they're going to create chaos.
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So put it into people's mind where we need them because we're in a state of chaos, right?
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People want stable leadership when things are chaotic.
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Never mind the fact that the leadership is trying to say, hey,
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you need to keep me is the one who created the chaos in the first place, right?
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So I've just come to the conclusion that they've lost their mind.
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And then when you see all the talking heads like the Scott Jennings and all
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these guys who's another guy really cannot stand.
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I mean, he's even developed a persona where he just smirks, you know,
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like he's that bully that thinks he's also smart, right? Like whatever.
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And trying to justify what it is. It's like you can't justify insanity,
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not to the masses. You can justify it to you.
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You can justify it to your own kind, but you can't justify insanity to the masses.
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There's enough people that realize that's crazy and they're not going to go for.
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How that will translate in any elections in the future, I don't know.
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I would hope that it would translate to the point where these people are not in control.
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It would be my wish that they would never be the majority party ever again until
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that element is completely out of their,
01:57:39.258 --> 01:57:44.158
political ecosystem, which as long as they latch on to white supremacy as a
01:57:44.158 --> 01:57:45.458
clutch, that'll never happened.
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But I just still want to believe that the majority of Americans understand that this is foolishness.
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For those of us who are active and understand it's foolish is trying to get
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people who understand it's foolish and be active.
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Because a lot of people just want to close their blinds, close their eyes,
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cover their ears, and act like none of this is happening as long as they're
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able to go to work and buy their groceries, pay for their gas,
01:58:18.400 --> 01:58:21.000
kids go to school, everything's great.
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But eventually, it's going to get to you, no matter how much you try to ignore
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it. So my mission and the other podcasts I mentioned, our mission is to encourage you to be more engaged.
01:58:35.520 --> 01:58:42.840
As I've stated before, you follow DC Comics, you know about all of Batman's
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enemies go to Arkham Asylum.
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And I've made the comparison that just imagine Batman's worst nightmare that
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everybody at Arkham Asylum escapes.
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They even made a video game off of that concept, right?
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All of them, the Joker, the Riddler, the Penguin, all of them escaped the same
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night. And Batman's got to get all of them back in.
01:59:04.820 --> 01:59:09.000
What's left of it, right? Because you know they had to destroy the asylum to
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get out. Just imagine. That's where we are now.
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Everybody is out of Arkham.
01:59:15.200 --> 01:59:22.140
And we have to be the people to try to corral them and get them back in, right?
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Get them out of the seats of power. get them back in their rightful place.
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And it's a daunting task, but it's got to be done because at the pace we are
01:59:34.920 --> 01:59:43.280
going now, you know, this is just the 1850s, 1860s being relived.
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The tensions are building to a point where the only release would be an out-and-out war.
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And we should have learned something from that period in history where we would not repeat that.
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We are. So, you know, I just, we got to deal with the craziness.
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But in the midst of it, we need to be figuring out a way to combat it,
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whether it's on the street, in the state house, in the city hall,
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in the White House, in the U.S. Capitol.
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We've got to figure out a way to combat it.
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And we've got to figure out a way to tell our story and convince the majority
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of people, We need you to be engaged.
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We need you to vote these people out and offer them a substantive plan to make
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their lives better. Right.
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And there's this one system I'm trying to get on. She posted something on LinkedIn
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and I'm trying to get her on the podcast sometime this year because what she
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posted to me sounds like the platform that that we need.
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Right. She broke it down in a way where it's like, yes, this is this is the bare bone.
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This is the outline for the message.
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These are the issues that are impacting people that need to be addressed.
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And we need to be unafraid to do it. If they're not afraid to cut Medicaid,
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if they're not afraid to cut Social Security, If they're not afraid to try to
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impose martial law on the citizens of this country,
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then we shouldn't be afraid to push for universal health care.
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We shouldn't be afraid to push for reparations.
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We shouldn't be afraid to push for universal education, amongst other things, right?
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We shouldn't be afraid to say what we need to say, and we need to convince the
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American people that it's time to go a different direction.
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This is going off of the rails really, really quick.
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I don't want it to be a situation that's bad enough when parents see their children
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going overseas to fight battles.
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I sure as hell don't want to see people watching folks fight battles in their
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front yard. You feel me on that?
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So let's get to work. Let's do what we got to do. There's going to be more crazy
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days like what happened on, you know, today I'm recording this.
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It's Friday the 13th, you know. Yesterday was Thursday the 12th and all the
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crazy stuff happened, right?
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Guys, we can do better. We don't have to accept this.
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We don't have to accept elected officials being brutalized.
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We don't have to accept crazy rhetoric being touted in the name of Jesus.
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It's not how this works. And we need to rise up and remind people how it's supposed to work.
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Set the example. but get engaged.
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Thank y'all for listening. Until next time.
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Music.